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    3 Reasons Why Your Partner Is Closed Off From You & 6 Steps To Steps To Opening Up

    enAugust 28, 2020

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    • Enhancing daily life with IKEA and CVS HealthIKEA offers affordable and stylish outdoor essentials for a longer summer experience while CVS Health focuses on overall wellness through healthcare, mental health support, and in-home evaluations. Embrace openness and commitment for personal growth, explore natural solutions, and appreciate the power of community and gratitude.

      Both IKEA and CVS Health offer solutions to enhance our daily lives in different ways. IKEA provides affordable and stylish outdoor essentials for a longer summer experience, making it easier for everyone to enjoy the season. On the other hand, CVS Health focuses on overall wellness through various services, including healthcare, mental health support, and in-home evaluations. Moreover, the discussion highlighted the importance of embracing openness and commitment in relationships and personal growth. Speakers shared their experiences with herbs like slippery elm bark and ginger root for digestive health and encouraged listeners to explore Nature's Way for more natural solutions. Lastly, the power of community and gratitude was emphasized through heartfelt testimonials from podcast listeners, expressing their appreciation for the show and its impact on their lives.

    • No fly zones in relationships prevent deeper commitmentAvoiding ongoing issues in relationships can lead to emotional stress and prevent authentic connections, it's important to address and work through them instead.

      No fly zones in relationships, or topics or people that lead to constant fights without resolution, can hinder deeper commitment and understanding between partners. According to marriage and family therapist Dr. John Gottman, 69% of marriage conflicts are about ongoing problems that never get resolved. These issues, which we may try to avoid to prevent fighting, can actually create emotional stress and shame, and prevent us from experiencing the deep, honest, committed relationships we desire. This concept was illustrated in the TV show "Friends," where Monica's hidden closet full of junk represented her attempt to hide imperfections. However, these hidden issues can eventually come to light and cause relationship breakdowns. To avoid this, it's important to address and work through these no fly zones, even if it means having uncomfortable conversations, in order to build stronger, more authentic relationships.

    • Recurring fights in couples: causes and solutionsCauses of recurring fights in couples include learned behavior, belief in unfixable issues, and normalizing conflict. Addressing these issues with open communication and compromise can strengthen the bond and prevent long-term damage.

      Not all disagreements between couples are "no fly zones," but some recurring issues may require more effort to resolve. While some arguments can be harmless, others may stem from deeply rooted beliefs or past experiences. According to psychologist Leon Seltzer, recurring fights in couples can be caused by learned behavior from parents, the belief that certain issues cannot be fixed, or the idea that conflict is a normal part of relationships. However, it's essential to recognize that these issues can be addressed and resolved with open communication and a willingness to compromise. No fly zones, such as arguments about deformities or finances, can cause significant friction and should be addressed to prevent long-term damage to the relationship. By acknowledging and addressing these issues, couples can strengthen their bond and build a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.

    • Understanding the root causes of conflictsRecognizing patterns of anger and defensiveness from childhood and staying calm during heated discussions can lead to effective conflict resolution and stronger relationships.

      Our upbringing and emotional vulnerabilities can contribute to recurring conflicts in our relationships. If we didn't learn effective conflict resolution skills from our parents, we may have developed patterns of anger and defensiveness as a way to protect ourselves. These patterns can manifest in various ways, such as arguments over exes or financial issues. According to Dr. Seltzer, our anger often stems from feelings of emotional threat and vulnerability. By recognizing these patterns and staying calm during heated discussions, we can improve communication and resolve conflicts more effectively. Additionally, being aware of common sources of conflict, like finances, can help us prevent unnecessary arguments and strengthen our relationships. In essence, understanding the root causes of our conflicts and approaching them from a place of calm and vulnerability can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

    • Create a home summer escape, enhance outdoor experiencesAffordable IKEA furniture, improve outdoor spaces, joy for you and loved ones, Ritual Synbiotic Plus supports gut health, alleviates bloating, Ritual mindfulness practices enhance relationships, improve communication, understanding

      Creating a summer escape at home, no matter the size of your space, can enhance your outdoor experiences and bring joy to you and your loved ones. IKEA offers affordable outdoor furniture and accessories to help you achieve this. Meanwhile, when it comes to gut health, Ritual's Synbiotic Plus supplement can support digestive health and alleviate bloating, gas, and diarrhea. Lastly, staying grounded and present through mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing and tuning into your body, can help improve communication and understanding in relationships, even when facing core ideological differences.

