Keep an open mind when evaluating potential partners: Instead of making a definitive decision based on initial attraction, consider the various signs and behaviors of potential partners to assess compatibility in the long term.
When we like someone, we often make a sudden and definitive decision, which can create a static image of that person in our minds. We may overlook important signs or behaviors that don't fit with our mental image, leading to potential hurt or misunderstandings. Instead, it's essential to keep an open mind and consider the various scenarios and moments that occur between two people as signposts for compatibility. By making our vision for the ideal partner more flexible and adaptable, we can better assess whether someone truly fits with us in the long term. So, rather than fixating on a binary decision of "like" or "dislike," we should strive to continually evaluate and reassess our connections with others based on their actions and behaviors.
Distinguish core from fluid in relationships: Recognize core needs vs. external actions, maintain self-awareness, and prioritize core to build secure relationships
It's essential to distinguish between the unchanging core of what we want in a relationship and the fluid behavior of our partners. The core represents our deepest needs and should be the unwavering foundation. The fluid part consists of external actions and should not dictate the core. This perspective allows us to maintain self-awareness and prioritize our needs, preventing us from compromising our values and tolerating unacceptable behavior. In contrast, basing our core on another person's behavior can lead to insecurity and uncertainty, ultimately resulting in dissatisfaction and regret. Confidence and certainty stem from knowing our deepest needs and having the courage to seek and maintain relationships that align with them.
Prioritize Self-Worth in Relationships: Don't compromise personal values for a relationship. Build up self-worth and confidence to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
It's crucial to prioritize self-worth and not compromise personal values in relationships. The speaker shares his own experience of letting a vision of an ideal partner overshadow the reality of a toxic relationship. He grew up feeling insecure and overweight, and when he finally found someone he was attracted to, he compromised his values to stay in the relationship. This pattern can be dangerous and lead to a lifetime of settling for less. The key to breaking this cycle is building up internal self-worth and confidence, which can take time and experience. A turning point for the speaker came when he realized that compromising his vision made no sense at all. By focusing on self-worth and asserting personal values, individuals can create healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
Building Core Confidence for Healthy Relationships: Valuing self-worth deeply enables letting go of people who don't align, making you invincible to assert worth, and aligning external world with internal standards. Start building core confidence with practical steps at getcoreconfidence.com.
Prioritizing self-worth and building core confidence are essential for standing up for oneself and maintaining healthy relationships. When you value yourself deeply, it becomes easier to let go of people who don't align with your values. This newfound confidence makes you invincible and enables you to assert your worth. If you're serious about improving your self-worth in the new decade, check out our free video training at getcoreconfidence.com. There, you'll learn about the three layers of confidence and practical steps to start building core confidence today. Remember, your external world should reflect your deepest standards internally. Share one action you'll take this week to align with your vision, whether it's having a difficult conversation or saying no to someone who's treating you poorly. Start making that tiny shift now. Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast, leave us a review, and send us an email with your commitment.
3: Don't Let Your Vision Of A Healthy Relationship Be Compromised
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