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    Dirty Talk, Dropping Hints & Dating Tips

    enJanuary 16, 2019

    Podcast Summary

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      The Magic Wand vibrator, often referred to as the "Cadillac of vibrators," is a cultural icon known for its powerful and deep rumble. First introduced decades ago, it has earned numerous accolades and remains a trusted confidant for many. Now, there are various iterations, including wireless, mini, micro, and plush versions, but all retain the original's powerful rumble. Additionally, Promescent offers pleasure-enhancing products, such as delay spray and warming arousal gel, to help enhance sexual experiences for both men and women during the sexiest season of summer. Overall, the Magic Wand and Promescent products aim to provide users with more satisfying and enjoyable sexual experiences.

    • Discussing personal preferences and standards in dating and foodBe authentic, considerate, and mindful of your choices in relationships and food. Be upfront about important preferences like having children, and consider the impact of language in online dating bios. Discovering low-carb options like Hero Bread can be a game-changer for those who value health and enjoy bread.

      Having high standards in life, including relationships, is important. During a discussion on the Sex with Emily podcast, the topic of personal preferences and standards in dating came up. It was emphasized that being upfront and honest about having children, for example, is crucial to avoid misunderstandings or false expectations. Another interesting topic touched upon was the impact of Hero Bread on a low-carb lifestyle. Hero Bread offers delicious, fluffy bread options with minimal to no net carbs, sugar, and high fiber and protein content. This discovery has been a game-changer for someone who values health but also enjoys bread. The podcast also mentioned the importance of being mindful of the language used in internet dating bios. Phrases like "my kids are my number one priority" might be important to convey, but they can also come across as overbearing or attention-seeking. Instead, a more subtle and straightforward approach is recommended. Overall, the podcast provided valuable insights on various aspects of life, from relationships and personal preferences to health and food. The takeaway is to be authentic, considerate, and mindful of the choices we make, whether it's in our relationships or the food we consume.

    • Be mindful of how you present yourself on dating appsExpress love for kids and desire for meaningful connection without signaling over-focus or closed-mindedness

      How we present ourselves on dating apps can significantly impact the perception others have of us. Mentioning that our kids are our top priority or that we're not looking for fun can potentially be a turnoff for some people. These statements may signal that we're overly focused on our children or not open to a serious relationship. Instead, it's recommended to express our love for our kids and our desire for a meaningful connection without explicitly stating that they're our entire world or that we're not looking for fun in a negative way. By being mindful of our wording, we can create a more positive and inviting dating profile.

    • Focusing too much on what you don't want in a profile can send the wrong messageInstead of listing what you don't want, focus on sharing your story and interests to attract compatible matches.

      Women's dating profiles can unintentionally send the wrong message if they focus too much on what they don't want rather than what they do. For instance, stating that one is not looking for fun or asking not to receive unsolicited dick pics can come across as unapproachable or uptight. Instead, it's recommended to focus on sharing a story or showcasing interests in the profile. Additionally, the notion of "not looking for hookups" may not be effective anymore due to the general perception of dating apps as primarily for casual encounters. Ultimately, being clear and authentic about what one is seeking in a relationship is key to attracting compatible matches.

    • Approaching Online Dating Messages with Genuine InterestShow authenticity, express genuine interest in their personality and hobbies, and avoid outdated or inappropriate approaches to increase success in online dating. Also, be aware of 'orbiting' behavior and set clear boundaries.

      When it comes to online dating, the way you approach your messages can make a significant difference in attracting potential partners. Rather than focusing solely on physical attraction, it's essential to show genuine interest in their personality and hobbies. Additionally, be mindful of outdated or inappropriate approaches, such as catcalling or focusing solely on looks in your messages. Another trend to be aware of in online dating is the phenomenon of "orbiting." This occurs when a date suddenly disappears but still remains in your social media circles, leading to a confusing situation where you feel unable to cut ties. It's essential to recognize this behavior and set clear boundaries to move on. In summary, be authentic, show genuine interest, and be aware of dating trends to increase your chances of success in online dating.

    • Different Dating Behaviors: Orbiting, Pocketing, and ProwlingBeing aware of dating behaviors like Orbiting, Pocketing, and Prowling can help individuals navigate relationships effectively, communicate openly, and avoid potential hurt and frustration.

      Understanding different dating behaviors can help individuals navigate relationships more effectively. Orbiting refers to when someone keeps you in their social circle without any serious commitment, making you feel like you have options. Pocketing occurs when someone keeps you on the back burner, not introducing you to their friends or family and showing no signs of future planning. Prowling is when someone ghosts you and then reappears in your life when it suits them. Being aware of these behaviors can help individuals make informed decisions about their relationships and avoid potential hurt and frustration. It's essential to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and expectations to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

    • Revitalizing a Sexual Spark in Long-Term RelationshipsCommunicate, experiment, and be open to new experiences to keep the sexual connection alive in long-term relationships.

      To reignite the sexual spark in a long-term relationship, it's essential to mix things up and try new things outside the bedroom. Communication and experimentation are key. The caller, Crystal, shared that she and her husband have fallen into a routine, and she's seeking ways to add excitement back into their sex life. She mentioned that her husband doesn't enjoy massages and isn't open to having sex in non-traditional locations due to their large family. However, the caller was open to trying new things like shower sex, watching porn together, and focusing more on foreplay, such as making out and exploring each other's bodies. It's important to remember that every couple is unique, and finding what works best for each individual relationship takes time and effort. Communication, creativity, and a willingness to try new things can help keep the sexual connection alive and strong.

    • Explore and Communicate for a Fulfilling Sex LifeTry new things, communicate deeply, and have open conversations to keep your sex life exciting and fulfilling.

      Keeping a sex life exciting and fulfilling requires exploration and communication. The speaker suggests trying new things, such as using toys, sex positions, and games to add excitement. She also emphasizes the importance of deep conversations and intimacy. For those struggling to connect with their partners due to distractions like technology, the speaker recommends having an open and honest conversation about the issue. It's important to remember that every couple is unique, and finding what works best for each individual and their relationship takes effort and communication.

    • Discussing feelings of neglect and finding a compromiseEffective communication involves expressing feelings without criticism and finding a compromise to maintain a healthy relationship.

      Effective communication is essential in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. In the context of the first conversation, the speaker suggested having a discussion with a partner about feeling neglected due to excessive use of technology during quality time. The speaker recommended expressing feelings without criticism and finding a compromise for gadget-free time. In the second conversation, the topic was about learning to dirty talk during sex, and the advice given was to describe specific details of the moment, past, or future, using a lower and slower voice. Overall, both conversations emphasized the importance of open communication and self-expression in various aspects of relationships.

    • Talking Dirty in Bed: Enhance Intimacy and PleasureEffective communication during sex can make the experience more enjoyable for both partners. Share past sensations and initiate the conversation yourself to overcome awkwardness.

      Effective dirty talk during sex can enhance the experience for both partners. It's important to communicate what feels good and how it makes you feel. Reflect on past experiences where your partner has touched you in ways that felt amazing, and describe those sensations to your partner. Dirty talk can be awkward at first, especially if the initiative comes from the partner rather than the receiver. To overcome this, practice in private and consider starting the conversation yourself. Remember, sex can be imperfect and funny, and it's part of the beauty of the experience. It's a shared project between partners to make their sex life more interesting, frequent, hotter, and sexier. Communication and teamwork are key.

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