emotional labour

Bless those gals who burned their bras in the 1960's women's movement, making way for us to have a seat at the table — but did that actually just put more  on our plates? As we slowly shift towards true gender equality, there's a lot of conversation around emotional labour and domestic duties still being imbalanced in heterosexual relationships.

My guest, Jen Rainnie, is a single mother, athlete, business owner, friend, and traveller who has found her footing in the big question: can women really have it all?  We're talking about what that means to her, how to find your recipe for balance, when to speak up and when to let things slide, and how to create a life you really love.

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When we use AI in a way that frees us from repetitive, monotonous tasks so we can spend more time pursuing creative things or subjective things that take more time, we end up with more space, energy, and profit to be able to work on the things we love with incredibly skilled humans - without the hamster wheel hustle.

AI gives us the opportunity to do the things that are creative, unpredictable, human, messy, relational, and fun by cutting down the amount of time it takes to do the stuff that is outside our joy zone.  

Because logic doesn’t change the world.

Topics covered in this episode include… 

- Fear and uncertainty of AI replacing human jobs

- Potential misuse of AI for personal gain

- AI's redefinition of labour as cognitive processing

- Limitations of AI's ability to mimic human emotions and impulses

- Benefits of AI in freeing up time for creativity and joy 

- The potential for AI to revolutionise how we work and live.

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Anna Funder on unearthing the story of the talented and determined Eileen O'Shaughnessy, George Orwell's first wife

Anna Funder on unearthing the story of the talented and determined Eileen O'Shaughnessy, George Orwell's first wife

Your dorky hosts, Lexi Hunt and Ben Rankel, return to Stardew Valley. This time we're talking about game mods, spatial empathy, cult of the Lamb, Amber Hageman, Blood, Sweat & Pixels, the Stardew fandom, the music and Haunted Chocolatier! This is also the first episode of our second year of Dork Matters, yippee! 

FURTHER DORKSCUSSION:

• Amber Hageman
• Jason Schreir's book, Blood, Sweat & Pixels
• Caroline Jong's twitter thread

BONUS CONTENT:

• Bee Boss
• Haunted Chocolatier
• Bonus episode! Return to Stardork Valley: The Burpening

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From pregnancy, to childbirth, to infancy, so much of the focus in parenting books is on the mother. So who's giving advice to new dads? What started off as a letter to a dad-to-be friend turned into Ailsa Wild's book You'll Be A Wonderful Dad. Cam and Ali chat to Ailsa about letting dads feel the joy of meeting a child's needs, the mental load, and why Mother's Day and Father's Day is BS.

LINKS 

• Buy You'll Be A Wonderful Dad https://www.hardiegrant.com/au/publishing/bookfinder/book/you_ll-be-a-wonderful-dad-by-ailsa-wild/9781743798485.
• Follow Ailsa on Instagram @ailsawild.
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• Follow Ailsa on Facebook @ailsa.wild.
• Learn more about Ailsa on her website https://www.ailsawild.com/.
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Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them at separatebathrooms@novapodcasts.com.au. 

CREDITS 

Hosts: Cameron Daddo and Alison Brahe-Daddo. 
Guest: Ailsa Wild
Managing Producer: Elle Beattie. 
Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball. 

Find more great podcasts like this at novapodcasts.com.au. 

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It's time to do a deep dive into how often we're actually washing our sheets. 
Because for one man in the UK, twice a year is much too little! 

Yvie tends to change them once a week, whereas Angie had no idea how to change them or how often until she moved out of home. 

Which brings us to the chat about emotional labour, and why in 2022 it's still majority of women picking up that slack around the home! 

LINKS

• Angie Kent @angiekent_
• Yvie Jones @yvie_jones
• Angie + Yvie Insta @angie_and_yvie
• Nova Podcasts Instagram @novapodcastsofficial
• Email us at twogirls@novaentertainment.com.au

CREDITS
Hosts: Angie Kent & Yvie Jones

Executive Producer: Rachael Hart

Producer: Amy Kimball

Editor: Adrian Walton

Managing Producer: Andrew Brentnall

Show Artwork By: @ellymalone

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Justine shares stories of telling her Catholic Filipino parents about dating a black man, potentially not getting married, and potentially not having kids - even though she wants 4 of them. We explore why women tend to choose “fixer-uppers”, and why we are fixated on romantic relationships to bring us happiness. She's a recovering people pleaser, avid baker, and sex educator in New York City.

“Why are we giving so much credit to that one thing, one place, one person, to give us happiness” - Justine Ang Fonte

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Website: https://www.justinefonte.com/
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There’s a wonderful concept called the Emotional Bank Account that’s used to talk about relationships. It’s all about what we ‘deposit’ and ‘withdraw’; shared experiences, giving them your Netflix log in – that kind of stuff. But withdrawals are things that drain relationship’s energy. We’ve got 3 tips to keep your relationship fairly balanced and thriving and they won’t cost you a (financial) thing!

LINKS

• ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change’ by Stephen R. Covey.
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CREDITS
Host: Casey Donovan @caseydonovan88.
Writer: Amy Molloy @amymolloy.
Executive Producer: Elise Cooper.
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Welcome to our summer series, where we play you some of our favourite episodes that you might have missed or might want to revisit. 

A woman’s work is never done. And author Gemma Hartley knows this.

Whether she’s at home or in the office, there’s a whole layer of labour done predominantly by women that most men can’t even see. Emotional labour is being the person who notices problems, delegates solutions and makes sure life goes smoothly for everyone around her. It’s noticing there’s barely any milk left and then doing something about it - and changing the toilet paper roll when it’s run out.

This work is invisible and exhausting at the same time. And it’s not just something experienced by mothers or women in relationships.

A couple of years ago Gemma Hartley wrote an essay about emotional labour after a particularly disastrous Mothers Day. It went viral and it led to her writing a whole book on the subject - Gemma’s book is called Fed Up and she joins me now to talk about it...

The regular season of No Filter returns Jan 20th 2020

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CREDITS:

Host: Mia Freedman 

With thanks to special guest Gemma Hartley

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Producer: Elissa Ratliff

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The difference between emotional and domestic labour, and how doing rather than asking is the solution to women’s second shift. Plus: why sausages forced Emma to the kitchen, and our favourite feminist books.

Full shownotes - including the cartoon by [the other] Emma, the interview with Lisa Wade and Margaret Atwood's The Female Body - are available at www.tomorrowneverknowspod.com

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