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    Fat Shaming And Skinny Shaming With Actress Reid Cox | 12

    Fat Shaming And Skinny Shaming With Actress Reid Cox | 12

    Actress Reid Cox openly shares details about her struggles with body dysmorphic disorder and disordered eating. Reid and I share what it’s like to exist in bodies we’ve worked very hard to embrace. As well as how fat shaming and skinny shaming are equally harmful.

    We need to stop allowing the media to pin fat and thin women against one another. People of all sizes struggle with body image and self-love! Let’s continue to share our stories, speak out when we see shaming, and support one another. Learn more!

    067: Yoga for Every Body with Amber Karnes

    067: Yoga for Every Body with Amber Karnes

    067: Yoga for Every Body with Amber Karnes

     

    If you’ve ever wondered how to make your yoga classes more inclusive to those with larger bodies, our guest Amber Karnes, founder of Body Positive Yoga, has an abundance of insight. She’s a ruckus maker, yoga asana teacher (E-RYT 200), social justice advocate, and a lifelong student of her body. Her commitment to inclusive, adaptive yoga practice empowers thousands of diverse practitioners around the globe.

     

    Amber was hooked after her first yoga class. She noticed that the negative self-talk that overwhelmed her at times subsided after her first yoga class. She became curious about this effect and went back to repeat the “experiment”. Amber noticed she felt grounded and calm in her body for the first time. The physical aspect mattered to Amber but the internal regulation and tools yoga provided were especially powerful. She found the practice to be immensely helpful in her struggle with depression and anxiety, finding a peace of mind that kept her coming back.

     

    Amber decided to take a yoga teacher training 7 years into her own practice to deepen her personal practice and learn “the rest of yoga” outside just the poses. She had no plans to teach but after immersing herself into the program she saw the need to provide space for women who felt their bodies were all wrong for yoga. Amber has been now been teaching for over 15 years.

     

    Amber feels that it is important to recognize that there are systems of oppression, such as the patriarchy and racism, that try to take away a woman’s power. The pressure women feel to conform their bodies to a narrow societal standard distracts women so “we can’t do amazing things like change the world and make art or help people that really need a voice, that we can stand up and use our voice to help support and uplift them.”

     

    Amber wants to emphasize that women need to feel that it’s NEVER their body that’s the problem. If a student struggles with a pose their body is not to blame. There is incredible power in offering modifications and props and being aware of the languaging around cues. She also offers that teachers are  “there for our students and hold space for inquiry to allow the processing of emotion behind the desire to change the body.”

     

    Amber offers workshops, retreats, courses (including Yoga for All Teacher Training with Dianne Bondy) through Body Positive Yoga. Amber is the creator of the Body Positive Clubhouse, an online community dedicated to building unshakable confidence and living out loud.



    3:45 Amber’s first yoga class

     

    8:15 How yoga teachers can be aware and respond if students express dissatisfaction with their body

     

    Good Principles to Bring into the Classes:

     

    9:55 1) The Body is Never the Problem- It’s the asana that’s the problem NOT the body, employ modifications or props

     

    11:05 2) Languaging- Embodied or positive physical experience vs. striving and achieving, remove the hierarchy of language avoid saying “full expression of the pose”

     

    12:10 Misconceptions around props: that they’re a crutch or cheat, that if you use them you’re not as good as the other students. Teachers have the opportunity to remove this stigma and help students see props as positive or neutral.

     

    13:15 Progressive teaching- giving students the opportunity to stay in pose or progress, for example:

     

    Start in Table Top

    Feet behind, rest toes behind mat

    Lift leg at hip

    Lift arm

     

    Offer the student the opportunity to stay at that level or progress, depending on their level of comfort.

     

    16:00 Shannon and her client’s experience with coming to the mat to check in. Amber calls it “neutral ground”, a place where she avoids body criticism or shaming with a focus on inquiry and emotional exploration.

     

    17:20 Body neutrality- it’s okay to feel neutral about your body without the pressure to love your body and aligns with practicing non-attachment

     

    20:25 Advice for teaching bigger bodies when you don’t live in a larger body and how specialized training is very helpful

     

    26:05 Marketing for classes for larger bodies or all bodies

     

    32:50 Yoga images in yoga marketing- including photos featuring a variety of bodies, ethnicities, abilities, etc. will attract a more diversity

     

    35:25 Modifications, props, and cuing: it shouldn’t be assumed that any pose it basic for anyone. Questions to ask yourself: What is the point of the pose? How can you make poses more accessible to your students? Can we change the orientation of the pose or change the relationship to gravity? Sometimes it’s something as small as adding blocks under the hands, using the wall or chair, etc.

     

    A lot of students don’t have body awareness coming into yoga- you can help them move into over time

     

    41:20  Two steps to help students with larger bodies:

     

    1) Widen- Feet two fists width or maybe wider (width of the mat) automatically puts students in a better position which helps them access their breath, avoid feeling compressed or pinched, bodies are more flexible than the body can often express

     

    2) Move stuff out of the way- Take hands to low belly, fold forward and bend your knees, pull your hips back, tuck belly up and back- also great cue for someone that isn’t in a larger body (great cue for hinging hips)

     

    43:55 How to assist a larger student without putting them on the spot: speak matter-of-factly and make cues relevant to the entire class: no one wants to be put on the spot whether they’re injured or in a larger body, etc.

