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How should men navigate cancel culture? Should men disregard political correctness entirely? Do we believe in "Agenda 2030" and are we preppers? Brendan & Mike discuss all of this and more, and also share their story of (almost) being cancelled by their payment processing company last week!
 

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INTRO (00:50)

• How do you think that men should navigate cancel culture? (09:43)
• Would you quit a high paying job if the culture was extremely woke and gay? (16:59)
• What is "political correctness"? (21:17)
• Should men be true to their convictions and disregard political correctness entirely? (26:10)
• Do you believe in agenda 2030? (32:50)
• With that being said, what do you think about the concept of "prepping"? (40:19)
• Do you think prepping is biblical? (43:11)

Brendan & Mike discuss “nice guy syndrome” exploring what it is, where it comes from, why it’s a problem, and ultimately what a man should do about it if he has it!

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INTRO (00:50)

What is nice guy syndrome? (06:00)

Where do you think “nice guy syndrome” comes from? (10:25)

What are some problems that men will run into when they are stuck in the nice guy routine? (19:50)

Why do women not trust or respect nice guys? (27:37)

How can a man overcome nice guy syndrome? (32:43)

What should a woman do if she is with a guy who has nice guy syndrome..? (41:55)

How should a man relate to his mother? In this episode, Brendan & Mike discuss common mistakes men are making in relation to their mothers. They also share actionable tips and strategies for how a man can improve in this area of his life. This conversation is a deep dive into a topic that can cause a great deal of turmoil in a man’s life, and in his marriage.

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INTRO (00:50)

Mistakes that men are making in relation to their mothers:

#1. Living under the thumb of his mother. (08:29)

#2. Putting his mother before his wife. (15:00

#3. Failure to set proper boundaries with his mother. (21:25)

#4. Falling into relationship with a woman who treats him like his mother. (26:40)

#5. Continuing to allow himself to be coddled by his mother well into adulthood. (34:30)

#6. Thinking that “honoring” his mother means enabling and allowing her toxic behaviour. (41:50)

Advice for single mothers of boys…. (45:26)

Reviewing 7 common mistakes that we see wives making in their marriages! Too often we see one sided content online speaking only to the wrongs of husbands. In this episode we focus squarely on holding wives accountable for the responsibility that they have in the health and well-being of their marriages.

Note: Mike's audio got weird for the first minute and then the issue clears up for the rest of the episode.

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INTRO (00:50)

Mistake #1: Losing sight of the good in your husband. (03:00)

Mistake #2: Thinking that your husband becoming “more masculine” will solve all of your relational issues, forever and ever. (08:20)

Mistake #3: Saying you want leadership from your husband when you actually don’t. (15:50)

Mistake #4: Getting lost and confused in secular, worldly content about trauma, healing, relationships, and self-help (22:53)

Mistake #5: Believing the lie that a wife's submission is earned based on her husband's good performance. (30:14)

Mistake #6: Thinking that “traditional gender roles” apart from Christ are the solution. (37:18)

Mistake #7: Thinking that your lack of “happiness” is justification for divorce. (41:25)

Closing Thoughts (48:25)

What are the right and wrong ways for men and women to use social media? Should women even be on social media in the first place? Brendan & Mike explore these questions and more in the first episode of 2024.

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INTRO: (00:55)

Should women even be on social media? (06:00)

What are the wrong ways for a woman to engage with social media? (13:40)

What are the right ways for a woman to engage with social media? (18:30)

What are the wrong ways for a man to engage with social media? (24:50)

What are the right ways for a man to engage with social media? (32:53)

In their final episode of 2023, the guys answer 34 audience questions on a broad range of topics. There will be something for everybody in this episode.

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INTRO (00:50)

1. Why do you cuss so much as Christians? (02:15)

2. Is lack of masculine guidance resulting in gender dysphoria? (06:46)

3. You guys promote homemaking and that women shouldn’t work outside of the home but Mikes wife said she worked after she had their first baby so that sounds rather contradictory? (09:00)

