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    Ep. 162: LISTENER CALLS: Ambition and the Deep Life

    en-usJanuary 06, 2022
    What benefits does Stamps.com offer to small business owners?
    How did Kobe plan to educate beginners on stock investing?
    What personal experiences influenced the speaker's productivity?
    Why is a well-designed workspace important for productivity?
    What examples does Cal Newport give for inspirational workspaces?

    Podcast Summary

    • Small Business Owners Save Time and Money with Technology like Stamps.comTechnology solutions like Stamps.com help small businesses save time and money by offering postal and shipping services online with exclusive discounts.

      Technology, such as Stamps.com, can help small business owners save time and money by bringing postal and shipping services directly to their computers. This not only eliminates the need to physically go to the post office and wait in line, but also offers exclusive discounts on postage and shipping from both the Postal Service and UPS. For those interested, Stamps.com offers a risk-free trial with promo code DEEP, which includes a digital scale and a four-week trial period. Additionally, during this episode of Deep Questions, Cal Newport and his producer attempted a live listeners call episode for the first time. The call from the first listener, Kobe, revealed that he was a stock investing program creator who wanted to educate beginners on leveraging stock investing but was struggling with convincing people and managing his own time effectively. The episode aimed to provide insights and advice on these topics.

    • Invest in self-improvement for a more appealing offeringFocusing on enhancing skills and demonstrating results attracts more customers, following the law of financial viability

      Focusing on improving yourself and your offerings is often more effective than constantly trying to sell to new customers. The authenticity and success you demonstrate will naturally attract more people to your cause. This concept, known as the law of financial viability, suggests that the ease with which people give you money for your product or service is a good indicator of its value. By continuing to sharpen your sword, or in other words, improving your skills and demonstrating results, you'll create a more appealing offering that requires less selling effort. So, invest time in self-improvement and watch as your audience grows.

    • Lead by example and communicate reasons for changeWhen trying to persuade someone to make a change, lead by example and clearly communicate the reasons and benefits to increase their receptivity

      When trying to persuade someone to make a change in their life, such as minimizing social media use, it's important to lead by example and clearly communicate the reasons and benefits behind your actions. By living your life in a way that demonstrates the value of the change, and being open and clear about your motivations, you give the other person the opportunity to consider the option for themselves. Ultimately, the decision to make the change is theirs, but by providing a positive example and clear explanation, you can increase the likelihood that they will be receptive.

    • Explore meaningful activities for personal growthLimiting social media use or engaging in bodybuilding are examples of activities that can lead to personal growth. Find a balance that suits you and focus on the benefits for optimal results.

      Engaging in meaningful activities, whether it's limiting social media use or bodybuilding, can lead to personal growth and development. While some may advocate for extreme measures, such as enforced digital minimalism or intense weightlifting regimens, it's essential to find a balance that works best for you. For instance, trying a social media detox during New Year's resolution could be a productive approach. Similarly, bodybuilding can serve as a high-quality leisure activity that engages different parts of the brain and promotes clarity. However, it's crucial to focus on the muscle during workouts to maximize their benefits. In essence, be the change you want to see in yourself and others, and let the process unfold naturally.

    • Weight training improves focus and deep workWeight training enhances concentration and mental well-being, enabling deeper focus and improved cognitive performance.

      Engaging in focused physical activities, such as weight training, can significantly improve one's ability to concentrate and perform deep work. This is because the intense focus required during such activities can help train the mind to block out distractions and maintain focus for longer periods. Additionally, the relaxation and anxiety reduction benefits of physical activity can contribute to overall mental well-being. Therefore, incorporating regular weight training into a fitness routine could be an effective tool for enhancing deep work abilities and overall cognitive performance.

    • Optimize Daily Nutrition with Athletic GreensAthletic Greens offers a high-quality powder addressing various vitamin and mineral needs, with a free one-year supply of immune-supporting vitamin D and five travel packs, making it a convenient and comprehensive solution for daily nutrition. Prioritize your health now.

