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    • Using 'but' vs. alternatives in communicationAvoid using 'but' to maintain importance of previous statements. Use alternatives like 'and,' 'so,' or silence instead to communicate effectively and positively.

      The way we use language, specifically the word "but," can significantly impact how our messages are received. According to Kate Cocker, when we use the word "but," we are essentially discarding everything that came before it. Instead, she suggests using alternatives like "and," "so," or even silence to maintain the importance of what we've previously stated. This approach, inspired by Edna from The Incredibles, can help us communicate more effectively and influence people in a positive way. Additionally, Cocker offers a solution for those struggling with anxiety by providing a 30-day journal prompt series, which can be signed up for at journal30.com. By avoiding the use of "but" and focusing on positive communication, we can make the most of our daily interactions and improve our overall well-being.

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