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    6 Reasons We Fall Out of Love & 6 Changes We Can Make to Keep It Flourishing

    enMay 06, 2022

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    • Understanding and Growing in LoveEffective communication, continuous learning, and growth are essential for maintaining love and preventing falling out of it.

      Falling in love and falling out of love can happen unconsciously, but we have the power to consciously choose to rise in love and keep it growing. Communication issues are a common reason for breakups, and not addressing important matters can lead to the end of relationships. A key factor in falling out of love is the lack of new learning and discovery in a relationship. We often assume we know our partners and expect them to understand us, but continuous learning and growth are essential for maintaining love. By focusing on the subtle in-betweens and making a conscious effort to learn and grow together, we can prevent falling out of love and strengthen our relationships.

    • Continuously learn new things and engage in meaningful conversations to keep relationships fresh and deepening.Actively seek out new experiences and conversations to maintain relationship freshness and deepen connections, prioritize meaningful talks over small talk.

      To keep a relationship fresh and deepening, it's essential to continuously learn new things about each other and engage in meaningful conversations. When we stop expecting that we already know everything about our partner and that they know everything about us, we open the door for new experiences and deeper connections. The start of a relationship is filled with newness, but as time passes, we can maintain this freshness by actively seeking out new experiences and conversations. Research suggests that the happiest couples only spend a small percentage of their communication on small talk and daily tasks, while the unhappiest couples spend a significant amount of time on shallow topics. Therefore, prioritizing meaningful conversations and experiences can significantly contribute to building a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship.

    • Exploring past, present, and future in relationshipsAsking questions about childhood, present, and future can deepen connections in relationships beyond logistical conversations.

      Maintaining a meaningful connection in a relationship goes beyond logistical conversations and requires intentional effort to discuss the past, present, and future. While functional discussions are necessary, they form a baseline for deeper, more intimate conversations. Questions about childhood, the present, and the future can help foster growth and deeper bonds. It's important to remember that love, like everything else, requires maintenance and consistent effort. The speaker encourages couples to ask questions that allow them to learn more about each other and create deeper connections. For example, discussing favorite family members from childhood, reasons for wanting to be a parent, and current love languages can lead to meaningful conversations. By focusing on these aspects of each other's lives, couples can continue to grow and build their relationship.

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    • Transforming arguments into productive debatesWait 90 seconds before reacting emotionally, clarify the issue, and choose a neutral and convenient time and place for the discussion to turn disagreements into productive debates

      Effective communication and handling arguments in relationships is crucial to prevent falling out of love. The speaker suggests implementing a system for dealing with disagreements, turning arguments into productive debates. This system includes the 90-second rule, identifying the root cause of the argument, and setting a specific time and place for the discussion. By waiting 90 seconds before reacting emotionally, clarifying the issue at hand, and ensuring a neutral and convenient environment, arguments can become focused and productive, leading to better understanding and resolution.

    • Focus on shared goals and common groundEffective communication involves finding shared goals, choosing the right time and place to discuss issues, and explaining underlying reasons. Emotional availability is crucial, and couples should make time for emotionally open communication and divide household responsibilities fairly.

      Effective communication is key to avoiding conflicts and deepening connections in relationships. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry's quote, "love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction," emphasizes the importance of finding common ground and focusing on shared goals. When arguing or debating, it's essential to choose the right time and place, clearly communicate the issue at hand, and explain the underlying reasons for bringing it up. The 4th reason relationships fail, according to the John Gottman Institute, is the lack of emotional availability. To prevent this, couples should make a conscious effort to set aside time each week for emotionally available communication. Additionally, dividing household chores and responsibilities fairly and addressing important issues for your partner are crucial in maintaining a healthy and loving relationship.

    • Addressing uncomfortable conversations in relationshipsOpen, honest dialogue can lead to growth and deeper connections, even in challenging conversations. Personal growth through podcasts and comprehensive healthcare services from CVS Health were also emphasized.

      Avoiding uncomfortable conversations in relationships can lead to disconnection and potential dissolution. It's essential to address the "elephant in the room" and engage in open, honest dialogue, even when topics are challenging. This approach can lead to growth, learning, and a deeper connection. Additionally, the power of inspiration and personal growth through podcasts was highlighted in the discussion. Individuals shared how they've found motivation and transformation by listening to podcasts, leading to positive changes in their lives. Lastly, the importance of planning and preparation for unforgettable experiences was emphasized, with booking.com being a go-to resource for accommodations that cater to various preferences. Furthermore, the role of CVS Health in offering comprehensive healthcare services and resources was highlighted. Overall, the conversation touched on the importance of communication, personal growth, and planning for memorable experiences.

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    Failure & Self Love w/ Nikki REPLAY

    Hello Worthy Warriors! Welcome back to the Worthiness Mindset Podcast! This week, we have replay of an episode with Nikki Bannister, Nikki talks about dropping the ball or falling short in her world. She highlights failures that impact others, and how she navigates letting someone else down. She also shares how she’s allowed failure to not shake her to her core. 

    With this series I'll be interviewing people who have experienced failure, and found ways to love themselves anyway. Included will be a profound movement to write ourselves a love letter. This project has been on hold through some of my failure, and now I'll be compiling a book of love letters from people loving themselves through the unsuccessful. 

    Thank you for joining me this week, and please make sure to subscribe where you listen to podcasts.

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    Chuck Wisner - Conscious Conversations: The Key to Deepening Relationships & Fostering Understanding | STM Podcast #168

    Chuck Wisner - Conscious Conversations: The Key to Deepening Relationships & Fostering Understanding | STM Podcast #168

    On episode 168, we welcome Chuck Wisner to discuss the importance of conscious conversations in building deeper connections and understanding between people, the role of active listening in conscious conversations, how it can transform our relationships and interactions, strategies for cultivating empathy and compassion during conversations, why these qualities are essential for effective communication, how ego and internal storytelling disrupt relationships, how practicing mindfulness can improve our ability to communicate with others, the ways in which conscious conversations can be used to address difficult topics, examples of conscious conversations in action, creativity from collaboration and why it shouldn’t matter who gets credit, practical tips and exercises for developing the skills and habits needed for conscious conversations, how readers can apply these strategies in their daily lives, and what Chuck learned from meeting the Dalai Lama.

    Chuck Wisner is president of Wisner Consulting. His client list includes companies such as Google, Rivian, Apple, Tesla, Harvard Business School, Ford, and Chrysler. Wisner was a senior affiliated mediator with the Harvard Mediation Program and was among the first to be certified through the Mastering the Art of Professional Coaching program at the Newfield Institute. He was also a specialist in organizational learning and leadership as an affiliate with MIT’s Center for Organizational Learning. His new book, available now, is called The Art of Conscious Conversations: Transforming How We Talk, Listen, and Interact.

     

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