      For convenient and comprehensive daily nutrition, Athletic Greens is a reliable solution. The company strives to create a high-quality powder that addresses various vitamin and mineral needs, making it a preferred choice for many top performers and athletes. With the offer of a free one-year supply of immune-supporting vitamin D and five travel packs, now is the perfect time to prioritize your health. Additionally, for those struggling with time blocking, particularly while working on a dissertation, consider scheduling less and being more regular. Being overly ambitious with multiple types of work can lead to context shifting and brain overload, making it difficult to stick to your schedule.

    • Ritualize your work for better productivityConsistently timing, setting, and activity to reduce context switching costs and focus on long-term goals for increased productivity.

      To increase productivity, particularly when working on long-term projects like a dissertation, it's essential to be consistent in timing, setting, and activity. This practice, known as ritualizing your work, helps reduce context switching costs in your brain and gets you into a focused work mode more quickly and efficiently. Additionally, changing the scale of your productivity focus from daily accomplishments to monthly or longer-term goals can help you stay motivated and make steady progress. So, do less but do it more ritually and consistently for better productivity.

    • Finding balance between ambition and lifeEmbrace 'slow productivity' for long-term accomplishments while maintaining flexibility for daily life.

      Finding balance between ambition and life is a complex issue that our current cultural moment may not be addressing effectively. In the early 2000s, there was an emphasis on productivity and achieving success at all costs. More recently, there's been a pushback against productivity, with some advocating for doing nothing. However, humans have a deeply ingrained desire to set goals, make plans, and see our intentions come to fruition. This is a key aspect of what makes us human. The concept of "slow productivity" offers a potential solution. It encourages us to focus on long-term accomplishments and gives us flexibility on a day-to-day basis. It's important to remember that we don't have to be superheroes, but we also can't just do nothing. Finding the right balance is crucial for both personal and professional success.

    • Working on a few important things over long periodsFind balance through deep work, rest, and research. Adapt workspace for comfort and focus, consider 'adventure work' for variety.

      Productivity and accomplishment come from working on a few important things over long periods of time, with periods of focused effort followed by rest and research. This approach allows for a balanced and satisfying work-life experience. Regarding setting up an ideal workspace for deep work, consider adopting a flexible setup that accommodates your physical needs, such as a standing desk and adjustable chair. Additionally, consider rethinking the traditional notion of a fixed work location and instead, explore the concept of "adventure work," which involves changing up your environment to keep things interesting and stimulating. Ultimately, the key is to find a setup that allows you to be comfortable and focused while also accommodating the realities and variations of daily life.

    • Changing environments for productivityMoving to different locations and customizing workspaces can improve focus and productivity.

      Creating a change of environment can significantly enhance productivity and focus. The speaker shared his personal experience of working at various locations around Georgetown campus, including a picnic table in the woods, a library, and an overlook of the Potomac. By moving around and focusing on one type of work at each location, he found that he was more productive and able to avoid distractions. Additionally, the speaker discussed his upcoming investment in a custom-built reading desk, which will be free of electronic productivity tools and designed for working with notebooks and writing longhand. This desk, while an indulgence, is a reflection of his belief in the importance of a well-designed workspace in fostering deep work and focus.

    • Investing in a meaningful work environmentCreating a focused and inspiring workspace can lead to increased productivity, creativity, and better intellectual output. Investing in a nice desk, bookshelves, or even a writing shed can pay off in the long run.

      Investing in a meaningful work environment can significantly enhance productivity and creativity, leading to better quality intellectual output and greater returns in various fields such as writing, filmmaking, or problem-solving. As Cal Newport emphasizes, the importance of the environment is often overlooked, and it goes beyond just having the right tools like a computer or software. He shares examples of Ian Doherty's writing shed and George Lucas's writing tower, which were not fancy but provided the necessary focus and inspiration for their creators. While it might seem like an unnecessary expense, investing in a nice desk, bookshelves, or even converting a shed into a workspace can pay off in the long run. The human brain deserves attention and investment when it comes to work, and a well-designed workspace can contribute significantly to overall success.

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

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    - CALL: How to formulate a deep life when you’re young [54:41]   

    CASE STUDY: Tweaking the time block planner [1:06:44] 

    CAL REACTS: A Slow Reconstruction of an Ancient City [1:11:00]

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    Ep. 299: Our Love/Hate Relationship with Personal Productivity

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    Cal has been writing professionally about issues related to personal productivity for two decades. In today’s episode, he provides a short history of what he’s observed during this period about out constantly shifting relationship with this topic, from the quiet optimism of the 1990s, to the techno-mania of the early 2000s, to the whiplash shift from anti-distraction to anti-work sentiments in the 2010s. He ends with a summary of where we are today and what he currently thinks matters in thinking about getting things done. During the Q&A session, Cal is joined by special guest host Scott Young (whose new book is GET BETTER AT ANYTHING) to help answer your questions. We conclude with a list of the books Cal read in April.

    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: The 20-year history with personal productivity [4:20]

    - How does Cal organize his files as a technical researcher? [1:04:55]
    - How slow is too slow? [1:18:48]
    - Does “Monk Mode” actually work? [1:27:25]
    - How do I adapt my organizational systems to do more complicated work? [1:36:07]
    - What are the most underrated habits for living a great life? [1:49:46]

    CASE STUDY: Unconventional slow productivity [1:55:56]

    FINAL SEGMENT: The 5 Books Cal Read in April 2024 [2:04:51]

    Links:
    Buy Cal’s latest book, “Slow Productivity” at calnewport.com/slow
    Get a signed copy of Cal’s “Slow Productivity” at peoplesbooktakoma.com/event/cal-newport/ 
    Cal’s monthly book directory: bramses.notion.site/059db2641def4a88988b4d2cee4657ba?v=448bf8afad0740d18f6b109b4bd40d51
    moehrbetter.com/gtd-advanced-workflow-diagram.html

    Books Discussed in Deep Dive:

    7 Habits of Highly Effective People
    How To Become CEO
    Getting Things Done
    The Four Hour Work Week
    Essentialism
    How To Do Nothing

    April Books:

    An Empire of Their Own by Neal Gabler
    Co-intelligence by Ethan Mollick
    Dragons of Eden by Carl Sagan
    The Perfect Mile by Neal Bascomb
    To Heal a Fractured World by Jonathan Sacks

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: Rethinking attention [4:08]

    - What books should I read to help me develop a deep life? [34:35]
    - Does writing by hand have benefits for your brain? [38:40]
    - Should I get a brain scan to prove I have a low IQ? [43:46]
    - Should I use ChatGPT for book recommendations? [47:39]
    - How can I avoid wasting your gap year? [49:40]
    - CALL: Is “Slow Productivity” related to “The Burnout Society” by Buying-Chui Han? [55:32]

    CASE STUDY: Utilizing the phone foyer method [1:01:58]  

    FINAL SEGMENT: Slow news [1:10:58]

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    Thanks to Jesse Miller for production, Jay Kerstens for the intro music, Kieron Rees for slow productivity music, and Mark Miles for mastering.

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: The Deep Life Hardware [4:09]

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    CASE STUDY: Shifting a mindset to do more deep work [1:11:04] 

    CAL REACTS: Is the Al Pin the End of Smartphones? [1:17:46]

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    Ep. 296: Jane Austen’s To-Do List (LIVE)

    Ep. 296: Jane Austen’s To-Do List (LIVE)

    In the first ever live episode of Deep Questions, recorded at People’s Book in Takoma Park, MD, Cal extracts a modern productivity lesson from the tale of Jane Austen’s frustrated ambitions, before taking questions from the audience.

    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: Jane Austen’s To-Do List [3:22]

    — Is Cal building his YouTube channel with social media tactics? [27:36]
    — How can I do less in such a busy world? [31:53]
    — How do I escape the flow state? [37:01]
    — How can someone become a star while obsessing over craft? [40:52]
    — How can I apply Slow Productivity to unrelated projects? [46:40]
    — How does Cal develop his writing frameworks? [50:20]
    — How can I apply Slow Productivity principles to a team? [52:48]
    — How can I avoid the Zoom apocalypse? [57:48]
    — Is there a conflict between working at a natural pace and obsessing over quality? [1:07:16]
    — How can a personal trainer build a wellness solution company? [1:09:46]
    — How can our team not get delayed with technical problems? [1:13:00]
    — How can a young lawyer manage peer relationships with teams? [1:16:38]         


