Podcast Summary
Exploring Oral Sex with Hands: Hands add pleasure during oral sex, not just an accessory. Use them to stroke, lick, and suck on different parts of the penis and balls for enhanced pleasure. Experiment with positions like 69 and prioritize collaboration for maximum enjoyment.
During oral sex, hands are not just an accessory but an essential part of the experience. Dr. Emily, the host of Sex with Emily, encourages listeners to involve their hands in blow jobs for added pleasure. She emphasizes that it's not necessary to fit the entire penis in one's mouth, and hands can be used to stroke, lick, suck on the tip, and even lick the balls. Emily also discusses the 69 sex position, sharing tips for making it more comfortable and enjoyable, such as the sideways 69 and the power 69. She encourages listeners to prioritize pleasure and collaborate sexually, and invites them to ask questions or send messages anonymously. Emily is embarking on a book tour, and encourages listeners to attend her live events or buy her book, Smart Sex, for a discount. She also mentions her partnership with Via Hemp Company and her love for using cannabis to enhance her sexual experiences.
Exploring new dimensions of pleasure with cannabis and sex toys: Cannabis and sex toys like the Magic Wand can help individuals relax, enhance sensations, and explore new dimensions of pleasure during sexual experiences. Seasonal products can also add to the excitement.
Cannabis can enhance the sensations and pleasure of both giving and receiving during sexual experiences, particularly in positions like 69. It can help individuals relax and get more into the moment, allowing them to fully enjoy the experience. The Magic Wand, a cult icon in the world of sex toys, is another tool that can help individuals explore their pleasure and achieve orgasms. Whether it's the original model or one of its iterations, the Magic Wand offers powerful vibrations that can cater to different lifestyles. And during the summer season, sex lives can heat up even more with the help of products like those offered by Promescent. Overall, these tools and substances can help individuals enhance their sexual experiences and explore new dimensions of pleasure.
Enhance your summer intimacy with Promescent's products: Try Promescent's delay spray for men and warming arousal gel for women, and explore the 69 position for a satisfying and pleasurable experience. Use code EMILY for a discount and free shipping.
Summer can be even hotter and more pleasurable with the help of Promescent's line of sexual enhancement products. For men, the delay spray offers a solution to last longer during intimate moments, ensuring a satisfying experience for both parties. For women, the warming arousal gel adds an extra layer of pleasure and sensation before intimacy. Additionally, the 69 position, a popular yet controversial oral sex position, can bring novelty and variety to sexual experiences when executed correctly. The key is to give and receive attention, rather than jumping back and forth, which can lead to increased happiness and satisfaction for both partners. So, consider checking out Promescent's products and giving 69ing another try this summer. For a limited time, use the code EMILY at checkout for a 15% discount and enjoy free shipping, a 60-day money-back guarantee, and discreet shipping.
Exploring Oral Sex with a Mindset of Pleasure: During 69, approach oral sex with exploration and experimentation, using various techniques and tools to find what feels good for both partners, and remember to receive pleasure as well as give it.
During 69, focusing on giving pleasure to your partner through various methods, including oral sex, should be approached with a mindset of exploration and experimentation. It's important to remember that genitals are just another part of your intimate partner and providing oral sex can be a way to make them feel good. Start slow and build up the intensity, using different techniques like kissing, licking, and sucking. Don't limit yourself to just using your mouth; your hands, feet, and toys can also be effective tools for stimulation. Remember that receiving pleasure is just as important as giving it, and practicing relaxation and mindfulness can help enhance the experience for both partners. There's no need to adhere strictly to any particular technique or position; the key is to find what feels right in the moment and communicate openly with your partner.
Building confidence in solo sex for partnered sex: Mindful masturbation, visualization, comfort, and safety build confidence for partnered sex. Explore positions, power dynamics, and communication for a pleasurable experience.
Building confidence in solo sex practice is essential before engaging in partnered sex, including receiving oral sex. This can be achieved through mindful masturbation, visualizing your partner performing the act, and focusing on feeling comfortable and safe. The goal should be to enjoy the experience rather than solely aiming for an orgasm. A position like 69ing can be made more comfortable and pleasurable through the sideways 69 position, where both partners can comfortably give and receive, and take turns. Experimenting with power dynamics, such as edging or the power 69, can also add excitement to the experience. Remember, the key is to explore, communicate, and create a safe and pleasurable environment for both partners.
Exploring the world of 69ing with mindfulness: Communicate, experiment with positions, use toys, listen to educational resources, and prioritize consent for a pleasurable 69ing experience.
69ing, or oral sex involving both partners at the same time, can be an exciting and pleasurable experience when done mindfully. This can be achieved by using various positions, such as sitting on your partner's face or lying down with your head off the bed. Vibrators can also enhance the experience by providing more precise stimulation and making giving and receiving oral sex easier. Communication, lube, and listening to educational resources like Sex with Emily together can also enhance the experience for both partners. Additionally, LELO's Sona 2 Cruise, a sonic clitoral vibrator, can provide intense orgasms and deeper pleasure for vulva owners. Remember, the key to a successful 69ing experience is communication, experimentation, and consent.
