Podcast Summary
Explore your sexuality this summer with trusted tools: Embrace your sexuality and explore new horizons with products like Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel, or the versatile Magic Wand. Communication, consent, and exploration are essential for a satisfying sexual experience.
Summer is the season of passion and exploration when it comes to sex. To enhance the experience, consider trying out products from Promescent, such as their legendary delay spray or warming arousal gel for women. Another iconic pleasure tool is the Magic Wand, which has been praised for its powerful rumble and versatile designs. This summer, embrace your sexuality and explore new horizons with these trusted tools. For those interested in gender and sex labels, tune in to Sex With Emily for insightful discussions and answers to your sex and relationship questions. Remember, communication, consent, and exploration are key to a satisfying and fulfilling sexual experience.
Learn about gender fluidity with Sex With Emily: Join Sex With Emily for discussions on gender fluidity, enter their Halloween contest for prizes, and follow for behind-the-scenes content.
The Sex With Emily podcast will continue to provide listeners with two episodes a week, and the host encourages following her on social media for behind-the-scenes content and updates. They are currently running a "sexy tricks or treats" contest for Halloween, where listeners can share their favorite bedroom tips for a chance to win prizes. The podcast is also featuring guests Max Landworth and Dani David from the film "Elle," which aims to educate audiences about gender fluidity and non-binary identities in an engaging and entertaining way. It's important to be open and receptive to learning new terms related to gender identity, as it helps create a more inclusive and accepting society. The podcast encourages listeners to stay tuned for more informative and enlightening conversations on the topic.
Discussing Fluid Gender Identities with Jacob Tobia: Respect individuals' self-identification as language around gender evolves, using terms that best describe their experiences, including 'genderqueer', 'trans', 'gay', 'femme', and 'transfeminine'.
Gender and sexual identities are complex and multifaceted, and people have the right to use the language that best describes their experiences. During a podcast interview, the hosts discussed their guests' fluid identities with Jacob Tobia, a writer and producer who identifies as genderqueer and trans. Tobia explained that labels around gender are like purses or accessories, and he uses various terms to describe his identity, including genderqueer, trans, gay, femme, and transfeminine. He emphasized that language around gender is emerging and evolving, and it's important to have more ways to talk about what's already been going on. Tobia also shared that he was identified as male at birth but doesn't identify as cisgender because he doesn't feel comfortable in the gender identity that correlates with his assigned sex. The hosts acknowledged the complexity of the language and emphasized the importance of respecting individuals' self-identification.
Understanding Gender Fluidity: Gender identity can be fluid and not strictly confined to a binary of male or female. Support individuals in expressing their gender identity, even if it's different from what's expected.
Gender identity is not strictly limited to the sex assigned at birth. Trans individuals may not fully identify with the gender expected of them based on their sex. Gender fluidity is the concept that gender identity can be fluid and not strictly confined to a binary of male or female. This means that individuals may experience both masculine and feminine identities, and their gender expression can change over time. The speaker shared their personal experience of growing up with a gender identity that did not fit neatly into the male or female categories. They described feeling both masculine and feminine, and expressing both through their interests and activities as a child. The speaker also discussed the challenges they faced in expressing their gender identity to their family, particularly in a time before the trans movement was widely recognized and discussed in mainstream culture. Despite these challenges, the speaker emphasized the importance of affirming and supporting individuals in their gender expression, even if it may lead to a harder life.
Challenges for Trans and Non-Binary Children in Schools: Trans and non-binary children face significant challenges expressing their true selves in schools, with many feeling uncomfortable due to their gender expression, and parents and educators must support them in navigating these complexities.
Children, especially those who identify as trans or non-binary, face significant challenges expressing their true selves in schools. This was highlighted in the discussion when a speaker shared an anecdote about asking to dress up as Pocahontas as a child, despite not being Native American. The speaker's mother was faced with a difficult decision, considering the potential backlash and potential harm to her child. The speaker also touched upon the complexity of gender identity and how some individuals may identify as trans and later discover that they identify as gender fluid. The conversation emphasized the importance of supporting children in expressing their true selves and the challenges they face in doing so. Additionally, it was mentioned that a study by Gender Spectrum found that 74% of transgender or non-binary students feel uncomfortable attending school due to their gender expression.
Exploring Identity and Personal Expressions: Understanding and respecting individual experiences and identities, whether related to gender or food, is crucial. Resources and solutions that cater to unique needs while not compromising taste or quality are essential.
