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In today's show, we share 12 of the weirdest, funniest and craziest sexual kinks and fetishes we could find on Google!!  There is someone for every kink out there and it's interesting to discover what turns people on! 

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Have you ever found yourself struggling with unwanted sexual fantasies, attractions, or fetishes, and wondered how to overcome them?

Our conversation with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material, offers powerful insights and practical steps to help you heal and understand these complex issues.

Join us as we discuss befriending our sexual thoughts and feelings instead of trying to get rid of them, and how God can speak to us through these different parts of us.

We'll also explore the intriguing connection between fear and sexuality, including the physical effects of fear on our bodies and how arousal and pleasure pathways can shed light on the development of our sexual preferences.

Don't miss this transformative and thought-provoking conversation with Drew Boa as he shares his personal journey of healing and freedom from the shame associated with his own sexual fantasies, offering hope and guidance for those struggling with their own unwanted attractions.

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In today's show, we take a look at a question from Vice.com in which a female in her 20's wants to know if her rape fantasy is weird.  She's unable to share her fantasy with her sexual partners and feels guilty about having such a fantasy when real women are sexually abused everyday.

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Unwanted sexual behaviors are not random but reflect unaddressed parts of one's story. Dealing with these underlying issues can lead to wider stories of healing. In this podcast episode, we talk about bringing the problems, heartache, brokenness, and sin into the foreground, and get really curious about the origins of how that all began. And then, with curiosity and kindness, that's how we are able to heal and grow.

RESOURCES:
Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing

by Jay Stringer

Three key takeaways from this episode:

• Insights into the journey out of unwanted sexual desires and behaviors
• The church can be a significant place for sexual shame to develop due to secrecy, silence, and judgment. Christians need to open up about the realities of sexual brokenness and renew their sexual mind by submitting and being curious about it.
• Sexual brokenness can be a roadmap to healing rather than a life sentence of shame or addiction. By addressing underlying issues, we can experience wider stories of healing.

Don't just take our word for it; listen to the entire episode to discover more insights from the book and the speaker's journey out of unwanted behaviors.

Guest Bio:
Jay Stringer is a clinical researcher, author, and speaker best known for his work on the topic of unwanted sexual behavior. Jay's research looks at the origins of this behavior, which often results from unresolved childhood trauma and present-day issues such as a lack of purpose, depression, and anxiety. His book, Unwanted, challenges the traditional approaches of shame and lust management, instead encouraging people to embrace their brokenness as a roadmap to healing. Through his work, Jay is committed to helping people understand their stories of brokenness, and ultimately find healing and growth.

Quotes from the episode:

— Jay Stringer

— Jay Stringer 

— Jay Stringer

Chapters
02:19 Unwanted sexual behavior is not random
07:59 Renewing the sexual mind
14:38 Harm of the Purity Culture
21:20 Primary sex educators for children
26:31 Finding calm in healthy ways
28:04 Emotional and physical calming and healing
31:02 Deprivation and entitlement
34:57 Swim toward fear
38:47 Churches provide education

The live Valentine’s Spectacular serves up a panel chat on increasing intimacy, an interview with The Pegging Book authors, Karen’s Sermon about the gifts of an unexpected health event, and more. Recorded at Constellation in Chicago.

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Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped  and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this.  If you have ever been curious what could be possible at this type of event, tune in. We discuss how consent, communication, preparation and intention can set a really good foundation for yummy and delicious experiences!  Do I drop some bombs about  cake sitting fetishes, my Domme work and all the kinky contraptions I have in my house... ? I don't know you'll have to find out you curious little cat. 

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If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that contribute to your libido and what you can do to feel more balanced  in the game of mental health, medications, desire and sexual wellness advocacy. 

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🎙 Episode 132: Naughty Submission Fantasy Come True…

WARNING: This episode is NOT meant for children, family, so don’t listen. NR 17+

This solo episode is all about my deep desires and fantasies and sharing an erotic story about having one of my submissive fantasies come true.

