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When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime. So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink! In this episode, you’ll learn: What BDSM and Kink are really about  The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom Show Notes: What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex How to Squirt (For Real) Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides LELO Tiani Duo We-Vibe Melt Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase! 5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Creative solutions for mismatched libidos What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship Tips for healthy sex conversations See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Initiate Sex Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Welcome to "Am I The Asshole?" for sex and relationships! New to Sex With Emily, we weigh in on your AITA questions. First up: their marriage is on the rocks, but he wants a threesome. Is she the asshole for shutting it down? Next, his partner says she’s in pain during sex. Is he the asshole for not believing her? After that, she’s not into anal…but her partner really wants it. Is she the asshole for refusing? Next: mom just revealed she’s in a 24-hour BDSM relationship with dad. Is their daughter the asshole for freaking out?  I answer these questions and more today with my producer, Erica. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn’t stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it’s getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple common turn-ons. Whatever your turn-on is, does it arouse you so much that you just have to make it a reality? Or are you apprehensive to take your fantasy IRL? On today’s episode, I’m taking your calls on kinks, fetishes, and everything in between. I’ll teach you how to introduce your fantasy to a partner, especially if you’re turned on by something very specific. From spandex to group sex, squirting to infantilization, I’ll help you understand the difference between a kink and a fetish, how to safely explore your options, and how to communicate your desires to a partner. All this and more on today’s turn-on show! Show Notes: Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here’s Your Sexy Survival Kit PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Okay, What’s Really the Difference Between Kinks and Fetishes? Yes No Maybe List, Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides FirmTech Rings (code EMILY20 for 20% off sitewide) FetLife Kasidie LELO SORAYA Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Is our perception of sex programmed at a young age?
• How sexuality works in your brain
• Why desire is not a significant part of the “great sex” formula
• How to communicate wants and needs with a partner
• Why women can struggle to have an orgasm 

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On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by licensed therapist Vanessa Marin to talk about the different sex personality types and how you can use them to your advantage!  They discuss what the most popular sex personality types are and what to do when you and your partner don’t match up, how body image affects men, women, and anyone in between – with some tools to gain confidence, and ways COVID-19 has been affecting relationships. Plus, how couples who lack compatibility can actually grow to be more compatible!  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Vanessa Marin, visit https://vmtherapy.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is acting as your very own compass to keep you on the most pleasurable path possible – because sex is a journey – and she’s taking your emails. She gives you all the best beginner bondage tips, advice on what to do when you start developing feelings for your best friend after a (very hot) threesome, and why texts with the opposite sex might be a downfall in your marriage. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: BTL Emsella, Promescent, Good Vibrations, SiriusXM, Magic Wand. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you tips on where to begin when you and your partner are on a different sex page, as well as taking your calls. She talks about different ways to give yourself an orgasm – minus the props, how to get your needs met when the focus is on your partners fetish, and what it really means when you’re having sex dreams about your ex. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Uberlube, Third Love, SiriusXM, BTL Emsella. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Breasts: They’re beautiful, mesmerizing, and come in all kinds of wonderful shapes and sizes. Although it seems like men are obsessed with them, you’d be surprised how many completely ignore their existence when it comes to getting it on. On today’s show, Emily is doling out some hot boob tips and facts to make sure they’re never forgotten again, along with giving her insight on some of your most titillating sex and relationship inquiries! Wondering how to make HIS orgasms more explosive? How do you take handjobs out of the equation when you’re not a fan? What’s the best way to introduce lube to a current partner? Emily hits all of these subjects, and reveals the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single men and women. Want to know how to really get your a potential partner's juices flowing? Tune in to find out! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, Sportsheets, FT Toys, Promescent and System JO! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brace yourselves, listeners, it’s the moment you’ve all been waiting for.  On this show Emily is taking your calls LIVE and answering your top sex and dating questions. What’s the right length of time to wait before having sex? Is there a formula for crafting the perfect online dating message? How do you know if it’s time to take a “manitorium?” And what is a manitorium anyway? Worry not, Emily and Anderson have the answers to these questions, plus so many more on this advice-packed podcast. Whether you’re diving into dating after divorce or you’re just curious about the sexual proclivities of the republican party, this show has morsels of sex and dating knowledge to benefit anyone and everyone! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s that magical time of year again, INTERN SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! But first, Emily shares hilarious adventures from her LA kitchen. Spoiler alert: This one ends with a smoke alarm and a honey bee. Then we move on to talk about sex and interns! Along with her assistant Lauren, Emily’s newest intern Madison is in the studio to tell tales from her sex drawer, including the story of how her boyfriend accidentally stumbled upon her first vibrator (it’s funny one!), and how it opened up their already scintillating sex life. Now her sex drawer runneth over, and she has found a new toy that knocks her Magic Bullet right off the shelf: the G-Twist SmartVibe from GoodVibesToys. From external use to internal use to mounting the damn thing, Madison explains her time with the toy that she rates as “Expert Level”. Her advice: start off slow, use A LOT of lube, and when it comes to the “Turbo Boost”, proceed with caution! Between dishing about penis length and oral sex, Emily talks the benefits of using sex toys with a partner. In all her time as a sexpert, she has never heard a couple regret using toys together. Although if you’ve got one, we definitely want to hear it! This Podcast is filled with fun stories, Fleshlights and tips to conquer vaginal insecurity! Don’t miss out on the newest Intern Sex Toy Review! In the words of Emily: “Dude, this is gonna rock your world!” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What hurts on you? Your what, your what, your what? That's nice, lady! As the Great Italian pornographer, Rocco says, "You must have both the passion and the chemistry and the focus and not know when the end is here for it to go with what is there." Understand? Peter Caine is our new hero. Don't you dare threaten him and don't EVER leave your dog with a friend. Friends are the worst. Bad songs are evidently existence in abundance. Thank you for filling our inbox with them. Is the Biggie/Beatles debate over? Nope! Who do you side with, Tina's super white/super lame explanation or Tom's hard and black and super real argument?  Gross sexual kinks are fascinating. Do you have one? Please share. And, you know what I'm sayin, we want that GENUINE "Gnam sayin" Know what we're saying? Bossa Nova forever! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices