EP 40 Girls Trip - Mum's first night away from baby

It’s often the small things that make or break a relationship.

In our last session with our Communication Coach, James Fish Gill, we revisit some of the big (small) popcorn moments that have impacted our relationship most, as well as the baby number 2 scenario… 

Thanks for coming on the journey with us!

Heidi & Griff x 

Relationship eps and homework sheets

https://www.heidileeanderson.com/FTP-relationship-therapy

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This is deep! Heidi catches up with her former NXFM breakfast co-host and dear friend, Heath Piper, in his very first podcast interview.

Shit gets very raw and very real.

• True feeling confessions about your newborn 

• Processing the concept of death when you become a parent

• How to find your purpose again when your career ends and you’re a parent 

• Having a vision for your life and family 

• Personal daily regrets  [LINK TO] Heath’s podcast Playback Interviews - https://playbackinterviews.com.au/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/playback_interviews/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089691273653

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When our therapist James Fish Gill didn’t rock up to our last session, Griff and I felt called to have our own chat about how we think we’ve been going in our relationship and in parenting.

Links referenced in the show: My article for Mama Mia 'My husband is "one and done", but I want another baby.' -

https://www.mamamia.com.au/one-and-done/

My book ‘Drunk on Confidence’ - https://www.heidileeanderson.com/Drunk-On-Confidence-Book

James Fish Gill on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/james_fish_gill/?hl=en-gb

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THERAPY SESSION 5 BABY #2 UPDATE

"Do I really want baby number 2 or is it society telling me I want baby number 2?" Heidi's words in therapy session number 5.

This podcast not only saved us from divorce court but it has given us the space to speak and dive into this big decision without conflict and since sharing our dirty laundry live to the public, the conflict between as actually dissolved.

In today's therapy session we dive into where the couple are with having baby number 2!!!

THIS IS A BIG ONE!!!!!

To listen to therapy session in FULL& get your homework https://www.heidileeanderson.com/FTP-relationship-therapy

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Does it feel like your toddler pushes the boundaries with mum so much more than dad?!

Why is this?

Mandy from Raise Toddlers todays special guest drops in to tell us WHY and answers some of your qs

How we should communicate with my toddler? 

Rewarding my toddler for good behaviour - yay or nay? 
Talking all things toddler behaviours and best practices.
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Why is my child getting up at 5am?

Why wont my child go to sleep?

All the hard hitting questions answered in todays pod with sleep expert Donna Moala.

Stalk Donna https://www.instagram.com/bub2sleep/

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From room mates to sex almost every day...Nikki opens up about her current sex life with her hubby. After 16 years of being together and 2 kids, Nikki still has sex almost every day thanks to 5 things she shares in the pod! 

Nikki Chamberlain has momentum in the bedroom with her hubby & she joins Heidi to speak honestly about how they got their MOJO back. 

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https://www.mamamia.com.au/sex-everyday/

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Talk dirty to me? This X-rated, NO BS sex chat is for parents who are struggling to get it on and have lost momentum...

Heidi & Griff have been a borefest lately, they've forgotten how to play in the bedroom & their sex life hasn't been a priority.

Today they are joined by Luke Skewes Intimacy & Relationship Coach who drops in with simple & sexy tips to get your libido going...

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ALL LUKES FREEBIES https://www.heidileeanderson.com/FTP-relationship-therapy

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Ex-child Abuse Detective & former Cop Kristi is on a mission to NORMALISE child protective behaviours & conversations in your family.

THESE STATS ARE WHY THIS CONVO IS SO IMPORTANT ON THE POD TODAY.

1 in 3 girls are /will be a victim of child sexual abuse.

1 in 5 boys are/ will be a victim of child sexual abuse.

MORE than 90% of the time, it IS someone YOU know who harms your child.

Kids wont tell YOU anything unless you empower and educate your little ones & it starts NOW with protective behaviours. 

Let's NORMALISE these conversations to keep our kids safe.

Stalk Kristi and get her book Operation Kids Safe

https://cape-au.com/book

https://www.instagram.com/kristimcvee/

Books for your children

https://e2epublishing.info/

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Alan was coming home from work angry... His automatic response was to react & yell at his kids.

His wife Jess, would lovingly tell him to "fuck off and take 5"... this has changed the game for him and his family. In this ep we dive into HOW Alan STOPPED using fear to stop his kids being naughty and how he is breaking the cycle from his upbringing. 

If you or your partner go to FEAR & ANGER when parenting, this is a must listen on how to take 5, regroup and learn a new way.

Stalk Alan here

https://www.instagram.com/alanhowle/

Alan's Mamamia article 

https://www.mamamia.com.au/how-to-be-a-better-father/?fbclid=IwAR1iso8HsCZb1zVOxQqN67lto1lVOQ9J_c9bi6gHY89FAHCMoBIYeNoylt4

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