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    Free Yourself From People Pleasing

    en-gbMarch 03, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • The importance of saying noRecognize the discomfort of saying no, prioritize self-care, and make healthier choices for yourself and others.

      It's okay to say no, even though it may be uncomfortable and hurtful for both parties involved. People pleasers often find themselves in a cycle of constant yeses, leading to overcommitment, burnout, and ultimately, disappointing others. It's essential to recognize that everyone experiences the pain of a no, and it's a necessary part of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. By acknowledging and accepting the discomfort of saying no, we can begin to break free from the people-pleasing cycle and make healthier choices for ourselves and those around us. Remember, it's better to disappoint someone once than to disappoint many people repeatedly.

    • Believe in your ability to overcome challengesTrust in your inner strength and resilience to get through tough times, remember you're not alone and help is available

      No matter what challenges you may be facing, you have the power and ability within you to overcome them. The host, who will be back tomorrow with another episode of Everyday Positivity, encourages everyone to remember this fact during difficult times. It's easy to forget that we have the strength and resilience to get through tough situations, but it's important to keep this belief in mind. So, take a deep breath, keep pushing forward, and trust that you have what it takes to succeed. Remember, you're not alone in your struggles, and there are resources and support available to help you along the way. Stay positive, and keep moving forward.

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