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    Giggling about worst first dates, going to jail, and professional golfers

    enJune 16, 2021

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    • Sharing experiences and connectionsBombas founder's mission of comfort and giving back, human connections made through shared experiences, and listeners' worst date stories

      Bombas, a company founded by Dave and Randy, offers super comfortable essentials for customers while donating an item for every purchase to those in need. The team, including Harriet and Hannah, shared their experiences and connections they've made with listeners, emphasizing the importance of human connection and the excitement for future live shows. A memorable moment involved Paige mistakenly being called by another woman's name at a club, leading to an unexpected connection. The episode featured the sharing of worst date stories from listeners, highlighting the bonding power of reliving shared experiences of adversity.

    • Unexpected behaviors on first datesTrust and communication are crucial in relationships. First dates can involve unexpected behaviors, some of which may be endearing, while others may be inappropriate or even alarming. It's essential to navigate these situations with openness and honesty.

      First dates can be unpredictable and sometimes involve unexpected behaviors. The speaker shared experiences of encountering a man who asked for her favorite sex position, showed her photos of him with his chihuahua, and kissed her on the head upon first meeting. While some of these actions could be seen as endearing or harmless, others were perceived as creepy or inappropriate. The speaker also shared a story about following her boyfriend to jail after he got into a fight, and discovering unfavorable information on his phone. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of trust and communication in relationships, and the potential for surprises on first dates.

    • Unexpected experiences in New York CityEmbrace the unexpected in city life, be adaptable, and find humor in unexpected situations

      New York City can be an unpredictable and interesting place, filled with unexpected encounters and experiences. From a mysterious encounter with a friend's ex, to dealing with unexpected events like motorcycle gangs and parades, the speakers in this conversation experienced a range of unexpected situations. Despite the challenges, they found humor and acceptance in the shared experiences of city life. Another key takeaway is the importance of being adaptable and going with the flow when things don't go as planned. Whether it's figuring out what to watch on TV or navigating unexpected events, being able to roll with the punches and find joy in the unexpected can make for memorable experiences. Additionally, the speakers emphasized the importance of having a good sense of humor and being able to find the funny in even the most unexpected situations. Overall, this conversation highlights the unique and unpredictable nature of city life and the importance of embracing the unexpected.

    • Authenticity and specificity matter on RayaBe genuine, focus on personal interests, and make specific connections on Raya to increase chances of finding a compatible match.

      Authenticity and specificity are key elements in creating an effective dating profile on Raya. The speaker expresses disdain for false representations, such as listing occupations that aren't truthful or using generic opening lines. Instead, she suggests focusing on personal interests and making genuine connections. She also emphasizes the importance of being organized and attentive when using the app, as it can be easy to lose track of potential matches. Additionally, she advises against targeting people outside of a reasonable age range or location, and encourages using specific compliments or references to something in their profile to start a conversation. Overall, the speaker's experience on Raya highlights the importance of being authentic and engaging in meaningful interactions to increase the chances of finding a compatible match.

    • Dating Apps vs. Real Life InteractionsDespite her fascination with the idea of being bi, the speaker values authentic connections and prefers to stay true to herself, expressing disdain for men on dating apps and finding real life interactions more fulfilling.

      The speaker finds it challenging to connect with people on dating apps due to the lack of non-verbal cues and organic interactions. She prefers meeting people in person and experiencing a natural connection. The speaker also shares her frustration with the male species on dating apps and expresses her skepticism towards trying new experiences or identities. Despite her fascination with the idea of being bi, she feels she hasn't missed out on anything and doesn't believe she's bi. The speaker is content with her thoughts as her source of adrenaline and expresses her disdain for men. Overall, the speaker values authentic connections and prefers to stay true to herself.

    • The Importance of Releasing EmotionsExpressing emotions, even over small matters, is crucial for mental health. Holding in emotions can lead to negative consequences, so it's important to let them out and acknowledge them.

      Emotions, even over seemingly insignificant matters, can lead us to cry and it's important to let them out. The speaker shared an experience of having a tough day that culminated in an emotional outburst, which she compared to childhood experiences. She emphasized the importance of crying as a release, and how holding it in can lead to negative consequences. The conversation also touched on the differences in how people react to mistakes or misunderstandings in relationships. Overall, the discussion highlighted the significance of acknowledging and expressing emotions, even in everyday situations.

    • The power of shared experiences and thoughtful gestures in building connectionsShared experiences, whether funny or awkward, bring people closer together. Thoughtful gifts and gestures show appreciation and care.

