how to be a better husband

Brendan & Mike discuss 7 common mistakes men are making in their marriages, and what they can do to fix them. Lots of tactical advice, hard hitting reminders and practical wisdom is shared in this one!

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INTRO: (00:50)

Mistake #1: Being indecisive. (05:58)

Mistake #2: Coasting and just going through the motions. (13:10)

Mistake #3: Having no backbone and not holding your wife accountable. (20:10)

Mistake #4: Believing the “happy wife, happy life” lie. (27:50)

Mistake #5: Treating her like your roommate or your bro. (36:20)

Mistake #6: Failing to spiritually shepherd your family. (41:06)

Mistake #7: Misunderstanding what it means to be a protector. (46:40)

Bonus Mistake: (54:10)

Should men be vulnerable? How can a man learn to better control his emotions, and on the flip side, how can a man better learn to feel his emotions? Men are often confused and caught between conflicting narratives about how to relate to not only their emotions, but the emotions of their wife. In today’s episode, Brendan & Mike share what they’ve learned on the topic of emotional mastery for men.

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INTRO: (00:50)

CONTENT:

1. Should men be vulnerable? (04:45)
2. How can a man better learn to control his emotions? (11:01)
3. Is stoicism a worthy ideal for men? (16:37)
4. Is sensitivity a weakness for men? (21:03)
5. How can a man that is cut off from his emotions start to reconnect to them? (25:00)
6. How can a husband best show up for his wife in her emotions? (32:37)
7. What do women really want from men emotionally speaking? (39:50)

Brendan & Mike share three ways men can think about the concept of masculine leadership in the context of marriage. They also explore the topic of how far a husbands leadership in his marriage actually extends.

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The guys review 6 popular reasons modern men are avoiding marriage and also share their thoughts on the red-pill and MGTOW men's movements.

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INTRO (00:50)

CONTENT:

Popular reasons men are avoiding marriage:

1. Men shouldn’t get married because 50% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of them are initiated by women (07:33)
2. Modern women are just not worth marrying anymore (19:33)
3. All women are hypergamous by nature & are inherently untrustworthy (27:38)
4. Until women improve and change or society undergoes massive reform, marriage is not worth it. (35:33)
5. Men are avoiding marriage because they “have to become a high value man first” (42:40)
6. “Men Going Their Own Way” Is a superior path (48:59)
    

OUTRO (52:35)

Can the average family still get by on a single income, or has that become a far-fetched dream? Can traditional gender roles still work, or are they outdated and archaic? In this episode, the guys cover the ins and outs of the "trad-life" from both the male and female perspective. Expect lots of value, insight and laughs!

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INTRO (00:50)

TRUE OR FALSE?

1. Adhering to traditional gender roles is the best relationship model for men, women, children and society as a whole (04:44)
2. Traditional gender roles are about adhering to strict rules and guidelines based on gender (09:03)
3. Due to inflation and increased costs of living, the trad life is not possible for the average couple anymore (11:25)
4. If a woman becomes a trad-wife, she becomes completely dependent on her husband (19:25)
5. Living the trad life is a one-way ticket to happiness and fulfillment (27:20)
6. It is NOT good for a woman to be the primary breadwinner in a marriage (31:39)
7. For the trad life to work, a man MUST be in a high earning career (38:07)
8. Women cannot work outside of the home under any circumstance (42:03)
9. Every task between husband and wife should be divided based on gender (46:28)
10. Living the trad life and being in a biblically based marriage are the same (49:08)
11. Living the trad life is still possible | Closing Thoughts  (55:18)

Trust is foundational to a healthy and thriving relationship. In today's episode, the guys share 8 pieces of advice on how to build and keep her trust. Listen as Brendan & Mike shed light and bring clarity on a topic that many men get confused about. This episode is full of practical advice and actionable information!

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INTRO: (00:50)

1. Be a man of your word (06:00) 
2. Learn to say no, don’t be a yes man (11:39)
3. Take extreme ownership without being a simp (18:28)
4. Be emotionally calibrated (23:20)
5. Be the man in motion (33:10)
6. Don’t be a tyrant or dictator (36:34)
7. Escape the good boy performance trap (42:55)
8. Keep her safe (46:39)

CLOSING THOUGHTS (53:20)

Helpful reminders, tips, and thoughts for the ladies looking to go from single to happily married. Whether you are single or in a relationship already, there will be takeaways for you in this episode! 

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INTRO (00:50)

1. Give your life to Christ (06:09)
2. Learn useful skills (10:25)
3. Master your mindset and attitude (18:56)
4. Don’t over romanticize about a “masculine man” (24:57)
5. Don’t treat your boyfriend like your husband (30:32)
6. Reject the ways of the world and dont get lost in worldly pursuits (35:28)
7. Don’t waste time on men who don’t want the same things as you (40:38)
8. Own your desire to be a wife, mother and homemaker (44:44)

CLOSING THOUGHTS (47:39)

This is the A-Z guide on going from single to happily married. Brendan & Mike lay out a clear path, offer essential reminders, and highlight clear do's and don'ts when dating with the intention of marriage.

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INTRO (00:55)

1. DROP THE DOOMER MINDSET. (03:32)
2. BUILD YOUR FRAME. (11:13)
3. KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. (20:43)
4. HAVE A STANDARD, BUT HAVE GRACE TOO. (29:10)
5. BE WILLING TO LEAD HER FORWARD. (37:04)
6. ASSESS YOUR COMPATIBILITY FROM A SOBER MIND. (40:14)
7. DON’T WASTE TIME AS “BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND” (44:42)
8. GET MARRIED, BRO. (48:46)

CLOSING THOUGHTS: (52:43)

What makes a marriage succeed, and what makes a marriage fall apart? In today's episode, Brendan and Mike explore the principles that make for a thriving marriage, as well as diving into some of the things that couples do that end up undermining the strength of their most important human relationship.

INTRO: (00:55)

• Honour your vows.  (05:20)
• Master your mindset (08:24)
• Attack the problem and not each other (15:25)
• Don’t hold a record of wrongs, extend grace and forgiveness (21:32)
• Have lots of sex (25:34)
• Understand and embrace your roles as husband and wife (30:27)
• Make Christ the foundation of your marriage (35:47)
• Give love the way your spouse most naturally receives it. (40:02)
• Don’t compare your spouse; don’t talk negatively about your spouse (44:09)
• Have a shared mission (51:37)

OUTRO: (55:08)