sex podcast for men

Explore "sex podcast for men" with insightful episodes like "Semen Retention & Men’s Sexual Mastery with Jah Sun", "Porn VS Reality - with Male Pornstar Erik Everhard", "Conscious Kink & BDSM with Kimi Inch - Professional Dominatrix", "Daoist Tonic Herbs for Better Sex - with Mason Taylor of Superfeast" and "A Wild Night in Asheville... (Personal Story)" from podcasts like ""Sex Upgraded", "Sex Upgraded", "Sex Upgraded", "Sex Upgraded" and "Sex Upgraded"" and more!

Episodes (9)

Semen Retention & Men’s Sexual Mastery with Jah Sun

What is semen retention and is it healthy? In today’s episode I’m joined by Jah Sun, founder of the 30-day Tantra Challenge, and we have a really down to earth conversation about semen retention, sex, and men’s sexual health in general.

We talk about the benefits of semen retention, the dangers of semen retention, the power of intentional ejaculation, non-ejaculatory orgasms and prostate pleasure too. For a quick read about semen retention, check out my benefits of not ejaculating for 7 days article after you listen to this episode. The benefits are real, but you won’t get them if you simply stop ejaculating. You have to practice semen retention in an intelligent way, and that’s what Jah Sun and I talk about in today’s episode.

If you enjoy it, please share it with a friend!

TIMES & TOPICS:

03:19 Jah-Sun’s sexual journey
09:10 Semen retention requires energetic circulation to be healthy
12:40 Ejaculation as a sacred practice
17:44 Why edging can be a useful practice
25:39 What comes up during semen retention
29:29 Men need community just as much as women
33:25 Sleep well for optimal health & sexual function
38:53 Fasting to improve health
40:29 Prostate stimulation
44:48 Women want to be on your team!

Connect with Jah Sun

Connect with Taylor:

en-usJune 13, 2022

Porn VS Reality - with Male Pornstar Erik Everhard

How do pornstars last so long? Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality.

Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing to me. He brings a super unique perspective to sex and life that we can all learn something from. How to last longer, how to overcome performance anxiety, and how to get an erection on command are just a few of the topics we go into.

This is my favorite episode of the podcast so far. If you like it too, please share this with a friend! We all need to be having the porn vs reality discussion.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS

03:51 How long do you have to last for a porn shoot?
06:09 What would Erik tell his younger self about sex?
13:00 Does sexual chemistry matter between pornstars?
23:50 Mental performance & sexual performance
32:15 How to get an erection anytime you want
44:23 Presence is everything in sex
48:50 The reality of anal sex in porn
1:02:02 What is the impact of porn? Is porn unhealthy?

CONNECT WITH ERIK

RESOURCES FROM TAYLOR

en-usJune 06, 2022

Conscious Kink & BDSM with Kimi Inch - Professional Dominatrix

If you’re curious about Conscious Kink & BDSM, and you want a simple set of tools to help you explore this with your partner, this episode is for you. Kimi Inch is a somatic therapist, professional Kink & BDSM expert, and professional dominatrix, who loves helping people explore and heal their sexuality. I first met Kimi at a Tantra festival last year where she taught a workshop on Conscious Kink. I went, and had my mind blown by some of the exercises we did. Thanks for that Kimi. :)

If you’re someone who wants to explore kinky things with your partner, this episode is for you. You’ll learn some easy conversation tools & techniques to make it easy for you to explore these realms. (And remember, the main thing that makes something kinky is your own subjective feelings around the act itself). One person’s kink is another person’s vanilla. I hope you enjoy! And as always, if you like the episode, please share it with a friend.

Episode Times & Topics:

08:43 What is kink?
10:39 Do kinks come from our childhood? Are they bad?
22:42 Is the “good girl” kink an unhealthy expression?
30:48 How to begin your own kink journey
45:31 Surprise - Kimi guides Taylor through an exercise
53:03 Dominance & Masculinity
59:10 Shame & Masculinity

Connect with Kimi Inch

Kimi’s Instagram
Kimi’s Website (for the Kink Checklist)

Connect with Taylor:

en-usMay 30, 2022

Daoist Tonic Herbs for Better Sex - with Mason Taylor of Superfeast

Mushrooms and plants can be our allies to help us thrive in a society that doesn’t support optimal health. The philosophy and magic of Daoist tonic herbalism is here to help - with herbs for better sex, and herbs for a better life in general.

This conversation is more of a casual hang out and discussion of life and sex, and I want to give you that heads up in case you’re coming here in search of a clearly outlined educational lecture on the topic of herbs for better sex. It’s not that… even though we do hit that topic really well in the last quarter of the episode. :)

Mason Taylor is the founder of Superfeast, an international company (with a branch in the USA) that helps bring high-quality tonic herbs to people around the world. I personally take the Jing mixture almost every morning as part of my morning ritual, and you’ll hear me talk about why in the episode. If you visit the Superfeast store, use the code EROSRISING for a discount on everything.