      The power of shared experiences and reactions can bring people closer together, even if those experiences involve awkward situations or misunderstandings. Whether it's watching a funny video or dining out with family and friends, the anticipation and laughter that come from these moments can create lasting memories and connections. Another interesting takeaway from the conversation is the impact of thoughtful gifts and gestures. While grand gestures can sometimes backfire, small and meaningful presents, like restaurant gift cards or personalized tokens, can go a long way in showing appreciation and care for others. Lastly, the conversation highlighted the importance of communication and vulnerability in relationships. From sharing embarrassing stories to expressing feelings, being open and honest with each other can help build trust and deepen bonds.

    • Unexpected Discoveries and Self-AcceptanceBe cautious when discovering new information about people, but also be open to delightful surprises. Accept and love all aspects of oneself, and support women in male-dominated industries. Have health insurance for peace of mind, and use Ouai's anti-frizz cream for frizz-free hair.

      While it's important to research people before getting involved with them, sometimes discovering new information after the fact can lead to unexpected and even delightful surprises. However, it's essential to be cautious and trust your instincts, as some discoveries may not be positive. Another takeaway is the challenges women face in male-dominated industries like comedy, and the importance of supporting and uplifting each other. Lastly, finding the right person involves accepting and loving all aspects of oneself, including the use of hair extensions, and being open to new experiences. Additionally, having health insurance is crucial, and UnitedHealthcare TriTerm Medical Plans offer flexible and budget-friendly coverage for those in between jobs or during open enrollment periods. Lastly, for those with frizzy hair, Ouai's anti-frizz cream provides long-lasting control and split end repair, saving time and effort during the summer months.

    • Discover products and services for a better lifeSave on hair care with Ouai, get fit with Peloton, and upgrade your wardrobe with Rhoback using exclusive promo codes.

      There are several products and services that can make your life easier and more enjoyable. Ouai offers a line of hair care products that detangle, hydrate, and fight frizz, suitable for all hair types. Use the promo code "giggly" for a 15% discount. Peloton is a fitness platform with motivating instructors and classes for all fitness levels, from low-impact 10-minute sessions to intense 30-minute rides. Start your fitness journey with a Peloton bike or bike plus rental using the code "giggly" for terms-apply rentals. Rhoback's new women's line includes lightweight, performance fabric clothing perfect for both lounging and active lifestyles. Use code "giggly" for a 20% discount on your first purchase. Lastly, remember that everyone has unique preferences and experiences, so embrace them, whether that means tolerating toe cracking or sharing college highlights with a partner.

    • The Complex Relationship Between Social Media, Creativity, and Personal RelationshipsSocial media can connect us, reflect our mental health, and serve as emotional outreach or distraction. However, pressure to create perfect content and fear of judgment can lead to self-criticism and uncomfortable experiences.

      Social media platforms like TikTok can serve as a source of connection and understanding between individuals, even when they're not physically present. However, it can also be a reflection of one's mental health and well-being, with the creation and consumption of content potentially serving as emotional outreach or a distraction from deeper issues. The pressure to create perfect content and the fear of being judged can lead to a cycle of laziness and self-criticism. The speaker also shares anecdotes about uncomfortable experiences with unwanted performances, such as a man playing a guitar during sex or a dance routine after showing off one's body. Overall, the conversation highlights the complex relationship between social media, creativity, and personal relationships, and the importance of self-forgiveness and setting boundaries.

    • Misunderstandings and trust in parent-adult relationshipsEffective communication and understanding individual differences are crucial for maintaining healthy relationships between adults and their parents.

      Communication and trust are essential in any relationship, including the one between adults and their parents. The speaker's mother was concerned about her son's whereabouts, leading to misunderstandings and frustration. The concept of hatfishing, or deceiving someone by presenting a different appearance online, was also discussed. Additionally, the speaker expressed her opinions on various quirks and preferences, such as men's grooming habits and ice cream choices. Ultimately, the conversation highlighted the importance of understanding and respecting individual differences and the role of effective communication in maintaining healthy relationships.

