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    64. Why You Aren't Achieving Things (Let's Get Spiritual)

    en-usFebruary 19, 2023
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    • Understanding the importance of dedication and commitment to achieve desiresDedication, effort, and a clear path towards realization are necessary to achieve desires, not just thinking about them

      Having desires is not a bad thing, but it's important to understand that there must be a way to achieve them. Feeling discouraged when thinking about a desired goal is common, but it's crucial to commit to finding the way to get there. Merely thinking about something and expecting it to manifest is not enough. O'Reilly and Grainger emphasize the importance of expertise, training, and commitment to help individuals get the parts they need and keep their operations running smoothly. Similarly, achieving desires requires dedication, effort, and a clear path towards realization. Don't let discouragement hold you back – keep searching for the way to get to what you want and trust that it's possible.

    • Manifestation through actionManifestation isn't just about wishing or praying, it's about taking action and using your energy and resources to create what you desire.

      Manifestation requires action and effort, not just passive wishing or prayer. The speaker shares their experience of trying to manifest things through declaring desires and visualization, but realizing that true power comes from actively creating and using one's energy and resources. They encourage everyone to recognize their ability to manifest their desires by taking action and using their energy, rather than relying on external forces like the universe or God. The speaker also shares the inspiring story of a quadriplegic software engineer who used his remaining abilities to create and manifest success in his life, demonstrating that there are no excuses for not taking action towards one's goals.

    • Unlocking our full potentialFocus on abilities, take action towards desires, stop being entitled, put in effort and energy to make goals a reality, shift focus from limitations to abilities

      We all have the power to create and manifest more than we give ourselves credit for. Instead of focusing on our limitations, we should focus on our abilities and take action towards our desires. The speaker shares her personal experience of overcoming depression and inspires us to recognize our own capacity to make things happen. She encourages us to stop being entitled and passive, and instead, put in the effort and energy to make our goals a reality. By shifting our focus from what we can't do to what we can, we can unlock our full potential and manifest our deepest desires.

    • Take Action Towards Your DesiresAssess your actions daily and make changes to align with your desires. Don't just wish for things, take steps towards them.

      To achieve your desires, you must take action and make a plan. It's not enough to just say you want something; you need to take steps towards it every day. Even if you don't know the exact actions to take, start moving forward and new opportunities and ideas will come to you. Assess your actions regularly to ensure they align with your desires. Leo's example was wanting financial abundance but not taking any action towards it. He realized he needed to learn about money and apply that knowledge. The key is to not only learn but also take action. Inventory your life and assess if your actions match your desires. If not, make a change and start moving forward.

    • Take Action Towards Your GoalsFocus on taking steps towards your financial goals, even if they don't make sense at first. Stay focused and remember, the importance of initial actions will become clear in retrospect.

      Action is key to achieving financial freedom. It's important to assess what you're doing towards your goals and focus on taking steps, even if they don't make sense at first. You don't have to know the entire plan, but staying focused and moving forward will help you realize the importance of those initial steps in retrospect. Don't let excuses or fairness hold you back. Instead, put in the effort and be realistic about your actions. Remember, if you want something, you need to do something about it. The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking action, no matter how small, and staying focused on your goals.

    • Assessing and Adjusting Your ActionsTo reach your goals, regularly evaluate your actions and make necessary adjustments to align with your objectives. Contradictory actions can hinder progress.

      It's essential to assess and reassess your actions to achieve your goals. The speaker shares her experience of feeling overwhelmed with only sending 50 emails a day and realizing that she needed to increase her efforts to see results. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of aligning your actions with your goals, as contradicting actions can hinder progress. For instance, if you want to save money but continue spending excessively, you're sabotaging yourself. The speaker encourages individuals to look for ways to take control and make changes in their actions to move closer to their desired outcomes.

    • Perceiving Sacrifices as GainsSacrifices are inevitable, but our perspective can influence emotions. Focus on gains instead of losses, commit to decisions, set boundaries, and stay accountable to goals.

      Sacrifices are an inevitable part of life, but the way we perceive them can greatly impact our emotions. We can choose to view sacrifices as negative losses or positive gains. Making a trade-off between current pleasures and future goals is a common sacrifice, but it's essential to commit to the decision and set clear boundaries. Focusing on what we're gaining instead of what we're losing can help us feel better about the sacrifices we make. Accountability to our goals is crucial when making decisions, and choosing the option that aligns with our objectives can help us move closer to our desired outcomes.

    • Focusing on gains instead of lossesWhen faced with challenges, focus on gains and recommit to goals for universe to help manifest desired reality

      Focusing on what you're gaining instead of what you're losing can make sacrifices feel good. When faced with challenges or setbacks, it's important to recommit and keep putting energy into your goals. The universe will respond and help you manifest what you desire, but you have to take action and commit to making it happen. The speaker's experience of transitioning from an audio podcast to a video podcast on YouTube is a prime example of this. Despite numerous obstacles and setbacks, they kept recommitting and eventually made it work. Remember, the universe won't do the work for you, but it will help you co-create your desired reality.

    • Staying committed and persistent leads to growth and successDespite obstacles and setbacks, never giving up can lead to confidence, control, happiness, and future success

      No matter how many obstacles or setbacks you face, staying committed and persistent can lead to growth, fulfillment, and ultimately, success. The speaker's personal experiences with recording podcasts and moving to a new city illustrate this idea. Although they encountered numerous challenges and felt like they were being punished, they refused to give up and instead recommitted themselves to their goals. By doing so, they gained confidence, control, and a sense of happiness. So, when faced with adversity, remember that it may be preparing you for future challenges and helping you grow into the person you need to be. Keep pushing forward, and trust that the effort will pay off in the end.

    • Take action to make progressVisualization and desire are important, but taking active steps and putting in the work is essential for achieving your goals.

      Action is essential for achieving your goals, whether it's building muscle or growing on social media. Visualization and desire are important, but they're not enough on their own. To make progress, you need to take active steps and put in the work. This means lifting weights, eating right, posting consistently on social media, reaching out to podcast hosts, and even creating your own app if that's what you want to do. The universe won't bring opportunities to you if you're not taking action and making yourself a viable candidate. So don't wait for things to happen to you – take the empowered approach and make them happen instead.

    • Stay open to synchronicities and signsTrust the process and stay committed to goals despite challenges. Synchronicities can provide valuable reassurance and encouragement.

      When faced with challenges in pursuing a goal, it's essential to stay open to signs and synchronicities that may guide you forward. The speaker shared their personal experience of developing an app, encountering numerous obstacles, but ultimately receiving unexpected support and validation from unexpected sources. These signs, such as repeating numbers or coincidental encounters, can serve as reassurance and motivation to continue despite doubts or difficulties. The universe, or a higher power, may be communicating support and encouragement through these synchronicities. The speaker's story is a reminder to trust the process and stay committed to your goals, even when faced with challenges. Synchronicities may not always be apparent, but they can provide valuable reassurance and encouragement when needed.

    • Stay committed to your goalsCommitted efforts lead to goal achievement despite challenges, try something else if obstructed, and believe in your ability to overcome obstacles

      Commitment to a goal, no matter how difficult or dark the journey may get, is crucial for achieving it. The speaker emphasizes that if something prevents you from recommitting to your goal, then perhaps you don't truly want it enough. They encourage trying something else if you encounter obstacles and to keep moving forward with unwavering commitment. This forward-moving creative energy can manifest your desires. The speaker also encourages leaving feedback and connecting on social media for further interaction. Overall, the message is to stay committed to your goals, face challenges head-on, and believe in your ability to overcome obstacles.

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