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    How Do You Optimize Your Performance When Everything Sucks? | Pete Carroll & Michael Gervais

    enJuly 22, 2020
    What skills are important for optimizing performance during disruptive times?
    How does Coach Pete Carroll incorporate mindfulness in sports?
    What is FOPO and why is it significant?
    Why is having a clear purpose important for personal growth?
    What psychological skills help maintain culture under stress?

    Podcast Summary

    • Embracing mindfulness and focus for peak performanceDevelop trainable skills like optimism, confidence, and mindfulness to adapt and thrive during disruptive times. Embrace focus and Eastern philosophy to enhance performance.

      Optimizing performance during disruptive times involves developing trainable skills such as optimism and confidence, and overcoming the fear of other people's opinions. Coach Pete Carroll, who has a Super Bowl ring and is known for his unique approach to sports, shares how he came to embrace mindfulness and Eastern philosophy to enhance his team's performance. He met his partner in this endeavor, high-performance psychologist Michael Gervais, who has worked with athletes and CEOs, and they have collaborated on Compete to Create, an online course and audiobook. Together, they emphasize the importance of mindfulness and focus in achieving peak performance, encouraging individuals to embrace these practices to adapt and thrive in challenging times.

    • Leadership rooted in care, compassion, and loveEffective leadership involves deep connection, fostering growth and performance by unlocking unique strengths and vulnerabilities, and creating a family-like bond

      Effective leadership in sports and beyond involves a deep connection with individuals, rooted in care, compassion, and love. This approach, while sometimes perceived as "soft," actually fosters maximum performance and growth by unlocking the unique strengths and vulnerabilities of each person. It requires hard work, dedication, and a commitment to helping others reach their full potential. The science supports this approach, as does the success of those who have embraced it, including the speaker himself, who has achieved a Super Bowl ring through this philosophy. In essence, the best leaders are those who care for their team members as if they were family, creating a strong bond and fostering an environment where everyone can thrive.

    • Exploring human potential and creating supportive ecosystemsCoach Carroll and sports psychologist Dan Orlovsky's successful partnership focuses on strengthening relationships, supporting mental well-being, and inspiring personal growth through their unique approach to performance.

      The successful partnership between Coach Carroll and sports psychologist Dan Orlovsky is rooted in their shared interest in exploring human potential and creating a supportive ecosystem for individuals to flourish. Over the past decade, they have collaborated to develop systems that strengthen relationships, both within the team and with the external world. Dan's role as a sports psychologist focuses on supporting the team's mental well-being and helping coaches operate at their best. Their unique approach to performance extends beyond the field, with a mission to teach and inspire others to apply their philosophies to their personal and professional lives. Through their Audible Originals, they share their insights and experiences, aiming to help people live stronger, more committed lives.

    • Effective communication and understanding of individual needs are crucial for building successful relationshipsCoach Pete Carroll emphasizes the importance of connecting with each player, having a clear personal philosophy, and communicating effectively to help them develop and reach their full potential

      Effective communication and understanding of individual needs are crucial for building successful relationships in both sports and other fields. Pete Carroll, the head coach of the Seattle Seahawks, emphasizes the importance of reaching and connecting with each player to help them develop their talents and reach their full potential. He believes in being competitive and inclusive, finding ways to communicate and make sense to everyone. Carroll also emphasizes the importance of having a clear personal philosophy and integrating the training of the mind, body, and craft into daily practice. The way information is presented is also crucial, as it should be normalized and integrated into the ecosystem of the organization rather than being seen as a separate, stigmatized aspect.

    • Celebrating Unique Qualities in Seattle SeahawksThe Seahawks prioritize understanding and celebrating each player's unique qualities to build a relationship-based organization, unlocking their full potential for extraordinary outcomes.

      The Seattle Seahawks prioritize understanding and celebrating the unique qualities of each player to build a relationship-based organization. This approach, rooted in humanistic psychology, values unconditional positive regard and openness to discover the special idiosyncrasies of individuals. It's a relentless commitment to celebrating the uniqueness of people, rather than letting them be themselves. By embracing this philosophy, the Seahawks believe they can unlock the full potential of their team, leading to extraordinary outcomes in both sports and the corporate world.

    • Cultivating a successful and authentic environmentRegular practice of mindfulness fosters trust, effective communication, and problem-solving in a successful and authentic team culture.

      Creating a successful and authentic environment requires both unconditional caring and a competitive spirit. When everyone involved, from players to staff, trusts and knows they will receive the same level of commitment in return, it fosters a powerful and meaningful culture. However, maintaining this culture under pressure and stress requires psychological skills, such as mindfulness, to stay present and focused, allowing for effective communication and problem-solving. Regular practice of mindfulness, whether through meditation or other means, can help individuals remain calm and available for their team, ultimately contributing to the success and growth of the organization.