    • Unexpected conversations can lead to deep connectionsAuthenticity and openness foster meaningful connections, as seen in a long hospital wait turned into a heartfelt conversation and the impact of Toni Collette's acting and Bo Burnham's vulnerability in 'Inside'

      Unexpected experiences, whether good or bad, can lead to deep connections. The speaker shared her experience of a long and frustrating hospital wait, which turned into a meaningful conversation about childhood traumas and shared experiences over nachos and margaritas. She also recommended the Bo Burnham special "Inside" on Netflix, sharing how the comedian's vulnerability and openness about his anxiety and mental health struggles resonated with her. The conversation also touched on the acting abilities of Toni Collette and the recommendation of the Netflix series "Unbelievable." Overall, the discussion highlighted the importance of authenticity and openness in forming meaningful connections.

    • Mare of Easttown: Kate Winslet's Performance Stands OutWhile opinions on the show varied, most agreed Kate Winslet's acting was exceptional. Scott Disick and Amelia Hamlin's relationship was seen as natural, while Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's reunion was perceived as a calculated PR move, highlighting the complexities of fame.

      Despite having mixed feelings about the show "Mare of Easttown," with some finding it slow and anxious while others found it engaging and captivating, the majority agreed that Kate Winslet's performance was exceptional. Additionally, in the world of celebrity news, Scott Disick's relationship with Amelia Hamlin, despite their age difference, was seen as a vibe and a natural progression, while the apparent rekindling of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's relationship was viewed as a calculated PR stunt. The discussion also touched upon the idea that fame can keep people trapped in a certain stage of their lives.

    • Celebrities controlling their public imageJ.Lo's decision to reunite with Ben Affleck may be a PR move, but ultimately it's her choice. Balancing sharing personal info and maintaining privacy is crucial.

      People, especially celebrities, have the power to control their public image and choose whether or not to share their personal relationships with the world. J.Lo's decision to get back together with Ben Affleck may be seen as a PR move to show the world that she's moving on and is desirable, but it's ultimately her choice. The discussion also touched on the topic of personal privacy and the contrast between public figures and less public figures like comedians, who can keep their personal lives private. The importance of self-care and investing in quality products, such as L'Oreal Paris Lash Paradise Mascara and Cozy Earth sheets, was also emphasized. Overall, the conversation highlighted the balance between sharing personal information for public consumption and maintaining privacy.

    • UnitedHealthcare's Health ProtectorGuard and Celebrity NewsUnitedHealthcare's Health ProtectorGuard plans help manage out-of-pocket costs, while celeb news discussed Angie Jolie, Kendall Jenner, Megan Fox, and emotional availability in relationships.

      UnitedHealthcare's Health ProtectorGuard fixed indemnity insurance plans, underwritten by Golden Rule Insurance Company, can help individuals manage out-of-pocket costs by supplementing their primary insurance. Meanwhile, in the world of celebrity news, Angelina Jolie's unexpected visit to her ex-husband Johnny Lee Miller's house sparked rumors and introspective thoughts about past relationships. Kendall Jenner's public display of affection with Devin Booker and Megan Fox's new relationship with Machine Gun Kelly were also topics of discussion. A hot take from TikTok suggested that emotional availability and the ability to have a good time are more desirable traits in a partner than physical perfection. The conversation then shifted to the stresses of dating athletes and the desire to be the wife of a Major League Baseball player or a golfer.

    • Embracing the Spotlight in Golf and OnlineGolf and social media provide opportunities for confidence, community, and positive experiences for women.

      Golf is more than just a sport for some people, it's an experience that brings out confidence and a sense of being in the spotlight. The speaker shares her excitement about the full-body exposure and the attention she receives on the golf course. She also discusses her Instagram presence and how she turned it into a safe space for women. Additionally, they discuss upcoming merchandise and Amazon Live events. Despite some unwanted attention in her DMs, the speaker emphasizes the importance of creating a community and a positive space for women. She also shares her plans for upcoming Amazon Live events featuring summer merchandise and wedding guest dresses. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of embracing new experiences and creating a supportive community.

    • Looking Forward to Exploring New PlacesThe speaker is excited about attending events in Nashville and other locations, inviting others to join, and eager to make new memories and discoveries.

      The speaker is excitedly looking forward to attending several upcoming events in various locations, including Nashville, which she has long wanted to visit. She invites others to join her and expresses her enthusiasm for the potential experiences and discoveries that lie ahead. Despite some confusion about the specifics, such as the exact location of West Nyack and the residence of Kaitlyn Bristow, the speaker's overall sentiment is clear: she is eager to explore new places and make new memories. Additionally, there is a mention of a planned visit to Atlanta to see a friend. Overall, the conversation reflects the excitement and anticipation that often comes with planning travel and making new experiences.

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