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    • Enhance your summer pleasure with Promescent and the Magic WandPromescent's delay spray and arousal gel, along with the iconic Magic Wand sex toy, can help enhance your summer sex experience. Last longer and add excitement with these trusted tools.

      Summer is the season of passion and pleasure, and Promescent's line of pleasure enhancing products can help enhance the experience. The legendary delay spray allows men to last longer, while the warming arousal gel for women adds an extra layer of pleasure. The Magic Wand, an iconic sex toy, is also mentioned as a trusted confidant for unapologetic pleasure. Promescent and the Magic Wand are two trusted tools to make the most out of the summer season. So, whether you're looking to last longer or add some extra excitement to your sex life, these products can help make this summer the sexiest one yet. Check out promescent.com/emily for a discount on Promescent products and sexwithemily.com/magicwand for the Magic Wand.

    • From sex toy shop to BDSM porn producerTransitioned from selling sex toys to producing BDSM content, emphasizing safety and manufactured equipment.

      Pony Gold, a guest from a previous show six years ago, has since transitioned from working at a sex toy shop to producing BDSM pornography for various websites under the company king.com. The company offers a wide range of fetish sites, including "fucking machines.com" and "public disgrace.com," and Pony currently works on "Wired Pussy," a femdom lesbian website focused on electrical play. Despite the taboo nature of the industry, Pony emphasizes the importance of safety and the manufactured nature of the equipment used. The discussion also touched on their past catch-up and Pony's personal experiences with electrical play.

    • Exploring Consensual Electric Play in Adult ContentWiredPussy is a platform featuring electric play in adult content, with devices designed for pleasure and no marks, experienced women, and scenes lasting up to 20 minutes. The founder's personal interest led to expanded knowledge of sexuality and new techniques.

      WiredPussy is a platform that showcases consensual electric play in adult content. The devices used are designed for sexual pleasure and do not leave marks, making them suitable for models with upcoming shoots. Scenes typically involve one dominant and one submissive, with the dominant using various electrical instruments on the submissive. The women involved are experienced and enjoy the experience, with some being new to the practice. Shoots can last up to 20 minutes per scene and can include a story or just the electric play itself. The founder of WiredPussy discovered a deep interest in electric play after working on the website for an extended period and wanted to experience it firsthand. Through this platform, she has expanded her knowledge of sexuality and discovered new techniques and preferences, including the use of electric stimulation.

    • Exploring unique sensations with sex toys and BDSM practicesSex toys and BDSM practices offer various ways to enhance pleasure and experience unique sensations, including muscle contractions during orgasm and public experiences, with consent and safety being paramount.

      The use of sex toys and BDSM practices can provide unique sensations and experiences, including the contraction of muscles during orgasm, which can be intensified with the addition of vibrators. These practices can be explored to one's limits for pleasure, but it's important to ensure consent and safety. Some toys, like the Samurai, can mimic the muscle contractions during orgasm, enhancing the experience. BDSM practices, such as public disgrace, can involve various activities in public places, and these experiences can be accessed through websites and live shows. These practices are not meant to cause harm but to provide pleasure and fun within the realm of consensual BDSM.

    • Exploring Sexuality in a Safe and Consensual WayProfessional guidance and a safe environment allow for comfortable exploration of sexuality, including bondage and kink, while respecting unique comfort levels and preferences.

      The experience of exploring sexuality, including bondage and kink, can be made comfortable and consensual through professional guidance and a safe environment. The person in charge, often the model, holds the power and can set boundaries. Beginners can start small and gradually explore different roles and sensations. It's important to remember that everyone's comfort level and preferences are unique, and respecting those boundaries is crucial. The goal is to create a space where people can live out their fantasies while feeling safe and empowered.

    • Crying during sex: an emotional releaseCrying during sex is a normal and valid emotional response, signifying deep connection and transformation.

      Crying during sexual experiences, especially in the context of BDSM, is not a sign of negativity or discomfort, but rather an emotional release and sign of being pushed to one's limits. This can be a deeply moving and transformative experience for individuals involved, and it's important to have a supportive and understanding environment to allow for this expression. While some may view crying during sex as unusual or even taboo, it's a normal and valid part of the human experience, and it can bring people closer together. Additionally, it's important to maintain open and honest communication in all aspects of relationships, whether personal or professional.

    • Communication and taking things slow are essential for pleasurable oral sexEffective communication and taking things slow can help both partners enjoy oral sex, regardless of gender or experience. Remember that everyone is unique and explore new experiences with an open mind and commitment to pleasure.

      Effective communication and taking things slow are key to pleasuring a partner during oral sex. Both men and women can experience confusion and uncertainty when it comes to sexual acts, and it's important to remember that everyone is different. For women, feeling confused about what their partner likes can make oral sex an intimidating experience. For men, there may be societal pressures around performing certain sexual acts that can make them hesitant. However, by taking things slow, focusing on the moment, and communicating openly, both partners can feel more comfortable and enjoy the experience. Additionally, exploring new sexual experiences, such as oral-anal sex, can add excitement and intimacy to a relationship. It's important to remember that every body is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. The most important thing is to approach sexual experiences with an open mind, a willingness to learn, and a commitment to making your partner feel loved and appreciated.

    • Exploring new sexual experiences with confidence and open communicationConfidence, open communication, lube, consent, and a sense of adventure are essential for exploring new sexual experiences. Prior experience can help make the encounter enjoyable for both parties.

      Open communication and confidence are key elements in exploring new sexual experiences. The conversation reveals a couple who are comfortable with their sexuality and have tried role reversal using a strap-on dildo. The man had prior experience and was confident, making the experience enjoyable and comfortable for both parties. The use of lube, communication, and consent were essential components of their encounter. The woman's excitement and nervousness highlight the importance of approaching new experiences with a sense of adventure and a willingness to learn.

    • Exploring sexual experiences and understanding capabilitiesCommunication and trying new things can enhance sexual experiences. Find a safe and comfortable partner, start small, and respect boundaries in open relationships.

      Communication and exploration are key in expanding sexual experiences and understanding the capabilities of different sexual activities, such as prostate stimulation, for both partners. The speaker shares her experience of trying new things with her partner and encourounters with a femdom website where roles are reversed. She emphasizes the importance of finding a safe and comfortable partner and starting small. The parties she attended involved various services and men catering to the women's desires, creating an empowering and fun environment. It's important to remember that relationships can be open and still respectful, with open communication and boundaries in place.

    • Exploring Authenticity and Openness in Personal and Professional LivesThrough their experiences in the adult entertainment industry, the speakers have learned the value of authenticity, exploration, and growth in their personal and professional lives.

      The speakers in this conversation have open and explorative relationships, experimenting with polyamory and openness to various sexual experiences. They value authenticity and have learned a great deal through their work in the adult entertainment industry, particularly in photography and videography for Kink.com. The speakers have also expressed their excitement about sharing their work in Taboo Magazine and opening up the Armory building for tours. Overall, they emphasize the importance of authenticity, exploration, and growth in their personal and professional lives.

    • The importance of trying new things in sexCommunicate, experiment, and keep an open mind for enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences

      Learning from this conversation with Pony Gold is the importance of trying new things in sex and being open-minded. Pony suggested trying everything twice to overcome initial awkwardness and unfamiliarity, allowing individuals to fully enjoy the experience. She also emphasized the importance of keeping an open mind and being willing to explore new things. During the conversation, Pony mentioned her upcoming appearances with models Patrice Madeline and Bobbie Starr, and encouraged listeners to check out her work on Wired Pussy and Public Disgrace. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of communication, experimentation, and a willingness to try new things in sex.

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