Logo
    Search

    627. Q&AF Ft. Matt Graham & Will Grumke: Inspiring Family, Money Beliefs & Daily Routines

    enJanuary 08, 2024

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring Real-Life Stories and Practical Advice on Mental ToughnessListeners can enjoy a mix of Q&A episodes, interviews, and show formats while gaining insights into mental toughness through the 75 hard program and other topics on the 'Real AF' podcast.

      The "Real AF" podcast, hosted by Andy For Sella, offers a variety of content beyond just answering questions. The show includes topics discussed on Cruise the Internet, interviews with individuals who have completed the 75 hard mental transformation program, and a request for listeners to share the show instead of dealing with ads. The podcast aims to provide real, practical information and promote mental toughness, with the initial phase being the 75 hard program. Listeners can submit questions for Q&A episodes or tune in for the other show formats. The podcast is ad-free, so listeners are asked to share the show instead.

    • Connecting with challenge partners for accountabilityThe 75 Hard app offers personalized support and a strong community aspect, including challenge partners for accountability, setting it apart from other fitness apps.

      The 75 Hard app is not only used for tracking nutrition during the popular fitness challenge, but it also offers a strong community aspect. This year, the app introduces challenge partners, allowing individuals to pair up and hold each other accountable. The app sets itself apart from other fitness apps by providing personalized support from certified trainers and dietitians, ensuring a holistic approach to fitness. The community aspect and added accountability through challenge partners have led to increased excitement and engagement within the app.

    • The power of human connection in personal developmentReal human coaches provide valuable guidance and support during personal transformation, making a significant difference in the journey.

      While technology and education are important, the human connection and experience are crucial in personal development. The speaker, who runs an app that provides access to certified human coaches, emphasizes the importance of real people guiding users through their transformation journey. The shared experiences and ongoing support from coaches make a significant difference, especially when individuals face challenges. The speaker acknowledges the difficulty of inspiring others to change and encourages persistence, emphasizing that personal development is a continuous process. The human connection and support system can be a powerful catalyst for positive change.

    • People must hit their own rock bottom to truly changeSupport loved ones, but ultimately, they must experience their own come-to-Jesus moment for lasting change. Communicate, set boundaries, and redefine family to protect your well-being.

      While it's important to be supportive and extend help to loved ones, ultimately, people must hit their own rock bottom and experience their own come-to-Jesus moment before they can truly change. It's not always simple or easy to navigate, especially within a family setting. Communication, setting boundaries, and redefining what family means to us are crucial steps in protecting our own well-being. If all efforts to help have been exhausted, it may be necessary to remove oneself from the situation and invest energy in more positive pursuits. The decision ultimately depends on the specific circumstances and the individual's feelings.

    • Recognize and Address Manipulative SituationsSetting boundaries and allowing individuals to face consequences can foster personal growth and self-sufficiency, while recognizing manipulative situations can prevent harm to relationships.

      Enabling behavior towards individuals who exploit your kindness and resources can hinder your personal growth and relationships. It's essential to recognize manipulative situations and establish boundaries. People who rely excessively on others' support, especially when they're capable of contributing themselves, may be exploiting the situation. This can lead to missed opportunities and potential harm to relationships. Encouraging individuals to face the consequences of their actions, even if difficult, can ultimately lead to their growth and self-sufficiency. Personal experiences and the concept of karma further emphasize the importance of allowing individuals to learn from their mistakes.

    • Recognizing when to let goPrioritize resources on those who are willing and able to progress, rather than investing in those who refuse to take responsibility for their own growth.

      It's important to recognize when you're holding someone back, whether in a personal relationship or a professional one. When someone refuses to take responsibility for their own growth or improvement, it can be tempting to continue investing energy into them out of care or affection. However, this can ultimately hinder your own ability to help others who are willing and able to progress. Reframing the situation as one where you're failing the team or the people who are eager to succeed, rather than just the individual, can help prioritize your resources and focus on those who are most receptive to growth. Additionally, it's important to consider whether the person in question is experiencing personal issues or if they've simply reached a point where they're no longer a good fit for the situation. If the latter is the case, it may be necessary to acknowledge that they've failed the collective, even if it's a difficult decision.

    • The importance of cutting ties with toxic people and holding onto financial freedomCutting ties with toxic people is essential for personal growth, and having financial freedom offers opportunities and freedom. Winners never regret having wealth, and the pursuit of financial freedom is a responsibility to oneself and family.

      Cutting ties with toxic people is crucial for personal growth, and it's important to uphold those decisions for a long time until there's an undeniable change. Regarding money, having it provides options and freedom, and it's not about loving money for its own sake but about the opportunities it brings. Winners never regret having wealth, and the pursuit of financial freedom is a responsibility to oneself and one's family. Remember, having money comes from trading it for real value, and the idea of getting it immorally only applies to the elite few.

