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Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Creative solutions for mismatched libidos What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship Tips for healthy sex conversations See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Initiate Sex Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

What does it mean to be sexually confident? In my opinion, it comes from a sense of security in who you are, what you bring to the table, and knowing that it’s OK to ask questions. It’s not having all the answers, because let’s be honest: sex would be boring if we knew everything already. But when your self-image takes a hit, how do you recover your sexual confidence and combat performance anxiety? I’m talking to callers with precisely that question. What do you do when your partner keeps talking about how hot strangers are, even when you told them it makes you uncomfortable? What happens when you’re not maintaining your erections, and it’s causing anxiety? How about when your partner is more sexual than ever – but not towards you? All this and more in today’s sexual confidence episode. Show Notes: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis Owners PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s holding you back in bed? We’ve all got our pain points: body image, not being able to tell your partner what you want, feeling embarrassed to make noise or express yourself. But I asked you how you overcame sexual insecurities, and you came back with SOLID advice. So on today’s show, along with my advice, we’re spreading the sexual confidence gospel using tips from the Sex With Emily community. First, we get into body image: how to hack your brain to feel more comfortable in your skin. Next, I talk about my favorite subject: communicating with your partner, to create a culture of sex positivity. Finally, I’ve got a particularly juicy tip to help you let go in bed and express yourself without inhibition — to hear it, just take a listen to this episode. Show Notes: Ask Emily: My Partner Watches Porn a LIttle Too Enthusiastically Feeld Fet Life First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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We welcome our very first guest, author and sex educator Emily Nagoski, who talks with us about how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives: 1. How our sex issues are totally normal—we’re all worrying about the same things.  2. Why more than 75% of women do not orgasm from penetration alone—and why Glennon thinks the world doesn’t want us to know that. 3. The single factor that is most predictive of strong sustained sexual connection over time.  4. How Abby’s still healing after a lifetime in locker rooms spent comparing her body to other women’s bodies. CW: We reference sexual trauma, including what to say when someone discloses sexual trauma to you.  About Emily: EMILY NAGOSKI is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestselling COME AS YOU ARE and THE COME AS YOU ARE WORKBOOK, and coauthor, with her sister, Amelia, of New York Times bestseller BURNOUT: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. She earned an M.S. in counseling and a Ph.D. in health behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies. She lives in Massachusetts with two dogs, a cat, and a cartoonist. Podcast: https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com Instagram: @enagoski Twitter: @emilynagoski To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show, I am joined by Serena Kerrigan, the ‘Queen of Confidence.’ Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men during quarantine, how to make the post-pandemic “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what. Find Serena here: serenakerrigan.com Instagram Facebook Twitter For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

DADDY GANG!!! This week Father Cooper kicks off the episode with an update on a man she is dating. The update includes a SERIOUS social media road block, one that she has never encountered with a man before... so naturally the uncharted territory calls for a full mental break down!!! THEN, Emily Morse, the sex therapist best known for her podcast 'Sex with Emily,' joins the show to discuss an array of sexual topics. They get right into it, addressing 'forced sex fantasies,' which Emily explains in detail the psychology behind why so many people experience them/why you should not feel shame for having these fantasies. The women also dive into juicy topics like the huge orgasm gap between men and women, how to have an orgasm, how to SQUIRT, people in relationships with different sex drives, and a whole lot more. ENJOY!!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this throwback show, we’re starting off Alternative August with a bang. Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel to talk about anal, oral, and so much more. The two talk about how to get comfortable with face-sitting, ways to get past blowjob lock jaw, what to do when your partner is a lot more vanilla than you are, and all the squirting tips you could ask for. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Womanizer, JO, Apex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco pal Stacy to talk about everything love, dating, fantasies, and sex. They talk about how to get past inexperience – in the bedroom and the dating world, what to do about post-orgasm exhaustion, and what science has to say about what men and women typically look for in a threesome – and it doesn’t look the same. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: JO Stimulants, Adam & Eve, Intensity, Magic Wand Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you discover ways to be your new sexual self. She's giving her insights as to why taking time after a breakup is crucial for your sexual and mental health, how to tell your partner you need more foreplay in bed without it turning into a joke, why it’s better to cut ties than to hope you can change someone, and how to retrain that dating muscle and confidently get back in the game after a long-term marriage. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: UVee, Shop With Emily, Intensity, JO Jellies Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s better than one woman talking about sex? A foursome! On today’s show, Emily is joined by the amazing ladies of the LadyGang podcast, Keltie Knight, Jac Vanek, and Becca Tobin to talk all things sex, dating, and all the points in between! You’ve become a first date master, but how do you get to that second one? How do you get on the same sex wavelength as your partner? Can you get back to a normal sex life after infidelity? Emily and the lovely LadyGang answer these sex and dating perplexities and more. Plus, the women cover phone obsession and relationship etiquette, their own sex lives, oral sex, marriage, and dating apps! Nothing is off limits with these ladies, so tune in for a great time! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast free: Let's Get Checked, Adam and Eve, Womanizer 2Go, Intensity  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When the mood strikes, it can be tempting to get down and dirty just about anywhere, but not so fast! In today’s show, Emily and Menace reveal why you might want to think twice about where you want to get frisky, and address some of your transitional trepidations. Is your romantic trip with your long distance lover being hijacked by her friends? How do you go from casual sex to a committed relationship? Do you feel like you’re second-rate compared to your partner’s pornstar ex? Emily and Menace give advice on how to overcome these amorous anxieties, and even fess up to some of their raunchiest public sex experiences! From inferior insecurities to imbibing girlfriends to friends with benefits, this podcast is the change-up you need to transform your love life! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s September, and instead of going “Back to School,” we’re taking it Back to Sexual Confidence! Emily and Anderson are joined by sex educator, author and body confidence pundit Elle Chase to kick off this month of self love and acceptance. Together, they tackle your most troubling anxieties, tear down your insecurities and help you find your “inner sexy.” What are the best sex positions for curvier figures? Are you worried about the length of your labia? Where do you start when you’re rediscovering your sexuality? The trio give their tips on these issues as well as discuss just how long the ideal sex session lasts—it might be shorter (or longer) than you think. Whether you’re a sexually confident stud, or you could use a pep talk or two, this podcast will have you feeling sexier than ever!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re ending Anal Sex Month with a bang and revving you up for Back to Sexual Confidence Month! In today’s show, Emily is joined by punk rock porn darling Joanna Angel to give you tips on a plethora of sex and relationship predicaments.   Is your partner’s delayed ejaculation giving you lock jaw? How do you get your lover to comfortably climb on (your face)? What do you do when your vanilla partner keeps your inner freak from shining? Emily and Joanna answer these sexual inquiries and more, plus tell you what France is doing to up their sexual education! From face sitting to foot fetishes to all the anal, oral, and squirting tips you can ask for, this podcast covers it all! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do men and women share the same fantasy when it comes to threesomes? According to science, definitely not. But that doesn’t mean they’re ruling them out… In this show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco friend Stacy to traverse a range of love and sex topics. Are you perplexed by your lack of success in the dating world? Is your inexperience causing your lover to enjoy sex less? The triad lends their honest advice on all this and more, and Emily gets real about her recent transition from a past relationship to her dating present. Whether you’re suffering from post-orgasm exhaustion, want to bring your bashful babe to bed without scaring her off, or are curious to know what factors produce a perfect threesome, this show will have you breaking out your notepads! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you a sexually confident woman... or man? If you aren't instantly seducing men and women with your piercing eyes and sly smile, this podcast is for you! I'm going to transform you into a Sex God(dess). First, I give advice to a woman who wants to try S&M (Sadomasochism). I'll teach you how to be the dominant or submissive, and how to talk to your partner about trying S&M. The next time you have tea and crumpets with your partner, I want you to look them in the eye and say, "bend me over the table and F*@% me." Or you can take a more subtle approach, explained in the podcast. You'll be tied up and spanked in no time! Next, I'll share how guys can keep an erection! Hint. It involves putting a ring on it. Make no mistake, marriage will not solve your sex problems, but a vibrating ring just might! The show ends with ten ways women can be more sexually confident. Here's a few tips, ladies: 1. You should dance naked in front of the mirror a lot. Learn to love your body. 2. If he doesn't want to see you naked, he wouldn't try and take your clothes off. He's having sex with you because he thinks you're attractive. Own it. 3. The more pleasure you experience during sex, the better you will be at sex. True confidence comes from focusing on your own sexual experience, and not just making sure he's satisfied. 4. Give him directions! Someone has to teach these guys what's what. If it doesn't work out between the two of you, you'll be doing the next woman he dates a favor. 5. Don't fake orgasms. A truly confident woman will genuinely express her pleasure. Make him keep trying until he gives you a real orgasm.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How to have great phone sex, from foreplay sexting to an orgasmic phone call finish. Emily personally demonstrates how to “sex up” your voice. Emily and her co-host Menace discuss how often men and women talk about who they’re sleeping with, and when you should stop telling everyone you know the intimate details of your sex life. Emily ends the show with a lesson on Kegels-- how to do your sexercises and why they will make you better in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily talks about self-esteem, its effects on your sex life, and how to get your game face on. Earthquakes, sexy shoes, ruining sex for others, enjoying masturbation more than intercourse, and Emily flirts with her exes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily talks with vixen Jessica Drake about Wicked Sex, anal sex tips and butt plugs. Emily and Menace debate whether men are intimidated by successful women and if the notion ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’ is true. Also, hand job fetishes, and special positions for giving fellatio. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.