    • Maintaining a successful marriage despite political differencesFocus on underlying issues, use humor, respect opinions, and engage in open communication to navigate political differences in a relationship.

      Despite their significant political differences, the couple James Carville and Mary Matalin have managed to maintain a successful marriage for over 25 years by prioritizing what's important in their relationship, using humor to navigate challenging topics, and respecting each other's intellect and opinions. Carville and Matalin suggest focusing on the underlying issues and agreeing to disagree when it comes to ideological differences that aren't negatively impacting the relationship. According to marriage and family therapist John Gottman, it's essential to identify and address the deep underlying causes of "no fly zone" issues, rather than just the surface problem. To clear the air of these issues, the couple suggests finding a calm and peaceful time to discuss the issue with your partner, and ensuring that both parties are willing to engage in the conversation. Remember, it takes effort and commitment from both sides to create a space for open communication and understanding in a relationship.

    • Communication, Summer, and Self-CareCommunicate openly in relationships, enjoy summer affordably, and prioritize self-care with natural remedies and comprehensive health services.

      It's important to prioritize and communicate about the things that matter to you in a relationship, even if they may be difficult conversations. Don't create a "no fly zone" around yourself and downplay important issues out of fear. Instead, create a safe and comfortable space for open communication. Additionally, when it comes to summer, the high temperatures and prices don't have to mean a scorching price tag. With affordable outdoor furniture and accessories from IKEA, everyone can have access to a summer escape, no reservations needed. Another takeaway is the importance of self-care and wellness. Herbs, such as Ashwagandha, can provide mood and stress support, and companies like CVS Health offer a range of services to support overall health and well-being. In summary, prioritize communication in relationships, make the most of summer with affordable outdoor solutions, and prioritize self-care and wellness through natural remedies and comprehensive health services.

    • Effective communication in relationshipsApproach conflicts positively, listen actively, remember what's important, seek help if needed, and be open, honest, and vulnerable for a successful partnership. Booking.com can help create memorable experiences.

      Effective communication in relationships is essential for resolving conflicts and maintaining a healthy partnership. When approaching difficult conversations, it's important to remember that you're on the same team and frame the issue in a positive way. Listening actively to your partner is crucial, as it allows them to feel heard and understood. When emotions run high, it can be helpful to remember what's most important in your relationship and take a break if necessary. If you're having trouble resolving an issue on your own, consider seeking the help of an objective third party. Overall, the more open, honest, and vulnerable you are with each other, the greater the chances for success and happiness in your relationship. Additionally, having a trusted resource like booking.com to help plan your adventures and create memorable experiences can contribute to a strong foundation for your partnership.

    • Booking.com for travel, CVS Health for healthcareBooking.com simplifies travel planning with convenient accommodations and an easy-to-use app. CVS Health transforms healthcare with comprehensive services including virtual and in-person care, home evaluations, and mental health support through CVS Pharmacy, Oak Street Health, CVS Specialty, Signify Health, and Aetna.

      When it comes to planning your next getaway, Booking.com offers convenient accommodations and an easy-to-use app for hassle-free booking. Meanwhile, CVS Health is transforming healthcare with their comprehensive services, including virtual and in-person care, home evaluations, and mental health support. CVS Pharmacy, Oak Street Health, CVS Specialty, Signify Health, and Aetna are all part of this health revolution, offering eligibility and services that vary by location and individual. Lastly, BetterHelp provides accessible and affordable online therapy, offering a licensed therapist for everyone dealing with mental health challenges.

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    Key Takeaways:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:47 The common relationship mistakes we make
    • 03:53 Mistake #1: Being too critical to our partner
    • 07:42 Instead of criticizing, get creative in removing complaints
    • 09:42 Mistake #2: When jokes go too far
    • 14:57 Mistake #3: We become deflective, we become defensive
    • 17:35 Mistake #4: Disconnecting or becoming aloof
    • 19:41 Mistake #5: You focus on the value displayed in the moment
    • 22:13 Mistake #6: Our partners aren’t our coaches 

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    4 Biggest Arguments Couples Have and 3 Things To Do About It

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    Money. Kids. Parents. Housework. These are the pieces of everyday life that we either work with or against and sometimes it’s difficult to remember that our partner is on our team. It’s often said that practice makes perfect. But who knew that we should also be practicing how we argue with our partner?

    On this episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, Jay explains three strategies on how to conduct better arguments to find the root cause and move past conflict.

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    Episode 15: Tana Is Shaking Things up with Bella Thorne
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    119. Emotional Attractiveness in Relationships with Dr. Jamila S. Maxie

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