Podcast Summary
Adjusting to a More Relaxed Pace in Los Angeles: New Yorkers are used to constant stress while Angelenos live at a more leisurely pace, according to Call Her Daddy host Alex Cooper.
New York City and Los Angeles offer unique experiences with different norms when it comes to daily life. New York City is known for its fast-paced, high-stress environment, while Los Angeles is more relaxed. Alex Cooper, the host of Call Her Daddy, shared her personal experience of adjusting to life in Los Angeles after moving from New York City. She noted that while New Yorkers are programmed for constant stress, Los Angeles residents live at a more leisurely pace. The episode also featured sponsor messages from David's Bridal, CoverGirl, and Nutriful. David's Bridal emphasized the importance of finding a perfectly fitting gown, CoverGirl introduced a new plant-powered mascara, and Nutriful discussed their supplements for addressing hair health from the inside out.
New York vs LA: Two Different Worlds: New Yorkers prioritize survival in crowded city life, while Angelenos focus on wellness and outdoor activities, influenced by their respective environments and climates.
The lifestyles and mindsets in New York City and Los Angeles are vastly different. In New York, people are constantly on the go, navigating through crowded streets and dealing with various challenges. The weather, specifically in the Northeast during winter, adds to the intensity of daily life. In contrast, Los Angeles is known for its laid-back vibe, with people prioritizing wellness and outdoor activities. The weather is generally pleasant, making it difficult to adjust for those accustomed to harsher climates. A humorous anecdote about encountering a neighbor in New York City illustrates the heightened sense of awareness and survival instincts necessary in the city. Overall, the contrasting lifestyles and environments of New York City and Los Angeles create unique experiences for their residents.
Unexpected Encounters in a New Place: Moving to a new city can bring unexpected encounters and lifestyle changes, but the experience can lead to welcoming and friendly relationships and a more relaxed way of living.
Moving to a new place, in this case from New York to Los Angeles, can bring unexpected encounters and changes. The speaker shares a story of almost accidentally hitting her neighbors with her car and how they turned out to be welcoming and friendly. She reflects on how different the lifestyles are between the two cities and how it's taking her some time to adjust. Elton John's quote about LA resonates with her, as she acknowledges that any place can bring change, but LA seems to be encouraging a more relaxed and open-minded way of living. The speaker expresses her happiness about the move overall, despite some challenges and the unexpected twists that come with starting anew.
Embracing new experiences: Trying new things can lead to unexpected outcomes and personal growth. Be open to new experiences and embrace the wildness and uncertainty of life.
Stepping out of your comfort zone and trying new experiences can lead to unexpected outcomes. The speaker shares an intimate story about a sexual encounter where she was not in control for the first time, emphasizing the importance of being open to new experiences. Additionally, the episode features sponsor messages promoting Pepsi Wild Cherry, ShipStation, and Nutriful, highlighting how these products can bring excitement and improvement to everyday life. Overall, the episode encourages listeners to embrace the wildness and uncertainty of life and to seek out new experiences that can lead to personal growth.
A submissive's consensual and pleasurable experience of powerlessness: Communication and understanding are crucial in consensual BDSM or dominant-submissive relationships for mutual pleasure and power dynamics.
Consent and dominance are complex and personal experiences. The speaker describes a sexual encounter where she was deeply submissive and found intense pleasure in being fully controlled by her partner. Despite the rough nature of the encounter, she emphasizes that it was consensual and her wet dream. The turning point for her was when her partner took away her ability to control the situation, making her feel powerless yet sexually fulfilled. This experience highlights the importance of communication and understanding in consensual BDSM or dominant-submissive relationships.
Changes in the Dating Scene during the Pandemic: Be selective and cautious when using dating apps, prioritize personal safety and boundaries, and embrace new experiences consensually.
The dating scene has drastically changed due to the pandemic, and people are now being more selective and cautious when using dating apps. The speaker shares her experience of how things used to be, where people would meet multiple potential partners in a short time without getting to know them well. However, now, people are having to be more thoughtful and careful due to the limitations of in-person interactions. The speaker also touches upon the topic of dominance in sexual relationships and encourages exploring new things, but only if it's consensual and desired. The overall message is to embrace the changes and make the most of the situation, while also being mindful of personal safety and boundaries.
Research and connect before the date: Invest time in getting to know someone online before meeting in person to ensure a safer and more enjoyable dating experience. Be authentic and genuine in your communication to build stronger connections.
In today's dating scene, especially during the pandemic, doing thorough research and having a pre-date connection are crucial. With the importance of social distancing and safety measures, meeting up with someone you've never met before can be risky. Therefore, investing time in getting to know someone through messaging and video calls before the actual date can help ensure a more enjoyable and safer experience. Additionally, being authentic and genuine in your communication can lead to stronger connections and avoid wasting time on unsuitable matches. Lauren's story serves as a reminder that taking the time to get to know someone online can lead to more meaningful and successful dates.
Making a good impression on dating apps: Practice messaging, make a natural transition from digital to in-person, and focus on appearance and environment during virtual dates.
When it comes to using dating apps, it can be a challenge for those not naturally savvy with technology or texting to stand out. The saturation of users can make it difficult to get noticed. However, with some practice and determination, progress can be made. Even if a friend steps in to help, the most important thing is how one presents oneself in person. In this case, a friend's assistance in messaging led to successful FaceTime dates, but it was important to ensure a natural and fluid transition from digital to in-person interactions. Additionally, appearance and environment during virtual dates are crucial in making a good first impression.
