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    Fake Saudi Prince | We’ll Never Be Royals | Part Two

    enJune 27, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • British asset manager offered false business proposition by Saudi princeBe cautious and do thorough research before making financial commitments, especially when approached by individuals or entities promising unrealistic returns.

      Social media has provided new opportunities for scammers to deceive people with grand promises, even in the world of business and finance. In the podcast episode, we follow the story of a British asset manager named Carl who is presented with an irresistible business proposition from a Saudi prince. The prince offers early access to shares of the upcoming Saudi Aramco IPO, promising huge returns. However, Carl's partnership with the prince is based on lies, and he feels the pressure to earn Fritz Roentgen's trust before closing the deal. This involves providing false information about their long-standing business relationship. The podcast episode highlights how the allure of potential wealth and the desire for social status can lead people to overlook red flags and make risky decisions. It's a reminder to be cautious and do thorough research before making financial commitments, especially when approached by individuals or entities promising unrealistic returns.

    • Manipulating Trust for Financial GainBe cautious of offers that seem too good to be true and always verify information before making financial commitments.

      The prince, through his associate Karl, manipulated Fritz into lending him almost $5,000,000 by promising him access to an exclusive IPO and control over European business. This is a classic example of how con artists use deceit and charm to gain trust and swindle money from unsuspecting victims. Despite the prince's supposed wealth being a mirage, Fritz was convinced by the allure of potential returns and the promise of power. This episode of Scamfluencers highlights the importance of questioning the authenticity of offers, especially when they seem too good to be true. The prince's scheme is a reminder that appearances can be deceiving and that it's crucial to verify information before making financial commitments.

    • The Pursuit of Wealth and Status Can Cloud JudgmentThe allure of wealth and luxury can make people ignore red flags and potentially dangerous situations, leading to negative consequences.

      The allure of wealth and luxury can often blind people to the truth, even when red flags are present. In the given text, Tony, a scam artist, successfully raises $8,000,000 from investors for his fake oil company proposal, and once he becomes a multimillionaire, he moves to Fisher Island in Miami to live among the rich and famous. He hires a luxury interior designer, Perla, to decorate his new penthouse for $5-6 million. Perla, who has worked with the Saudi royal family before, is not suspicious of the prince's odd behavior, such as his Midwestern accent and permissiveness of touching, as long as he continues to pay for her services. However, as they grow closer, the prince showers Perla with attention and extravagant gifts, and she becomes increasingly enamored with his wealth and lifestyle. Despite the warning signs, both Perla and Tony continue to ignore him, choosing instead to enjoy the moment and the financial gains. This story illustrates how the pursuit of wealth and status can cloud one's judgment and lead to potentially dangerous situations.

    • Prince's contrasting reactions to emotions and material possessionsThe prince's emotional reactions and material possessions approach differ significantly from Perla's and Jeffrey's. While Perla remains unaffected by the prince's comparison, the prince tries to buy affection with a hotel purchase. Jeffrey, in financial trouble, accepts an offer exceeding the hotel's value.

      Perla's interactions with the Saudi prince reveal vast differences in their reactions to emotional expressions and their perception of value. While Perla remains unfazed by the prince's comparison of her to his mother, the prince's attempt to buy her affection through the Fontainebleau Hotel purchase demonstrates a vastly different approach to relationships and material possessions. Meanwhile, Jeffrey Soffer, a billionaire real estate mogul, sees an opportunity in the prince's offer to purchase a stake in the Fontainebleau Hotel. With his own financial troubles, including a costly divorce and the hotel's debt, Jeffrey eagerly accepts the prince's offer, which far exceeds the hotel's actual value. The prince's extravagant gesture highlights the stark contrast between their financial situations and the lengths they are willing to go to secure their interests.

    • Navigating cultural differences and unexpected challenges in business dealsThorough due diligence and adaptability are crucial in business transactions to overcome cultural differences and unexpected challenges.