Enjoying bread without the carb guilt and addressing oral sex discomfort: Hero Bread offers carb-free alternatives with 0-1 net carbs per serving, 0g sugar, and high fiber & protein. Communication is key to addressing oral sex discomfort, understanding partner's perspective leads to finding a compromise.
There are solutions for those looking to enjoy their favorite bread products without the carb guilt. Hero bread offers delicious, fluffy breads with 0 to 1 net carbs per serving, 0 grams of sugar, and high fiber and protein content. It's perfect for sandwiches, burgers, buns, and even croissants. For those dealing with oral sex discomfort due to precum, having an open conversation with your partner about their preferences and concerns is crucial. Understanding their perspective can lead to finding a compromise and improving overall sexual satisfaction. Regarding the first topic, Hero Bread provides a solution for carb-conscious individuals who love bread. With impressive nutritional stats, including 0 to 1 net carbs per serving, 0 grams of sugar, and high fiber and protein content, this bread offers a guilt-free alternative. Its texture is soft, airy, and toasts up perfectly, making it suitable for various dishes like grilled cheese, sandwiches, and even enchiladas. As for the second topic, open communication is essential when dealing with oral sex discomfort due to precum. Instead of focusing on the ratio of giving and receiving, having a conversation with your partner about their preferences and concerns can lead to finding a compromise and improving overall sexual satisfaction. Understanding their perspective can help you find a solution that works for both partners.
Addressing fears and misunderstandings in sexual experiences: Communication and understanding are crucial when exploring new sexual experiences. Fears and hesitations often stem from past traumas or misunderstandings. Approach the situation with open and non-judgmental communication, and consider using flavored lube or starting with intermediate steps to ease concerns and create a safe and enjoyable experience.
Communication and understanding are key when it comes to exploring new sexual experiences, especially if you have hesitations or past traumas. In the case of the listener, Jen, she expressed her fear and discomfort around receiving oral sex due to her past experiences. The discussion covered various ways to approach this situation, such as addressing any potential misunderstandings, using flavored lube, and starting with intermediate steps like kissing the inner thighs or just the tip. It's important to remember that everyone's feelings are valid, and hesitation often stems from a fear of not being a good lover or disappointing a partner. Open and non-judgmental communication can help ease these concerns and create a safe and enjoyable sexual experience for both parties. Additionally, it's important to acknowledge and celebrate personal growth, as Jen did by leaving an unhealthy relationship and seeking new experiences.
Explore your own sexual preferences before engaging with a partner: Communicate openly, find a respectful partner, and self-explore to overcome past negative experiences and enhance sexual encounters
Self-exploration and understanding your own sexual preferences are crucial before engaging in sexual activities with a partner. This includes getting comfortable with masturbation and exploring various sexual sensations, such as oral sex. It's important to communicate openly with your partner about your comfort levels and desires, and to find someone who respects and prioritizes your pleasure. Negative experiences in the past can impact our perceptions of certain sexual acts, but with self-exploration, communication, and finding a trustworthy partner, these experiences can be rewired and lead to more pleasurable encounters. Additionally, incorporating new and exciting activities, like 69ing, can help keep the relationship sexually fulfilling and enjoyable.
Exploring New Sources of Pleasure and Intimacy: Be open-minded, communicate with your partner, and explore new ways to connect and find pleasure together, like using hands during oral sex or discovering pleasure in unconventional areas like the ear.
Exploring new sources of pleasure and intimacy with a partner is normal and can lead to incredible experiences. The ear, for instance, is an often overlooked erogenous zone with erectile tissue that can bring immense pleasure. A listener named Sydney shared her unique experience of enjoying her partner's penis in her ear, and the expert reassured her that it's not only normal but also scientifically explained by the presence of erectile tissue in that area. Another listener, Shonda, expressed her concerns about giving oral sex to an old flame due to her size limitations in her mouth. The expert advised her to use her hands in conjunction with her mouth to make the experience more enjoyable for both parties, emphasizing that oral sex isn't solely about fitting the entire penis in one's mouth. Overall, the key takeaway is to be open-minded, communicate with your partner, and explore new ways to connect and find pleasure together.
Exploring different techniques for hand jobs and oral sex: Experiment with hand techniques, use suction toys, communicate, use lubricant, and always ask for consent to enhance intimacy and pleasure during hand jobs and oral sex.
Exploring different ways to pleasure your partner during a hand job or oral sex can lead to increased intimacy and pleasure. Using your hands as an extension of your mouth, experimenting with suction toys, and communicating with your partner about their preferences are all effective ways to enhance the experience. Remember to use lubricant to reduce friction and potential discomfort, and always ask for consent before exploring sensitive areas. The key is to be open-minded, communicative, and attentive to your partner's needs and responses. Happy experimenting!