Podcast Summary
Effective communication with influencers: Quickly and respectfully express outcomes, ask thoughtful questions, and demonstrate genuine interest to build relationships with influencers.
Making connections with influential people requires concise, clear, and respectful communication. When reaching out to influencers, be quick and to the point, clearly stating the outcome of your communication, whether it's expressing gratitude or making a request. Additionally, ask thoughtful and insightful questions to engage the influencer and demonstrate your genuine interest in their expertise. Tim Ferriss, for example, learned this lesson when he asked an influencer how they became successful, leading to a valuable conversation and potential mentorship opportunity. By following these guidelines, you increase your chances of getting a response and potentially building a meaningful relationship with the influencer.
Asking valuable and innovative questions: To engage with influencers or experts, ask specific, valuable, and innovative questions that offer value and respect their time.
When trying to engage with influencers or industry experts, it's important to ask specific, valuable, and innovative questions that stand out. Apologizing excessively and wasting their time with irrelevant messages or requests will not grab their attention. Be respectful of their time and communication channels by getting straight to the point and offering value where possible. Remember, they are likely receiving a high volume of messages, so make yours count. Specific, thoughtful, and unique inquiries are more likely to spark a response and build a meaningful connection.
Communicating with Influential People: When communicating with influential people, be respectful of their time, build rapport, and focus on long-term relationships instead of immediate gains.
When communicating with influential people, it's important to be respectful of their time and priorities. Don't abuse the communication channel or privilege once you've gained access to it. Keep your messages short, sharp, and to the point. Building rapport by commenting on shared interests can also help. Remember, they have many priorities, so be patient and play the long game. Instead of gushing or trying to get what you want right away, focus on building a genuine relationship. Showing gratitude is important, but avoid excessive praise. These initial communications could lead to friendships, partnerships, and joint ventures in the future. So, approach it as a high-level strategy and play the long game.
Focus on building trust and rapport before making big requests: Build relationships by selling one thing at a time, clarifying intentions, and being clear and concise in messaging. Avoid asking for too much too soon.
Effective communication in relationships, whether personal or professional, requires a thoughtful and deliberate approach. Don't rush into asking for big commitments or requests before building trust and rapport. Instead, focus on selling one thing at a time and clarifying the initial question or intention. Be clear and concise in your messaging to make it easier for the other person to respond. Avoid asking for too much too soon and prioritize building the relationship first. Remember, the goal is to get to the next level of communication, not to rush through it. As the speaker mentioned, he's learned this lesson through his experiences and wants to share it to help others in their own communication efforts. By following these guidelines, you can increase your chances of getting a positive response and building a strong, meaningful connection.
Effective communication is crucial when building relationships with successful leaders: Make messages clear and succinct, create a win-win situation, and continuously strive to meet and learn from new and inspiring individuals for personal and professional growth
Effective communication is key when building relationships with successful leaders, influencers, and experts. Avoid lengthy back stories and irrelevant points, and make your messages clear and succinct. By doing so, you create a win-win situation where both parties benefit from the exchange. Meeting and learning from successful individuals is a sign of personal growth, and these relationships can be both personally fulfilling and professionally advantageous. Remember, successful people are often eager to help and share their knowledge, so make it easy for them to respond and engage with you. Building a network of influential connections is an ongoing process, and it's essential to continuously strive to meet and learn from new and inspiring individuals. As Jim Rohn once said, "Money isn't everything, but it's right up there with oxygen." These relationships can provide valuable insights, opportunities, and inspiration, helping you grow both personally and professionally.
Lessons from a top influencer and a valuable mentor: Successful individuals value clear communication and respect their time. Show respect by keeping interactions professional and offering value.
Successful individuals have limited time and require clear, concise questions and communication. I learned this from an experience with a top influencer who interrupted frequently due to numerous distractions and the need to make quick decisions. This experience also reminded me of a valuable mentor I met early in my career, James Khan. Our initial meeting was memorable, but I made an awkward mistake by showing my excitement too openly. To build relationships with mentors and gurus, keep interactions professional, offer value, and be respectful of their time. Joining the Disruptive Entrepreneurs community on Facebook is a free opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals and gain access to exclusive content and opportunities.
Embrace continuous learning and disruption: Stay open-minded, curious, and willing to challenge the status quo to unlock new opportunities and make a positive impact.
Continuous learning and disruption are essential for growth and success. It's important to come forward with your ideas and perspectives, as they can contribute to new innovations and improvements. However, it's also crucial to be willing to take risks, as the potential rewards can far outweigh the potential downsides. By staying open-minded, curious, and willing to challenge the status quo, we can unlock new opportunities and make a positive impact in our personal and professional lives. Remember, if you don't risk anything, you risk everything. So keep learning, keep disrupting, and never stop pushing yourself to grow.
