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    E29: New Rules: Leading through Crisis & Resilience as a Gift

    enNovember 01, 2023
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    About this Episode

    Is resilience a gift or a curse? 

     

    We must first define what it truly means to be resilient and identify the ways that culture has misrepresented what it means. 

     

    Resilience, a term that is often used in the context of facing life's adversities and challenges, prompts a deep examination regarding its nature and impact on individuals. 

     

     In Episode 29 of the New Rules Podcast, we take a practical look into how being resilient can be the most challenging, yet rewarding component of our lives.

     

    We’ll examine:

    • How coming back to your authentic form is the true definition of resilience

    • Why our culture is prone to lack resilience 

    • The importance of knowing your values

    • Choosing a life surrounding what’s important to you

    • The importance of checking your motives throughout daily life

    • Why you must face reality in order to grow from experiences

     

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    You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: youtube.com/cadriancrawford

     

    And don't miss out on our latest updates and content! Connect with us on all our social media platforms to stay connected and find additional resources to continue the journey to becoming an Authentic Leader.

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    Unity is not formed for the sake of unity. 

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    May our art inspire, provoke thought, and pave the way for progress. Let’s create a legacy that transcends the ordinary and propels us towards a future defined by purpose.

     

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    Welcome to Episode 34 of the New Rules Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of authentic development and goal-setting entering 2024.

     

    We  explore the realities involved in creating more realistic goals, tackling challenges along the way, and discovering effective ways to help someone envision their own future.

     

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    To stay connected, visit us at the following places and help us guide you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!

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    As leaders, our responsibility extends beyond personal aspirations. It's about zeroing in on the passions and values that drive us, shaping a vision for the future. Setting standards that authentically reflect who we are, and then, with unwavering commitment, guiding our teams along the same path.

     

    Join Adrian and Bri in Episode 33 as they delve deep into the crucial importance of Authentic Leadership. Discover how authenticity becomes the heartbeat that inspires trust, fosters cohesion, and ensures an unwavering commitment to shared goals.

     

    This level of leadership demands transparent communication, a commitment to self-reflection, openness to constructive feedback, and a celebration of every success—no matter how small.

     

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    • Vigilance

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      • What are you responsible for?

      • What do you want?

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    More of a visual person? 

    You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: 

    Youtube: youtube.com/cadriancrawford

     

    To stay connected, visit us at the following places and help us guide you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!

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