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This week I would like to share with you the story of a couple that made a tough decision during these rough times. The announcement of the pandemic hit in the middle of their divorce process, forcing them to figure out a different way to face the lockdown. Having their 7-year-old son in mind, they looked at the bigger picture before deciding how to deal with their divorce. Join me in today's episode and listen to this inspiring story of different thinking during the lockdown.  

Let's get into it

 

The story of "Jill" and "Robert" [00:01:30]

The procedure during lockdown that decided they fate [00:02:40]

A previous arrangement that helped in their decision [00:03:40] 

How are they dealing with the new scenario? [00:04:49]

Looking at the bigger picture [00:06:00]

 

Links

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Divorce Roadmap Session:

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Divorce is a costly experience. If we are not prepared enough, we can squander lots of money. A divorce solicitor may not be aware of certain things that will lead you to spend more money than needed, or it can happen that they don't care about it. In today's episode, I want to share with you the money-saving tips a divorce solicitor won't tell you. 

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Timestamps 

What a pandemic does to a couple [00:02:00]

The 80/20 % rule before consulting a lawyer [00:04:30]

Picking the right lawyer [00:06:00] 

What worked with a friend might not be the best for you [00:07:30]

Why lawyers can be so expensive [00:09:30]

Mediation rather than litigation [00:11:30]

Try to keep it amicable [00:13:00]

Difference between the $450 and the $750 lawyer [00:15:00]

Lawyers are not therapists [00:17:30]

 

Links

Podcast Episode #36 - Mediation Rather Than Litigation

https://tanyasomerton.com/mediation-rather-than-litigation/

Trello Divorce Template

https://divorceangel.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1008393/?action=signup

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceangel/

Divorce Roadmap Session:

https://tanyasomerton.com/divorce-roadmap/

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The decision of leaving your relationship could take months to make it. Even when preceded by hours of thinking, planning, and lots of chats with the closest people, it can go wrong. 

Setting the scene, practising your speech, and being mindful about the words we use are the most effective advice I can give when you are approaching this very delicate task. Listen to the full podcast for all the tips that can help you step on the right direction.

I've also put together a video series and a downloadable workbook for this special episode of Divorce Angel podcast. I invite you to watch the videos and download the workbooks which is free of charge. The link is given below.  

Let's get into it

 

Timestamps 

Relationships pushed to the extremes during quarantine [00:01:30]

First tip: Set the scene [00:03:30]

Consider your stance [00:04:30] 

Tip two: Practice your speech [00:06:00]

Third tip: Mind your words [00:07:30]

Watch your tone [00:09:00]

The importance of silence [00:12:00]

What people hear [00:15:00]

Final tip: The consequences of what was said [00:17:30]

 

Links

Workbook & Video Series - How To Tell Your Partner, You No Longer Want To Be Married :

https://divorceangel.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1008391/?action=signup

 

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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