4. My husband is writing a book but we have no income at all. Won’t get a job at all. What can I do as a wife?  (10:40)

5. How to accept God when you are a realist through and through? A science man. (13:00)


6. Why are there so many dog moms/dads that don’t care to have a real family?

7. You made a passive remark about turning the other cheek. Jesus commanded this. You agree? (20:03)


8. Should you get married while in college? (22:52)


9. Should young men still consider joining the military, or no, due to the woke presidential administration? (24:36)  

10. Is it wise to date someone based on their potential? (26:33)


11. Can you recommend a podcast for healing and getting into full femininity? (29:42)


12. Where do you guys see yourselves in 10 years? (33:20)  

13. How do we go about studying the Bible to really grasp the meaning of it and understand it? (36:06)


14. How to spot covert narcissism earlier on in men (also in women)? (39:18)

15.  How do you handle your in-laws? (41:42)


16.  How much should attraction play into picking a spouse/person to court? (44:52)


17. Divorced mom with 2 kids, i know your “red flags” thoughts, but give us some advice/hope. (47:01)

18. Would you rather be a templar knight in the crusades, or a spartan in the brave 300? (48:57)

19. Do you go to church? How do you vet a church? And your thoughts on complementarianism? (50:04)


20. Why is the new age a red flag? (53:20)


21. How much do we need to disclose about our dating history? When to share? (54:48)


22. How do you find your mission as a man? (56:42)


23. What would you each say to young boys and girls out there who currently lack father figures? (58:25)


24. Can I buy my fiance coaching sessions for Xmas? We both love the show (01:00:00)


25. How do I know if my fiance is serious about his faith? He does all of the above except read the bible… (01:01:31)

26. Male perspective on how to be ok with his past of experienced girls/insecurity and inferiority (01:03:04)  

27. Tell us about your wives! Things they do that make you feel respected/loved/appreciated (01:05:12)


28. Tips for women on how to support their man on kindling more innate masculinity? (01:07:30)

29. What do you believe women should be doing before they are married (college, work etc) (01:08:31)


30. Thoughts on groups like boy scouts of america for kids? Theres been lots of scandals (01:10:35)

31. Is masculine revival your full-time job? (01:12:20)

32. What are you doing to encourage more men to join your courtship network? (01:12:40)

33. Did you have good examples of fathers growing up? (01:14:17)


34. How do you raise a godly masculine son? (01:15:48)  


OUTRO (01:17:00) 

Brendan & Mike share three ways men can think about the concept of masculine leadership in the context of marriage. They also explore the topic of how far a husbands leadership in his marriage actually extends.

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Trust is foundational to a healthy and thriving relationship. In today's episode, the guys share 8 pieces of advice on how to build and keep her trust. Listen as Brendan & Mike shed light and bring clarity on a topic that many men get confused about. This episode is full of practical advice and actionable information!

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INTRO: (00:50)

1. Be a man of your word (06:00) 
2. Learn to say no, don’t be a yes man (11:39)
3. Take extreme ownership without being a simp (18:28)
4. Be emotionally calibrated (23:20)
5. Be the man in motion (33:10)
6. Don’t be a tyrant or dictator (36:34)
7. Escape the good boy performance trap (42:55)
8. Keep her safe (46:39)

CLOSING THOUGHTS (53:20)

Helpful reminders, tips, and thoughts for the ladies looking to go from single to happily married. Whether you are single or in a relationship already, there will be takeaways for you in this episode! 

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INTRO (00:50)

1. Give your life to Christ (06:09)
2. Learn useful skills (10:25)
3. Master your mindset and attitude (18:56)
4. Don’t over romanticize about a “masculine man” (24:57)
5. Don’t treat your boyfriend like your husband (30:32)
6. Reject the ways of the world and dont get lost in worldly pursuits (35:28)
7. Don’t waste time on men who don’t want the same things as you (40:38)
8. Own your desire to be a wife, mother and homemaker (44:44)

CLOSING THOUGHTS (47:39)

In today's episode we answer over 30 audience questions on masculinity, femininity, marriage, faith and more. 

INTRO (00:55)

QUESTIONS

1. What are your thoughts on a woman marrying a man who is 5 years younger than her? (01:56)
2. What denomination of Christianity do you guys believe in? (04:36)
3. What is the number one thing a woman can do to empower a man? (07:11)
4. How do you balance pursuing your goals in this world and raising global awareness on conspiracies? (09:48)
5. How can I support my husband growing out of nice guy syndrome? (11:37)
6. Thoughts on sexual assault/pedophilia in the church? (14:39)
7. How can men make genuine friends like Jonathan and David were in the Bible? (16:35)
8. Is having a brotherhood biblical? (19:43)
9. Recommendations of some good godly singers/bands? I can’t listen to the majority of today’s garbage (sex, drugs, violence). (22:20)
10. After how many dates did you ask your wife to be your girlfriend? (24:20)
11. How do you overcome porn addiction and erectile dysfunction? (26:45)
12. Do you have a backup page in case the Insta Police shadow bans your content? (30:27)
13. How do you differentiate between gods will and your internal thoughts? (32:00)
14. How can I support my man in being more masculine? (34:17)
15. What is your view on women being doctors? (37:02)
16. Does a man with a high body count deserve a woman with a low body count? (38:30)
17. Is there anyone who is doing what you guys are doing, but for women… like a feminine revival account? (39:35)
18. Should you spank your children? (41:02)
19. What can a man do to make himself more masculine? (44:42)
20. I’m 23, should I start thinking about marriage at this age? (46:33)
21. What were specifics that you looked for when finding a wife? Skills, character traits, dealbreakers? (47:50)
22. Can you give an update on your sweet baby? (49:52)
23. Are humans naturally monogamous or polyamorous? (51:10)
24. What are your thoughts on stoicism, can you be a christian and study stoicism? (53:25)
25. How can a young man like me who grew up fatherless become strong and manly? (55:25)
26. I am a man who has dad issues and an absent/emotionally unavailable dad. How can I be offended less easily? (55:25)
27. How to know when to help friends grow vs knowing when they are holding me back and I have to let them go? (57:44)
28. Should men be the first to approach a woman they are interested in pursuing? (58:37)
29. As a woman, is it ok that I want to be a mom but I want a successful career in marketing? (01:00:20)
30. What are the advantages of getting married for men and women? (01:01:58)
31. Tips we wish we knew before going into business on our own? I’m in the process of starting a men’s health and fitness coaching business and i’d love to learn a few lessons without the scars if you know what i mean. (01:04:22)
32. Does a man struggling with same sex attraction have to marry a woman and have children in order to be fully masculine? Can he choose to live a celibate life in light of his struggles and live in the fullness of his masculine identity? (01:06:37)

CLOSING THOUGHTS (01:09:55)

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Brendan & Mike share 7 reasons why platonic friendships between men and women don't work and don't make sense. 

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