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    Best Of: Sex Positions Made Easy

    enMay 12, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • Making Sex Positions Easier and More ExcitingExplore sex positions with confidence, enhance classic ones, learn new techniques for oral sex, and prioritize pleasure with Emily's tips.

      Sex doesn't have to be complicated or require Olympic-level fitness. On this episode of Sex with Emily, Emily shares tips for making ambitious sex positions easier and classic ones more exciting. She discusses popular sex positions, including America's favorite, and offers suggestions for enhancing the reverse cowgirl position. Emily also covers oral sex, sharing techniques for the Kiven method and making 69 more comfortable. Additionally, she provides advice for avoiding injuries during shower sex. Emily's intention for the episode is to help listeners feel more creative and confident in bed. She encourages listeners to ask questions and offers resources on her website and social media channels. A new book tour with live events and a Q&A session is announced, and the episode is sponsored by Promescent, a product that helps penis owners last longer and vulva owners experience greater arousal. The magic wand, a cult-favorite vibrator, is introduced as a symbol of unapologetic pleasure and a trusted confidant.

    • Exploring Different Sex Toys and PositionsEnhance your sex life with various sex toys and positions, like reverse cowgirl, doggy style, 69, and standing shower sex, for unique experiences and pleasure.

      There are various types of magic wands available, each catering to different lifestyles, but they all maintain the powerful orgasmic rumble that made the original popular. Summer is the sexiest season, and to enhance your sex life, consider trying products from Promescent, such as their delay spray for longer-lasting intimacy and warming arousal gel for women. Reverse cowgirl is a popular sex position, and mastering it and other positions can be achieved by focusing on pleasuring yourself and exploring variations. Other positions like doggy style, 69, and standing shower sex also have their unique advantages. Don't be intimidated by challenging positions; with the right mindset and techniques, they can be enjoyable and pleasurable experiences.

    • Exploring new sex positions like reverse cowgirlCommunicate, experiment, and prioritize pleasure for unique and fulfilling experiences. Use tools like mirrors for self-awareness and intimacy.

      While trying new sex positions like reverse cowgirl can be challenging, focusing on pleasing yourself and using tools like mirrors and toys can enhance the experience. Reverse cowgirl, a twist on the classic cowgirl position, can be difficult due to the rhythm and positioning, but with communication and experimentation, it can lead to unique and pleasurable experiences for both partners. Remember, the goal is to make sex enjoyable and fulfilling for everyone involved. So don't hesitate to try new things, ask for help, and prioritize your own pleasure. And if you're feeling disconnected or unsure in certain positions, consider incorporating a mirror for intimacy and self-awareness. Happy exploring!

    • Experiment with different sex positions and adjust for comfortFocus on connection and pleasure, experiment with positions, and communicate for improved sexual experiences

      Experimenting with different sex positions and giving yourself time to adjust and get comfortable can lead to new discoveries and improved sexual experiences. It's important to remember that perfection isn't necessary and slippage can happen to anyone, regardless of experience or position. Instead of focusing on the end goal, focus on the connection and pleasure you can create with your partner. For example, trying out the "person on top" position with different angles and movements can help prevent slippage and enhance pleasure for both partners. Remember, communication and experimentation are key to a satisfying sexual relationship.

    • Exploring new positions for oral sexTrying the Kiven method for oral sex, where the giver lies perpendicular to their partner, can enhance the experience and lead to improved orgasms

      Embracing the awkward moments during sex, understanding that they're normal, and trying new positions like the Kiven method for oral sex can enhance your sexual experience. The Kiven method, which involves the giver lying perpendicular to their partner instead of the traditional up-and-down position, allows for more nerve endings to be stimulated. This position can be adjusted based on personal comfort and preference, with the receiver having the option to spread or keep their legs close together. This unconventional approach to oral sex has received significant positive feedback from listeners, leading to improved orgasms for many couples. Remember, sex can be messy, but it's a natural and beautiful part of life.

    • Experimenting with different techniques and positions during oral sexCommunication, patience, and experimentation can lead to increased pleasure and intimacy during oral sex. Try using various hand positions, focusing on the clitoral hood and legs, and incorporating the perineum for enhanced pleasure.

      Exploring different techniques and positions during oral sex, such as using various hand positions, focusing on the clitoral hood and legs, and incorporating the perineum, can lead to increased pleasure and intimacy for both partners. Remember, every body is unique, so communication, patience, and experimentation are key. For instance, using the index finger and thumb of your left hand to help position the clitoris, or applying pressure to the perineum, can enhance the experience. Don't forget that the clitoris has "legs" and that these areas also become aroused. Lastly, consider trying face sitting, a popular position in some regions, but be mindful of your partner's comfort and size. Communication and consent are crucial in any sexual activity.

    • Exploring Intimate Positions: Face KneelingExperiment with face kneeling for new pleasure and power dynamics, communicate and consent, use additional support, and try Hero Bread for a guilt-free bread experience.

      During intimate moments, experimenting with positions like "face kneeling" can bring new levels of pleasure and power dynamics for both partners. Amanda shared her advice to think of it as kneeling on your knees while supporting yourself, allowing for a more comfortable and empowering experience. Utilizing additional support from a headboard or wall can also enhance the position. Remember, communication and consent are key in trying new positions, and both partners can take turns being in control. Additionally, consider trying Hero Bread for a guilt-free bread experience, offering nutritional benefits without sacrificing taste.

    • Hero Bread: A Delightful Culinary ExperienceHero bread is a versatile, fiber-rich option for various dishes, enhancing pleasure in cooking and intimacy.

      Hero bread is a versatile and delicious option for various dishes, fitting well into healthy diet goals while providing additional fiber. The texture is exceptional, making it suitable for sandwiches, wraps, tacos, and even baked goods. For those who enjoy the 69 position in intimate moments, the speaker suggests trying it side by side for increased comfort and pleasure, and also experimenting with toys to enhance the experience. In summary, Hero bread offers a delightful culinary experience, and the 69 position, when approached creatively, can bring satisfaction to both partners.

    • Exploring different techniques in sexual relationshipsFocus on give and take, edging, and communication for a satisfying sexual relationship. Try new positions like cliff diver, pretzel, and shower sex with proper support and lubrication.

      In sexual relationships, striving for perfection can be exhausting. Instead, focusing on give and take, and edging (deliberately delaying orgasm) can add excitement and pleasure for both partners. For instance, one partner can focus on the other's pleasure, and then switch roles. Edging can be practiced individually or with a partner, adding an element of anticipation and heightened sensation. Positions like cliff diver (doggy style), pretzel (scissoring), and shower sex (with proper support and lubrication) can enhance the experience further. Remember, communication, lubrication, and experimentation are key to a satisfying sexual relationship.

    • Exploring Sexuality in the ShowerShowers offer opportunities for sensual exploration and foreplay, ensuring safety and communication is essential.

      Showers can be a fun and exciting place for sexual exploration beyond just rinsing off. The shower can serve as a great location for foreplay, hand stuff, oral sex, or even penetrative sex, depending on the space and comfort level. It's important to ensure safety, such as using waterproof toys and being cautious of slippery surfaces. Foreplay in the shower, like a shared shower before sex, can also serve as a great warm-up and intimacy builder. Remember, communication and consent are key to making any sexual experience enjoyable and safe. So next time you're in the shower, consider turning it into a sensual and pleasurable experience.

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