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So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen – penetration is great! But I have ideas for mutual masturbation, sensual massage, hand play, elevated oral and so much more. Play this episode, make a list of your favorites, then tailor your next sex session around your authentic desires. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex Enigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) 4 Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance? Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com Show Notes: 5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom Is My Penis Normal? SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) System JO Flavored Lube System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Limited Edition System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Neapolitan Polysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | Amazon Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble Open Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon “The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory “Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory Polyamory in BLACK! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable? First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.  Show Notes: How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden Showers Double the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide) VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack) Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order) LELO SONA 2 Cruise (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) Episode: Best Of: Best Blowjob Ever Episode: Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You shouldn't have to be an Olympic gymnast to have sex. But let’s be honest – certain positions can be hard! So inspired by the Positions chapter in my new book Smart Sex, I’m bringing back this Best Of episode. You’ll hear quick tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic moves more exciting. First, I share the most-searched sex positions in the country: can you guess America’s favorite sex move? Next, we look at the much-hyped reverse cowgirl. I give suggestions to make it feel as good and sexy as it looks. As for oral: I talk you through the Kivin Method, which stimulates vulva owners' K-points, and how to make 69 more relaxing. Finally, don’t go to the emergency room from shower sex – just listen to my tips to keep it steamy AND stable. Show Notes: How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential Phrases Moms Deserve Pleasure Too: A Sexy Self-Care Guide MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide) Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Article: How to Master These Awkward Sex Positions I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I’m here to tell you that these are the techniques you absolutely need. First, we’ll talk the art of the tease. I explain how to use your tongue to intensify sensations and encourage arousal. I also get into everyone’s favorite: the Kivin Method. Next, I show you how to help facilitate a G-spot orgasm by answering your top questions. For example, when you’re 100% down to give oral but your partner doesn’t like receiving, what do you do? When you’re the vulva owner and want to squirt, how do you get there? Finally, I talk overcoming insecurities when you’re the receiver, and how to make giving oral more physically comfortable. Show Notes: I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Get to Know the Clitoris (& How to Pleasure It) PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva? Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order) Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Podcast: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah Sundahl Article: Ask Emily: How Do I *Actually* Start Squirting? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are there so many hang ups around oral sex? For starters, many of us don’t know how to give it, or receive it. So how do we bring amazing, orgasm-inducing oral into our sex lives? Today’s episode is a great place to start. I answer your questions on oral upgrades, so you can blow more than just their mind – and get the pleasure you deserve. When you’re new to sex, how do you coach a partner to give you great oral? Or how about when you go down on your partner, but they refuse to kiss you afterwards – should you say something? And what if your penis-owning partner can’t finish…no matter how good your oral game is? I’ll also discuss how porn can distort what we think is good oral sex, so you can take what you need from the screen and leave the rest to your IRL abilities. Show Notes: Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023 LELO TOR 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) Podcast: Sex Toys for Penis Owners Article: Where is the Clitoris? Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving of the gift of pleasure all together? On today’s best-of episode, I’ll answer your questions all about giving and receiving. From trouble with orgasms to insecurities around body parts - how we receive the gift of oral is often where mental blocks around sex begin - and end. Plus, we hear some giving success stories. Because improving our pleasure potential is all about communicating our needs - ask, and you shall receive. Show Notes: Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays LELO HUGO (code ‘EMILY’ for 25% off all products) Article: The Kivin Method Article: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva? Article: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex? Article: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a good time to expand our definition of sex. At the end of the day, sex is play for adults: it’s where we collaborate with another person, creating a momentary world of pleasure and eroticism with them. But so often, we assume that sex equals penetration, and here’s the problem with that: not everyone orgasms during penetration. Not everyone feels erotic during penetration! So let’s make sex more interesting and exploratory, shall we? On today’s show, I’m talking up all the different types of non-penetrative sex – like mutual masturbation, sensual massage, toys, hand stuff – to help you break out of a conventional sex script, and have sex that’s more tailored to your personality and desires. Because you never have to take penetration off the table entirely…but what would happen if you took it off the table for a little while? (Hint: probably more orgasms.)  Show Notes: Prostate Play 101 Want to Try a Sex Cleanse?  