It’s a fun solo episode where I catch you up on my dating life and share some personal experiences and also share why I’m into BDSM and really love the submission and surrender.

As I was nervous to share this episode I shared the story personally with friends and every one of them just loved it and urged me to share so here it is.

Your fantasies and desires are not wrong and hiding them from yourself and your partner doesn’t do you any good.

I urge you to explore with yourself or solo or even share your fantasies with your partner but in a safe space and without expectation. This is something I go over in my signature Sexy Goddess Course or coaching 1:1 with me!

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Is having sex empowering? Where is the limit when it comes to filming more hard-core scenes? Is showing consent in adult films sexy or a turn-off? These and many more topics we tackled in the conversation with Bea Bleu - a wonderful human being and a great filmmaker. 

Bea is a Viennese filmmaker based in Berlin. Her adult movies aim to show authentic forms of sexual pleasure, exploration and play. She is dedicated to creating adult media where everyone feels safe and respected. Follow her work @__beablue in Instagram or Twitter.

Time codes:
00:00:10 - amateur performers 
00:04:25 - aftercare
00:07:00 - director’s vision and being flexible 
00:14:45 - having the right sex 
00:17: 38 - dating, and personal relationships
00:22:00 - showing kinks, BDSM and different forms of hard-core sex in porn - where is the limit
00:25:40 - how porn can show consent 
00:36:40 - Ethical adult media 
00:40:20 - Language
00:47:44 - are the films you produce part of your personality or do you separate it
00:50:40 - fantasies 
00:57:00 - Cancel Culture 
01:01:00 - sexual scripts 
01:03:40 - growing up and intimacy
01:05:45 - power
01:07:18 - why porn

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Can you get beyond religious guilt in your sex life? Can you be a religious person and also kinky, queer, polyamorous? This deep conversation explores themes of faith, the damage restrictive religions can do to our erotic spirit, and how to work toward getting free.

In this episode:

• Jera Brown - Sex and relationship columnist & fetish provider. Their podcast Left-handed Journeys explores role sexuality has played in people's spiritual identities and practices
• Brandon Hunter-Haydon - Surrogate Partner and Intimacy Coach

More on faith and sexuality:

• Dr. Laura E. Anderson on Instagram
• @thepursuinglife on Twitter
• @StPromiscuity on Twitter
• Marlene Winnell - Religious Trauma Syndrome

Books mentioned in this episode: Philip Gulley - “If Grace Is True”; “If God Is Love”

• Todd Salzman - "Sexual Ethics: A Theological Introduction," ; "The Sexual Person: Toward a Renewed Catholic Anthropology"
• Marcella Althaus-Reid -  “Indecent Theology” . See also: The Queer God
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Today's episode Tiffany and I discuss and article I came across on bedbibble.com, where 1001 people were surveyed asking questions about their sexual fantasies, the results are rather interesting.  Take a listen and then let us know your take on some of these fantasies. Are your fantasies listed? Welcome to the Top 10 Sexual Fantasies 2022 list! Which sexual fantasies were missed. We'd love to hear your inputs.

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118 Episode - How to Communicate Fantasies and Desires with Rena Martine

What is your fantasy? What is your desire? Do you feel shame about it?

Have you communicated your desires to your partner?

What comes up when you think about it?

In this episode we will dive into fantasies, desires, and how to communicate them effectively and some reasons why you might have them. People often relate bdsm to only people that have endured abuse or some trauma so we talk about that. Some modalities can be used to help heal from past trauma and hiding away from it just lets it build like this ugly dark monster creeping under the bed.

Rena Martine is a women's intimacy coach who helps women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. Before becoming a coach, she spent 14 years as a Deputy District Attorney prosecuting sex crimes, child abuse, and domestic violence cases.

Topics Covered:

💜 What is it about the Rape fantasy?

💜 How can you get over the fear of talking about your sexual fantasies and desires?

💜 Why do some people want to be dominated?

💜 Why do people like bdsm?

