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    How to Start (Restart, or Upgrade) Your Meditation Practice: A Master Class | Jon Kabat-Zinn

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    • Exploring the Art of Mindfulness with John Cabot ZinnMindfulness-based stress reduction, led by John Cabot Zinn, enhances mental and physical health. Let go of agendas, investigate motivations, and enjoy meditation deals to deepen practice.

      Meditation, specifically mindfulness-based stress reduction, has become a popular and scientifically-backed practice for improving mental and physical health. John Cabot Zinn, a renowned meditation teacher and inventor of this method, shares practical insights on starting and deepening a meditation practice, including the importance of letting go of agendas and investigating motivations. Additionally, listeners can enjoy special deals on tech and Easter shopping, making it easier to incorporate mindfulness into their daily lives. Wondery Plus subscribers can access the 10% Happier podcast featuring John Cabot Zinn early and for free. This episode is part of a series, "The Non-negotiables," featuring experts sharing their essential practices and life principles. Other guests include Esther Perel, Bill Hader, Pema Chodron, and Brian Stevenson. Sponsors Dell Technologies and Whole Foods Market offer anniversary savings and Easter brunch solutions, respectively. DoorDash also simplifies Easter shopping with convenient delivery options.

    • Meditation is about being present in each moment, not rigidly following a routineEmbrace a flexible approach to meditation, focusing on being present in each moment rather than achieving a specific outcome

      According to John Kabat-Zinn, meditation is not about rigidly adhering to a disciplined routine or negotiating with oneself to succeed, but rather seeing it as a natural and effortless part of living fully in each moment. He encourages a flexible approach, even incorporating lying down meditations in bed, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and being present with the experience of each moment, rather than trying to achieve a specific outcome. For those new to meditation, he suggests approaching it as a way to simply "be" or "fall awake," without any particular goal in mind.

    • Tuning your inner instrument for present moment awarenessMeditation is about being fully present in the moment, improving daily life and relationships, maintaining interior dignity, and transforming how you live and interact with the world.

      Meditation is not about achieving a specific state, such as deep relaxation or compassion, but rather about tuning your inner instrument to be fully present in the moment. This practice, often done first thing in the morning, allows you to better navigate the challenges of daily life and improve your relationships with others. It's important to maintain an interior posture of wakefulness and dignity, regardless of your physical position. Meditation is a love affair with the present moment, not a sacrifice for future benefits. By fully embracing the present, you can transform how you live and interact with the world around you.

    • Focusing on the breath to establish mindfulnessThrough focusing on the breath, we establish a stable posture and begin the practice of mindfulness meditation, allowing us to be present and appreciate the present moment.

      The practice of mindfulness meditation begins with developing the muscle of attention by focusing on the breath and bringing full awareness to the body. This helps establish a stable posture and sets the foundation for mind-sitting, which is the key to opening up to and taking up residency in awareness. The breath is an essential part of this practice, as it helps us befriend the sensations in the body and appreciate the present moment. Ultimately, it's the act of attending and being present that is most important, rather than the object of attention itself.

    • Foundation for Living Fully: AwarenessAwareness is the foundation for living fully and mindfully, not about reaching a certain state, but being present with what arises, boundless and infinite, appreciating existence and impermanence, and waking up to perfection within

      Awareness, often referred to by different spiritual traditions as choiceless awareness, Shekantaza, Seltozen, or Zopchen, is the foundation for living fully and mindfully. It's not about trying to get to a certain state or place, but rather being present with whatever arises in the moment. Awareness is boundless and infinite, much like space itself. When we meditate and establish ourselves in awareness, we can fully appreciate the miraculous nature of our existence and the impermanence of life. The goal is not to become something else in the future, but to wake up to the perfection and wholeness that already exists within us.

    • Cultivating Personal Well-being and Collective Consciousness through Mindfulness and CompassionPracticing mindfulness and compassion daily can positively impact personal well-being and the world, and it's our responsibility to do so to prevent harm and transform the world. Resources like Audible and companies like Quince can support and enhance these practices.

