Podcast Summary
Exploring pleasure and communication in oral sex: Understand individual preferences, use tongue techniques, address concerns, and prioritize pleasure and communication for satisfying oral sex experiences.
Prioritizing pleasure and communication are key elements in giving and receiving satisfying oral sex. Doctor Emily emphasizes the importance of understanding that every body is different and encourages listeners to explore their own and their partner's preferences. She provides techniques such as using the tongue to intensify sensations and facilitating a g-spot orgasm. Additionally, she addresses common concerns like what to do when a partner isn't receptive to receiving oral sex or when a vulva owner wants to squirt. Emily also encourages listeners to set intentions for their sexual experiences and to ask questions for advice. She is coming out with a book, "Smart Sex," and encourages listeners to pre-order it to help spread the message of sexual education and pleasure. The episode is sponsored by Promescent, a delay spray and warming arousal gel designed to enhance sexual experiences for both penis and vulva owners.
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Exploring the Vulva with Care: Approach vulva with care, use hands, fingers, and lips to explore, listen for feedback, and use different techniques for maximum pleasure.
When it comes to pleasuring a vulva, it's important to approach it with care and sensitivity. Some vulva owners may have a high level of sensitivity, making oral sex uncomfortable or even painful. Instead of diving right in, start with a tease and a warm up. Remember, there are over 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, so take your time and use your hands, fingers, and lips to explore. Listen for feedback and adjust accordingly. Once you've warmed up, bring on the tongue. Use different techniques, such as the Kibben method, which involves raising the clitoris with your fingers while using your tongue to stimulate it from the side. Remember, repetitive movements can be very helpful when someone is close to orgasming. Overall, the key is to be patient, listen to your partner, and use a variety of techniques to find what feels best for them.
Exploring new sexual positions and understanding anatomy leads to pleasurable experiences: New positions like face sitting and G spot stimulation can enhance pleasure, communication and trust are key to intimate experiences, and exploring your own body can lead to better sexual experiences.
Exploring new sexual positions, such as face sitting, and understanding your own anatomy can lead to more pleasurable experiences for both partners. Face sitting allows the person on top to be in control while the receiver maintains balance using the headboard. It's important to remember to kneel instead of sit to avoid putting too much pressure. The g spot, located halfway between the vaginal opening and the cervix, can lead to intense orgasms and even squirting. G spot stimulation, which can be done using fingers or toys, should be attempted after a clitoral orgasm for maximum effect. Trust and comfort with your partner are essential for receiving oral sex, which can be more intimate than penetration. Don't be afraid to explore your own body and learn about your anatomy to enhance your sexual experiences.
Exploring the Expansive World of Oral Sex: Be patient, use lubricants, communicate, and embrace natural appearances for enjoyable oral sex experiences.
Sex and oral sex can be more expansive than commonly thought. Fingers and faces play significant roles in oral sex, and it's essential to remember that vulva owners typically take longer to climax than penis owners. It's important to be patient, relax, and communicate. Pain sensitivity and body image concerns are common issues during oral sex, but there are ways to address them, such as using lubricants and embracing the natural odors and appearances of vulvas. Lastly, there has been a cultural shift towards prioritizing vulva owners' pleasure, leading to more men expressing interest and skill in going down on their partners.
Exploring Oral Sex and the Vulva: Education and Positivity: Explore techniques, use hands and toys, communicate openly, and embrace positivity for enjoyable oral sex experiences.
Our attitudes towards oral sex and the vulva are evolving, with more education and positive representation in porn and society as a whole. For some individuals, oral sex may not be a turn-on or may cause discomfort, and it's essential to explore different techniques and positions to make it enjoyable for both parties. Oral sex involves more than just the tongue, and using hands, toys, and different parts of the mouth can help reduce strain and intensity. Additionally, open communication and experimentation are key to enhancing sexual experiences for all involved.
Understanding Mixed Feelings About Oral Sex: Identify reasons for discomfort, practice self-reflection, prioritize consent, and explore techniques to enhance pleasure.
It's common for individuals to have mixed feelings about receiving oral sex, and these feelings can stem from various factors including sensitivity, past experiences, or beliefs. It's important to identify the root cause of any discomfort or negative associations, and work to reframe those beliefs through self-reflection, journaling, and practicing pleasure. Remember, everyone's body is deserving of pleasure and it's crucial to prioritize consent and comfort in all sexual encounters. Additionally, exploring different techniques, such as focusing on pelvic floor muscles or practicing breath work, can help enhance the experience and increase arousal.
Explore your sexual experience with mindfulness, communication, and tools: Mindfulness, communication, and using tools like flavored and CBD lubes can enhance your sexual experience. Don't rush into oral sex, build anticipation, and communicate openly with your partner about desires and concerns. For bread lovers, Hero Bread offers low net carb options.