    • Being fully present in each moment through intense listening and commitmentPracticing mindfulness through intense listening and commitment to the present moment can help individuals and teams perform at their best, especially in challenging situations.

      Mindfulness is about being fully present in each moment, whether it's through meditation or through active engagement in conversations and experiences. Coach Dan's approach to mindfulness is through intense listening and full commitment to the present in conversations. He emphasizes the importance of not getting distracted by external factors and staying focused on the present moment. This mindset, combined with optimism, can help individuals and teams perform at their best, especially in challenging situations. Ultimately, mindfulness is a practice that requires dedication and effort for some, while others may find it comes naturally. The key is to find what works best for each individual and embrace the practice of being fully present in each moment.

    • Staying Optimistic, Focused, and Disciplined for SuccessOptimism, mindfulness, and discipline are crucial for success, particularly in the fourth quarter. Focus on the present and the next step for accountability and improved performance.

      Optimism, mindfulness, and discipline are key factors for success, particularly in the fourth quarter for the team being discussed. The ability to stay optimistic, focused, and disciplined in the moment can help seize opportunities and outlast competitors. Finishing each task properly and consistently is also crucial for success. The pursuit of discipline involves finding ways to focus on the present and the next step, which can lead to accountability and improved performance. Confidence is built through continued successes and enlightenment to these concepts. Thousands of things need to be done well for success, and it's a constant challenge and calling for the team. Additionally, Easter brunch at Whole Foods Market offers high-quality eggs and convenient catering options for a perfect celebration.

    • The Power of Optimism and ConfidenceOptimism and confidence are related but distinct concepts. Optimism is having a positive outlook and belief in a better future, while confidence is faith in one's abilities. Training optimism involves intention and commitment, not magical thinking, and both concepts hold power when used effectively.

      While confidence and optimism are related, they are not the same thing. Optimism is about having a positive outlook and belief in a better future, while confidence is about having faith in one's abilities. Training optimism does not mean believing in a fantasy where one can win just by thinking positively. Instead, it's about harnessing the power of intention and commitment to create what one desires, with the understanding that it requires discipline, consistency, and perseverance. The power of positive thinking can be misconstrued when it promises unrealistic outcomes, but the intention and vision behind it can still hold significant power. Ultimately, it's essential to recognize the legitimacy of these concepts while avoiding the pitfalls of magical thinking.

    • The Power of Personal Belief and OptimismBelieving in oneself, having credible self-talk, and practicing optimism can lead to mental toughness, personal growth, and improved mental health.

      Having a clear vision for oneself, coupled with credible self-talk and optimism, can lead to mental toughness and personal growth. Confidence is the belief in one's abilities, which comes from an internal inventory assessment and the realization that one can handle difficult situations. Optimism, on the other hand, is the fundamental belief in a positive future, which can be cultivated through practicing gratitude and focusing on good experiences. Russell Wilson's success story is an excellent example of the power of personal belief and the importance of testing oneself to build credible self-talk. Practicing optimism, such as identifying three good things each day, can lead to improved mental health and overall well-being.

    • Maintaining a positive mindset during challengesBelief in abilities, optimism, and focus on principles can lead to personal growth and resilience during difficult moments

      Mental skills training, such as front-loading optimism and belief in one's abilities, can help individuals stay focused and persevere during difficult moments. This belief allows for optimism to sustain and can lead to increased resilience and the ability to overcome obstacles. While it's important to be realistic about limitations, maintaining a mindset that aligns with principles and purpose can lead to growth and innovation. The power of positive thinking can be beneficial, but it's essential to connect with the truth and remain grounded in reality. Ultimately, the combination of discipline, optimism, and a focus on principles can lead to personal growth and the ability to overcome challenges.

    • Overcoming the Fear of Other People's OpinionsFear of others' opinions can hinder personal growth. Decouple self from actions, focus on self, and find a meaningful purpose to overcome this fear and increase authenticity and fulfillment.

      Fear of other people's opinions (FOPO) can significantly hinder personal growth and potential. This fear, which is closely linked to the default mode network in the brain, can lead to excessive self-referencing and evaluation, causing suffering and limiting authentic self-expression. To overcome FOPO, it's essential to decouple who you are from what you do and focus on being true to yourself rather than trying to meet others' expectations. Additionally, having a clear purpose in life can lead to greater fulfillment and consistency in personal growth. According to research, a purpose should be personally meaningful and contribute to something bigger than yourself. By recognizing and addressing FOPO and identifying a purpose, individuals can experience increased freedom and authenticity in their lives.

    • Journey of self-discovery and growthExplore and identify your purpose through mindfulness, journaling, conversations, and smaller goals. Your purpose is a powerful force that flows naturally from you and cannot be taken away.