Making a FaceTime date feel less awkward: Imagine it as a casual encounter, have an out, remember potential transitions, and be upfront about intentions
Making a FaceTime date feel less awkward and pressure-filled can be achieved by making the conversation more natural and fluid. Instead of sitting and waiting at the desk for the call, imagine it as a casual encounter, like running into someone in the kitchen. Having an out or an excuse to end the call can also help prevent long, uncomfortable conversations. Additionally, it's important to remember that even after a successful FaceTime date, there's still a chance for things to go wrong when transitioning from virtual to in-person interactions. Lastly, it's okay to be upfront about your intentions, whether you're looking for a hookup or something more serious, and to evaluate potential partners based on their features.
Being authentic saves time and builds stronger connections: Honesty about personal details and focusing on shared interests can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships online
Authenticity matters in online dating. Hiding important details or trying to present a false image can lead to disappointment and mistrust. Being upfront about height, for example, can avoid misunderstandings and save time. Additionally, objectifying each other based on physical appearance can lead to empty connections. Instead, focusing on shared interests and compatibility can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships. Finally, be mindful of your words and actions, as they can easily undo the progress made in building a connection.
Be selective on dating apps to save time and energy: Be choosy when using dating apps to avoid wasting time on incompatible matches. Quickly exchange numbers and move off the app for efficient communication. Schedule FaceTime dates to assess compatibility further and continue engaging with potential partners to increase chances of finding a long-term connection.
Being selective is crucial when using dating apps. Engaging with individuals who exhibit problematic behavior early on can lead to wasted time and energy. The process of finding a compatible match requires effort and quick action, such as getting off the app and exchanging numbers as soon as possible. Once you've established a connection through texting, consider scheduling a FaceTime date to assess compatibility further. After a successful date, continue engaging with potential partners to increase your chances of finding a long-term connection or multiple compatible matches. Remember, the dating app process can be time-consuming, so it's essential to be ruthless and efficient in your approach.
Embrace multiple options and avoid putting all focus into one person: To avoid putting all energy into one person, embrace multiple options and allow yourself to grieve after a breakup before jumping back into dating.
It's important for women in the dating scene to have multiple options to avoid putting all their focus and energy into one person. The speaker shares her personal experience of learning this lesson the hard way and emphasizes the importance of embracing vulnerability and allowing oneself to grieve after a breakup before jumping back into the dating world. She also admires those who take the time to fully process their emotions and not rush into new relationships out of denial or numbness. The speaker's openness and vulnerability on the show have touched many listeners, and she encourages everyone to take their time and fully embrace the grieving process before moving on.
Healing during Quarantine: Embrace the Process: Use quarantine as an opportunity for introspection and healing, don't rush into new relationships before being ready, and address underlying issues before starting anew.
Going through a breakup during quarantine can be challenging, but it may also provide an opportunity for introspection and healing. Instead of seeking distractions, Lauren suggests leaning into the emotions and fully grieving to move on. She also emphasizes the importance of addressing underlying issues before starting a new relationship. Lauren shared her experience of living alone in a large house during her breakup, which allowed her to face her emotions and eventually find closure. She believes that this period of solitude helped her mature and avoid repeating past mistakes. Overall, Lauren encourages listeners to embrace the process of healing and not rush into new relationships before being ready.
Learning from Unconventional Dating Experiences: Being honest and intentional in relationships is crucial. Pushing past comfort zones can lead to deeper connections.
Sometimes we need to push ourselves out of our comfort zones in dating to experience deeper connections. The speaker, Lauren, shared her experience of having a non-intimate first date and how her friend, Mr. Sexy, encouraged her to be more forward and flirtatious. Meanwhile, Mr. Sexy opened up about his own avoidance of confronting his feelings for someone. They both acknowledged their different dating styles but appreciated the opportunity to learn from each other. Ultimately, the conversation highlighted the importance of being honest and intentional in relationships, and taking the time to figure out what we truly want.
Facing Fears in Decision Making: Acknowledging and addressing fears is crucial for making informed decisions, even if it means letting go of something good.
Fear and uncertainty can prevent us from making important decisions, even when we have something valuable in front of us. The speaker in this discussion is dealing with the fear of making the wrong choice in a relationship, despite the man expressing his love and desire for her. She's given a deadline to make a decision, but has been avoiding the issue and blocking out her emotions. The unexpected resurfacing of a past mistake and a man's attempts to reconnect have added to her confusion and stress. The speaker feels torn between the fear of losing something good and the fear of making a mistake. It's important to acknowledge and face our fears, rather than avoiding them, in order to make informed decisions and move forward in our lives.
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David's Bridal offers perfectly fitting bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, and prom dresses, thanks to their wide range of sizes and styles. The brand is known for its five-star fit, from sculpting satins to power mesh to booty ruching. David's designer gowns and dresses are a great choice for those seeking a flawless fit. As an added incentive, use the code "daddy" for a 15% discount on all purchases during the month of March. The episode of Call Her Daddy also features the hosts discussing their excitement for the upcoming week and encouraging listeners to tune in next Wednesday.