Identity and self-expression are complex and multifaceted, whether it's related to gender or dietary preferences. In the conversation, Emily shared her experience of identifying as non-binary and feeling that her identity doesn't limit others from identifying as they choose. Similarly, she discussed her love for bread and the solution she found in Hero Bread, which allows her to enjoy her favorite food while adhering to her health goals. Jacob and Donnie also shared their stories, highlighting the complexities of growing up as refugees and experiencing gender identity in different cultures. The conversation emphasized the importance of understanding and respecting individual experiences and identities, whether it's related to gender or food. Furthermore, the discussion showcased the importance of resources and solutions that cater to individual needs while not compromising on taste or quality. Hero Bread, with its low net carb and high protein offerings, is an excellent example of a product that allows people to enjoy their favorite foods without guilt. Overall, the conversation underscored the importance of embracing individuality, understanding complexities, and finding solutions that cater to unique needs and preferences.
Gender fluidity: A historical and culturally accepted identity: Education and understanding can help parents accept their gender fluid child's identity, which has been recognized and revered in ancient cultures but suppressed in modern times
Gender fluidity is not a new concept, but rather a historical and culturally accepted identity that has been suppressed and categorized in modern times. The speaker shared their personal experience of growing up gender fluid and facing challenges from their strict, traditional Middle Eastern parents. They highlighted the importance of education and understanding in helping their parents accept their identity. The conversation also touched upon the history of gender fluidity, which has been recognized and revered in various ancient cultures, but was repressed during colonialization and the enforcement of rigid gender norms. The speaker emphasized the need for greater awareness and education about the history and acceptance of gender fluidity.
Understanding Gender Fluidity and Nonconformity in the Digital Age: The Internet and digital connectivity help young people with gender fluidity and nonconformity feel less isolated and empower them to express themselves authentically, contributing to positive mental health, self-esteem, and community outcomes.
The increasing awareness and acceptance of gender fluidity and nonconformity is not new, but rather a natural evolution of society's understanding of human identity. The Internet and digital connectivity play a significant role in this process by providing young people with access to diverse perspectives and communities, helping them feel less isolated and empowering them to express themselves authentically. The current cultural and political climate seems to be more receptive to these concepts, but there is still a long way to go. The hope is that this generation, which has grown up with the knowledge that gender identity is fluid and that it's okay to exist outside of traditional boxes, will be more inclusive and empowered, leading to positive outcomes for mental health, self-esteem, and community. The overall message is that people are just people, and it's essential to recognize and celebrate the diversity of human experiences.
Exploring the Complexity of Identity: Embrace the fluidity of human identity and challenge societal norms that seek to limit and categorize people.
The film explores the importance of seeing beyond labels and the limitations they impose on our understanding of identity. The protagonist's friendship with a gender-fluid roommate helps him realize that gender, like other aspects of identity, exists on a spectrum. The conversation also highlights the challenges of navigating dating as a non-binary person and the stigma surrounding bisexuality and pansexuality. Ultimately, the film and this discussion emphasize the need to embrace the fluidity and complexity of human identity and to challenge societal norms that seek to limit and categorize people.
Complexity of sexual orientations and gender identities: Recognize and respect individuals' energy and dominant traits, not rigid gender categories. Embrace inclusivity, respect, and understanding for all.
Individuals' sexual orientations and gender identities are complex and multifaceted, and labels may not fully capture the depth and complexity of their experiences. The conversation highlighted the importance of recognizing and respecting the energy and dominant traits that individuals are attracted to, rather than focusing on rigid gender categories. The discussion also touched upon the current political climate and the progress being made in recognizing and validating non-binary and intersex identities through legislative measures such as California's Gender Recognition Act. Ultimately, the conversation emphasized the importance of inclusivity, respect, and understanding in creating a world where all individuals can live authentically and freely.
California moves towards non-binary IDs, Boy Scouts accept girls: California advances towards non-binary IDs, Boy Scouts open to girls, debates continue on gender inclusivity in IDs and scouting
We are witnessing significant progress towards gender inclusivity, as California moves closer to becoming the second state to allow non-binary gender designations on ID documents. This follows Oregon and Washington D.C., which have already implemented similar legislation. The importance of accurate IDs for non-binary individuals cannot be overstated, as they often do not have IDs that reflect their true identities. The ongoing debate raises questions about the necessity of gender designations on IDs and whether we should move towards gender-neutral options or eliminate them altogether. The Boy Scouts' recent decision to accept girls into their ranks is another step towards gender inclusivity. However, questions remain about the need for separate boy and girl scouts, and whether we should aim for a more inclusive, gender-neutral approach. These conversations are not limited to politics but are also gaining traction in media and society at large.
