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    • LinkedIn's large pool of passive job seekersSmall businesses can hire professionals on LinkedIn, accessing a large pool of potential candidates who may not be actively seeking new jobs but could still be open to opportunities. Over 70% of LinkedIn users don't visit other leading job sites monthly.

      LinkedIn is an effective platform for small businesses looking to hire professionals, as it provides access to a large pool of potential candidates who may not be actively seeking new jobs but could still be open to the right opportunity. This is particularly significant because over 70% of LinkedIn users don't visit other leading job sites in a given month. Additionally, Ryan Reynolds announced a significant price drop for Mint Mobile's unlimited plan, making it an attractive option for those looking to save on their wireless bills. In the world of relationships, the podcast "Brown Girls Do It Too" discussed the evolution of sex in a relationship, from the initial intense passion to the routine and eventual end of the relationship. The hosts used the metaphor of spices in food to describe the varying levels of intensity in a relationship, from the fiery start to the bland end. They emphasized that while maintaining the spark is important, there is also value in exploring different aspects of sexual relationships throughout their duration. In a lighter moment, the hosts joked about the price of photographs of their feet and shared their personal preferences for staying warm during the winter. Overall, the podcast offered a candid and humorous exploration of sex and relationships, inviting listeners to join the conversation and share their own experiences.

    • Changes in sexual experiences in relationshipsCommunicate openly and make an effort to maintain emotional and physical connection to keep sexual experiences vibrant in a relationship

      The intensity and frequency of sexual experiences in a relationship can change over time. At the beginning, there may be a strong desire to be physically close and explore each other, with less consideration for time or appearance. However, as the relationship progresses, other factors may come into play, such as comfort, routine, and laziness. This can lead to a decrease in sexual activity or a shift in the way seduction and intimacy are expressed. Ultimately, it's important to communicate openly with your partner about your desires and needs, and to make an effort to maintain the emotional and physical connection that brought you together in the first place.

    • The middle years: Insecurities and questions about sexual desire and compatibilityCommunication is key to navigating insecurities and maintaining a strong connection in relationships, even during the middle years when sexual desire and compatibility may be questioned.

      Relationships go through different stages, and the middle years can bring up insecurities and questions about sexual desire and compatibility. This "insecure stage" can lead to a sense of stalemate, where partners may feel unsure about each other's sex drives and desire for intimacy. It's important to remember that healthy relationships aren't defined by the amount of sex they have, and open communication is key to navigating these challenges. As relationships evolve, partners may find themselves prioritizing comfort and ease over passion and seduction, but the connection and desire can still be strong. Ultimately, the key is to maintain open communication and a willingness to adapt and grow together.

    • Maintaining a satisfying sexual relationship takes effort and communicationCommunicate and make an effort to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship to maintain a satisfying sexual connection.

      Maintaining a satisfying sexual relationship in a long-term partnership requires effort and communication. The speaker shares her experience of being in a relationship where the sex was no longer good and attributes it to a lack of attraction and effort from both parties. She emphasizes the importance of keeping the spark alive by making an effort to be seductive and communicate with your partner. The speaker also acknowledges the societal expectations that may influence individuals, particularly those from certain backgrounds, to overcompensate and present themselves as more sexually experienced than they may be. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of prioritizing the sexual aspect of a long-term relationship and making an effort to keep it exciting and fulfilling.

    • Perceptions and experiences shape relationshipsPeople's unique experiences and perceptions can lead to misunderstandings and assumptions in relationships, but it's important to remember that everyone is deserving of respect and understanding.

      People's perceptions and experiences can shape their views and interactions with others, sometimes leading to hurtful or inaccurate assumptions. The speaker shared an experience where Asian boys made assumptions about her marriage prospects based on her appearance. She also discussed the evolving dynamics of relationships, from experimentation to assertiveness and eventually settling into a routine. The speaker also touched upon the idea that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships or sex, and that individual preferences and experiences shape our experiences. Ultimately, it's important to remember that everyone is unique and deserving of respect and understanding, regardless of societal expectations or assumptions.

