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    Cheryl Burke on the Money Trail of "Dancing with the Stars" and Mental Health in the Dance Community

    enMarch 03, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring new ways to monetize your assetsConsider becoming an Airbnb host or exploring other opportunities for monetizing your assets. Trust in the process of personal growth and embrace change.

      Finding creative ways to monetize what you already have can be an effective and low-risk side hustle. The speaker, Nicole Lappin, shares her experience of writing in remote cabins but feeling uneasy about leaving her house empty. To solve this, she became an Airbnb host and encourages others to do the same. She emphasizes that Airbnb makes it easy to get started and your home might be worth more than you think. Cheryl Burke, a Dancing with the Stars alum, also shares her experience of growth and change, which led her to retire from the show after 26 seasons. She reflects on the uncertainty and discomfort of making big decisions but ultimately trusts in the process of personal growth. Both women encourage listeners to embrace change and explore new opportunities, whether it's through hosting on Airbnb or pursuing other passions.

    • Dancers face financial challenges despite passion and recognitionDancers invest significant time and resources into their craft, despite limited financial rewards, long hours, and high costs.

      While Dancing with the Stars provides opportunities for passion, art, and recognition for dancers, particularly in the ballroom genre, the financial rewards are often limited. Celebrities on the show earn more than the professional dancers, and the costs for lessons, travel, accommodations, and high-end costumes can add up significantly. Despite these challenges, the love of dance keeps many dedicated individuals and their families investing time and resources into the competitive world. The wardrobe team's quick turnaround for Swarovski-encrusted costumes is just one example of the behind-the-scenes effort and expense involved in the production.

    • Compensation structure for Dancing with the Stars prosPro dancers earn more as they progress in the competition, incentivizing them to stay, with starting salaries higher than rumored and pay increases based on advancement.

      The compensation structure for professional dancers on Dancing with the Stars is not equal for all participants, but rather incentivizes dancers to stay on the show longer by earning more as the seasons progress. This system, while designed to motivate dancers, can be stressful and may not apply to every contestant. Contrary to reports on the internet, the starting salary for a pro dancer is significantly higher than the alleged $1600 per episode, and the pay increases as the dancer advances further in the competition. The determination of a partner is not solely based on earning potential, as all dancers aim for a strong partnership. Despite misinformation, it's crucial to understand the unique and dynamic nature of the Dancing with the Stars compensation system.

    • Partner compatibility and vulnerability matter on Dancing with the StarsSuccess on Dancing with the Stars depends on trusting and being vulnerable with your partner, regardless of their dance experience.

      On Dancing with the Stars, the connection between celebrity partners is crucial for success. Unlike popular belief, partners aren't chosen freely, but rather selected based on compatibility and vulnerability. The show requires mental strength and trust, as athletes' physical fitness doesn't necessarily translate into dancing abilities. Injuries are common, but the show continues with substitutions if necessary. The host shares her experience of having broken several dance partners' limbs during performances, but they managed to make it through. Ultimately, being vulnerable and trusting your partner are essential for a celebrity to excel on the show. The host, who has a reputation for being tough, prefers partners with no dance experience but who are authentic and open to learning. She insures her legs for a significant amount due to the physical demands of the show.

    • From financial struggles to unexpected opportunitiesStay true to passions and find innovative ways to turn them into sources of income, even during financial hardships.

      Even when faced with financial struggles, the power of creativity and determination can lead to unexpected opportunities. The speaker shared her experience of insuring her legs as a dancer, an unconventional yet necessary expense. She also recalled a time when she had to raise funds to attend a dance competition by dancing in the streets, demonstrating her resilience and resourcefulness. These experiences were shaped by her upbringing, which instilled in her a strong work ethic and a mindset focused on making money despite the challenges. The speaker's story highlights the importance of staying true to one's passions and finding innovative ways to turn them into sources of income.

    • Turning Assets and Skills into IncomeDancers can leverage their skills on LinkedIn for jobs and monetize unused assets on Airbnb, showing how individuals have the power to generate income from their assets and skills.

      There were limitations for dancers to make significant income in the past, but individuals can now defy those odds through various means, such as leveraging their skills on LinkedIn for job opportunities or monetizing their underutilized assets, like hosting on Airbnb. For dancers, the landscape has changed, and they can now compare their potential to modern success stories like Jennifer Lopez. Similarly, for those seeking employment or additional income, platforms like LinkedIn offer access to a vast pool of qualified candidates who may not be actively searching for new opportunities. And for homeowners, hosting on Airbnb provides a way to monetize unused space and offset expenses, making travel more accessible. Overall, these opportunities demonstrate that individuals have the power to turn their assets and skills into income-generating opportunities.

    • The importance of recognizing societal pressure to be productive and challenging itRecognize societal pressure to be productive, challenge it, and prioritize self-discovery as a necessary part of living a fulfilling life. Understand survival mechanisms and work towards healthier coping mechanisms.

      It's important to recognize and challenge the societal pressure to constantly be productive and busy, as it can lead to internalized shame and a disconnection from our true selves. The speaker's experience of growing up in the entertainment industry and feeling branded by her career highlights this issue. She also discusses how external solutions, such as shopping or addiction, can be used as quick fixes for internal problems. Ultimately, the journey towards self-discovery and filling ourselves up from the inside out is a continuous process that requires balance and acceptance of chaos. It's essential to remember that self-help and self-discovery work should not be seen as a side project, but rather a necessary part of living a fulfilling life. Additionally, recognizing and understanding our survival mechanisms, such as fight, flight, or freeze, can help us better understand our reactions to stress and work towards healthier coping mechanisms.

    • Unconsciously craving extreme emotions in relationshipsRecognize that people may unconsciously seek extreme emotions to distract from past traumas. Prioritize self-care, set aside time for personal growth, and be empathetic towards others.

      Seeking peace and safety doesn't necessarily mean living a boring or stagnant life. Instead, some people may unconsciously crave the extreme highs and lows in relationships as a form of distraction or numbing mechanism from past traumas. This can be seen in various communities, not just the dance community, and it's essential to recognize that people may be suffering in silence. While therapy might not be accessible to everyone, there are numerous free or low-cost online resources available for mental health support. Prioritizing self-care and setting aside time for personal growth every day is not selfish but necessary for overall well-being. Unfortunately, even those who seem happy and full of light may be struggling internally, making it crucial to be empathetic and understanding towards others.

    • Sharing personal experiences can provide comfort and guidanceBeing open about personal experiences can help others and the best investment is the money you make while you sleep.

      Being open and vulnerable about personal experiences, even if it may seem like oversharing, can help others and provide comfort and guidance. Nicole Lappin, the host of Money Rehab, shares her experiences with shame and molestation, despite not being a professional therapist. She wishes there was someone to look up to when she was younger. Lappin emphasizes the importance of investing in oneself, and shares a valuable tip: the best money is the money you make while you sleep. Money Rehab, a production of Money News Network, encourages listeners to ask money questions and seek help. Lappin expresses gratitude for her listeners' support and encourages everyone to invest in themselves, as it is the most important investment one can make.

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