      Our daily practices, such as meditation and mindfulness, have a significant impact on our personal well-being and the well-being of the world. It's not just about reducing stress or being a better person, but understanding the true nature of our being and contributing to the collective consciousness. The practice of mindfulness and compassion is moving into the mainstream and we have a responsibility to wake up to our true nature to prevent harm to the planet and future generations. As individuals, our actions matter and can contribute to transforming the world. Additionally, resources like Audible and companies like Quince can help support and enhance our personal practices and choices.

    • Understanding Meditation: Awareness, Not PerfectionMeditation is about observing thoughts and emotions without judgment, not eliminating distractions or achieving a perfect mind state. This shift towards being can lead to inner peace and freedom.

      Meditation is not about clearing your mind or achieving a state of perfection, but rather about becoming aware of your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Dan Harris, the speaker in this discussion, emphasizes that the goal is not to eliminate distractions or calm your mind completely, but to observe your awareness and learn to let go of limiting stories and identities. This shift towards being rather than doing can lead to a radical sense of freedom and inner peace. Additionally, Quince offers affordable, high-quality essentials to help you upgrade your wardrobe and embrace this new perspective. The 10% Happier meditation app also provides resources for those starting or restarting their meditation practice, offering a 40% discount as a celebration of its 10th anniversary.

    • Emphasizing Clarity, Kindness, and Well-being for Personal GrowthPractice clarity, kindness, and well-being for personal growth by being present and embodied in the moment, rather than getting lost in thoughts, emotions, and narratives. Embrace mindfulness practices like yoga and live deliberately to appreciate the present moment.

      Clarity, kindness, and well-being are essential for personal growth and relationships, rather than dwelling on anger or blame towards others. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being present and embodied in the moment, rather than getting lost in thoughts, emotions, and narratives about people or situations. This kind of awareness is not limited to formal practices like meditation or yoga but can be applied to everyday life. The ultimate goal is to live deliberately and fully, without being imprisoned by concepts or distractions, and to appreciate the present moment instead of constantly dwelling on the past or future. The speaker encourages embracing mindfulness practices like yoga and being fully present in all aspects of life, from mundane tasks to intimate moments.

    • Being fully present infects those around usCultivate awareness of interconnectedness and spaciousness to govern ourselves and our lives with compassion and appreciation

      Being fully present in each moment can have a ripple effect, acting like a virus or meme that spreads and infects those around us. This presence, which is deeply attractive because it lacks a self-centered agenda, allows us to connect on a deeper level. At the core of this presence is an awareness that transcends the self and the story of me or us. It's a mystery how sentience arises from the complexities of the brain, and it's important for humans to cultivate this awareness before advanced AI potentially surpasses us. The great meditation teachers, who tend not to take themselves too seriously and embody this awareness, evoke a sense of recognition and appreciation for the vastness of existence. By recognizing our interconnectedness and spaciousness, we can govern ourselves and our lives with compassion and appreciation for the intrinsic beauty of being alive.

    • Exploring Dharma: Personal Growth and Societal ProgressPractice mindfulness, follow Buddhist precepts, develop new levels of governance, and wear GEDIFY shoes for personal growth and societal progress.

      The concept of Dharma, both as the teachings of liberation and the lawfulness of the world, is crucial for personal growth and societal progress. Mindfulness practice helps us recognize our fundamental sameness and avoid harming others. The Buddhist precepts serve as a guide for self-governance, and we must extend this principle to the world stage to minimize harm and maximize good. The development of new levels of governance is necessary as we navigate the complexities of modern life and emerging technologies. GEDIFY shoes, with their custom orthotics, patented shock absorption technology, and posture-improving design, offer a practical solution for alleviating knee and back pain, enhancing overall well-being. Reflecting on our motivations and starting a meditation practice can also lead to personal growth and greater understanding of ourselves and the world.

    • Meditation as a way of beingView meditation as a practice to be aware and awake in the present moment, no agenda required. Consistently practice for personal growth and well-being.

