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    340. 5 things to accept in your life to become happier and more in control

    enJune 25, 2024
    What are the five things to accept for happiness?
    How does awareness improve decision-making?
    Why is being present important in life?
    What role does self-care play in well-being?
    How can acceptance of impermanence lead to growth?

    Podcast Summary

    • Five things for a happier lifeAccepting awareness, making decisions that benefit you, being present, appreciation, and self-care can lead to a happier and more present life

      Becoming more self-aware and focusing on certain things can lead to a happier and more present life. The speaker suggests accepting five things: awareness, making decisions that benefit you, being present, appreciation, and self-care. Awareness helps us make better decisions and be more present. Making decisions that benefit you means focusing on what makes you happy rather than pleasing others. Being present means living in the moment and appreciating it. Lastly, self-care is essential for overall well-being. The speaker also shares a personal experience about the cold weather in Australia and discusses MSG, a flavor enhancer, and its effects on food. However, the main focus is on the five things that can lead to a happier life.

    • MSG and GlutamateMSG, a flavor enhancer derived from glutamate, is approved for consumption but may cause symptoms known as MSG symptom complex in some people. The link between these symptoms and MSG is not definitively established through scientific research.

      L-glutamic acid, also known as glutamine, is a naturally occurring non-essential amino acid that can be found in various foods such as meat, fish, seaweed, Parmesan cheese, vegetables, and nuts. The body produces it, so it's not necessary to obtain it through dietary sources under normal conditions. However, under certain circumstances, it may become conditionally essential. MSG, a flavor enhancer made by fermenting carbohydrate sources, is a form of glutamate. While MSG is approved as safe for consumption in many countries, some people report experiencing symptoms known as MSG symptom complex after consuming it, including headaches, sweating, face tightness or pressure, numbing or tingling on the face, flushed face, nausea, weakness, and chest pains. However, the link between these symptoms and MSG consumption is not definitively established through scientific research. Many studies claiming dangerous effects of MSG have significant flaws and cannot be directly translated into human trials based on dietary intake.

    • MSG and humansPreclinical studies on MSG and human safety are misleading as they don't accurately represent human consumption and don't prove harm to humans.

      The claims about monosodium glutamate (MSG) being harmful to humans based on preclinical studies are misleading. MSG is often tested in petri dishes and on animals, not on humans. The way it is administered to animals, through injections of high doses, is vastly different from how humans consume it, through food. The dose makes the poison, and MSG, in small doses, is generally considered safe for most people. Studies showing MSG causing cellular inflammation or brain injury are preclinical and do not prove that MSG consumption is harmful to humans. Controlled intervention studies have shown no association between MSG consumption and weight gain. MSG is metabolically compartmentalised and primarily stays within the gut when consumed, and does not passively cross biological membranes or penetrate the blood-brain barrier. Therefore, it does not raise brain glutamate concentration and disrupt brain function. In summary, the safety and effects of MSG on humans are not accurately represented by preclinical studies and should be taken with a grain of salt.

    • Acceptance of othersWe cannot change others, focusing on controlling our own actions and accepting their unique perspectives leads to greater inner peace and happiness.

      We cannot change other people, no matter how hard we try. MSG consumption in normal amounts does not significantly alter brain chemistry. Instead, focusing on controlling our own actions and accepting the fact that others have their own unique perspectives and experiences can lead to greater inner peace and happiness. By letting go of the desire to change others, we can free ourselves from the emotional burden and distress that comes with trying to control their actions or behaviors. This acceptance is a powerful realization, as it shifts the focus back to our own actions and the things within our control.

    • Accepting PainAccepting pain is essential for growth, while avoiding it leads to suffering. Pain is a natural part of life and serves as a great teacher, helping us learn important lessons and adapt.

      Pain is an inevitable part of life, but suffering is a choice. While it's natural to want others to grow at the same pace as us, we cannot force it. Instead, we should accept and learn from painful experiences rather than avoiding them, as avoiding pain leads to suffering. Pain serves as a great teacher, helping us learn important lessons and adapt. For instance, heartbreak can lead to growth if we allow ourselves to feel the emotions and learn from the experience. Similarly, avoiding the pain of trying new things or taking risks can lead to a life filled with regrets and "what ifs." Embrace pain when it comes, and use it as an opportunity for growth. Life is a constant contrast of light and dark, and sadness is a natural part of it.

    • Contrasts and failuresExperiencing contrasts and failures can help us appreciate the good things and teach us valuable lessons. Strive for clear communication but accept misunderstanding as normal. Everyone has unique perspectives.

      Experiencing contrasts and failures in life can help us appreciate the good things and teach us valuable lessons. We should strive to be good communicators and seek to understand others, but accept that misunderstanding is a normal part of life. It's important not to let the need for understanding hold us back from pursuing our goals. Instead, we should focus on doing our best to communicate clearly and then let go of the need for others to fully understand us. Remember, everyone has unique perspectives shaped by their own experiences, and it's okay if not everyone sees things the same way we do.

    • Impermanence and misunderstandingAccept that misunderstandings and the impermanence of relationships and experiences are part of life, and learn to relish the present and approach challenges with resilience and appreciation

      We cannot control how others understand us or the transience of our experiences. It's essential to accept that we will be misunderstood and that nothing lasts, whether it's a friendship, a good moment, or a challenging situation. By recognizing this, we can relish the present and approach life with resilience and appreciation. We should not take things for granted or let misunderstandings or temporary hardships define us. Instead, we can learn and grow from them, knowing that they are temporary and that new experiences will come. Ultimately, living a fulfilling life is about embracing the present and being aware that everything, including our relationships and experiences, is subject to change.

    • Accepting realities for personal growthAccepting truths like controlling actions, learning from pain, focusing on present, dealing with misunderstandings, and accepting impermanence can lead to positive personal growth and improved relationships.

      Embracing the impermanence of life and accepting certain realities can lead to personal growth and improved relationships. Here are five things to genuinely accept: 1) You can only control your actions, not others. 2) Pain is a teacher and a catalyst for self-discovery. 3) You are mortal, so focus on the present and what can be appreciated. 4) Being misunderstood is inevitable, don't let it hold you back. 5) The good and the bad, nothing lasts. By regularly reminding yourself of these truths, you can positively influence your behavior, decision-making, and interactions with others. Take time each day to reflect on these ideas and let them become a constant within your subconscious mind. Thank you for listening and remember, be kind to yourself and your brain.

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