Podcast Summary
Alex Cooper considers Kylie Jenner's closet and the idea of a closet swap: Alex Cooper appreciates comfort and style but dislikes prolonged discomfort. She finds the idea of swapping closets with Kylie Jenner amusing despite logistical challenges, and has a background as a ballet dancer that helps her endure uncomfortable high heels for short periods.
Alex Cooper, the founder of Call Her Daddy, values comfort and style in her wardrobe, but can't stand being uncomfortable for long periods of time. She admires Kylie's closet and shares a similar shoe size with her, making her an ideal candidate for a closet swap. Despite the logistical challenges, she finds the idea amusing. Cooper also mentioned her experience with uncomfortable high heels, which she could endure for a short time due to her background as a ballet dancer. The episode was presented by David's Bridal, emphasizing the importance of finding the right fit in clothing, and was brought to you by Shopify.
Growing a business with Shopify and handling fame: Shopify is a valuable tool for online sales and fame brings challenges in privacy and relationships.
Shopify is a powerful tool for growing an online business, especially in converting browsers into buyers. The speaker has experienced significant success with the platform and recommends it to anyone looking to expand their merch sales. Additionally, dealing with the pressures of fame and privacy can be challenging, but it's important to remember that it comes with the territory and finding trustworthy friends can be difficult, especially when one's intentions are unclear. The speaker values social connections and trusts people until proven otherwise, but confrontation is not an easy situation for them to handle. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of effective business tools and the complexities of navigating fame and relationships.
Maintaining cordial relationships despite being wronged: Haley values peace and respects cordiality, but recognizes the importance of addressing issues when necessary to prevent toxic relationships and find balance.
Haley values maintaining cordial relationships and avoiding confrontation, even in situations where she may have been wronged. She acknowledges that there are limits to this approach, and that sometimes it's necessary to speak up for oneself and move on from toxic relationships. However, she has struggled with the potential backlash and exhaustion that comes with publicly addressing issues. Ultimately, Haley is learning to find a balance between standing up for herself and preserving her peace of mind. She recognizes that her reluctance to confrontation is a trait that many people respect, but she also acknowledges the importance of addressing issues when necessary and not letting them pile up.
High-profile marriages require compromise and effort: Hailey emphasizes the importance of her marriage to Justin, highlighting their friendship, joy, and resilience amidst challenges and public scrutiny.
Marriage, even in the context of a high-profile relationship like that of Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin, requires compromise, sacrifice, and effort. Hailey emphasizes that despite the challenges, her marriage to Justin is the best thing ever for her, as he is her best friend, her source of joy, and someone who has overcome great adversity. The fame that comes with their relationship has not significantly impacted Hailey's identity, but rather highlights the normalcy and humanity of their bond. The public's skepticism and scrutiny of their relationship have made Hailey less sensitive to speculation and criticism, allowing her to focus on the love and connection she shares with her husband.
Married life of a public figure's spouse: Being married to a public figure brings attention and scrutiny, but truth and personal experiences matter most.
Being married to a public figure brings attention to one's personal life, which can be unavoidable and subject to scrutiny. Haley acknowledges that her relationship with Justin, who was a famous figure when they got married while they were both young, attracted criticism due to the rapid timeline and perceived immaturity. She emphasizes that they were both single when they started their relationship and clarifies that she never interfered with anyone else's relationship before. She also acknowledges the challenges of perception and the reality gap that exists when people judge situations based on external factors rather than the truth behind closed doors. Ultimately, Haley remains confident in their relationship and the decisions they made.
Impact of past relationships on current reputation: Past relationships can lead to negative comments and harassment online, but it's important to focus on the present and move forward, with support from loved ones.
The past relationships of public figures can significantly impact their current relationships and reputation, leading to unwarranted hate and harassment online. The speaker in this conversation shared her experience with her husband's past relationship and how it still affects the negative comments she receives on the internet. Despite the situation being resolved and both parties moving on, the hate persists. The speaker expressed that she respects her husband's past and the closure it brought to his life, and that she tries to ignore the hateful comments. She acknowledged that the internet can be obsessive and full of hate, but it's important to focus on the positive aspects of life and move forward. The speaker's husband also came to her defense when she was being harassed online, showing his support and understanding of the situation. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of respecting past relationships and focusing on the present, while also acknowledging the negative impact of online hate and harassment.
Comparing relationships to past experiences can hinder growth: Focus on the uniqueness of each relationship and potential for growth, rather than comparing and living up to past experiences or external expectations.
Comparing relationships to past experiences or idealized notions can be detrimental and limit personal growth. The speaker's relationship with Hayley's ex-boyfriend was constantly compared to his past relationships, making it difficult for them to be happy in their own relationship. The pressure to live up to fans' expectations and the fear of being bullied online led the speaker to hide her true self for years. However, she eventually found the courage to embrace her personality and express herself authentically through YouTube. It's important to focus on the uniqueness of each relationship and the potential for personal growth rather than comparing and trying to live up to past experiences or external expectations.
Embracing Authenticity and Letting Go of Harmful Cycles: The speaker prioritizes emotional well-being and authenticity over explaining herself to others, acknowledges the challenges of living in the public eye, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing truth from false narratives online, and letting go of past conflicts to move forward.
The speaker values authenticity and truth, and has learned to prioritize her emotional well-being over explaining herself to others. She acknowledges the challenges of living in the public eye and the impact of online harassment, but refuses to engage in harmful cycles of explanation and defense. Instead, she focuses on staying true to herself and her experiences, and trusts that the truth will eventually come to light. The speaker also highlights the importance of recognizing the difference between truth and false narratives spread online, and the need to let go of past conflicts and move forward.