First film with non-binary actor in a non-binary role: Approach conversations with openness, research, and a non-judgmental attitude to create an accepting environment for gender fluid individuals.
Media representation for non-binary identities is making strides, particularly in TV shows, but films are lagging behind. The upcoming film "Elle" is set to be one of the first to feature a non-binary actor in a non-binary role. When interacting with individuals who may be gender fluid, it's essential to approach conversations with a calm and confident demeanor. Be open to learning and asking questions, and remember that mistakes are a natural part of the process. Apologize and move forward, focusing on creating an accepting environment. Doing some research beforehand, such as using resources like Wikipedia, can also help in making individuals feel welcome.
Prepare before asking questions about gender identity: Research, watch educational resources, respect unique identities, and approach conversations with openness and respect to avoid misunderstandings and uncomfortable situations.
Preparation goes a long way when engaging in conversations about complex topics, especially when it comes to understanding someone's identity. Jacob Tobia encourages doing research and watching educational resources before approaching someone to ask questions. Misunderstandings and misinformed assumptions can lead to uncomfortable situations, and it's essential to approach these conversations with respect and openness. Tobia shares that they often get asked intrusive questions about their gender identity, which can be tiring and unwelcome. They suggest that instead of focusing on labels, it's crucial to recognize and respect each person's unique identity. Tobia also emphasizes the importance of being aware of the potential for unwanted attention and stares in public, especially when presenting in a more feminine way. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of being informed, respectful, and open-minded when engaging in discussions about gender identity.
Exploring gender identity in relationships: Honest communication and therapy can help navigate the complexities of exploring gender identity within a monogamous relationship.
Personal growth and self-discovery can be challenging, especially when it comes to exploring gender identity within the context of a committed relationship. The speaker shares her experience of dealing with people's stares and judgments in her career and how she learned to zone out and not let it affect her. However, when it comes to gender fluidity and monogamous relationships, things can get more complicated. If one partner wants to explore their gender identity and the other is not on board, it's essential to have an open and honest conversation. Monogamy comes with an agreement to explore all parts of oneself with the partner. If the relationship's dynamics need to change, it's crucial to address it together. Therapy can be helpful in these situations, as it can provide education and guidance for both partners. Dara Hoffman Fox, a licensed gender therapist, is an excellent resource for those seeking professional help. Ultimately, navigating these complexities requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to communicate and work through challenges together.
Labels can be confusing and limiting: Focus on enjoying moments and meeting people based on their energy, not labels. Embrace the uniqueness of your identity and consider seeking therapy for support in exploring it.
Labels, whether it's for gender identity or sexuality, can be limiting and confusing. Jeff, who identifies as bisexual but feels perplexed by labels, was advised that he doesn't need to limit himself to one word to describe who he is. Instead, he should focus on enjoying each moment and meeting people based on their energy rather than their labels. The pressure to conform to a label can create unnecessary stress and complications. It's important to remember that everyone's experience and identity is unique, and there's no need to fit into a predefined box. The discussion also touched on the importance of therapy for individuals exploring their gender identity and the potential complexities that come with labeling oneself, even if a label is chosen.
Embrace your identity and express love freely: Create a shame-free environment for love and sex, embrace your identity, and express yourself authentically without fear of judgment or rejection.
Love and sexual experiences should be free from shame and stigma, regardless of one's gender identity or sexual orientation. According to Jacob Tobia, it's essential to embrace your identity and express your love or attraction without feeling the need to hide or be ashamed. Shame can stem from societal pressures and can affect people of all identities. Therefore, it's crucial to create an environment of consent, empathy, and kindness in relationships and sexual encounters. Tobia encourages people to own their identities and express themselves authentically, without fear of judgment or rejection. Additionally, Tobia shares that they can be found through their website, "L the movie dot com," social media handles @lthemovie2017, and public speaking engagements. Overall, Tobia's message emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, authenticity, and creating a shame-free environment for love and sexual experiences.
