Are You Having a Stepmom Identity Crisis? 3 Tips on How to Survive Second Wife Syndrome for Good.
Shortly after a difficult resign-firing in 2014, my hunka-hunka and I, then dating, were sharing a glass of pinot on a teeny tiny balcony overlooking a busy part of a Houston downtown neighborhood. Sidebar story - After being wined and dined for almost two years, I said yes to a job 900 miles south because I sensed God’s leading me there.
The timing was off...but I figured I was right to go. Bill and I had gotten serious quickly, but deep down, even though I knew he was the man I was to marry, I was afraid. Let me articulate that differently. I remember specifically saying to Bill quite confidently, "I don’t want to hurt you, but I want to push you away kind of thing" and “I don’t want to need you,” (or anybody else for that matter).
Long after the fact I realized the leading was a teaching time lean into God instead of lean into the power of Jen.
Can you relate? Is there a time when you’ve declared your need for NOT needing someone?
Listen in for 3 tips on Surviving and what to do to keep the momentum going as you implement these strategies for Smart Stepmoms.
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