     

    Make it clear that no one has to be in perfect shape to practice yoga.

     

    48:25 Tools for teachers to offer modifications:

     

    1. Set everyone up with the same props
    2. Take time to talk about how the props can be used
    3. Offer alternative spots (chair, wall, etc.) and focuses (shape or balance of the pose)

     

    Empower your students so they can trust their instincts, experiment until they find a position that feels good,  and ask your students how does their breath feels in this pose. Subtle things like language help your students feel good so they can access an embodied experience.

     

    55:10 Issues around consent: do some self-study:  Why I am or am not offering assists or adjustments to my students? Is this necessary? Is it clarifying or nurturing? Cueing over adjusting. Help students make the adjustment for themselves and adjust your student only if they are in a position that may cause injury. If you do make sure to ask for consent and let them know what you are going to do.

     

    1:06:35 How to reach Amber Karnes



    Links

     

    Amber’s Email: info@bodypositiveyoga.com

     

    Amber’s website: Body Positive Yoga

    Body Positive on Facebook

     

    Body Positive on Instagram

     

    Representation Matters: Inclusive and Diverse Stock Photos

     

    Body Positive Yoga: Modifications

     

    Amber’s article: Yoga Turned My Body into a Place I Could Call Home

     

    Relevant TCYT podcast episodes:

     

    003: Trauma Training for Every Yoga Teacher with Margaret Howard

     

    015: Consent Cards and Hands-On Assists with Molly Kitchen

     

    Gratitude to our Sponsor Schedulicity

     

    Quotes

    “Offering modifications offers students agency over their own yoga practice and gives the locus of control back to the students. We want to guide our students into a place of inquiry where they can have an experience in their own body...both on the mat and into areas of their own lives.” ~ Amber Karnes

    Fantasy Football & Internet Shaming

    Fantasy Football & Internet Shaming

    It's the show of your dreams! Or at least of your sports fantasies.  Fantasy Sports Wizard B.J. Rudell offers priceless tips, hints and strategies while sustaining a punishing blitz of questioning from budding sportscasters Ryan Tabb and Harry Abelson. Radio great Eddie Mann is here to share inside KIIS-FM and Premiere Radio secrets. Plus we are deep diving into the internet shaming of the racist lawyer and BBQ Becky.

    Episode 0: The Introduction

    Episode 0: The Introduction
    Welcome to Desi Diaspora—The Podcast. This introductory episode will let you know what to expect from this story-sharing podcast, and how to get involved.
    Join us next week to hear the first narrative submission to be shared, titled "You Are Only Worthy Of Love, If You Don't Bring Shame".

    Contact us: desinarratives@gmail.com
    Follow us on instagram: @desidiaspora

    Today's beats were produced by AnAlyzer (instagram: @iamAnAlyzer)

    TLP 123: Parenting Like the Holy Spirit

    TLP 123: Parenting Like the Holy Spirit

    God has a plan for our parenting, and not only does He communicate that plan in His Word, He exemplifies it for us. Today AMBrewster will discuss how the Holy Spirit parents. All we have to do is know it, believe it, and follow it.


     


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    Should Bullying and Body Shaming be the New #MeToo? Ep. 50

    Should Bullying and Body Shaming be the New #MeToo? Ep. 50
    Join Grace and Connor for an alternative view of the news.

    On today's show: Is Bullying and Body Shaming the New #MeToo?

    NYC pipe bomb goes off prematurely, injuring the terrorist.

    Chelsea Handler body shames press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders

    Keaton Jones, a 6th grader from Knoxville TN has his video on bullying goes viral and stars and celebrities step up to support him.

    The 14 worst states for body shaming.

    Pentagon allows transgenders to enlist starting January 1st, 2018.

    Roy Moore falls behind in the polls.

    Baker Mayfield wins Heisman Trophy.

    Trump speaks at new Mississippi Civil Rights Museum to demonstrations.

    Trent Franks resigns from congress due to sexual harassment over surrogacy requests to 2 staff members.

    Justice Department launches probe into Planned Parenthood possibly selling fetal tissue.

    Chef Mario Batelli steps down after allegations of misconduct with 4 women.

    Jerry Jones wants to stall on Roger Goodell's NFL contract for 6 months.

    Three of Trump's sexual harassment accusers want a congressional probe.

    CNN covers Trump's diet of junk food while terrorist bomber incident was happening.

    NBC refuses to launch investigation into Matt Lauer.

    star August Ames commits suicide for homophobic accusations.

    The 13th human foot and shoe washes ashore in BC, Canada, since 2008.

    Mexican lawyer Antonio Battaglia launches Trump toilet paper in Mexico to 'soften' the borders to what Trump called rapists and drug traffickers. Proceeds from sales go to immigration legal fees.

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    Hey there cat daddy!

    Hey there cat daddy!

    “Hey there cat daddy’s”

    Our first Patreon episode is up and it’s dark

    Brand X owes us for syndication

    Why is Doug a shut-in?

    Doug “discovered” Jersey Mike’s and got 28”

    Tweeting to no one.

    Anthony’s Monologue

    We revisit our first show

    China syndrome

    Eel in the butt

    Have you ever been penetrated in your pee hole

    It was just weird

    Do women look at everything and ask “can I fuck that”

    Trying to get a magazine pregnant

    Getting caught rubbing one off when I was a teen

    11 year boys shouldn’t be allowed on the internet

    It’s a dog gone mystery

    Nationwide is not on your side

    Fat shaming should be done regularly

    Doug’s Near-death experience

    We read a @everydayfeminest article

    Anthony opens up about one of his fears

    Shitting at the golden coral

    Episode 26 Monica Vida returns to guest host! Gerard Haran also joins the the crew

    Episode 26 Monica Vida returns to guest host!  Gerard Haran also joins the the crew
    @Mokavida is back in town for a few days and she couldn't say now to co-hosting yet again! @thatdudebigG discusses what gay acts he'd perform for a 5 minute spot on the Daily Show. Monica talks about her inability to pull her trigger on a threesome. @Kevingootee chimes in about the few times he was hit on by a gay guy and offers dating tips. Please give a 5 star review on iTunes and share on your social media platforms if you like the podcast. Thanks!

    GPSC 012: Dating While Femme and Spoilers! - The Gentleperverts' Social Club

    GPSC 012: Dating While Femme and Spoilers! - The Gentleperverts' Social Club

    Hello Perverts! We discuss online dating while femme with Flick, Kat, and Lola. We also fielded a light bulb filled response to our episode on Trigger Warnings from Nobilis Reed.

     

    Online Dating While Femme

    We discuss why men behave badly while trying to date women, including name calling, shaming, negging, as we try to figure out... what the hell is the expected return on messages like that? Are men just trying to keep women in line for the next man? Why can't men take rejection gracefully? What do you do with "nice guys" when they just don't know any better, can they be socialized into changing? While we briefly consider that public shaming can sometimes be a powerful tool we approach online discussions and how men can back women up when discussions start to go wrong.

    You can find WetCoastCat at www.lifeontheswingset.com/author/kat/ and on twitter @wetcoastkat. You can find Flick on twitter @seriousFLICK. You can find DirtyLola and her podcast, Sex Ed A. Go Go at www.sexedagogo.com and find her on twitter @DirtyLola.

     

    Trigger Warnings and Spoilers

    Nobilis Reed and D Dog discuss trigger warnings after making a connection between the the function of trigger warnings and the effort to limit movie spoilers.

    Nobilis Reed is the creator and host of the best speculative fiction erotica podcast in the known universe. He's also an author, anthology editor, and self-avowed social justice cleric. His podcast can be found at nobilis.libsyn.com and you can find him on twitter @nobilis.

     

     

    All this was recorded at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and me @DylanTheThomas. You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on FacebookSpotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to me at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com. If you like having this podcast, throw me a buck or two per episode at tip.gentleperverts.com.

    Episode 11 part 3 with @KaytlinBailey and @thebillyprocida

    Episode 11 part 3 with @KaytlinBailey and @thebillyprocida
    The exciting conclusion where we hear @KaytlinBailey tell an open-mouthed @TheBillyProcida and the rest of the @safewordpc crew how she vetted her clients and some insane stories while working between the sheets. Trust me, this is the best job ANYONE has had in high school. And this is coming from a guy who worked at Taco Bell. @mokavida and @KevinGootee will be back soon with another episode.

    Is That Your Kid? : 33 Vacuum Mouth

    Is That Your Kid? : 33 Vacuum Mouth
    If this is the first episode you listen to : Know at one point we had a tiny bit more shame than we do now. (Just a tiny bit.) This week we are talking Dreams. Alligator Dreams. Alien Dreams. Scooby Doo Dreams. Weird Sexual Dreams that may or may not involve Amazons. All kinds of dreams. In fact, Jake finds his dream journal which takes him back to his college days. It's time to get SOAKED. Jake laughs at Todd's art and his busted left eye. ITYK? begins to put together their web store. Jake kisses farm animals. Todd kisses N'SYNC. (Yes, that's right Kiss Me Kiss Me Kiss Me returns!) Jake shames beard porn. Not much of a spoiler but Jake laughs so hard during this episode that he cries. Musical Guest : Atlas (Pop/Rock in Space from Pittsburgh, PA)

    Episode 161: Bob Blaskiewicz

    The Shame of Overweight Vegans

    The Shame of Overweight Vegans

    In today's episode, I relate my interaction with a non-vegan neighbor about whether it's ever possible to keep and kill animals "humanely," and I talk to a couple listeners about how best to represent veganism with non-vegan, animal-loving co-workers and colleagues. The center of this episode, however, is my response to a woman who wrote to me to ask how I can help her reconcile her embarrassment about being vegan and overweight. Not surprisingly, I have an opinion. If you'd like to hear it, take a listen. If you like what you hear, please share it.