Penis Problems, Solved  Shop with Emily 4 Ways to Close The Orgasm Gap First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re talking about blow jobs. It’s an oral sex masterclass, and you’re invited.On today’s episode, I’m sharing everything you need to know about oral sex on a penis. Also, I take your blow job questions: where to start as a beginner, how to enjoy receiving, what to know when pleasuring an uncircumcised penis and what to do if you’re struggling to swallow. Don’t blow off this episode. Together, we can bring your oral sex game to the next level.  Show Notes: Everybody Loves Oral 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down On a Vulva  Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method How to Give A Better BJ  Skyn Condoms  Emily’s Shop Page Breathe App Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it!  Your questions include: what to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible. You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).   For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com   Show Notes: Yes, No, Maybe List https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Article: How To Have Sex in a Full House https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-sex-when-youre-in-a-full-house/ Logan Ury Episode: https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-not-die-alone-w-logan-ury/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Best Of roundup, I break down attitudes about oral sex, the oral double standard, the evolutionary significance of oral sex, how to overcome vibrator intimidation, tips for alleviating delayed ejaculation, ways to combat sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm (hint: don’t give up). I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners. Show notes: FAQ: How Can I Get Better at Oral Sex? 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a Vulva Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you remember your first time? It could be your first date, first threesome, first orgasm, or your first time experimenting with a new position. No matter what it is, any “first” experience can feel intimidating, but I’m here to help eliminate any fear that might be holding you back. I answer questions about how to navigate first-time experiences: having sex, getting on a dating app, performing oral sex, trying anal play, and other adventures. Whether it’s your first time or you want to expand your sexual repertoire, this episode will encourage you to try something new and sexy. For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘Tis the season of giving but what if you don’t know how to receive? Receiving can be difficult for many, especially with gifts of oral pleasure. If you have trouble relaxing while someone goes down on you, you’re not alone. To help ease any “receiving anxiety,” I walk you through specific steps you can take to fully enjoy all the gifts coming down your chimney tonight. We also talk to a caller who is more experienced than her partner. Finally, we go over some of the best gifts that our callers have ever received. Surprisingly, they aren’t all pleasure related. For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In celebration of 15 years of Sex With Emily we dove deep into the archives to bring you her best conversations about oral sex. Guests Bart Smith, Sydnee Steele and Sadie Allison cover all the oral bases: tips and tricks, oral as foreplay and the importance of getting to know your own body so you can be a better partner. We’ve all heard of Kama Sutra, but did you know about oral Kama Sutra? Listen for tips on how to use the ancient Indian philosophy to start having better oral sex. Then, stick around for some of the best calls with oral over the past decade, including one about tongue piercings. To lick or not to lick, that is the question! For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sofia and Alex PROMISE that after this episode, you will eat the clam and make her O in a way that has not been done before. The. Seven. Wonders. Of. The. Pussy. Eating. World. As an extension of the 'Cooch Gobbler,' there is something for even the most advanced sex gurus to learn. Also, the girls finally discuss hooking up with co-workers, including some personal experiences. And lastly, we are telling you where you can get some cheap Plan B and it is NOT planned parenthood! Let's get after it, daddies! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On today’s show, Emily is talking about how to become the multi-orgasmic being you are totally capable of, as well as taking your calls.   She discusses how to make initiating sex an equal playing field while in a dom/sub relationship, ways to take things slow in person with someone you’ve been sexting with, and how to get your needs met when your partner can be a little selfish. Plus, clarification on the kivin method. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Fleshlight, Adam & Eve, Pjur, SiriusXM, Veritas Farms. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this throwback show, we’re starting off Alternative August with a bang. Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel to talk about anal, oral, and so much more. The two talk about how to get comfortable with face-sitting, ways to get past blowjob lock jaw, what to do when your partner is a lot more vanilla than you are, and all the squirting tips you could ask for. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Womanizer, JO, Apex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The first step to better sex and relationships is realizing something needs to change. On today’s show, Emily is here to help you make that change to have the best sex yet! Want to be confident when trying something new in bed? Confused about liking your girlfriend’s fetish? Is it time to admit, “he’s just not that into you?” These are just a few of the common conundrums Emily gives her sage advice about. Plus, she and Jamie compare their recent excursions with a penis ring as well as sharing some Masturbation Routine winners. Don’t miss it! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show free: We-Vibe, UVee, Intensity, Magic Wand Rechargeable  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oral sex. Everyone loves getting it, but how good are you at giving it? Do you know how to eat from her honey pot? Do you give homerun head? Whether you’re a man or a woman, an expert or a novice, everyone could get better at going down, and in this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily is here to help! She tackles your most pressing sex questions, from oral sex insecurities to tips for sensitive gag reflexes to A to V etiquette, and gives her #1 oral sex tip for both men and women. This show is your one stop, all inclusive, need-to-know guide for going down like a champ. From cunnilingus, to fellatio, and everywhere in between, Emily dishes the knowledge you need on today’s classic Sex With Emily podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.