      Instead of focusing on forming a habit with meditation, it's more beneficial to view it as a way of being or a practice. According to the speaker, meditation is about being aware and awake in the present moment without any agenda. It's a way to reboot yourself and start over, recognizing that you're already whole and beautiful. When it comes to meditation practice, there's no specific time of day or length that's required. The speaker personally prefers to meditate in the morning, but it can be done at any time that works best for an individual. The key is to be consistent and disciplined in practicing meditation regularly. In addition, the speaker emphasized the importance of Indeed for hiring, highlighting its matching engine that helps find quality candidates quickly and efficiently. They also offered a $75 sponsored job credit for listeners to get more visibility for their jobs on Indeed. Lastly, the speaker shared their excitement about trying out G-to-fi shoes based on customer reviews and encouraged listeners to check them out with a discount code for a savings of $30 on orders of $100 or more.

    • Exploring the transformative power of mindfulness practiceMindfulness practice, such as MBSR, offers individuals a chance to manage discomforts and negative emotions through daily practice, while intention and motivation play crucial roles in the transformative journey towards living in the present moment and reconnecting with one's authentic self.

      Mindfulness practice, such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), can be a transformative experience for individuals dealing with various medical conditions and emotional struggles. The original design of MBSR included a daily practice of 45 minutes for six days a week to allow individuals to encounter and learn to manage their discomforts and negative emotions. However, the importance of intention and motivation in the practice cannot be overlooked. The motivation for practicing mindfulness can range from self-improvement to recognizing and reconnecting with one's authentic self, which may have been suppressed over time due to societal pressures or personal experiences. Ultimately, mindfulness practice is about living in the present moment and experiencing being, rather than constantly doing, and it can be a deeply heartfelt and transformative journey.

    • Exploring the Journey of Self-Awareness through MeditationMeditation is a personal journey towards self-awareness, focusing on observing thoughts and emotions without judgment to increase authenticity in life.

      Starting a meditation practice is about acknowledging the beauty of not knowing and dedicating time to self-awareness. Awareness encompasses all feelings, whether pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. Through meditation, we can observe thoughts and emotions as transient waves and avoid taking them personally. This discovery of a new dimension of humanity can lead to greater authenticity in living our lives. There are various meditation styles, but the focus should be on the self rather than the style or teacher. All doors lead to the same room, and the real challenge is in overcoming self-identification. In summary, meditation is a personal journey towards self-awareness, and the key is to approach it with an open mind and a dedication to the practice itself.

    • Reclaiming past and loving ourselves as strangersEmbrace the unique journey of self-love, accept past experiences, and practice mindfulness to gain new insights and grow personally and societally.

      Every person and every experience is unique, and the human heart serves as the room where we can welcome ourselves with love and acceptance. Derek Walcott's poem "Love After Love" emphasizes the importance of reclaiming our past and loving ourselves as strangers. Mindfulness and awareness involve both knowing and not knowing, allowing us to gain new insights and appreciate people and situations more deeply. Being aware of our partial knowledge and ethical foundation is crucial, but so is embracing the unknown and minimizing harm while maximizing benefit for ourselves and others. The practice of mindfulness can lead to profound personal growth and societal change, as demonstrated by the increasing acceptance and funding of meditation and mindfulness research in recent decades.

    • Embracing Possibility and Staying Open-MindedEmbracing possibility and staying open-minded can enrich our lives and make a positive impact on the world. John Kabat-Zinn's teachings offer valuable insights on living in the present moment and appreciating the world around us.

      Embracing the concept of possibility and staying open-minded can lead to personal growth and contribution to the world. John Kabat-Zinn emphasized the importance of dwelling in possibility and not getting caught up in linear thinking or distractions. By exercising this muscle consistently, one can enrich their own life and make a positive impact on the world. Kabat-Zinn's work and influence in the mindfulness movement have been significant, and his teachings offer a valuable perspective on living in the present moment and appreciating the world around us. It's essential to curate a balance between the ordinary world and the world of possibility, and the work of individuals like Kabat-Zinn helps us do just that. By staying open to new ideas and possibilities, we can make the most of our lives and make a positive impact on the world.

