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    How to love yourself

    enJuly 16, 2024
    What role does self-love play in overcoming challenges?
    How does the speaker prioritize self-care despite her busy schedule?
    What are the consequences of detaching from self-love?
    Why is personal alignment important during difficult times?
    How can negative energy from others affect self-love?

    Podcast Summary

    • Self-love and resilienceSelf-love is essential for personal growth and resilience, even during tough times. Prioritizing self-love can help dissipate obstacles and improve overall well-being.

      Self-love is crucial for overcoming hardships and obstacles in life. The speaker, who is fortunate enough to interact with people from all over the world, has noticed a pattern among those who are going through tough times and have low self-esteem. They often detach from self-love, which is a natural response when focusing on survival. However, reconnecting with self-love can help dissipate obstacles and improve overall well-being. The speaker uses her own experience of working long hours and prioritizing her clients over self-care as an example. Despite the exhaustion, she makes sure to prioritize self-love by connecting with her audience every morning, afternoon, and evening. This simple act of self-love helps her recharge and continue her work with renewed energy. Overall, self-love is an essential component of personal growth and resilience. It's important to make time for it, even during challenging times.

    • Self-love and wellbeingSelf-love is essential for our wellbeing and happiness, but it's something many struggle with as we grow older. To reconnect with self-love, recognize its importance and make conscious efforts to practice it.

      Self-love is crucial for our wellbeing and happiness, yet it's something many of us struggle with as we grow older. When we're born, we naturally love ourselves, but as we face bullying, jealousy, and other challenges, we may lose touch with that self-love. This disconnection can manifest in various ways, from small mishaps like breaking a glass or getting lost, to larger issues like financial stress and workplace drama. The speaker suggests that our primary job in life is to learn to love ourselves in a human body, and that when we lose touch with that love, we may feel lonely, depressed, or disoriented. By recognizing the importance of self-love and making a conscious effort to reconnect with ourselves, we can improve our overall wellbeing and happiness.

    • Self-love priorityNeglecting self-love can lead to unhappiness and misalignment. Prioritize self-care and reflection to realign and attract positive experiences.

      When we feel lost, unhappy, or out of alignment in our lives, it may be a sign that we are not prioritizing self-love. External distractions, relationships, and friendships that don't enrich us can lead us astray. When we experience external disasters or rejections, it's important to remember to return to self-love and focus on our inner alignment. Negative energy from others may try to pull us away from this love, but it's crucial to stay focused on prioritizing ourselves. By taking time for self-care and reflection, we can realign ourselves and attract positive experiences into our lives.

    • Energy InfluenceSurrounding ourselves with positive energy leads to self-love, happiness, and success, while negative energy leads to self-hate, disconnection, and misery. Prioritize self-care, enjoyment, and love to align with the light energy.

      The energy we surround ourselves with greatly influences our perception of the world and our relationships. The alignment with positive, light energy can lead to self-love, happiness, and success, while negative, dark energy can lead to self-hate, disconnection, and misery. It's essential to prioritize self-care, enjoyment, and love to align with the light energy. The happy baby metaphor emphasizes the simplicity of finding joy in oneself. In chaotic situations, maintaining emotional control and peace can lead to a calmer response. Ultimately, the goal is to surround ourselves with positive energy and learn to love and appreciate ourselves.

    • Emotional ownershipReflect on past struggles, appreciate personal growth, practice self-care, and recognize resilience for emotional ownership and self-appreciation

      Each moment presents an opportunity for emotional ownership and self-appreciation. When faced with negative emotions or external challenges, it's important to reflect on past struggles and appreciate personal growth. Practicing self-care and maintaining positive habits can help keep negative energies at bay. Remember, every moment is an opportunity to reconnect with oneself and stay centered. Additionally, it's important to recognize and stay resilient against those who try to disrupt our peace and pull us out of ourselves. Self-love and self-care are powerful tools to maintain inner harmony.

    • Self-alignmentStaying true to oneself and maintaining a strong sense of self is crucial for navigating through life's challenges and interactions. Staying grounded and centered helps avoid getting lost or making mistakes.

      Maintaining a strong sense of self and staying true to one's own energy and vibe is crucial for navigating through life's challenges and interactions. The speaker shares an experience of being nitpicked and feeling the pressure to doubt herself, but she refuses to let others step outside themselves and affect her. She emphasizes the importance of staying grounded and centered, even during chaotic situations, as a way to avoid getting lost or making mistakes. By being in alignment with herself, the speaker is able to move through life with confidence and clarity, knowing where she stands and where she's going.

    • Encounters with 'dark energy' peopleEncounters with 'dark energy' individuals can be damaging and may attempt to bring you down, but their actions cannot truly destroy you. Maintain self-confidence and don't let their negativity impact you.

      Encounters with "dark energy" people, whether as a child or an adult, can be destructive and bullying. These individuals may try to bring you down by making you feel worthless and insignificant, often due to their own vices and ignorance. However, it's important to remember that no one can truly destroy you – they can only convince you to destroy yourself. Stay focused, maintain self-confidence, and don't let their negativity impact you. Remember that they may not even be aware of their harmful behavior. Recognize their actions for what they are and refuse to be swayed by their negativity.

    • Emotional controlFocus on self-love and self-acceptance to maintain emotional control, rather than letting external situations or people provoke negative emotions

      We should focus on staying composed and in control of our emotions, rather than letting external situations or people provoke us. Becca emphasizes the importance of self-love and self-acceptance, and reminds us that we don't have to be perfect to deserve love and pride in ourselves. By focusing on the positive aspects of ourselves and refusing to let others pull us outside of ourselves, we can save valuable time and energy that would otherwise be spent on negative emotions. So, take care of yourself, love yourself, and remember that you are in control of your emotions and reactions. Embrace the crazy parts of yourself, own them, and keep moving forward with positivity and self-love.

    • Appreciating othersTaking time to connect with others and appreciate their unique qualities is essential, having faith in ourselves and others, and embracing imperfections can lead to strong connections and positive impact

      No matter how busy life gets, taking the time to connect with others and appreciate their unique qualities is essential. Whether it's through working late into the night or having a heartfelt conversation, we have the ability to make a positive impact on those around us. It's important to have faith in ourselves and others, and to embrace our quirks and imperfections. By doing so, we can uncover the brilliant source of light and energy that lies within each person. So, take a moment to give someone a big hug and have faith in the strength of your connections. Embrace the chaos and enjoy the journey.

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