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    Explore "independence" with insightful episodes like "(Rewind): The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like...", "248: I'll Attend His Graduation in a U-Haul", "255. Q&AF: Do You Need Money?, Playing Dumb Pro Tip & Navigating Business Through Inflation", "E381 Ask Nick - Toxic Side of Independence" and "21 - SINGLE & 30+ - Rihanna - The 5 therapy-backed reasons that being single in your 30s should be treated as a blessing, not a catastrophe" from podcasts like ""Love Life with Matthew Hussey", "The Way I Heard It with Mike Rowe", "REAL AF with Andy Frisella", "The Viall Files" and "OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists"" and more!

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    (Rewind): The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like...

    (Rewind): The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like...

    Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you...

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    E381 Ask Nick - Toxic Side of Independence

    E381 Ask Nick - Toxic Side of Independence

    We are back with another episode of Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! Today, we are here to celebrate Valentine’s Day by bringing on some callers to answer their questions, relationships, and situationships. So whether you have a hot date, are treating yourself with delivery food, or going through a breakup, come celebrate Valentine’s Day with us as we learn that no matter our dating situation, you can learn to date yourself. Our first caller, who while abroad in Europe, gets herself into a long distance relationship. Now she wonders if she can try to make this relationship last once she moves back to the United States, making this long distance relationship even longer distance. Our next caller enjoys her self-love focused independent lifestyle, but wonders if dating could add to her busy life, or if someone else would take away from her happiness. Our last caller struggles to let go of her partner after three years of being his backup plan. 

    “Don’t put more weight on this guy just because he rejected you before you rejected him!”

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    21 - SINGLE & 30+ - Rihanna - The 5 therapy-backed reasons that being single in your 30s should be treated as a blessing, not a catastrophe

    21 - SINGLE & 30+ - Rihanna - The 5 therapy-backed reasons that being single in your 30s should be treated as a blessing, not a catastrophe
    In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise gets into a solo episode discussing all things Rihanna & A$AP Rocky and the news that they are having a baby!  In this episode, Louise looks at ‘Rihanna energy’ and her break up from Hassan Jameel at 31, an age when many people would feel pressurised by society to stay in their relationship or make it work, rather than the fear of being ‘thirty and single’. In this episode, Louise shares:  ⇢ The psychology of our brain development in our 30s vs. our 20s and how this impacts our dating decisions;  ⇢ Why sometimes we have to date a ‘Chris Brown’ to meet our very own A$AP Rocky;  ⇢ Why being single in your 30s can be a revolutionary and insightful phase of self-awareness; and  ⇢ How you can use it to your advantage, helping to take you closer to the right person. Louise also shares her own personal dating stories, particularly: ⇢ Her experience of dating her very own Chris Brown and what she learnt;⠀ ⇢ What watching her friends settle down and have babies has taught her about what she wants in a relationship; ⇢ Her top 6 tips to embracing being single in your 30s + 40s; ⇢ And why you need to date ‘smart’, ‘fast’ and ‘with intention’ as you get older.As well as chatting all things fertility and biological clocks. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify.⠀ Connect with Louise on social:  @iamlouiserumball Connect with OPENHOUSE:  @openhouselife ⠀Sign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com ⠀⠀ ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  ⠀ Music Sources Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXsY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Julie Lythcott-Haims On How To Be An Adult

    Julie Lythcott-Haims On How To Be An Adult
    I love my parents. I grew up with a world-class education. And yet, nobody actually ever taught me how to be an adult. As a result, I made a ton of avoidable mistakes. I suffered far more than necessary. And I fumbled in the dark for years until eventually, I figured a few things out. Unfortunately, my experience is all too common. Today’s guest—a woman who spent years mentoring and advising some of the brightest young people in the entire world—would agree, so she decided to do something about it. Julie Lythcott-Haims is the former dean of freshmen and undergraduate advising at Stanford University, where she earned her B.A. (as my classmate) before obtaining a law degree from Harvard and a master’s in fine arts and writing from California College of the Arts. Today Julie is an author and authority on what we now call—in Millenial parlance—adulting. Her TED Talk 'How to raise successful kids without over-parenting' has over 5 million views, and her books include the New York Times bestseller, How To Raise An Adult and Real American—a memoir centered on coming to terms with her racial identity. Julie’s latest work and the focus of today’s conversation is Your Turn: How To Be An Adult. For those just emerging into the grown-up world, it’s a must-read life handbook. For parents, it’s a must-gift for your young ones entering their adult phase of life. All in all, it’s a guide I very much wish existed during my formative years. This conversation is packed with practical insights for both parents and young people alike. We cover the downfalls of being a helicopter parent, the importance of learning conversation skills, and why paying attention to what you like and don’t like is more important than finding a purpose. But more than anything, this conversation is about why diversity and inclusivity are vital in parenting, educating, and adulting. To read more click here. You can also watch listen to our exchange on YouTube. And as always, the podcast streams wild and free on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. This is appointment listening for young people emerging into the world or parents striving to best guide their kids into maturity. But no matter your age, we can all use some wisdom about how to grow up a little bit more. Peace + Plants, Rich