Social media can distort reality and lead to hurtful behavior: Refuse to let negativity affect happiness, relationships, business, or career. Focus on positivity and wishing well for others.
Social media can often distort reality and lead to disrespectful and hurtful behavior towards individuals, even during supposedly happy moments. Haley shares her experience of having her relationship publicly scrutinized and harassed, which she found disrespectful and depressing. However, she emphasizes that she refuses to let negativity take away her happiness, relationships, business, or career. Instead, she encourages focusing on positivity and wishing well for others, rather than living for the approval of others or trying to get a reaction. The internet's desire for attention and conflict can lead to unnecessary tension and sadness, and it's essential to recognize and reject this behavior.
The importance of addressing negative emotions and having a support system: Expressing and processing negative emotions, instead of invalidating them, is crucial for emotional growth. Having a support system can help in this journey, and therapy can be an effective tool for addressing deep-rooted emotional tendencies.
It's natural to experience negative emotions, even for those with public platforms or seemingly ideal lives. However, the shame and isolation that come with these feelings can be debilitating. It's crucial to have a support system and allow oneself to express and process these emotions instead of invalidating them. Additionally, understanding the roots of emotional guardedness from childhood experiences can help in the ongoing journey of self-acceptance and emotional growth. The author's personal experience of feeling uncomfortable expressing vulnerability, especially through crying, is a common theme, and therapy can be an effective tool for exploring and addressing these deep-rooted tendencies.
Respect and understanding in dealing with difficult situations and people: Emphasize respect and decency towards others, even in challenging situations. Acknowledge that everyone has their own issues and emotions, and encourage moving forward with clarity.
Respect and understanding are key in dealing with difficult situations and people. Haley spoke about her experience with a reserved and non-confrontational woman, acknowledging that it was a learned behavior from growing up. She emphasized the importance of mutual respect and decency towards others, even if one doesn't necessarily like or agree with them. Haley also addressed her fans, encouraging them to respect others and understand that everyone has their own issues and emotions. She shared that she had spoken with the woman in question and that they held respect and love for each other. Despite past challenges, Haley emphasized the importance of moving forward with clarity and respect, rather than dwelling on the past or trying to correct every narrative.
Honesty and trust in Haley and Justin Bieber's relationship: Honesty and transparency help build trust in Haley and Justin Bieber's relationship. They value privacy and have chosen against open relationships, focusing instead on a strong foundation of trust and respect for each other's boundaries.
Honesty and trust are crucial elements in a successful relationship for Haley Bieber and Justin Bieber. During a candid interview, Haley shared that Justin's honesty and transparency have helped her build trust in their relationship. She believes that knowing everything about each other, good or bad, creates a strong foundation of trust. The couple values their privacy and has chosen to keep certain aspects of their relationship exclusive to each other. They have also decided against exploring open relationships, as they believe that such arrangements may not work for them in the long run. Overall, their relationship is built on a foundation of trust, honesty, and respect for each other's boundaries.
The importance of diverse relationships and open conversations: Cultivating friendships with the opposite sex promotes personal growth and healthy opposite-sex relationships. Communication, self-restraint, and mutual respect are essential in all relationships. Voting is a crucial civic duty, and open conversations about intimacy and sexual preferences are important in maintaining healthy relationships.
Having diverse relationships, including friendships with the opposite sex, is important for personal growth and can lead to healthy opposite-sex relationships. Communication, self-restraint, and mutual respect are essential in any relationship, whether it's a friendship or romantic. Additionally, the importance of voting was emphasized as a crucial civic duty, especially during times of political uncertainty. The discussion also touched upon the importance of having open and honest conversations about intimacy and sexual preferences within relationships.
Navigating political differences within a family: Encourage open dialogue despite differing political views, stay true to your beliefs, and vote regardless.
Navigating differing political views within a family can be challenging and may lead to heated arguments. Haley Bieber shared her personal experience of not being able to discuss politics with her parents due to significant differences in beliefs. She emphasized that people are bound to have varying perspectives, but encouraged everyone to vote regardless. Haley also opened up about her past experiences with partying and drinking during her teenage years in New York. Despite the discomfort, she acknowledged the importance of expressing her views and pushing herself out of her comfort zone in certain contexts. Ultimately, Haley emphasized the importance of self-discovery and staying true to one's beliefs, even if they differ from those of loved ones.
Regretful experiences from drunken nights: Alcohol can lead to regretful moments and the negative aftermath may outweigh the initial enjoyment.
Alcohol use can lead to regretful and embarrassing experiences, even for those who consider themselves to be in control. The speaker shares a memory of getting drunk for the first time in a basement and the ensuing consequences, including hiding empty bottles and feeling the need to attend church to seek forgiveness. They also reflect on how their drinking habits have changed over time, with the realization that the negative aftermath is no longer worth the momentary enjoyment. The juxtaposition of these experiences with religious or spiritual seeking for solace adds a unique perspective to the narrative.
A comforting routine for bouncing back from a night of partying: Having a reliable routine can help effectively cope with the aftermath of indulgent behaviors
Despite consuming a large amount of alcohol, the speaker's go-to recovery meal consists of a bacon, egg, and cheese sandwich on a croissant, accompanied by a blue Gatorade. This routine, which they refer to as being "back" and "fine," is a comforting and effective way for them to bounce back after a night of partying in New York City. The blue Gatorade is a crucial component of this routine, as it is their preferred choice. Overall, this anecdote showcases the importance of having a reliable and comforting routine to help cope with the aftermath of indulgent behaviors.