Episode Times & Topics:

08:33 Who is Mason Taylor?
17:51 Using herbs to protect yourself from illness and other deficiencies
21:04 The epidemic of exhaustion in today’s society
23:41 How does “Jing” energy express in daily life?
29:50 What are ways men lose Jing?
33:17 Can herbs cure erectile dysfunction?
39:58 Men And longevity with herbs and sex energy
45:69 What is Daoist tonic herbalism? (How does it work?)
51:40 Tonic herbs for better sex & life in general
1:04:45 Learn to listen deeply to life

Mason Interviews Me on the Superfeast Podcast:

Educational Resources from the Superfeast Website:

As always, if you like this episode please share it with a friend. Thank you! I hope you have a beautiful rest of your day.

-Taylor

Connect with Mason Taylor & Superfeast

Connect with Taylor:

en-usMay 23, 2022

A Wild Night in Asheville... (Personal Story)

This episode is a truly wild personal story that’s still hard to believe it actually happened. I chose sexual abundance over scarcity/anger, and it changed the entire outcome of my night.

This story really is one of the wildest dating experiences I’ve had. One night in Asheville, I had to decide how I would respond to a stimulus that was potentially very challenging/triggering. Part of my system wanted to get angry, but I took a breath, paused, centered myself, and chose a different option.

The saying “freedom comes in the moment between stimulus and response” refers to the fact that you can always be at choice with how you respond to external stimuli. Instead of reacting with autopilot behavior, you can give yourself freedom by taking a pause after a challenging thing happens. In that pause, you can CHOOSE how to react. Anger might not always be your best option. In this story, I chose something different…

And my choice turned into one of the most surprisingly delightful evenings I’ve had while being a single guy in the dating world. It’s still one of my favorite stories to tell too. I hope it’s thoroughly entertaining for you. :)

As always, if you like this episode, please share it with a friend!

Thank you.

-Taylor

CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

CONNECT WITH JON HANDELMAN:

Jon’s Website

en-usMay 09, 2022

How I Had My First Amazing Threesome

This is the story of how I had my first amazing threesome. (I had many bad ones before this). In this episode you’ll learn how to have a threesome, how to avoid bad threesomes, how to talk about threesomes, AND you’ll get an awesome technique to actually begin a threesome too.

YOU CAN HAVE AN AMAZING THREESOME TOO!

You might think that because I’m a sex coach, I’ve had the most amazing sex life for many years. A sex life full of all kinds of threesomes, while getting all of my fantasies met. Not true. Remember that people often go into a profession that they desperately needed to improve in themselves. That was me. I used to be a sexual mess. (I’ve done a lot of work since then).

In this episode you’ll hear a mix of personal story with practical action steps you can take if you want to have a threesome too. One of those important steps is communication. You have to talk about it. Use this framework: The Better Sex Conversation. (FYI There are images on that page that are not safe for work. In fact, I don’t recommend looking at any of my content on any work-related device).

If this episode is helpful for you, please share it with a friend!

Thank you.

-Taylor

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

01:50 Are there bad threesomes?

04:02 Threesomes are a very common fantasy

07:09 Is it toxic for men to want a threesome with two women?

08:55 Threesome VS Play Party (Sex Party)

11:09 How I initiated this threesome

15:25 Should you drink alcohol to take the edge off?

16:30 The helpful conversation framework (how to avoid landmines)

23:50 Why it’s important to have this conversation

26:24 How to begin a threesome (we played rotational dom)

33:57 What’s the first step to having a threesome?

CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

CONNECT WITH JON HANDELMAN:

Jon’s Website

en-usMay 02, 2022

How to Unlock Your Wild, Primal, Sexual Self - with Lion Galban

In this episode, Lion and I explore how to be fully embodied, and why this is THE key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self. Unlocking this part of yourself allows you to create the kinds of relationships and sexual experiences you truly desire, in a safe way that builds connection and trust. You can’t just think your way into sexual and relationship success though, and this is where most people get stuck. You have to practice embodying it, and understand what that actually means.

IN THIS EPISODE…

What does embodiment actually mean?
How and why embodiment is the key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self
How to open your heart, and why you need to feel your emotions fully
Why learning have non-ejaculatory orgasms can save your relationship

INTRODUCING LION GALBAN

I met Lion Galban in Thailand a few years ago, and was immediately inspired and triggered by him at the same time. The way he moved on the dance floor with multiple women blew my mind, and I realized that I was actually jealous of the freedom he appeared to have. On that dance floor, he was embodied in a way that I’ve RARELY seen in any other man.

Without putting him on a pedestal, I decided I wanted to learn about this aspect of being alive from him… So I went to one of his embodiment/dance workshops back when we were both living in Thailand. It was kind of like a dance-oriented play party. And if you’ve never heard of the term play party before, it usually refers to a kind of gathering where different people can explore being sensual and sexual with each other, within the context of a certain set of agreements to make the space as safe as possible. (If you want me to make a podcast episode about play parties, let me know).