    growing up as an only child

    growing up as an only child
    Growing up as an only child is a really unique experience that can really have both positive and negative impacts on your life and relationships. From feelings of independence, desires to be alone more often than most, relating more to adults more than people your own age, difficulties sharing with others, and much more. Emma discusses her experience growing up as an only child and the differences vs. having siblings, and how that’s impacted her personality and her approach to life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Gary Davis, the First Native American Rapper, Shows You Why Your Excuses Are Invalid | Impact Theory

    Gary Davis, the First Native American Rapper, Shows You Why Your Excuses Are Invalid | Impact Theory
    Is it safe to say that everyone of us has challenges and roadblocks ahead to varying degrees? Maybe you even have some pretty big dreams but knowing where to start or how has you paralyzed. If you are getting stuck on fear of failure, not knowing who, how, or what, or even if it’s remotely possible for you to achieve a bigger dream, then this episode is for you. Gary Litefoot Davis is a Cherokee that has stepped out, and done the impossible against the odds. His story is compelling, but his get it done and go hard and relentless after your purpose attitude is worthy of pen and paper. He breaks down exactly how he looked at the overwhelming dream of being the first Native American rapper not being signed, starting his own record label, and touring the world from there. It was baby steps of a bigger goal, and this episode exemplifies what’s possible when you just take action and keep moving forward.  SHOW NOTES:  Resilience | learning from generations, seeing entrepreneurship and losing it all [3:14] Awakening | Realizing no one is coming to save you, it’s all on you to make it happen [5:57] Cultivating fortitude | Having an intention and take baby steps and give each step 100% [8:04] Steps & Goals | Gary lays out how to identify the steps you need to attain goal in detail [9:58] Model the Greats | Gary on how to model your success and make it your own [11:14] Be Fluid | Gary on how to be adaptive so you can grow and be malleable [12:46] Music Influences | Gary shares learning from artists that have influenced his music [14:34] Independent | Gary explains why he says “we are the people we’ve been waiting for” [18:07] Being First | Gary on knowing where you get your strength and leading in difficulty [20:13] Native American Struggles | Gary exposes the lack of self-belief & self hatred [28:30] Failure | Gary explains the lesson and not getting caught in negative energy of failing [32:59] Entrepreneur | Gary on the journey, the reward and tools needed to be successful [38:25] Get Started | Why you have to believe in what you’re doing and if not keep looking [44:23]  Follow Gary Davis: Website: https://litefoot.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6u1Jc6KwTiHYdyGBI7b8jA Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LITEFOOT/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/litefoot/ Check Out Our Sponsors Indeed: Get a FREE $75 CREDIT to upgrade your job post at indeed.com/IMPACT Joovv: Get an exclusive discount on your first order at Joovv.com/impact and use code IMPACT ShipStation: Get 2 months FREE at ShipStation.com Click on the microphone at the top of the page and type in IMPACT Checkout.com: Request a free, no-commitment demo at Checkout.com/impact Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    97: Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner

    97: Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner

    We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:

    • Kindness 
    • Respect
    • Clear and compassionate communication

    But there are also other little skills that make a big difference.

    Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. 

    Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time...

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    Episode 138 - Spider Parents: Finding Freedom from Dependence

    Episode 138 - Spider Parents: Finding Freedom from Dependence

    The spider is a symbol of generative and destructive capabilities. As creator, spider spins the sustaining web of life. As predator, spider’s sticky web is an inescapable trap. Parents weave webs of familial ties, cultural norms, and generational patterns that contain—or restrain--their children. Emotional strings of attachment or enmeshment affect how—or if—a young adult child is released into the world.