    • Operating with a high moral standard for financial successFocus on providing value and using financial resources to make a positive impact on the world

      For financial success, it's essential to operate with a high moral standard in business by providing more value than perceived. Money is a valuable tool for a higher quality of life, not the end goal. People who criticize those who seek financial success often have not achieved it themselves and are envious. It's important to consider the source of information and understand that those who have the means to help more people through their resources are in a better position to make a difference. In today's cultural environment, it's crucial to recognize the value of money and not buy into the notion that seeking financial success is a negative trait. Instead, focus on providing value and using financial resources to make a positive impact on the world.

    • Money as a tool for positivity and progressEmbrace money as a tool for good, use it ethically to make a positive impact, and strive to accumulate wealth to help others and ensure security

      Money is not something to be hated or envied, but rather seen as a tool for positivity and progress. Money can serve as a measure of one's effectiveness as a human being and the amount of good one can do in the world. Hating those who have it may result in receiving less of it, while embracing it and using it for good can lead to making a difference. Money and power are similar in that they are amoral tools, and it is up to the individual to use them ethically. As a responsible and good person, one should strive to accumulate wealth in order to make a positive impact on the world. Money also provides options and security, allowing individuals to prevent hardships and help loved ones in need.

    • Securing a Comfortable FutureTo secure a happy and successful long-term future, aim to earn ten times the amount needed, considering inflation and lifestyle costs.

      Having enough money is essential for protecting and providing for our loved ones and ensuring a comfortable future. It's important to consider both the preventative aspects of having a financial safety net and the actual cost of the lifestyle we desire. To achieve our financial goals, we should aim to earn ten times the amount we believe we need, taking into account inflation and the devaluation of money over time. Only by setting ambitious financial targets and working diligently to reach them can we secure a happy and successful long-term future.

    • Use procrastination as a trigger for actionInstead of giving in to inner voices to delay tasks, use them as triggers to take action immediately and build mental toughness and discipline

      To overcome procrastination and ensure swift execution in daily routines, it's essential to train yourself to use the very voice of procrastination as a trigger for productive action. This requires building mental toughness and discipline. When you hear the inner voice telling you to take it easy or put off a task, instead of giving in, you should use it as an indicator to spring into action right then and there. By harnessing negative thoughts and emotions and flipping them into productive action, you become an unstoppable human who operates on a different level than most. Daily reflection at the end of the day can also help strengthen this skill by reflecting on what you did, what you could have improved, and what you will do better tomorrow.

    • Reflect daily to beat procrastinationDaily reflection and self-awareness help overcome procrastination by promoting progress towards personal goals and reducing anxiety. Create a to-do list to prioritize tasks and tackle them proactively.

      Daily reflection and self-awareness are key to overcoming procrastination. By asking oneself if they're proud of their actions each day and working to make progress towards personal goals, individuals can stimulate the action they need to break the cycle of procrastination. Understanding the consequences of procrastination, such as lost productivity and enjoyment, can also serve as motivation. To put this into practice, create a list of tasks to be completed the night before, and tackle them in order of preference. By doing so, one can experience the freedom that comes from discipline and accomplishment. Anxiety often stems from knowing we're supposed to be doing something and not doing it, so taking action is the most effective way to alleviate it.

    • Identifying the root causes of negative emotionsInstead of trying to eliminate negative emotions entirely, focus on identifying their root causes and addressing them directly to reduce their intensity and improve overall well-being

      Trying to eliminate stress, anxiety, and other negative emotions entirely is an impossible and frustrating goal. These emotions are natural parts of the human experience, and focusing too much on eliminating them can lead to disappointment, aggravation, and even a false sense of being broken. Instead, it's essential to identify the root causes of these emotions and address them directly. By asking ourselves why we're feeling anxious, frustrated, or angry, and then taking action to address those underlying issues, we can reduce the intensity of these emotions and improve our overall well-being. It's important to remember that we cannot eliminate all negative emotions, but we can learn to manage them effectively.

    Recent Episodes from REAL AF with Andy Frisella

    734. Andy, Tim Young & DJ CTI: Supreme Court Dismisses Social Media Censorship Case, Congressional Report Shows Interference & Brutal Killing Of Jocelyn Nungaray

    734. Andy, Tim Young & DJ CTI: Supreme Court Dismisses Social Media Censorship Case, Congressional Report Shows Interference & Brutal Killing Of Jocelyn Nungaray

    In today's episode, Andy and DJ are joined in the studio by comedian Tim Young. They discuss the Supreme Court's dismissal of the Social Media Censorship case, the congressional report that showed interference in 2020, and what we know about the 2 Venezuelan men accused of killing 12-year-old Jocelyn Nungaray.