      Discovering one's purpose in life is not just about personal gain, but rather contributing to the greater good, whether that be for other people or the environment. Purpose is a lifelong journey rather than a fixed end point. To explore and identify your purpose, consider practicing mindfulness, journaling, or engaging in conversations with wise individuals. Thin slicing your purpose into smaller, manageable goals can also make the process less overwhelming. Remember, your purpose should flow naturally from you, and the seeking and growth that comes with the journey are just as important as the destination. Once identified, your purpose is a powerful force that cannot be taken away from you, even in the face of life's challenges. As Karch Kiraly, a legendary volleyball player and coach, once said, "Nobody gets on the podium at the Olympics without staring down a double barrel loaded shotgun." Embrace the journey of self-discovery and the growth that comes with it.

    • Understanding Purpose and Emotional LandscapesRecognizing purpose leads to fulfillment and success, acknowledging emotional landscapes essential for growth, create safe spaces for open communication, respect cultures, and address past mistakes.

      Having a clear sense of purpose can lead to fulfillment and even financial success. The speaker shares how recognizing and grappling with the question of "what is my purpose?" is a difficult but important one, as evidenced by a 75-year Harvard study. He also emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and addressing the emotional landscapes, particularly in the context of racial tensions and pain in the community. When working with a team, it's crucial to create a safe space for open communication and understanding, and to do everything within one's power to help and support each other. The ongoing process of recognizing and respecting cultures and addressing past mistakes is essential for growth and progress.

    • Building strong relationships in sports and lifeCoach Carroll's Seahawks foster respect, caring, listening, and responding for team success and societal impact

      Building and maintaining strong relationships based on respect, caring, listening, and responding well is essential for success, both in sports and in life. The Seahawks organization, under the leadership of Coach Carroll, has created a culture that fosters these qualities, leading to productive and meaningful conversations. This approach not only benefits the team but also extends to making a positive impact on society as a whole. The ongoing process requires dedication, self-awareness, and a commitment to continuous improvement. The Seahawks' approach to teamwork and social justice serves as an inspiring example for us all.

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    Maybe it's the faults of your past. 

    Maybe it's your own belief that you're never good enough.

    Why is it that we hang out with our stumbles and failures questioning our worth?

    Never once did God hesitate when He created you; fearfully and wonderfully made, knowing every hair on your head.

    Yet where is the voice of truth?

    Is it the naysayers, the badgers, the mockers? Is that where your voice of truth is being solidified and defined?

    I want you to really think about whom you are putting your trust in.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ The Voice of Truth!

    REFLECTION: Today, I want you to reflect on these three questions.

    1. Where is the voice of truth coming from?
    2. What is the voice of truth telling you?
    3. How are you using the voice of truth in your life?

    If you are hearing God, the only voice of truth, then you know you are loved, given a gift of salvation, and grace for your life's journey.

    That's the voice of truth you need to be listening to.

    Not the negative CRAP, the doubts and drama of others, and not the daily sagas of self-centered mindsets. 

    It's all about control, earthly control. What happened to Heavenly control?

    Let God wash away the torment of lies that threaten your greatness He's creating within you.

    Let it go! Let God have it all!

    Give Him your heart.
    Dedicate your life to glorify Him.
    Rejoice with the voice of truth.

    As you go out this week...

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    May God bless you this week in all your steps, in all your endeavors. Seek His guidance. Praise His name. The voice of truth!

     

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    E:83 SETTING MEANINGFUL GOALS FOR 2020

    E:83 SETTING MEANINGFUL GOALS FOR 2020

    Hi everyone! We made it through another year and another decade!

    In this episode, I'm talking about how my year went, my ups and downs and what I'm going to strive for next year. Setting meaningful goals is huge, and I talk about mine and how you can set your own. I want to hear from you so DM me your goals!

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    Amanda Graham - The Power of Mindfulness to Radically Change Your Life

    Amanda Graham - The Power of Mindfulness to Radically Change Your Life

    Amanda is a licensed clinical mental health counselor and the founder of Unbridled Way Forward, an innovative practice that guides people to discover their true path by incorporating horses into mental health therapy, personal growth, and leadership and team building. 

    Amanda has had a diverse career path leading her around the country, including professional actor, animal protection advocate, executive leader, educator, and counselor. 

    Despite her many roles, the through line of her life has always been a deep curiosity about human behavior and a desire to be of service. 

    All these experiences have led her to our show today to talk about a consistent practice that has enriched her life and her choices:  the power of mindfulness to radically improve people’s lives, both personally and professionally.

    In this episode, find out:

    • What mindfulness is really about

    • Four components to functioning at a high level

    • The one attribute all leaders must possess to succeed

    • Secret to bringing mindfulness into the corporate setting

    • The indirect benefit to embracing mindfulness in large organizations

    Tune in and learn how incorporating mindfulness will bring you and your company to peace and calm and better decision-making!

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    Connect with Amanda and find out more about her Unbridled Mindfulness online and in-person programs on her website, UnbridledWayForward.com

    While you are there, be sure and check out her free pdf download,

    6 Easy Steps to Calm Your Busy Mind