      Cultural differences and unexpected challenges can arise in business deals, even for experienced businesspeople like Jeffree. Despite his initial discomfort with the dowry custom, he adapted to keep the negotiations moving forward. However, he later discovered that the prince he was dealing with was not who he claimed to be, leading to a dramatic turn of events. This experience underscores the importance of thorough due diligence and being prepared for the unexpected in business transactions. Shopify, as a reliable business partner, offers an all-in-one ecommerce platform and in-person POS system to help businesses grow, regardless of their stage. Additionally, investing in quality essentials from Quince can help individuals update their wardrobe for the warmer months while saving money.

    • YouTuber Deals with a False Prince Claiming Expensive Gifts and ThreatsAlways verify the authenticity of individuals and their claims before engaging in business deals or relationships to avoid potential financial losses.

      Appearances can be deceiving, and it's important to verify the authenticity of individuals and their claims. In this discussion, a beauty YouTuber, Jeffree Star, has been dealing with a man claiming to be a Saudi prince, Tony, who demands expensive gifts and threatens lawsuits. Tony's behavior and demands are based on a distorted image of royalty from stories like Aladdin. When Jeffree's team buys Tony a $50,000 Cartier bracelet, he posts it on Instagram, but his true identity is later revealed through a former federal agent's investigation. The agent, DC Page, discovers that Tony's diplomatic license plate is a prop from the Netflix show "Designated Survivor," and his real name is Anthony Gignac. The incident highlights the importance of conducting due diligence before engaging in business deals or relationships, as Tony's decades-long con could have resulted in significant financial losses for Jeffree and his team.

    • Uncovering a larger scamAssistant DAs uncovered a larger scam beyond a fake prince trying to buy a hotel, leading to an $8,000,000 investment for a fake oil company IPO.

      Trinity Jordan, an assistant US district attorney in Miami, uncovered a larger scam beyond a fake prince trying to buy a hotel, when he followed the money trail leading to an $8,000,000 investment for a fake oil company IPO. Tony, the scammer, was not only using this money for his lavish lifestyle but also to gain access to influential people like Jeffrey Soffer. Trinity's investigation led him to believe that Tony had no intention of buying the Fontainebleau hotel but wanted to use it as a means to further his Saudi Aramco scam. However, when Trinity began looking for Tony to make an arrest, he and his associates had disappeared, leaving Tony living the glamorous life on a world tour while feeling lonely and longing for family. This case illustrates the lengths scammers will go to deceive people and the importance of thorough investigations to uncover the truth.

    • Money can't buy true friendship or respectGenuine relationships and respect cannot be bought, pursuing wealth at any cost can lead to heartache and destruction.

      Money and material possessions cannot buy true friendship or respect. Tony's life was filled with scams and deceit, all in an attempt to gain the adoration and respect of others. He believed that wealth would bring him the connections and family he longed for, but ultimately, it led to his downfall. Even those closest to him, like Perla and Carl, were ensnared in his web of lies. The consequences were devastating, not just for Tony, but also for those unknowingly involved. It's a reminder that genuine relationships and respect cannot be bought, and that the pursuit of wealth at any cost can lead to heartache and destruction.

    • The Power of Wealth and Deceit to ManipulateWealth and deceit can be used to manipulate and control people's lives beyond social media.

      The concept of influence extends beyond social media and can manifest in gaining wealth through deceit. Tony, a mastermind scammer who started his schemes long before the term "influencer" existed, used his charm and charisma to manipulate people into giving him money, even in a post-9/11 world. His childhood struggles and traumas do not excuse his actions, as many people face similar hardships without resorting to crime. Despite his attempts to shift blame to others, the judge recognized his role as the mastermind and handed down a lengthy sentence. Tony's influence reached beyond his followers on social media, demonstrating the power of wealth and deceit to control and manipulate people's lives.

    • The Ease of Deception in the Digital AgeThe 'Fake Saudi Prince' story highlights the ease with which individuals can manipulate and defraud others using technology and social media, emphasizing the importance of fact-checking and verifying information before trusting it.