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    https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/lindsay-c-gibson-617

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    Your Chance for a Do-Over| Bonus Meditation with Oren Jay Sofer

    Your Chance for a Do-Over| Bonus Meditation with Oren Jay Sofer

    In this practice you'll connect with your values and set an intention for how you want to show up today.


    About Oren Jay Sofer:


    Oren has practiced meditation in the early Buddhist tradition since 1997, beginning his studies in Bodh Gaya, India with Anagarika Munindra and Godwin Samararatne. He is a long-time student of Joseph Goldstein, Michele McDonald, and Ajahn Sucitto, and a graduate of the IMS - Spirit Rock Vipassana Teacher Training, and current member of the Spirit Rock Teachers Council.

    Oren is the author of Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication, a practical guidebook for having more effective, satisfying conversations. 


    To find this meditation in the Ten Percent Happier app, you can search for “A Fresh Start,” or click here:

    "https://10percenthappier.app.link/content?meditation=b4a40731-798e-4f9e-87ac-e889dd0298e2"

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    Keeping Things in Perspective | Bonus Meditation with La Sarmiento

    Keeping Things in Perspective | Bonus Meditation with La Sarmiento

    Our busy lives rarely afford us time to reflect on what’s truly important. Remembering what matters most empowers us to engage meaningfully.


    About La Sarmiento:


    La Sarmiento is the the guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington's BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ Sanghas and a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program and for Cloud Sangha. They graduated from Spirit Rock Meditation Center's Community Dharma Leader Training Program in 2012. As an immigrant, non-binary, Filipinx-American, La is committed to expanding access to the Dharma. They live in Towson, MD with their life partner Wendy and rescue pups Annabel and Bader.


    To find this meditation in the Ten Percent Happier app, you can search for “Finding Purpose: What Matters Most?” 



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    Meditation Party: The “Sh*t Is Fertilizer” Edition | Sebene Selassie & Jeff Warren

    Meditation Party: The “Sh*t Is Fertilizer” Edition | Sebene Selassie & Jeff Warren

    Today’s episode is the first in an experimental new series called Meditation Party. 


    Dan takes listener calls with fellow meditators Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren and get candid about their practices and dealing with life


    Sebene Selassie is based in Brooklyn and describes herself as a “writer, teacher, and immigrant-weirdo.” She teaches meditation on the Ten Percent Happier app and is the author of a great book called, You Belong. Jeff Warren is based in Toronto and is also a writer and meditation teacher who co-wrote the book, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics with Dan Harris. Jeff also hosts the Consciousness Explorers podcast.


    Call (508) 656-0540 to have your question answered during the Meditation Party!



    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/sebene-selassie-jef-warren-553

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    Jerks at Work | Amy Gallo

    Jerks at Work | Amy Gallo

    This is the third installment in our Work Life series. In other episodes, we cover topics like imposter syndrome, whether mindfulness really works at work, and whether you should actually bring your whole self to the office.


    Today's episode is one that many of us struggle with: interpersonal conflict at work. Our guest is a true ninja on this topic. Amy Gallo is a workplace expert who writes and speaks about interpersonal dynamics, difficult conversations, feedback, gender, and effective communication.


    Gallo is a contributing editor at Harvard Business Review and the author of a new book, Getting Along, How to Work with Anyone, Even Difficult People. She's also written the The Harvard Business Review Guide to Dealing With Conflict, and she cohosts the Women at Work podcast.

      


    In this episode we talk about:


    • Why quality interactions at work are so important for our professional success and personal mental health
    • Why Gallo believes one size doesn’t fit all when it comes to dealing with difficult people in the workplace 
    • Why avoidance isn’t usually an option 
    • What the research tells us about work friendships
    • Why we have a tendency to dehumanize people who have more power than us
    • Why passive aggressive people can be the most difficult to deal with
    • The provocative question of whether we are part of the problem when work conflict crops up
    • And, a taxonomy of the eight different flavors of difficult coworkers, including the pessimist, the victim, the know-it-all, and the insecure boss — with tactics for managing each. 




    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/amy-gallo-576

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