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The guys are back for season 3 after a long hiatus. Bennett describes his devastating news in a heartfelt, emotional episode.

Warning: this episode contains content regarding loss and grief. 

Paul Summers Jr., an author and longtime successful musician, shares how he navigated addiction, recovery, and the challenges of being a father. Growing up in Las Vegas, Paul found solace in music and played in various bands, including a punk rock band. However, his addiction to drugs and alcohol took a toll on his relationships and parenting. After hitting rock bottom, Paul sought help and embarked on a path of recovery. He fought for custody of his daughter and learned to navigate the legal system. Through perseverance and support, Paul rebuilt his life and became an advocate for fathers in similar situations. In this conversation, Paul Summers Jr. shares his journey as a father fighting for custody of his daughter and navigating the challenges of the legal system. He discusses the harm his daughter experienced, the reporting process, and the involvement of Child Protective Services. Paul also talks about being awarded sole custody and the difficulties he faced in receiving child support. He emphasizes the importance of emotional instincts and protecting his daughter. Paul shares his experiences in the courtroom and the need for accountability. He concludes by promoting his book, Hide & Seek, and website, www.paulsummersjr.com, as resources for other fathers and addicts in recovery.

Fun interview with the very intelligent and highly entertaining, Dr. Lisa Paz. Dr. Paz is  a board-certified sex therapist, with a doctorate in Sexology, as well as a licensed Family Therapist. In this episode we discuss various topics related to sex and parenting. She emphasizes the importance of age-appropriate conversations about sex and body acceptance. Dr. Paz also addresses the impact of technology on kids' exposure to sexual content and the need for teaching consent. In the context of adult sexual issues, she highlights the role of mental and physical health in maintaining a satisfying sex life. Dr. Paz provides practical tips for improving communication and intimacy in relationships. Dr. Lisa Paz also discusses the importance of communication in parenting and how to talk to kids about sex. She emphasizes the need for open and honest conversations, providing age-appropriate information, and addressing any discomfort or fear parents may have. Dr. Paz also highlights the importance of navigating difficult conversations and building trust with children. She concludes by of course sharing a few intimacy tips for guys.

Takeaways

• Age-appropriate conversations about sex should start early and be incremental, building a foundation of knowledge and understanding.
• Parents should be the primary source of information about sex for their children, providing accurate information and discussing family values and expectations.
• Technology can expose kids to sexual content at a young age, making it crucial for parents to have open conversations about the consequences and responsibilities associated with sex.
• Consent is a vital aspect of healthy sexual relationships, and parents should teach their children the importance of obtaining and respecting consent.
• Body acceptance is essential in a culture that promotes unrealistic beauty standards, and parents can foster body acceptance by teaching their children about different body types and promoting a positive body image.
• Adults may experience sexual issues related to desire discrepancy, erectile dysfunction, and performance anxiety, which can be addressed through open communication, stress reduction, and seeking professional help.
• Sexual pleasure and intimacy in relationships can be enhanced by creating a low-stress environment, maintaining open communication, and prioritizing self-care and self-pleasure. Open and honest communication is crucial when talking to kids about sex.
• Parents should provide age-appropriate information and address any discomfort or fear they may have.
• Navigating difficult conversations requires empathy, active listening, and creating a safe space for children to express themselves.
• Building trust with children is essential for maintaining open lines of communication.

What is it like growing up as a child of divorce? As a divorced parent, how can you be a better parent to your children? These are just a few of the questions answered by Bella Duncan as she gives us an inside look into her life. Bella, as the founder of www.akidwithtwohomes.com and @akidwithtwohomes on instagram,  shares her experience growing up as a child of divorce and the challenges she faced. She discusses the high conflict situation between her parents and the anxiety it caused her. Bella explains how she reached a breaking point and initiated a change in her family's dynamic. She highlights the importance of effective communication and the impact it had on her family's relationships. Bella also emphasizes the need for parents to put their children first and show respect for their co-parent. She encourages children of divorce to embrace their story and not feel ashamed.

Just a few of the topics discussed.

• What it was like growing up in “two homes” and how she felt about the situation.
• Experiencing high-conflict co-parenting as a child and how she changed the situation.
• Why effective communication is crucial in co-parenting and reducing conflict.
• Why children of divorce should not be labeled as 'broken' or feel ashamed of their family situation.
• How parents should prioritize their children's well-being and avoid putting them in the middle of conflicts.
• If children can tell if the parents are competing for their attention and love.
• How resilience, maturity, and responsibility can develop in children of divorce, but why  it is important for parents to provide stability and support.
• What it was like when her father remarried and how he provided a successful transition with open communication and love.
• What her parents did correct and where she believes they could have done better. 
• Why her father was and still to this day is so important to her.
• Tips for dads/parents who are co-parenting children.

Bella is such a beautiful soul and she has made it her mission to be an advocate for children of divorce. Thank you for coming on the podcast Bella!