    • Sexual experiences and identities can evolve significantly throughout people's livesMia Weston's journey as a trans woman illustrates the complexities and evolving nature of sexuality and identity, from carefree and experimental to insecure and transformative

      Sexual experiences and identities can evolve significantly throughout people's lives. Mia Weston, a trans woman, podcaster, and YouTuber, shared her unique journey of having sex with both a penis and a vagina. Prior to her transition, she was open about her sexuality and attracted attention due to being a woman with a penis. However, after her surgery, she faced rejection from some men who were initially attracted to her trans identity but not her post-op body. Mia described her sexual experiences as ranging from carefree and experimental to insecure and routine, and then undergoing a transformation after her transition. She humorously shared her experience of "popping her cherry" twice – once before her transition and once after. Overall, Mia's story highlights the complexities and evolving nature of sexuality and identity.

    • Understanding the Complexity of Sexual ExperiencesBe open-minded and respectful of individual differences in sexual experiences. Female orgasm often requires mental stimulation and self-love, while positions and sensations can vary greatly between genders.

      People's experiences with sex and their bodies can vary greatly, and it's important to be open-minded and understanding of these differences. The speaker shared her experiences of having sex for the first time as a woman and then later as a man, and she noted that the positions and sensations were quite different. She also discussed the importance of mental stimulation for female orgasm and the difference in readiness between genders. The speaker also emphasized the importance of self-love and acceptance of one's own body, which can take time and effort. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complexity and diversity of sexual experiences and the importance of being respectful and supportive of individual differences.

    • Exploring Sexuality and Identity: A Personal JourneyDespite societal taboos and personal challenges, one can find sexual satisfaction and self-love by embracing their identity and preferences

      The speaker shared her experiences of exploring her sexuality and identity, including her gender reassignment surgery in India, and expressed her preference for sexual pleasure with a vagina over a penis. She also discussed the challenges of growing up in an Asian community where talking about sex was taboo but she was exposed to it through various sources. She encountered fetishization and inappropriate comments based on her race, but also found confidence and ego boosts from some partners. Overall, her journey led her to a place of sexual satisfaction and self-love.

    • People's experiences and attitudes towards sex change over timePeople's sexual desires and experiences can be influenced by cultural factors, personal preferences, and past experiences. Individuals may find inspiration from various sources and develop more assertiveness and openness in their relationships.

      People's experiences and attitudes towards sex can change significantly over time and be influenced by various factors, including cultural influences and personal preferences. The speaker shared her personal journey of becoming more assertive and open in her sexual relationships, drawing inspiration from Bollywood films. She also discussed her past experiences of smelling of curry and how it impacted her self-consciousness. Additionally, she touched upon the idea that people's sexual desires and preferences might reflect their personality and experiences in their day-to-day lives. When asked about her experiences as a gay man, she mentioned that she found it enjoyable. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complexity and diversity of people's experiences with sex and relationships.

    • Discovering new forms of sensuality and emotional connectionExploring different aspects of sexuality and building emotional trust can lead to the most pleasurable experiences. Communication, consent, and experimentation are key to keeping the relationship exciting.

      Exploring different aspects of sexuality and finding a deep emotional connection with a partner can lead to the best and most pleasurable experiences. The speaker, Mia, shares her personal journey of discovering new forms of sensuality and pleasure through vaginal sex and being on estrogen. She emphasizes that the best sex is not always about physical attraction or short-term encounters, but rather about trust, emotional connection, and shared experiences. Mia also expresses her confidence in her sexual abilities and the importance of communication and experimentation in keeping the sexual relationship exciting. The conversation also touches upon the importance of consent, lubrication, and finding what feels best for each individual. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of open-mindedness, communication, and emotional connection in enhancing sexual experiences.

    • Exploring new sexual experiences in long-term relationshipsCommunication, consent, and personal hygiene are essential for a healthy and enjoyable sexual experience in long-term relationships. Openness and honesty about sex and relationships can bring excitement and fulfillment.

      Exploring new sexual experiences and being open-minded about different forms of intimacy can bring excitement and fulfillment to long-term relationships. Mia, a guest on the podcast Brown Girls Do It Too, shared her experiences with using a strap-on and trying out different roles in her sex life. She emphasized the importance of consent and communication with one's partner. Another insight gained from the conversation was the understanding that the best sex is not always about mind-blowing experiences but maintaining the spark and effort in a relationship. Lastly, it was mentioned that personal hygiene is crucial in maintaining a healthy and enjoyable sexual experience. Overall, the discussion encouraged openness and honesty about sex and relationships, and emphasized the importance of communication and consent.

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