      Key takeaway from our two-part series on the "Fake Saudi Prince" is the ease with which individuals can manipulate and deceive others, particularly through the use of technology and social media. Our investigation drew from various sources, including Mark Seals' reporting in Vanity Fair and the HBO docuseries, "Generation Hustle." The story revolves around a man named Khalid, who claims to be a Saudi prince, and his ability to defraud numerous individuals out of significant sums of money. The episode was written by Maura Walls, with additional writing by Sarah Hagie and Saatchi Cole. Our team includes Jen Swan as senior producer, Brian Taylor White as producer, Charlotte Miller and Tate Busby as associate producers, Sarah Ennie as story editor, Rachel b Doyle as senior story editor, James Morgan for sound design, Adrian Tapia for additional audio assistance, and Scott Velasquez for music supervision. Our executive producers are Janine Cornello, Stephanie Gens, and Marsha Louis for Wondery. This series serves as a reminder of the importance of fact-checking and verifying the authenticity of information before trusting it, especially in the digital age.

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    Have you been stuck in a cycle with someone that leaves you feeling like you can never win? Where you feel like you are always giving in? Not saying what you are really feeling? If so, you may be experiencing emotional blackmail. It’s not pretty, and you can be left with the uncomfortable feeling that there’s no way out without sacrificing who you are in the process. Don’t despair - there’s hope for you! In today’s episode, we’re going to chat with the world’s foremost expert on ending the grip of emotional blackmail, Dr. Susan Forward, one of the nation’s leading psychotherapists, and a New York Times bestselling author who has spent decades helping people break out of toxic cycles and discover healthier ways of relating.

    What is emotional blackmail? The structure of emotional blackmail begins with a demand, followed by pressure to fulfill the request, and finally, being threatened with punishing consequences. The threat can be blatant or subtle. Subtle threats come in the form of pouting, sulking, passive aggressive comments, while blatant threats are overtly articulated consequences of ‘if ____, then ____’.

    FOG: Emotional blackmail, although incredibly powerful and hurtful, can become normalized by both the receiver, and the doer.  Another way to know if you may be being emotionally blackmailed is to check in on if you feel as though you are in a fog. FOG stands for Fear, Obligation, and Guilt. These three components cause us to feel overwhelmed and make it so it is difficult to find our way out of an imbalance of power, unable to clearly see the dynamics, and make us have a tendency to comply.

    The Need to Please Disease- When we are vulnerable we have a tendency to rationalize unhealthy and unloving treatment in an effort to protect ourselves from further guilt and fear. We can end up giving in, no matter the price, just so that the other person is not angry with us. The lethality and toxicity of constant giving in accumulates until the person who is the target of emotional blackmail becomes depressed and angry, and internalizes this to become self-hatred.

    Water wearing down the rock: Constant compromise and giving in to something and someone that does not feel aligned with your own needs and desires can wear you down. Like water wearing down the boulder, you become the pebble- a smaller version of yourself. By having the courage to look at what is really happening in the dynamic, you will find opportunities for change and growth.

    Stand up for your own truth.  Everyone is terrified of other people’s anger and retaliation- this is a core fear that goes back into childhood for many. Despite anger being such a powerful force, there are behavioral strategies that help equalize the balance of power and help you become more assertive and self-protective. It takes courage to stand up for your own truth, however it is worth it.

    Honest look at ourselves. None of us are immune or exempt from being emotional blackmailers ourselves. Take time to look at your own patterns around getting others to do what you want. How do you handle when someone disagrees with you, or doesn’t want what you want? Do you plead? Coax? Get pouty? Become punitive? Do you punish through withholding things or love? Do you take their denial personally and as a threat to the relationship itself? Do you say things like “If you really loved me you would…” Or “if you really cared about us you would…” We are all guilty of some of these at times, and the question is not if, but rather to what degree and how often?

