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    How to Stop Buying Sh*t on the Internet

    enOctober 26, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • Being cautious in the wellness industryResearch thoroughly, understand value, and consider long-term consequences before purchasing wellness products. Advocate for accessible and affordable healthcare.

      The wellness industry can be deceiving, and it's essential to be cautious when considering purchasing products, especially those marketed as solutions to our insecurities. The industry's influence is linked to a larger issue: the inadequacies of the American healthcare system. With over 28 million uninsured people in 2020, many turn to self-diagnosis and alternative remedies due to the high costs and confusion of traditional healthcare. However, these solutions can lead to unnecessary expenses and cluttered homes. It's crucial to do thorough research, understand the true value of a product, and consider the potential long-term consequences before making a purchase. The Dough podcast encourages listeners to be mindful consumers and advocates for a more accessible and affordable healthcare system.

    • Exploring the World of Wellness Products with Critical ThinkingApproach wellness products with critical thinking and focus on what truly enhances well-being and brings joy.

      Navigating the world of wellness supplements and products can be a confusing and overwhelming experience, filled with a multitude of questionable offerings. Kulap Vialysak and Soojim Park, hosts of the podcast "Add to Cart," have made it their mission to explore and share their experiences with these products. From a doughnut meant to help with relaxation and alertness, to a kegel bell designed to strengthen the pelvic floor, the duo has tried it all. While some products bring joy and benefit, others end up collecting dust and eventually being discarded. The key takeaway is to approach these products with a critical and informed mindset, and not to feel pressured by societal expectations or advertising to buy into everything that promises to make us feel less "dead." Instead, focus on what truly enhances our well-being and brings us joy.

    • Wellness products can create new health issues or be unnecessaryWellness products, while meant to improve health, can sometimes lead to additional expenses, complications, and unnecessary use. Consider potential risks and benefits before purchasing, and address root causes of health concerns.

      People often turn to wellness products to solve health issues, but these solutions can sometimes create new problems or be unnecessary. For instance, a woman shared her experience of buying an uncomfortable and expensive wedge pillow for acid reflux, which ended up causing other issues. Another person discussed their experience with a hair wellness pill subscription, admitting they had trouble sticking to the daily dosage. These examples highlight how wellness products, while intended to improve health, can sometimes lead to additional expenses and complications. It's essential to consider the potential risks and benefits before making a purchase, and addressing the root cause of health concerns should be a priority.

    • Be cautious of misleading supplement and beauty product claimsDon't blindly trust advertisements or influencer endorsements, do your research and seek reliable sources to make informed decisions

      While people may turn to various supplements and beauty products in the hopes of improving their health and appearance, it's essential to be mindful and critical of the information presented to us. Many supplements don't require FDA approval before being sold, and some advertisements can be misleading or even outright false. The green tea stick example discussed on the podcast reveals that chia seeds were being marketed as pores being unclogged, but in reality, it was just chia seeds. This highlights the importance of doing our own research and not being swayed by satisfying-looking videos or influencer endorsements alone. It's crucial to ask questions and seek out reliable sources to make informed decisions about what we put into our bodies.

    • Do Thorough Research Before PurchasingWhen considering a purchase, research thoroughly online, check reviews, complaints, and scams, consult experts, and rely on trusted friends for recommendations to avoid falling for misleading marketing claims.

      When considering a purchase, especially in the wellness category, it's essential to do thorough research before making a decision. The marketing industry can be misleading, and not all claims made about products are truthful. Intuitively, if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. It's recommended to check reviews, complaints, and scams online, as well as consulting experts and organizations in the corresponding field. Building a circle of trusted friends and relying on their recommendations can also be helpful. The internet is full of marketing machines trying to sell us products, and it's up to us to be vigilant and informed consumers.

    • Authenticity and real experiences matter in influencer marketingSeek out trusted opinions, see genuine results on mature faces, save time and money, navigate overwhelming market, value authenticity, trust, and self-care

      Authenticity and real experiences matter in the sea of influencer marketing. Whether it's in the realm of beauty or wellness, it's essential to seek out the opinions of people we trust and can relate to. The speaker, who specializes in connecting with beauty influencers over 50, emphasizes the importance of seeing genuine results on mature faces. This approach not only saves time and money but also helps navigate the overwhelming market of products and services. The speaker's message resonates with the two listeners, as they continue to seek trusted opinions amidst the circus of offerings. Additionally, the discussion highlights the importance of self-care and feeling proud and confident in one's choices, as exemplified by the Clairol Textures and Tones hair care line. The recovering wellness influencer's story serves as a reminder of the potential financial consequences of being misguided in the wellness industry. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the value of authenticity, trust, and self-care in our daily lives.

