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    320. The secret to creating habits that last

    enMarch 28, 2024

    Podcast Summary

    • Forming new habits leads to brain changes for easier habit maintenanceForming new habits triggers long-term potentiation, strengthening neural connections and making habits easier to maintain over time

      Forming good habits leads to neuroplastic changes in the brain that make it easier to maintain those habits and improve mental health. This process, called long-term potentiation (LTP), makes it easier for the brain to focus and be productive. While the brain is always changing, these structural modifications can make initially challenging habits become easier over time. So, if you're looking to form a new habit, remember that the struggle may not last forever as your brain adapts and strengthens the neural connections associated with that habit.

    • Long-term potentiation strengthens neuronal connectionsRepeating behaviors creates stronger neural pathways through LTP, a form of neuroplasticity

      Long-term potentiation (LTP) is a long-lasting increase in synaptic efficacy resulting from high-frequency stimulation of afferent fibers. This means that the ability for neurons to communicate and produce intended results is strengthened over time through repeated firing. The brain notices patterns and strengthens the synapses between cells to improve communication and create stronger neural pathways. Habits play a crucial role in this process as repeating behaviors leads to the formation of these strengthened pathways, making the behavior easier to perform over time. LTP is a form of neuroplasticity, demonstrating the brain's ability to adapt and change in response to experiences.

    • The Power of Repetition and Brain's Ability to Learn and AdaptThrough intentional practice, our brains create strong neural pathways leading to the formation of habits. With repeated practice, these pathways become automatic, allowing for improved performance in various aspects of life.

      Our brains create strong neural pathways through repetition and learning, leading to the formation of habits. This process can be observed in various aspects of life, including driving and sports. When we first learn a new skill, our brains are highly engaged, but with repeated practice, we create neuroplastic changes that allow us to perform the skill on autopilot. This is why athletes, for instance, have specific routines before executing a move to help their brains replicate the movement more effectively. The key to creating a habit is to start with intentional practice, as this lays the foundation for the brain to take over and automate the behavior over time. Whether it's a physical habit, a procedure, a thought, a belief, or an emotion, the power of repetition and the brain's ability to learn and adapt can lead to streamlined and improved performance.

    • Be intentional and present to create new habitsIntentionality and presence help create new habits, leading to increased productivity and better mental health

      Intentionality and presence are key to creating new habits and making sustainable changes, whether it's related to physical movements or mental health routines. By being aware and intentional at the beginning, we can ensure that our brain learns the correct sequence and eventually takes over, making the habit automatic. This leads to increased productivity and less mental energy wasted on decision-making and distractions. Habits also positively impact our mental health by reducing uncertainty and providing structure to our daily lives, allowing us to focus on more enjoyable activities and reducing self-criticism.

    • Habits as a foundation for mental health and well-beingConsistent habits improve mental health, save time and energy, and provide psychological security for creativity and spontaneity.

      Developing consistent habits can significantly improve mental health and overall well-being. By making a decision once and sticking to it, we save time and energy that would be wasted on constant changes. Moreover, our brains have a need for both stability and adventure. Habits provide the stability and consistency that our minds crave, creating a sense of safety and calm. This psychological security allows us to be more creative and spontaneous in other areas of our lives. In essence, habits serve as a foundation for our daily routines, enabling us to feel grounded and confident while also allowing room for new experiences and adventures.

    • Simple ways to boost your mental healthCreate a routine, stay off devices, get outside, have a hobby, practice gratitude for affordable mental health improvements

      Taking care of your mental health doesn't always require expensive solutions. Here are five simple and cost-effective things you can try when you're feeling off: 1. Create a routine: Establishing a sequence of events can help bring a sense of calm and structure to your day. It doesn't have to be a morning routine – it could be something you do when you get home from work. 2. Stay off devices: When you're feeling down, it can be tempting to retreat into your phone or computer. But reaching out to someone for a conversation can be a powerful mood-booster. 3. Get outside and soak up some sunlight: Natural light can help improve your mood and energy levels. Try to get outside as early in the day as possible, or take a break during the day for some sunshine. 4. Have a hobby: Engaging in an activity that brings you joy and isn't related to your income can help reduce stress and improve overall well-being. 5. Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things you're grateful for can help shift your mindset and improve your mood. Try keeping a gratitude journal or sharing what you're thankful for with someone else.

    • Prioritize activities that bring joy and fulfillmentEngaging in hobbies without financial pressures promotes mental relaxation and improves mental health. Seek professional help if struggling with mental health issues.

      Having a hobby that you enjoy doing for its own sake, without the intention of turning it into a source of income, can significantly benefit your mental health. This activity can serve as a form of mental relaxation, allowing you to dive deep into it without the added pressures and stresses related to financial responsibilities. It's important to prioritize activities that bring joy and fulfillment to your life, acting as insurance for your mental well-being. If you find that you're chronically stressed or struggling with mental health issues, it's crucial to seek professional help. Remember, taking care of your mental health is essential for overall happiness and productivity. Be kind to yourself and prioritize activities that bring you joy. As the speaker emphasized, "be kind to your brain, don't take shit from anyone, and especially don't take shit from yourself."

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