    732. Andy, Vaughn Kohler & DJ CTI: Trump-Biden Debates, Julian Assange Avoids Setting Foot On US Mainland & Alex Jones' Bankruptcy

    732. Andy, Vaughn Kohler & DJ CTI: Trump-Biden Debates, Julian Assange Avoids Setting Foot On US Mainland & Alex Jones' Bankruptcy

    In today's episode, Andy & DJ are joined in the studio by the translucent Pastor of Disaster, Vaughn Kohler. They discuss the upcoming Trump and Biden debates, Julian Assange dropping $500k for a flight to a remote island to avoid setting foot on the US mainland, and a bankruptcy court trustee filing a motion to liquidate Alex Jones' Infowars.

    726. Andy & DJ CTI: GOP Calls Out 51 Intel Officials Over Hunter Laptop, Biden And Zelensky To Ink 10-Year Deal For U.S. Military Support & Spokane Pride Crosswalk Vandalized

    726. Andy & DJ CTI: GOP Calls Out 51 Intel Officials Over Hunter Laptop, Biden And Zelensky To Ink 10-Year Deal For U.S. Military Support & Spokane Pride Crosswalk Vandalized

    In today's episode, Andy & DJ discuss the GOP calling out 51 intel officials over Hunter Biden's laptop, President Biden and Zelensky to ink a 10-year deal for U.S. military support for Ukraine, and Spokane pride's crosswalk being vandalized days after teens were charged with felonies for leaving scooter skid marks on the rainbow pavement.

    Related Episodes

    113. #75HARD vs Lexi Tejcek

    113. #75HARD vs Lexi Tejcek

    How many times are you going to tell yourself you're going to start tomorrow? On today's episode, Andy is joined by Lexi Tejcek to discuss the transformative qualities of the #75HARD program, how daily actions compound to produce a massive change in your life and why having mental toughness is crucial to your success in life.

    LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

    Don't Be Confused: What Success and Happiness Can Look Like For You

    Don't Be Confused: What Success and Happiness Can Look Like For You

    Today's episode of the GaryVee Audio Experience is a segment from a throwback keynote I gave in Jakarta, Indonesia a few years ago. So many people are confused on the opportunities that they have right at their finger tips. Modern day technology has allowed you to take anything that makes you happy into a career. Our careers are no longer held back by the constraints that our grandparents faced, don't be scared to lose, don't deviate away from your passion, don't just wish... just do.


    Enjoy! Let me know what you thought!


    Check out my new NFT project: veefriends.com

    Join the VeeFriends Discord: https://discord.gg/veefriends


    Tweet Me! @garyvee

    Text Me! 212-931-5731

    My Newsletter: garyvee.com/newsletter

    --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/garyvee/message

    #123 - Sobriety 101 - Why Sobriety?

    #123 - Sobriety 101 - Why Sobriety?
    Jonny & Yusef from PropaneFitness join me for a new series. Over the last 3 years I've spent more than 24 months sober. Choosing to not drink when you don't have an alcohol problem is a lifestyle change many people don't understand, so today we're breaking it all down. And talking about a lot of times we got far too drunk. Extra Stuff: Check out the 6 Months Sober Course - https://6monthssober.com/podcast Check out everything I recommend from books to products and help support the podcast at no extra cost to you by shopping through this link - https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    At Ease Mindfulness Framework

    At Ease Mindfulness Framework

    To honor Mental Health Awareness Month, I'll be sharing different insights and approaches to help you cultivate greater mental and emotional awareness. Because it's not what we think and feel that's necessarily troublesome, it's how we relate to what we think and feel.

    In this week's episode I talk about the importance of incorporating mindfulness into our day-to-day life, and offer you a framework to practice bringing a conscious awareness to your experience. And if you want to learn more about this model and how to integrate mindfulness into your life, sign up to receive the six-day At Ease: Mobilizing Mindfulness mini-course for FREE!

    • Awareness of mind/body/breath.
    • Trust in my effort and the practice.
    • Explore thoughts and feelings nonjudgmentally
    • Accept what is in the here and now.
    • Stillness over striving to be elsewhere.
    • Evaluate the present experience with a beginner’s mind.

    Looking to further your mindfulness practice? Check out the Mental Events mindfulness journal. It’s dedicated to examining the workability of the mind’s proposed solutions to problems, and offers an opportunity to step back from giving over your life to negative thoughts.

    .

    Watch this video to learn more about Mental Events Therapy.

    Watch this video to learn more about the benefits of online therapy with Mental Events.

    .

    As always, we’d like to hear from you. Send your questions via email - hello@mentalevents.com. Connect with Mental Events on social media and share your comments about the show on Instagram @mentalevents, and on Facebook @mentaleventstherapy.