    • Personal experiences shaping perception of wellness and alternative treatmentsIndividuals may turn to alternative treatments due to personal experiences and lack of affordable healthcare, but it's crucial to seek evidence-based information and proper medical guidance.

      Personal experiences with mental health conditions and lack of affordable healthcare can shape one's perception of wellness and lead to exploration of alternative treatments. Sam, who grew up witnessing their mother's struggles with healthcare affordability and their own experiences with debilitating asthma attacks and untreated mental health issues, turned to essential oils and holistic approaches out of fear and misinformation. Despite the lack of scientific evidence, they found solace in these alternative treatments until encountering a hormone coach who promised a holistic approach but instead offered restrictive diets and excessive exercise, worsening Sam's health. This experience highlights the importance of evidence-based information and proper medical guidance in the wellness industry.

    • Relying solely on wellness influencers and remedies may not provide a cureApproach wellness industry with critical and balanced perspective, don't rely on it as sole solution for health concerns.

      Relying solely on wellness influencers and remedies for health issues, whether physical or mental, may not provide a cure and could potentially lead to a vicious cycle of consuming more products and information. Sam's experience with vaginal pain and later, mental health struggles, illustrates this. Despite trying numerous recommended remedies, Sam's symptoms persisted. It wasn't until they sought professional help, in the form of therapy, that they received an accurate diagnosis and effective treatment. The wellness industry can be a valuable resource, but it's important to approach it with a critical and balanced perspective, and not to rely on it as the sole solution for health concerns.

    • Relying too heavily on wellness products and extreme dieting can worsen health issuesBe cautious of the potential harms of wellness industries and diet culture, seek professional help when necessary, and avoid extreme dieting and unhealthy practices to maintain good mental and physical health.

      Relying too heavily on wellness products and remedies, as well as extreme dieting, can worsen mental and physical health issues, including OCD and eating disorders. Sam's experience shows how these harmful practices can lead to significant financial debt and emotional turmoil. The allure of community and the desire for a nourishing support system can make it even more difficult to break free. It's essential to recognize these patterns and seek professional help when necessary, even if it means returning to traditional healthcare systems. Additionally, being aware of the potential harms of diet culture and wellness industries can help prevent falling into these harmful cycles.

    • Wellness industry's pressure to conform vs authentic selfPrioritize self-awareness and authenticity over external validation, critically analyze wellness content, and focus on meaningful discussions for true healing.

      The wellness industry, fueled by fear and the desire for quick fixes, can lead individuals down a rabbit hole of overconsumption and potential harm. Sam's story serves as a reminder to prioritize self-awareness and authenticity over external validation and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards. The dichotomy of wellness content on social media, with some promoting natural remedies and others expensive routines, can make it difficult for individuals to discern what truly supports their health and wellbeing. True healing cannot be bought, but rather requires support and a critical analysis of the industry and its motivations. Sam's decision to take a break from Instagram and focus on her newsletter, Healing Field Notes, highlights the importance of returning to one's authentic self and engaging in meaningful, thoughtful discussions about mental health, sexual liberation, and queer homemaking.

    • Managing Social Media and Marketing-Induced SpendingAvoid overspending on beauty and wellness products by setting a budget and resisting marketing pitches. Spend wisely, as our parents and ancestors have taught us.

      The constant exposure to social media and marketing can lead to unnecessary spending, and it's essential to be mindful of our consumption habits. The products themselves are not to blame, but rather the marketing machines that manipulate us into believing we need them. The average social media user spends around 2.5 hours per day, which equates to over a month of time annually. To avoid overspending, consider setting a budget for beauty and wellness products. It's crucial to follow our curiosity and not succumb to marketing pitches. Remember, the value of a cent can lead to the value of a dollar, as our parents and ancestors have taught us. Next week on The Dough, we'll discuss family and the money tips they've passed down. Stay tuned!

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