    A net of comfort and connection can become a web of entanglement and stultification. The tale of Sleeping Beauty portrays the stasis that ensues when parents try to protect their child from future dangers. Hindering destiny’s call to independence and individuation only obstructs the flow of life. Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. Kahlil Gibran

    Here's the dream we analyze:

    "I was on a hospital bed, due to a heart attack. Doctors were trying to send an electric wave to measure my heart damage--and I was terrified of the pain it may cause. Doctors told me that if it hurts I need surgery immediately. I was watching the screen, and it didn’t hurt at all. Doctors told me that my heart was really strong and that I can go home. I felt relieved. Then a nurse walked over to me and handed a piece of paper, a note from someone, and said I have to go see this other patient. The note was from Su, a high school female friend that betrayed me, a person that I don't think about at all. The note said that I need to take care of her babies. I was so confused. I walked over to the room, found her sitting on the bed. She pointed the babies to me and asked for help. I didn't talk to her. She has just given birth, and 3 little bundles were in a crib next to her. I lifted the bundles and they didn't look like babies, they were marble white and looked weird. Almost looked like the Hindu god with the elephant trunk- god Ganesh I think. I dropped them on the floor. I wanted to check whether they are real. I filled them with milk and said they are alive. I was so confused. I woke up." 

    #63 with Andrew Wilkinson - Buying cash-flowing internet companies, starting job boards and building no code projects

    #63 with Andrew Wilkinson - Buying cash-flowing internet companies, starting job boards and building no code projects
    Sam (@thesamparr) and Shaan (@shaanvp) are joined today by Andrew Wilkinson (@awilkinson) who is the co-founder of Tiny (tinycapital.com) - the internet version of Berkshire Hathaway. Shaan also launched a newsletter version of the podcast, subscribe to it to receive startup ideas backed by data in your e-mail weekly: terriblehorriblenogoodverybadideas.com. Want to make your first million with your mobile app? You have to prioritize app performance first. Get your custom HeadSpin benchmark report at headspin.io/myfirstmillion free our listeners! Today's topics: What is Tiny? (4:05), Shaan tried to sell Andrew a business 5 years ago (8:35), Andrew being early on COVID-19 (15:26), Being a control freak & hiring managers (20:35), The perfect cash-flowing companies (31:30), SRED Credits Tax Incentive Program in Canada (36:40), Job board businesses (42:22), No code agencies (48:03), Businesses that didn't work out (56:56), Being broke (59:20), Subscription podcasting (1:02:27) and Modern day newspapers (1:11:18).  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    #79 Esther Wojcicki: The “TRICK” to Raising Successful People

    #79 Esther Wojcicki: The “TRICK” to Raising Successful People

    Esther Wojcicki discusses the current education model and how we can fix it and shares her powerful TRICK acronym, Esther’s secret for raising happy, resilient children.

     

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    Ray Dalio: Principles, the Economic Machine, Artificial Intelligence & the Arc of Life

    Ray Dalio: Principles, the Economic Machine, Artificial Intelligence & the Arc of Life
    Ray Dalio is the founder, Co-Chairman and Co-Chief Investment Officer of Bridgewater Associates, one of the world's largest and most successful investment firms that is famous for the principles of radical truth and transparency that underlie its culture. Ray is one of the wealthiest people in the world, with ideas that extend far beyond the specifics of how he made that wealth. His ideas, applicable to everyone, are brilliantly summarized in his book Principles. This conversation is part of the Artificial Intelligence podcast. If you would like to get more information about this podcast go to https://lexfridman.com/ai or connect with @lexfridman on Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook, Medium, or YouTube where you can watch the video versions of these conversations. If you enjoy the podcast, please rate it 5 stars on Apple Podcasts or support it on Patreon. This episode is presented by Cash App. Download it (App Store, Google Play), use code "LexPodcast".  Here's the outline of the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. 00:00 - Introduction 02:56 - Doing something that's never been done before 08:39 - Shapers 13:28 - A Players 15:09 - Confidence and disagreement 17:10 - Don't confuse dilusion with not knowing 24:38 - Idea meritocracy 27:39 - Is credit good for society? 32:59 - What is money? 37:13 - Bitcoin and digital currency 41:01 - The economic machine is amazing 46:24 - Principle for using AI 58:55 - Human irrationality 1:01:31 - Call for adventure at the edge of principles 1:03:26 - The line between madness and genius 1:04:30 - Automation 1:07:28 - American dream 1:14:02 - Can money buy happiness? 1:19:48 - Work-life balance and the arc of life 1:28:01 - Meaning of life

    #6 - How This Silicon Valley Outsider Hustled His Way to $750M Exit - Meet Vungle's Jack Smith

    #6 - How This Silicon Valley Outsider Hustled His Way to $750M Exit - Meet Vungle's Jack Smith
    Jack Smith (@_jacksmith) is the most clever entrepreneur I know. He’s cofounded multiple startups: Vungle, Coin, Shyp. With Vungle recently selling for $750M. We talk about his early businesses as a kid, selling prank itching powder on the playground - all the way to his infamous “LinkedIn Hack” that got him his first $120k investment check. Got feedback or questions? Email me at Puri.shaan@gmail.com  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.