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    How To Make Someone Say Yes

    enAugust 29, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Make it easy for people to say yesReducing barriers to entry increases the chances of getting a yes. Examples include Steve Jobs' simple product designs and Robert Cialdini's persuasive techniques. Apply this principle to various aspects of life for increased persuasiveness.

      Making things easy for people is key to getting them to say yes or take action. According to Yale professor Zoe Chance, the biggest factor determining people's behavior is the amount of effort required. In today's episode of Nudge, Zoe shares insights on how to effectively influence people, drawing examples from Steve Jobs and Robert Cialdini. She emphasizes the importance of making things easy for people, whether it's signing up for a newsletter, volunteering, or saying yes to an interview request. By reducing the barriers to entry, we can increase the chances of getting a yes. This principle can be applied to various aspects of life, from persuading someone to try a new product to convincing a busy expert to appear on a podcast. So, if you want to be more persuasive, start by making it easy for people to say yes.

    • Text message reminders boost attendance ratesSimple text message reminders can prevent thousands from going to jail and improve customer satisfaction by reducing effort

      Simple interventions like text message reminders can significantly improve attendance rates and even prevent people from going to jail. In a study conducted in New York City, sending text message reminders to people with court dates led to an 8% increase in attendance and prevented 7,000 people from going to jail. This simple intervention made it easier for people to take action and resulted in a majority of cases being dismissed. This concept can be applied in various contexts, such as setting up meetings or appointments, by making it easier for others to remember and take action. Additionally, the customer effort score, a metric used in marketing, is a crucial determinant of customer loyalty and repeat business. By minimizing the perceived and actual effort required, businesses can improve customer satisfaction and reduce negative word-of-mouth.

    • Asking for a large favor first and then a smaller onePeople are more likely to agree to a smaller request after denying a larger one, due to the 'door in the face' effect

      Making things easy for customers, while important, is not the only way to influence their behavior. The "door in the face" technique, which involves asking for a large favor first and then following up with a smaller request, can be an effective way to influence people's decisions. This technique works because people have a difficult time judging the value or size of a request in isolation. The classic study on this topic, known as the "juvenile delinquents at the zoo" study, illustrates this concept. Researchers approached people on campus and asked them to chaperone troubled youth at the zoo, an overwhelming request that many people refused. However, when the researchers followed up with a second, smaller request to become a tutor, many more people agreed. This technique can be powerful, but it should be used sparingly to avoid coming across as manipulative or transactional.

    • The 'door in the face' technique: Making smaller requests after larger onesPeople are more likely to agree to a smaller request after they've already declined a larger one, increasing compliance rates by up to 50%.

      People are more likely to say yes to a smaller request after they have already declined a larger one. This phenomenon is known as the "door in the face" technique. In a study, people were asked to commit 2 hours a week for 2 years to tutor teenage criminals, but none agreed. However, when asked if they could chaperone a zoo trip, over half said yes. This is because the second request seemed smaller in comparison to the first. This technique is effective because people see the requester as reasonable, and they are more inclined to help out. The time between the two requests is also important, as the requests should be made as close together as possible for the best results. Research suggests that this technique can encourage up to 50% of people to comply with the second request. The "door in the face" technique is a common tactic, but it's most effective when the time between the two requests is minimized. The reason this technique works is that people like the requester more after they have made a concession, and they feel more confident in their negotiation skills.

    • Technique to persuade with a larger request followed by a smaller oneAsking for a larger request first and then a smaller one can increase the chances of getting a yes, but it's essential to use ethically and with respect for the person's time and resources.

      The "store in the face" technique, also known as the door in the face or the rejection-then-retreat technique, is an effective way to persuade people to say yes to a smaller request after they have initially rejected a larger one. This technique can be used carefully and mindfully to increase the chances of getting a yes, but it's important not to manipulate or take advantage of the situation. Additionally, the technique has been proven to be effective not only in person but also online, as shown in a study where participants were more likely to donate after being presented with a larger initial request and then a smaller follow-up request. However, it's crucial to only ask for something that you genuinely want and to avoid making excessive demands or putting undue pressure on the person. Overall, the store in the face technique is a powerful tool for persuasion, but it should be used ethically and with consideration for the other person's time and resources.