Enhancing your sexual experience involves mindfulness, communication, and exploration. Using tools like flavored lubes and CBD lubes can add pleasure and relaxation. Don't rush into oral sex; instead, build up the anticipation and stimulate other zones of your body. Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and concerns. And for those dealing with carb guilt while enjoying bread, Hero Bread offers delicious, low net carb options that can fit into a health-conscious lifestyle. Remember, it's essential to prioritize your pleasure and well-being.
Improving Sexual Satisfaction: Mind and Body: Communicate openly, practice mindfulness, use relaxation techniques, explore different sensations, and focus on foreplay to enhance sexual satisfaction. Everyone's orgasms and bodies are unique, so personal hygiene and communication are key to understanding preferences and creating a pleasurable experience.
Achieving sexual satisfaction involves both physical and mental aspects. Mental blocks, such as anxiety or self-consciousness, can hinder the experience. To improve the situation, it's essential to communicate openly with your partner, practice mindfulness, and use relaxation techniques like deep breathing. Additionally, using lubricant, focusing on foreplay, and exploring different sensations can enhance pleasure. Regarding specific questions, squirting is a female orgasm where the body expels fluid, and it's not necessary for everyone. Orgasms can present differently for each person, but they often involve intense feelings of pleasure and release. Lastly, personal hygiene is essential, but it's important to remember that everyone's body has a unique smell, and it's normal. Communication and experimentation can help partners understand each other's preferences and create a more enjoyable sexual experience.
Exploring Your Sexual Self: Understand your body's preferences and needs through self-exploration and open communication with your partner. Remember, everyone's body is unique and it's important to explore and express what feels good. Mutual exploration and understanding can lead to enhanced sexual experiences, including the ability to squirt.
Effective communication and self-exploration are crucial elements of a satisfying sexual relationship. Since everyone's body is unique, it's essential to understand your own preferences and needs. Masturbation, mirrors, and open discussions with your partner can help you learn about your body and express what feels good. It's also important to remember that you're not alone in this journey and that your partner should be an active participant in exploring your desires. Furthermore, understanding the physiological signs of orgasm, such as tension, release, and euphoria, can enhance your sexual experiences. Lastly, squirting, which involves stimulating the g spot and clitoris simultaneously, can be achieved through mutual exploration and communication with your partner.
Communicating about sexual concerns and improving intimacy: Open and ongoing communication is crucial for addressing sexual concerns and improving intimacy in a long-term relationship. Use tools like 'three Ts' and 'yes, no, maybe' list to facilitate productive conversations, express importance of oral sex, and explore potential solutions like dental dams or condoms.
Effective communication is key to addressing sexual concerns and improving intimacy in a long-term relationship. In the case of Kelsey and her husband, it appears that his reluctance to perform oral sex on his wife is due to fear of HPV. However, as Emily emphasizes, HPV is common and transmission is not limited to oral sex. To address this issue, Emily suggests having an open and curious conversation with your partner, expressing the importance of oral sex for your own pleasure, and exploring potential solutions such as dental dams or condoms. Additionally, she recommends using communication tools like the "three Ts" and the "yes, no, maybe" list to facilitate productive conversations about sex. Overall, the importance of open and ongoing communication cannot be overstated when it comes to maintaining a healthy and satisfying sex life.
Communicating Sexual Concerns in a Relationship: Express love and appreciation, have an open and honest conversation during a relaxed moment, and address health concerns to find solutions to sexual concerns in a relationship.
Communication is key in addressing sexual concerns in a relationship. Michael's wife's bathroom habits were causing him discomfort during oral sex, and despite his attempts to communicate the issue gently, she wasn't receptive. Dr. Emily suggested a more direct approach, encouraging Michael to have an open and honest conversation about their sex life during a relaxed moment, such as over a meal or a glass of wine. She emphasized the importance of expressing love and appreciation for each other's bodies while bringing up the concern. Additionally, Dr. Emily explained that wiping from back to front after using the bathroom increases the risk of spreading bacteria to the urethra, potentially causing urinary tract infections. By communicating the health concerns and expressing love and appreciation, couples can work together to find solutions to sexual concerns.
Communication is key for a satisfying sexual relationship: Discuss hygiene practices, use compliment sandwiches, and consider alternatives like dental dams or face sitting for uncomfortable situations to maintain a healthy and pleasurable sexual relationship.
Open communication is essential in maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. This was emphasized in the discussion about the importance of discussing hygiene practices during anal sex and receiving oral sex with a bearded partner. The use of a compliment sandwich was suggested as a helpful approach to delivering potentially uncomfortable feedback. Additionally, alternative methods such as using a dental dam or face sitting were suggested for those experiencing discomfort due to beard burn. Overall, the conversation underscored the importance of addressing any issues that may arise in a loving and understanding manner to ensure continued pleasure and avoid infection.