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For a man, orgasms are pretty much binary. Sure, there are some tantra afficionados who will tell you that ejaculation and orgasm for a man can be separate and the like. But for most men, they either cum or they don't, and the semen is the proof.

For women, the tale of the tape can be quite different. We can all agree that a woman is "faking it" if she receives nothing resembling an orgasm from the act. But what if she has one proper orgasm and then a series of "aftershocks". Should she be accused of faking if the subsequent events are, in her mind, orgasms in their own right?

Alongside this, why do men obsess over being able to "make" a woman orgasm. Sure, I can see the allure of her receiving intense pleasure from the same organ that gives you such pleasure (I'm referring to your penis). But, women's pleasure isn't really vicarious in this way. They have their own apparatus to manage. And, as with most things in life, to do it well you must first do it yourself.

Can any woman (or man for that matter) seriously enjoy thrusting that lasts an hour? What if a man needs this duration of stimulation to get him there? What should his partner do?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/128/dick-feel

https://ymmv.me/128/mad

https://ymmv.me/128/faking

https://ymmv.me/128/attraction

https://ymmv.me/128/duration

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In today's episode, you will meet Latara. She is a wife, a mom, and a grandma. She is taking part in healing the world through sharing her family's journey with autism. 

"Be present in all things and thankful for all things."

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Do you still feel surreal as parents of kids with special needs?

This show is for parents who are mourning the loss of the life and the child they thought they would have. This show is for parents who are tired, lonely, and see no hope in sight.

You will learn how to deal with your non-verbal child with a sensory processing disorder, seizures, meltdowns, haircuts, and family trips. Embark on a journey of consciousness, self-care & meditation.

My name is Chad Ratliffe. I am a single father of five kids within 6 years of age and two of them are with  special needs. 5 years ago, in a nasty divorce, my depression led me to addiction and hopelessness. Today, I share with others a life I never imagined possible.

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If you’re interested in getting more information on the next Naked Parenting Transformational course,  email chad@nakedparentpodcast.com and put "I Am Ready For Transformation" in the subject heading.

Looking forward to navigating parenthood journey with you!

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"Go with your gut." "Sit with it for a little while." Which of the two is the more healthy approach? Or, perhaps is it neither? Go with your gut, and sit with this episode, for some much-needed clarity.

Just as depression can be debilitating, anxiety may very well be the straw stirring that unhealthy cocktail. Eliminate either one or both, and the sky is suddenly the limit on the path to well-being. What are the steps? How much work will it take? Where do those solutions lie? 40 million Americans need these answers. If you're one of them, please be sure to listen.

There is no "one size fits all" when it comes to depression and anxiety. Some people make mountains out of molehills, while others may make molehills out of mountains. What forms can be both healthy and/or unhealthy, and how is all of it best managed?

Join Alan as he catches up with Joe Jackman - Founder and CEO of Jackman, author of The Reinventionist Mindset. They talk about how the world is changing faster than ever before and some companies aren’t able to make changes to keep up.  Joe says companies need to be able to reinvent themselves if needed, but this doesn’t mean start from scratch. Change is hard but irrelevance is a lot harder. Joe goes on to says that you need to create the future now. 

Clint Padgett - CEO of Project Success Inc. talks about working his way up through the company and then buying the company and making himself the President of it.  He goes on to say he'd given up until he heard a song that inspired him to try one more time to try for a loan and he did. Clint says he may not be the smartest guy in the room but he is always the hardest working. They talk about how people don’t often communicate with each other effectively and how it’s even harder now that so many people are working remotely. Clint believes communication through conversation is very important in order to get your message across clearly. Small conversations that happen around a water cooler are a thing of the past.  We give ourselves credit for our good intentions, and others judge us by our results.

• [00:00:00] Joe Jackman says Embrace Uncertainty
• [00:05:26] Re-invent Yourself
• [00:11:29] Bankruptcy is Not a Lost Cause
• [00:18:20] Brains Vs Braun with Clint Padgett
• [00:26:55] Communication and Conversation
• [00:33:21] Good Intentions and Judgement

I get personal in this episode of Coffee & Kettlebells, where I open up about my past unhealthy relationship with my body. I share my past obsession with my body image, over-exercising and over-restricting my diet, and the negative impact it all had on my health. I also share how I was able to finally develop a healthy relationship with food and fitness and to truly love my body. If you over-exercise, under-eat, over-restrict and constantly obsess of your body and food, this episode is for you. There is a better way and I am here to share it with you! 

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