If you look at Lion’s Instagram, you’ll see lots of videos of him moving in wild ways, and you might even see some things that trigger you. It’s worth looking at - pun intended. If you have any questions about today’s episode, please feel free to reach out to Lion and/or myself. We’re both here in service of your life.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS

7:00 – My first impression of Lion (when I got triggered)

13:57 – What does embodiment mean?

26:09 – Energetic attraction vs sexual attraction

30:57 – What does “allow her to feel your heart” mean?

37:40 – How to work with your emotions in an intelligent way

40:49 – Why feeling your feelings can improve your entire life

43:57 – How to honor and be your unique, primal, sexual self

46:30 – How to navigate sexual shame around desires

54:53 – Why learning to have an orgasm without ejaculation can save a relationship

CONNECT WITH LION

CONNECT WITH TAYLOR

en-usApril 11, 2022

Grief, Sex and Relationships - with Josh Fox

In this episode we'll explore:

What is grief?
How does grief affect relationships and our sex lives?
What happens if we don’t integrate our grief?
How to grieve in a healthy way, and why doing this can be beautiful
What is a grief ceremony, and where can you find one?

TOPICS & TIMES:

3:44 - What is grief?
9:08 - What happens if you don't deal with grief?
15:39 - How does grief affect relationships and sex?
28:13 - How can you tell if you have unresolved grief?
32:07 - Unresolved grief lives in your body, not the mind.
35:05 - What is a grief ceremony? (And how do you grieve in a healthy way).
44:00 - Grief in community.
47:00 - I cried during Spiderman. (And how crying gives you strength).
51:21 - Techniques to work with grief.
59:07 - How to deal with a breakup.

Grief can be tricky to notice because we don’t talk about it much as a society.... For the most part, we don’t even acknowledge it exists. Grief is different from the sadness you might experience when watching a movie, and you can even have unresolved grief and not know it...

Unresolved grief can impact your romantic and sexual relationships, your family relationships, your work life, and how you feel as you go through your day… which in turn has a subtle impact on every single decision you make. It’s a big deal… And this is part of the reason Josh Fox devotes a substantial amount of his health care practice to helping people work through their grief.

RESOLVING YOUR GRIEF MAKES LIFE (AND SEX) AMAZING!

How do you resolve your grief? Actually allowing yourself to FEEL emotions can be a good place to begin. This can be tricky though, because almost every message we've gotten from society says to NOT feel your feelings. It’s so important to actually allow your feelings to move, so they don’t get stuck in your body. (Techniques in the episode).

WHAT IS A GRIEF CEREMONY?

In this episode, Fox describes the grief ceremonies he facilitates as day-long events that start with authentic connection exercises and embodiment practices to get you really present and in your body. Then the grief ceremony moves into a more emotive phase where the process of grieving (actually crying, yelling and screaming) can happen in community. There is an ancestor/grief altar where you can place images of any deceased loved ones, and you’re invited to visit this altar throughout the ritual whenever you feel called.

Grieving in community is an important part of this ceremony, because it normalizes the process of grief, and it provides support for everyone to see and actually feel in their bodies that they are not alone. Grief is a shared experience with all other humans, and on the other side of grieving is great release and the potential for more joy and pleasure than you’ve possibly imagined.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

“The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief” - by Francis Weller
“Atlas of the Heart” by Brené Brown

CONNECT WITH FOX:

Fox’s Website

TAYLOR'S LINKS:

en-usMarch 24, 2022

What to Expect in This Podcast - (Trailer) - with Sex Coach Taylor Johnson

This podcast will explore everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and semen retention to threesomes, anal sex, breath work, energetic sex, play parties, sexual energy transmutation and more. You can sign up here to be notified when new episodes come out.

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THERE WILL BE THREE KINDS OF EPISODES:

Interviews with guest sex experts from around the world
"How-To" Episodes like "What Causes Premature Ejaculation" and "Intro to Semen Retention"
Personal Stories from my journey exploring sex around the world, like the time I went to an anal sex party in Asheville, to the time I had my first Tantric orgasm, and then the time I had my first amazing threesome.

You can search through these episodes by category on my podcast website.

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WHAT IS "EROS RISING"?

Eros - refers to sexual attraction, sexual desire, sexual love, etc. Eros is also the name of the ancient Greek god of Love, who is the son of Aphrodite.

Rising - literally means rising, to raise up, and figuratively it means to improve and make better.

Eros Rising:

Raising sex (and shame, anxieties and negative beliefs around sex) up from under the rug that society has swept it under, into the world of awareness, integrity and shame-free pleasure.
The process men need to go through in order to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms and full-body pleasure. We need to literally raise our sexual pleasure up from our genitals into the rest of our body - into our bellies, hearts, and the entire rest of our bodies.

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THE FIRST SEASON WILL BE 12 EPISODES
They're already planned out, and they're going to be awesome. When the first 12 episodes are complete, I (Taylor) will evaluate how things have gone, and consider what direction to go in for the future of this podcast.

If you like this podcast and want it to continue, please leave a thoughtful review wherever you're listening. It really helps, and it'll let me know you care.

Thank you friend!

-Taylor

RESOURCES & LINKS: