You Make Me Feel

and it's your fault

You make me Sooooooooo ANGRY, SAD or <You fill in the blank>

If you, like me, have experienced having had that said to you and don't know why or what you did.

Or

If you, like me, have experienced having said that to someone else

Then

They were wrong and you were wrong - period!

WHAT!

Yes, because no one can make anyone feel anything because you CHOOSE the way you feel and that's a bit of a bummer when you get this. The good thing, when you do get it, you get to choose how you feel and how you react and act and be.

Heavy stuff but also simple, it's all about taking responsibility and not living in the land of excuses, and reasons because reasons are excuses too.

When you take responsibility, some say living at 'Cause' (with an uppercase C), you get to be empowered and that's when we get to choose and live in our reality - on one's elses.

Come with me and let me share my thought on this dilemma and of course my ways of overcoming this, there's always a way(s)

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Shine brightly

Paul

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