This is a super juicy chat with all the fun and stories so dive in and don’t forget to leave a review.

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Content warning: In this episode we talk about sex, sexual trauma and sexuality.

Today we talk intimate matters with sex therapist and counsellor Anya Grichina. Anya believes that a fulfilling and vibrant sex life is an integral part of our well-being. Yet one in five people have concerns about their sex life at some time in their lives. 

Sex is about so much more than what happens in the bedroom and your sexuality is affected by the people and experiences in your past. This not only includes your current and previous sexual experiences, but what you have learned from your parents and culture about what is "right" and "wrong" about sex.  

Anya also believes that it’s difficult to have good sex in a bad relationship and that sexual concerns are often related to relational distress. This is a big topic, join us as we explore everything from sexual fantasies and pleasure to mismatched libidos and open relationships.

We chat about:

• Sexual pleasure and the importance of imagination, fantasy and play (1:59)
• The various reasons why we may feel disconnected from our bodies and our sexuality (8:35)
• How our personality and communication style influences our sexuality and capacity for intimacy (10:55)
• How to navigate mismatched libidos in relationships (14:02)
• Self-pleasure and why it’s often a taboo topic in relationships (17:50)
• Polyamory and open relationships (23:31)
• Sexuality and sexual identity (29:00)
• Moving beyond heteronormativity to discover our authentic sexuality (39:00)
• Pleasure points (45:00)
• Maintaining erotic desire in long term relationships (48:30)

And so much more!

Episode Resources

Guardian article on The Secret to Great Sex

Good Sex by Jessica Graham 

Contact Anya

https://intimatematters.com.au/

 
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Most of us have sexual fantasies, but so many of us will have never shared them with anyone. Fantasies are complex and are often about so much more than just sex. In this episode Georgia Grace explains where they come from, why we should embrace them and what we can do to make them a reality.

LINKS

• Read 'Part-Time Perverts: Sex, Pop Culture, and Kink Management' by Dr Lauren Rosewarne
• Learn more about Eva Oh on her website
• Read Cara's blog 'Delving Into the Science Behind My Need To Be Bred with an Egg Laying Alien Dildo'
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• Producers: Amy Kimball, Edwina Stott, Lem Zakharia
• Editor and Audio Imaging: Adrian Walton

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Do you feel stuck in the same pattern whenever you masturbate? How can you reset and start to form a healthy masturbation practice? In this latest Eavesdropping ep, Sex writer Jera Brown sparks an impromptu convo with Karen on understanding and getting unstuck from masturbation habits that aren’t bringing us joy.

In this episode:

• Jera Brown - Sex and relationship writer, fetish provider
• S2E3: Masturbation and Mindful Erotic Practice with captain snowdon
• Joseph Kramer’s work on changing how we watch porn

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We tackle a listener question about how to make a sex fantasy reality. Our sexpert panel give you important things to consider and how to overcome shame in order to have the sex you want.

In this episode:

• Matthew Amador - Psychotherapist for love, sex & gender rebels
• Elmo Painter - Somatic psychotherapist 
• Brandon Hunter-Haydon - Psychotherapist & intimacy coach 
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

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In Episode 4 of the SheRecovery Podcast, Crystal chats with million-copy best-selling author Shannon Ethridge.  

In this interview, Shannon discusses a topic that so many women can relate to: Fantasy! Have you ever wondered why you fantasize the way you do? Have you ever considered there may be a deeper meaning behind them and what you can do about them? If so, then don't miss this important and healing conversation!

Shannon is author to 22 books including the Every Woman’s Battle series, The Sexually Confident Wife, and The Fantasy Fallacy. She has a master’s degree in counseling & human relationships from Liberty University, and over the past 28 years has spoken internationally to teens, college students, and adults. Her passion is working with individuals, couples, and groups to help them make peace with their past and cultivate rich and rewarding relationships with God, themselves, and others.

Learn more about Shannon, including her books, coaching, and workshops at www.shannonethridge.com.

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