    • Reframing offers as opportunities to change the worldEffectively reframing offers or situations can persuade and influence, as demonstrated by Steve Jobs' recruitment of John Scully. HubSpot's Service Hub uses AI to offer personalized, efficient customer service, fostering long-term relationships and increasing retention and revenue.

      Effective communication and influence often involve reframing situations or questions to resonate with the audience. Steve Jobs' persuasive approach to recruiting John Scully, as shared by Zoe, serves as a powerful example. Instead of asking Scully to join Apple directly, Jobs framed the offer as an opportunity to change the world, making it a compelling proposition that Scully couldn't resist. This strategy, known as reframing, is a key persuasive technique discussed by Robert Cialdini in his book "Pre-suasion." In business, implementing a comprehensive service solution like HubSpot's Service Hub can help companies better connect with their customers and keep them satisfied, even as they scale. The platform's AI-powered features, such as the help desk and chatbot, enable efficient customer support, while its customer success workspace anticipates customer needs and remembers essential details like names. By providing personalized, effective service, businesses can foster long-term relationships, leading to increased retention and revenue.

    • The power of reframing in shaping decisionsReframing, or changing the way a question or message is presented, can significantly influence people's decisions. Subtle shifts in language can lead to different outcomes.

      The way a question or message is framed can significantly influence people's decisions. In a study, researchers found that asking people if they're adventurous and like trying new things before asking for their email address resulted in a 75.7% success rate, compared to a 33% success rate when asking directly for the email address. This is an example of reframing. Reframing doesn't have to be overt; it can be subtle. Frank Luntz, a renowned framer, has used research to understand how the gator brain responds to different frames and has successfully influenced people's opinions on various issues, from vaccines to taxes. By shifting the frame from "inheritance tax" to "death tax," Luntz was able to change people's perception and gain support against the inheritance tax. These examples demonstrate the power of reframing in shaping people's decisions.

    • The Power of Framing in Shaping PerceptionFraming can alter public opinion and policy outcomes by changing the way issues are perceived. Effective framing tactics include using persuasive language, reframing questions, and making things easy to understand.

      The use of framing can significantly impact public perception and policy outcomes. Frank Luntz, a renowned pollster, demonstrated this by successfully reframing inheritance tax as a "death tax," leading to a significant increase in the tax-free inheritance limit in the United States. This example highlights the power of language and labels in shaping opinions. Another powerful use of framing is currently evident in the situation in Ukraine. Instead of being framed as a conflict, the invasion is being described as a war, an assault on democracy, and an invasion of Europe. This shift in framing has galvanized international support for Ukraine. Moreover, research shows that making things easy, using the door-in-the-face technique, and reframing questions can also be effective tactics for getting people to say yes. Overall, understanding the power of framing and using it strategically can be a game-changer in various aspects of life, from politics to marketing and beyond.

    • Effective Communication and Negotiation TacticsUsing tactics like reframing, anchoring, and making it easier can lead to successful outcomes in communication and negotiation. Check out Nudge podcast's first episode in 2019 and read Zoe Chance's book 'Influence is Your Superpower' for more tips and to support an environmental charity.

      Effective communication and negotiation tactics can lead to successful outcomes. In the discussed episode of Nudge podcast, Phil Agnew shared his experience of using various tactics like reframing, anchoring, and making it easier to persuade Dan Pink to appear on his show. These tactics were inspired by Zoe Chance's book "Influence is Your Superpower." Agnew encourages listeners to check out the first episode of Nudge, published in 2019, for more negotiation tactics. He also suggests reading Chance's book, as it helped him and can help listeners in their work. Additionally, 50% of the profits from Chance's book go to the environmental charity 350.org. Overall, the episode highlights the power of persuasive communication and the impact it can have on achieving desired outcomes.

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