    Admit and Acknowledge: Do you feel like you have been emotionally blackmailing someone? Begin by labeling your behavior as such. Then, find the courage and humility to sit down and tell the person you are bullying that you are aware of your actions. Naming and sharing this goes a long way. Admitting and acknowledging is a way of fessing up and owning your actions and it creates a climate of much greater safety. With this safety healing and repair can begin. Saying sorry will not be enough however. You will have to show the person you have hurt that you are ready to own your actions through behavioral changes over time. And elicit their help! Ask the person you have hurt what they need from you to feel safer, and more trusting. Find ways together to move forward, and stay open to getting counseling!

    Admitting and acknowledging is a two way street! It is important to look at your own responsibility and behavior as the compliant one as well. Read through the following checklist to find out if you are a target of emotional blackmail:

    -       I tell myself that giving in is no big deal

    -       I tell myself that giving in is worth it to get other person to quiet down/calm down

    -       I tell myself that what I want is wrong

    -       I tell myself that it is not worth the hassle- I’ll give in now and take a stand later

    -       I tell myself that it is better to give in then to hurt their feelings

    -       I don’t stand up for myself

    -       I give away my power

    -       I do things to please other people and get confused about what I want

    -       I acquiesce

    -       I give up people and activities I care about to please the other person

    Yes to the above? Don’t wait for the other person to change. Do the above statements resonate with you? If so, it is time to look inside and find the courage to make changes yourself. Find the emotional maturity and empowered stance to stop the victim/blame cycle by realizing that you do not need to put yourself second any longer. Be willing to look to your past to see if complacency is an automatic, inherited, or learned behavior that began in your childhood. Be willing to take the reins in your own hands and set limits and boundaries. You have just as much responsibility as the blackmailer to change the dynamic, and you have just as much right as the other person to have your needs met. This can be a difficult and daunting shift in perspective for anyone who has a history of abuse as it brings up true fear and guilt around displeasing people- reach out for support when needed!

    Negotiating for a healthier relationship. We all have choices when a relationship goes off the track. We can accept things the way they are, we can negotiate for a healthier relationship, or worst comes to worst you can end the relationship. That said, there are strategies, communication skills, and behavioral changes that are worth trying in an effort to shift the dynamics before giving in more, or giving up.  

    Feeling your fear: Shifting yourself out of an emotional blackmail situation requires the willingness to tolerate the discomfort of displeasing someone, and often this can bring up fears. Many of our fears are old feelings that we mistake as coming from current events. We confuse our past with the present, and so when we get hurt we react in accordance with prior experiences. We will do nearly anything to protect ourselves from our fear of other people’s anger. Differentiating the present from the past will leave you with more confidence and many more choices for ways to react. Help yourself see that you are now an adult, no longer hopeless or dependent, and that your past does not need to dictate your experience any longer. From this knowing, ask yourself ‘what is the worst thing that can happen?’ Then believe you have the courage and resilience inside to handle this. Lastly, it comes down to allowing yourself to feel fear, and being with it.

    *NOTE: There are certain situations and people where the fear is very warranted. If the person emotionally blackmailing you is completely locked into their angry defensive way of being, then you must ask yourself if it is really worth it or possible to work with them. Listen to your fear in these situations as it may be protecting you from true threat.

    Be with your guilt: Guilt, along with fear, is often the major contributor to complacency. The fear of guilt itself is a powerful force. Realize that you can tolerate the guilt- no one died from guilt! Your dignity, self-respect, and health will all thank you for addressing this. Have a talk with your discomfort- take a close look and ask yourself the following questions:

    -Is what I did or want to do malicious?

    -Is what I did or want to do cruel?

    -Is what I did or want to do abusive?

    -Is what I did or want to do insulting?

    -Is what I did or want to do belittling?

    -Is what I did or want to do demeaning?

    -Is what I did or want to do truly harmful?