Everyone is self diagnosing their ex with Narcissism and Borderline Personality Disorder so it only makes sense to bring in an expert who can provide more information into these two disorders.  Dr. Peter Salerno discusses narcissism and borderline personality disorder, their nature, as well as if treatment is effective. Personality disorders are characterized by trait deficiencies and enduring patterns of behavior. Treatment for personality disorders requires specialized therapists who understand the unique challenges of working with this population. Diagnosing personality disorders can be challenging, as individuals with these disorders often manipulate assessments and screenings. There is a strong genetic component to personality disorders, although environmental factors can also play a role.  Points covered:

• What is NPD & BPD?
• Narcissist and projection
• Is it hereditary?
• In which gender is it more prevelant?
• Is therapy effective to treat these disorders?
• What are the biggest misconceptions?

Enjoy this very educational episode and hopefully it provides more insight.

Great conversation with a past guest, Javin Foreman. Javin has devoted his life to helping others with his main focus on uplifting the next generation on young men. 

A lot of topics covered on this episode: 

• Biggest challenges facing fathers today
• What has happened to the family unit
• Why the divorce rate has tripled
• Government Incentives for staying married
• How social media has destroyed the family unit
• Talking to your children about race

Sit back listen in and feel free to leave a comment.

Julian Pollard is a great Dad, coach, and boxing instructor.  I met JP taking his boxing class. In that time we have become good friends. In that time I have learned from him that Boxing is an art, and that art imitates life. Check this episode, you will see. 

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Roman Suarez is a dedicated, passionate father. One of the dopest people you will ever meet. Always positive, always confident. Also known as the "Funny Latino," we met on the comedy scene. A funny guy and Dope Dad, who is also from my hometown, the Bronx. Great conversation!  Dive In!

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Joel is my Bronx homie! We met doing comedy. A Dope Dad, Funny guy, Intelligent dude and his professional sports knowledge is impeccable!
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We are fresh and back at it after a week off! On this week's episode, we dive into one of the most fun parts of having an active toddler - playing games! 

We discuss 5 essential games that all parents should know (and take seriously for the development of their kiddos). Some games are either too much fun to pass up, or provide amazing opportunities for your child to develop life skills proactively.

We also talk about the ups and downs of life with two children, and I share a story about the importance of "leading by example" as a parent. Finally, I share Arlo's first known use of the "F" word...

So great to be back!

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I love you, and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it!

Getting to useful, inspiring answers is their promise, but how they get there is up to them alone. We get beyond the superficial with Nonfiction's Lindsey Wehking and Gunny Scarfo.

Jovan Goodwin who I met years ago as "Uconn Blac" a dope rapper from Connecticut. At the time I had a Internet Radio show and he was my 1st rapper guest. Alot has changed in those 12 years. Families, Music, Clothing lines etc. Dive In!

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Marc Seide also known as Bo is one of my best friends. Funny, I didn't like him when we 1st met. Then we pledge together (Phi Beta Sigma) and became lifelong Brothers.  Bo who I call the Mayor of Connecticut is a hustler (legally), Leader, Motivator also a great Dad of 3! Whenever I have business ideas, he's my 1st phone call. This is a conversation we have had over the years but the 1st time being recorded. lol Dive In!

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Jevon Johnson another Cool Dad and dope comic. This guy is always showing love and appreciation for his family. We chop it up about Stepdads and raising boys compared to girls. Another great conversation. Dive In!

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Join us for another episode of Sports on a Sunday Morning as we catch up with Cardinals manager Oliver Marmol. In this Sunday morning interview, Marmol discusses his experiences as a father and the importance of family. He also shares insights into player communication and how he manages the team during challenging times. Stay tuned for updates on the Cardinals' recent games, Jordan Walkers record setting season, and the upcoming schedule.

7 months ya'll. It's been 7 months! In this episode we talk about all the things you might have missed in the event you don't hang with us on the regular. Babies. Robots. Steak. You'll see, enjoy!

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My guy Curt is one of the funniest people I know who isn't a comedian. A Veteran and father of 3. Our discussion has always been jokes & sports. This is the 1st time we got to chop it up about the parenting journey. Dive In!

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Alrighty folks, welcome back to Season 4, Episode 18  and our second mini-series "Socializing Value" on Transacting Value Podcast!

Video gaming has come a long way from inception to now a potential roadmap to parenthood. Video gaming is an unexpected bridge to talking, discussing, learning about others, and restoring values or preventing a disruption to them. Teaching principles through gaming is becoming a foundation to new generations. Or did that start with Monopoly and Life? If you value digital gaming with your kids, and seeing their lives become better through gameplay, then this episode is for you.
 
Today we're discussing the inherent but underrated May core values of Unity, Honor, and Mental Toughness as strategies for character discipline and relative success, with father, gamer and co-host of the podcast New Dad Gaming, Trevor Alexander. We cover different aspects of constructive, critical, and honest feedback between you and yourself, or other people. If you are new to the podcast, welcome! If you're a continuing listener, welcome back! Thanks for hanging out with us and enjoying the conversation because values still hold value.

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I met Kyle Scott at work. Cool guy, a go getter! Most conversations with him lead to his family. A good time and a good conversation. Dive In!
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Harvey is the 1st guest I have had that I haven't known personally. We met a couple of weeks ago. The conversation somehow landed on my favorite topic Fatherhood. So it's only right I had him on the Podcast. Great convo. 
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