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    — Cal’s Monthly Books directory: bramses.notion.site/059db2641def4a88988b4d2cee4657ba?v=448bf8afad0740d18f6b109b4bd40d51


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    Ep. 295: Artists Revolt Against Social Media

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  youtube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: A Quiet Revolt Against Social Media [7:37]

    - Is my deep living too extreme? [45:06]
    - LinkedIn is getting toxic. Should I quit that too? [47:39]
    - Where do online articles fit into the life of a digital minimalist? [51:09]
    - Did Cal design the specifications for the hardcover copy of “Slow Productivity”? [54:04]
    - How do I not feel overwhelmed by online content after a Digital Declutter? [58:07]
    - CALL: Obsessing over quality [1:01:08]

    CASE STUDY: Applying lessons from “Digital Minimalism” [1:06:37]

    CAL REACTS: Deep or Crazy? [1:13:54]

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    Ep. 294: A Tactical Assault on Busyness

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    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

    Video from today’s episode:  hyoutube.com/calnewportmedia

    Deep Dive: A Tactical Assault on Busyness [3:47]

    - How can I stop chasing the “perfect” productivity system? [34:51]
    - How do I avoid losing my day to distraction? [39:08] 
    - How do I help my partner escape meeting quickstand? [42:31]
    - How do we design the perfect client/task/scheduling system? [48:59]
    - Can Apple Vision Pro help deep work? [54:46]

    The 5 Books Cal Read in March 2024 [1:06:43]

    A Short History of England (Simon Jenkins)
    Into the Impossible (Brian Keating)
    The Amen Effect (Sharon Brous)
    Sink the Bismark! (CS Forester)
    Hidden Potential (Adam Grant)

    Links:
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    Ep. 293: Can A.I. Empty My Inbox?

    Ep. 293: Can A.I. Empty My Inbox?

    Imagine a world in which AI could handle your email inbox on your behalf. No more checking for new messages every five minutes. No more worries that people need you. No more exhausting cognitive context shifts. In this episode, Cal explores how close cutting-edge AI models are to achieving this goal, including using ChatGPT to help him answer some real email. He then dives into his latest article for The New Yorker, which explains the key technical obstacle to fully automated email and how it might be solved. This is followed by reader questions and a look at something interesting.

    Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link:
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    Deep Dive: Can A.I. Empty My Inbox? [4:33]
    - Should I continue to study programming if AI will eventually replace software jobs? [44:40]
    - Is it bad to use ChatGPT to assist with your writing? [49:22]
    - How do I reclaim my workspace for Deep Work? [55:24]
    - How do I decide what to do on my scheduled mini-breaks at work? [1:00:11]
    - CALL: Heidegger’s view on technology [1:02:48]
    - CALL: Seasonality with a partner and kids [1:09:11]

    CASE STUDY: A Silicon Valley Chief of Staff balancing work and ego [1:20:07]

    Something Interesting: General Grant’s Slow Productivity [1:30:08]

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    850 And You Still Laugh

    850 And You Still Laugh

    When life gets you down, somehow hope prevails and you still laugh.

    Maybe you face a devastating situation, yet joy emerges from the ashes.

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    There are those time in life where you don't get. It's not fair. You even cry out, "Why me?"

    And you still laugh.

    It's easier to focus on the pain instead of celebrating the blessings.

    It's the trap of negativity that draws you in. It's a force to be reckoned with.

    And you still laugh.

    Laughter is medicine for the soul.

    And when it's missing, there's a haze that disguises and repressing your emotions. Nothing's normal.

    So when you are experiencing challenging times, storms, trials and tribulations, use laughter to life your spirits to break the negativity, and heighten gratitude.

    You can have this too when life reveals only hurt and regret and sorrow.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Laugh!

    God provides hope by blessing you with laughter. Your hope will increase as you give yourself permission to laugh. (No guilt allowed.)

    Laughter helps you cope with everyday life and stuff we wish never would happen.