    If you answer no to these questions, then there is nothing to be guilty of. That is not to say that changing your behavior won’t be uncomfortable, but you can begin to redefine the discomfort as a sign of growth and change!

    Do it and the feelings will show up! Many people incorrectly assume that they need to feel stronger before they can take steps and make changes in reaction to emotional blackmail. This is not true! As you begin to shift to a new set of behaviors, the sense of empowerment will follow. Others may be shocked by your changes, and have strong reactions. Allow for this and do not take it on! It may not feel great at first, and that is OKAY.

    How to de-escalate the conflict: Blackmail thrives on conflict and escalation, and pushing one person lower and lower on the power structure. A natural tendency when we are emotionally attached is to get defensive, however defensiveness breeds defensiveness. If you can find non-defensive responses, the emotional blackmailer will no longer be able to attack and you WILL shift the dynamic. This requires learning to protect yourself, versus defending yourself. Doing so requires non-defensive communication skills. For example, try saying “I am sure you see it that way, and you are entitled to your feelings, however I am not willing to have this conversation now, let's talk about it when you are calmer…” Other non-defensive communications that can shift the other person’s resistance and defensiveness sound like:

    “Can we talk about why this is so important to you?”

    “Will you help me understand?”

    “It is not acceptable for you to continually make me feel guilty and scared- how can we work together to find a way to get your needs met in a way that doesn’t compromise mine?”

    “I feel as though you are pushing me and our relationship to the edge of a cliff and I don’t know if you are taking me seriously when I say I am not happy. I want to find ways together to solve our problems and conflicts in a way that doesn’t leave one of us feeling emotionally battered- can we talk about this?”

    “I am not willing to live this way any more, I need to be treated with respect and caring and want to find ways to make us both feel safer and more loved”

    “You could be right, however I am feeling…”

    Stop! And take a breath. Next time you are asked to do something you are not okay with, first thing to do is to STOP. Take a breath. This immediately pulls you out of your habitual pattern and away from the automatic reaction. Instead of saying yes, or no, say “I am not able to make this decision right now, I need to think about this. I’ll get back to you- but I need some time to figure out how I am really feeling about this”. This stance will allow you to calm down, garner your strength, and have the time necessary to connect with yourself beyond the fear and guilt. A healthy decision is made when we are able to balance and check in with both our intellect and our emotions- this takes time. Putting things back on your own timeline will make for your ability to be in your integrity and this will inevitably shift the power structure!

    Resources

    Find out more about Susan Forward's work at her website

    Email Susan at susanforward6@aol.com  if you are interested in phone consultations- she responds to each email personally!

    www.neilsattin.com/blackmail Visit to download the show guide, or text “PASSION” to 33444 and follow the instructions to download the show guide to this episode with Susan Forward!

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    HSP043 Gesprächshypnose Teil 1

    HSP043 Gesprächshypnose Teil 1
    Gesprächshypnose-Techniken und Prinzipien leicht gemacht - Wie erfährst du in diesem Podcast. Das Feld der Hypnose ist riesig und faszinierend, und es erlebt derzeit seinen größten Boom seit den 1880er Jahren. Von der Gesprächshypnose und der direkten Hypnose in der Hypnotherapie, über Bühnenshows bis hin zur improvisierten Straßenhypnose - Hypnose ist überall! Noch nie zuvor haben so viele Hypnotiseure so viele Arten von Hypnose praktiziert. In diesem Video besprechen wir Gesprächshypnose Techniken und Prinzipien. Es ist ein cooles Thema, weil nur eine relativ kleine Anzahl von Hypnotiseuren es praktiziert. Wir hoffen, das zu ändern. Einer der größten Hypnotiseure der Geschichte, der Psychiater Milton H. Erickson, war der führende Meister der Gesprächshypnose, und er entwickelte eine Menge einzigartiger Techniken, die wir uns ansehen werden. Wir geben dir die Werkzeuge an die Hand, damit es auch bei dir funktioniert.