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    Explore "whyareweyelling" with insightful episodes like "235 A leadership framework for productive disagreement with Buster Benson" and "MASTER THE ART OF PRODUCTIVE DISAGREEMENT!!! Self Help & Argument Tips from Buster Benson" from podcasts like ""Zoë Routh Leadership Podcast" and "Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler"" and more!

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    235 A leadership framework for productive disagreement with Buster Benson

    235 A leadership framework for productive disagreement with Buster Benson

    It’s not about the content - a fresh leadership perspective on disagreement 

    Author of Why Are We Yelling? Buster Benson flips the perspective of difficult conversations and conflict, turning them from something to be feared into a super power. By asking thoughtful questions, disagreements become leadership learning opportunities, goodwill generators and windows into a bigger world. Buster explains why ‘What am I missing?’ could be the most important question you’ll ask today and shares what it is like to go from entrenchment to exploration.

    Why you should listen: leadership principles for caring conflict

    • How to recalibrate team development dynamics 
    • Navigating corporate culture clashes
    • The leadership questions you need to be asking

    We explore a leadership mindset shift from war to campfire

    • Holding up the mirror to leadership beliefs
    • A leadership perspective that’s open to change
    • Agreeing to disagree is not a leadership strategy

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    Shownotes: www.zoerouth.com/podcast/leadership-frameworks-buster-benson

    About Buster Benson:

    Buster Benson is an entrepreneur and a former product leader at Amazon, Twitter, Slack, and Patreon.

    He’s now CEO of 750words.com and writes for Medium and busterbenson.com.

    Why are we yelling? The art of productive disagreement is his first book.

    For more on Buster please visit busterbenson.com/me/

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    Related episodes on leadership frameworks:

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    212 Leadership frameworks for resilience with Jennifer Eggers

    203 Leadership frameworks for culture and strategy

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    About your host,  Canberra leadership expert Zoë Routh:

    Zoë Routh is one of Australia’s leading experts on people stuff - the stuff that gets in our way of producing results, and the stuff that lights us up. She works with the growers, makers, builders to make people stuff fun and practical.

    Zoë is the author of four books: Composure - How centered leaders make the biggest impact,  Moments - Leadership when it matters most, Loyalty - Stop unwanted staff turnover, boost engagement, and build lifelong advocates, and People Stuff - Beyond Personalities: An advanced handbook for leadership. People Stuff was awarded Book of the Year 2020 by the Smart WFM Australian Business Book Awards.

    Zoë is also the producer of The Zoë Routh Leadership Podcast.

    www.zoerouth.com

    MASTER THE ART OF PRODUCTIVE DISAGREEMENT!!! Self Help & Argument Tips from Buster Benson

    MASTER THE ART OF PRODUCTIVE DISAGREEMENT!!! Self Help & Argument Tips from Buster Benson

    If you’ve ever struggled with arguments or disagreements, then do we have the why are we yelling show for you.

    Today I’ll be talking with Buster Benson, entrepreneur, former product leader at Amazon, Twitter, Slack, and Patreon, the CEO of 750Words.com, and the author of a fun and fantastic look at disagreements, “Why Are We Yelling?”

    And that’s just what I want to talk with him about today, about why in the world are we yelling?, and the art of productive disagreement. 

    Key Points Discussed: 

    • Why did you go from Silicon Valley to the art of disagreements? (02:49)
    • The art of productive disagreement: Buster’s new superpower (03:44)
    • What is a productive disagreement? (05:18)
    • Ruinous empathy and how it can create disastrous situations (07:20)
    • What’s the backfire effect and what’s going on with kitty cat? (09:56)
    • What’s the importance of asking, “Is this about what’s true, what’s meaningful, or what’s useful?” (11:10)
    • Should we be trying to win arguments? (15:15)
    • What does it mean to acknowledge the shadow or projections? (15:58)
    • The first step in the art of disagreement (18:47)
    • Sliced bagels and what they have to with anxiety (19:34)
    • The pink train named Rosy, our internal voices and the importance of self-talk (23:55)
    • Developing an honest bias and getting a front seat to the interesting person that is Jeff Bezos (26:53)
    • Challenging our beliefs and realizing how we are missing something today so we can be smarter tomorrow (32:15)
    • Having productive conversations by asking questions that invite surprising answers (35:40)
    • What is nut picking and why are we wired that we need to win? (40:31)
    • What can you tell us about monkey paws and guns? (44:48)
    • Cultivating neutral spaces to be mindful of the environments we’re in (46:11)
    • Excepting reality and then participating in it (49:39)
    • What have you been teaching your kids about productive disagreements? (51:55)
    • How disagreeing on one thing a day can make a relationship stronger (54:33)

    Additional Resources:

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