    "There is a time for everything.... a time to weep and a time to laugh." ~ Ecclesiates 3:

    "Live. Love. Laugh. IMPACT!!!"

    TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.

    Live. Love. IMPACT! 

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

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    841 Step Out Into Faith

    841 Step Out Into Faith

    Did you know you are called to step out in faith? And faith not given by your own doings.

    God sets boundaries to not only keep us safe, but to keep us focused and directed where He desires us to go.

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    "God is an indescribable and incredible planner."

    And in that, you are called to step out in faith.

    When you step out in faith, it can bring about jolts of overwhelm and fear, because you may not know the reasoning behind His direction.

    As you learn and lean on God, that causes you to become more vulnerable with Him. You grow in your intimacy with God. Which in turn, increases the level of trust.

    It's a two-way street with God. He will guide you and protect you; provide and love you. All He asks is that you step out in faith.

    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." ~ Proverbs 3:5-6

    Think about all you are trying to accomplish in your life.

    You can't do it all alone.

    So the question is, in what you are wanting to do in your life, are you leaning on God?

    Are you listening to where He is guiding you?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Step Out in Faith!!

    Because if you are, there will be times you don't logically understand what's happening and you will have to step out in faith.

    "Ready your heart constantly leaning upon God."

    "Don't let the worries of this world hold you back. Step out in faith. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness."

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    Live. Love. IMPACT! 

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

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    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

    https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

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    4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2

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    772 One Word that Limits Your Success

    772 One Word that Limits Your Success

    There's one word that limits your success and you don't realize how much you say it.

    Words have power. And when spoken by you, the power is magnified.

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    "Wise speech is rarer and more valuable than gold and rubies." ~ Proverbs 20:15 

    What word are you using that is crushing you daily?

    "Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit." ~ Proverbs 15:4

    So let's play a game! How many times do I say this word or a variety thereof?

    Could this one word be limiting your success?

    "Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." ~ Proverbs 16:24

    But if they're not kind, then they cut you to the core. Slowly over time, you are limiting your success.

    In a study done by Oxford Online, whose associated with the Oxford English Dictionary, they found the most 100 common English words used in writing around the world. (And there's over 2 billion words!)

    The word we are talking about ended up at #56 and #13! It's NO and NOT!!!!

    What can you do to remove the one word that limits your success?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Change your sentence structure!

    1. Remove the NO or NOT in your sentences. Leave the negative behind and think positively.
    2. Structure with statements of what you are doing or accomplishing.
    3. Utilize action to move yourself forward.

    "God is not keeping track of your NOs and NOTs, but you are. When you're keeping score that one word limits your success."

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

     

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    Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

    https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

    https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

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    692 Do I Measure Up?

    692 Do I Measure Up?

    Days can be so tough not only on us, but our children. As we gathered in the kitchen, a sweet voice uttered, "Do I measure up?"

    Goodness gracious! Did a child just ask that question? YES!! It was a sweet little pip squeak, one of mine.

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    For a child to ask that question left me gulping, trying to compose myself as how to respond. I wasn't the only one in the room, but with the excitement of the holidays and all the family about, not many people heard. Or should I say the adults didn't hear.

    Shouldn't children be playing, growing, and learning? The measuring shouldn't come till much later, if at all. Comparison 101 trap in motion.

    "The measure of who we are is what we do with what we have." ~ Vince Lombardi

    Easier said than done. We measure who we are to how we perform against others. Now healthy competition is a good thing. But when our thoughts are obsessed by how we "measure up", we're taking it too far! It becomes unhealthy.

    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

    Where do you stand? Do you measure yourself against others? Do you measure yourself through God's eyes? Do you measure up?

    "Know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the law, because by the works of the law no one will be justified." ~ Galatians 2:16

    When faced with the question, "Do I measure up?", how do you respond?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Ask the 2x2!

    1. What am I measuring?
    2. Who am I measure it for?

    You are perfection in God's eyes, because He sees you through Jesus. 

    Be Present. Be Incredible. Be YOU!!!

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    Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.

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    Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

    https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

    https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

    sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/

     

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    9. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails,be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library

     

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    Cover Art by Jenny Hamson