Podcast Summary
Exploring the Joys of Pleasure: Iconic Vibrators and Enhancers: Iconic vibrators like the Magic Wand and innovative enhancers from Promescent and Down Under Comfort offer powerful, deep orgasms and enhance sexual experiences for all genders.
The Magic Wand vibrator, often referred to as the "Cadillac of vibrators," is a cultural icon and symbol of unapologetic pleasure. Originally introduced decades ago, it's earned accolades like "vibrator of the year" and is known for its powerful rumble that resonates deep within. With various iterations available, including the Magic Wand Rechargeable, Mini, Micro, and Plush, all models preserve the original's powerful orgasmic rumble. Meanwhile, Promescent offers pleasure-enhancing products, such as their legendary delay spray and warming arousal gel, to help make summer the sexiest season yet. Lastly, Emily and Tony's Down Under Comfort cream and tapioca powder formula aims to keep men fresh and clean, while also being usable by women. Overall, these products represent a commitment to enhancing sexual experiences and exploring the joys of pleasure.
Identifying a Need and Finding a Unique Solution: Marnie started as a wing girl, evolved her business, and now advises men on being masculine leading men, not teaching wimpiness or gift-giving. Her success came from understanding women's minds and offering a unique solution.
Marnie, a guest on Sex With Emily, started her business as a wing girl after helping her friend get approached at a singles mixer. She saw the need for men to understand how to approach women and be attractive to them. Marnie's business has evolved over the years, and she now advises hundreds of thousands of men worldwide on how to be masculine leading men that women want. She doesn't teach guys to be wimps or to buy gifts, but instead focuses on helping men understand women's minds and how to approach and interact with them. Marnie's story is a reminder that starting a business often begins with identifying a need and finding a unique solution.
Learning to improve social skills with women: Men can learn to connect with women effectively by approaching interactions as opportunities to build connections, rather than challenges to be overcome, using the OSAP approach of observation, sharing, and asking questions.
Improving social skills with women is a learnable skill, just like learning to play an instrument or tennis. Men who struggle with approaching women and initiating conversations are not "losers," but rather awesome guys who are successful in other areas of their lives but need help in this specific area. The key is to approach interaction with women as an opportunity to build a connection, rather than a challenge to be overcome. One effective method for conversation is the OSAP (Observation, Sharing, and Asking a Question) approach, where men open up first and lead by example, rather than probing and interrogating women. By taking the time to learn and practice these skills, men can become more attractive and successful in their romantic lives.
Use OSHA (Observe, Share, Ask) for effective communication: Use observing surroundings, sharing personal experiences, and asking open-ended questions to build deeper connections through genuine interaction. A style makeover can also help align appearance with inner self for added confidence.
Effective communication involves observing your surroundings, sharing personal experiences or opinions, and asking open-ended questions. This approach, known as OSHA (Observe, Share, Ask), can help you connect with people and build attraction through genuine interaction. By sharing who you are, you allow others to feel a connection, which is essential for forming deeper relationships. Additionally, appearance plays a role in how we perceive ourselves and how others perceive us. Sometimes, a style makeover can help align our outer appearance with our inner selves, making us feel more confident and attractive to others. Remember, the goal is to engage in meaningful conversations that allow people to truly get to know you.
Putting women on a pedestal leads to disappointment: Focus on authenticity and being present in interactions with women, looks and money are not the only factors, understand women's triggers and be open-minded.
Men often make the mistake of putting women on a pedestal and having preconceived desired outcomes before even getting to know them. This can lead to disappointment and unrealistic expectations. Instead, men should focus on being present and authentic in their interactions with women. Additionally, while looks and money can be important factors, they are not the only ones. Women are triggered by different things than men, and a man's character and personality can also be attractive. It's important for men to understand this and not make excuses based on their employment status or physical appearance. Overall, the key is to approach interactions with women with honesty, authenticity, and an open mind.
Personality Matters More Than Looks for Long-Term Attraction: Be genuine, engage in meaningful conversations, and maintain a balance of respect and playfulness to avoid the friend zone and foster deeper connections.
While looks matter in the initial attraction, personality plays a more significant role in long-term attraction for women. People's perceived attractiveness can change over time, and being in the "friend zone" is not a conscious decision but rather a perception. Men can increase their attractiveness by being more open, challenging, and authentic, like they are with their friends, without resorting to offensive humor like fart jokes, which women generally don't find appealing. Ultimately, the key to avoiding the friend zone and fostering deeper connections is to be genuine, engage in meaningful conversations, and maintain a balance of respect and playfulness.
Acting as a 'fake boyfriend' is unattractive, be yourself and engage in banter and teasing instead: Instead of just listening and offering advice, engage in banter and teasing to show personality and build connection. Authenticity and showing true intentions are key to true attraction.
When trying to attract a woman, acting like a "fake boyfriend" by constantly listening and offering advice without expressing your own opinions or challenging her can be unattractive. Instead, it's important to be yourself and engage in banter and teasing to show your personality and build connection. A good example is not just listening to her problems, but changing the conversation and even playfully charging her for it. This approach can be more effective in making a lasting impression than simply being a good listener. Additionally, being attracted to women in relationships can lead men to act as "friends" to them, but true attraction comes from being authentic and showing your true intentions. Watching shows like Ally McBeal and observing interactions between characters can provide valuable insights into attraction and relationship dynamics.
Successfully initiating a first kiss: Confidence, control, respect, and permission: Confidently take control, seek permission, and be respectful for a successful first kiss. Women appreciate a man who takes initiative.
Effective communication and taking action are key elements in initiating a successful first kiss for men, according to the speaker's experience and the insights gained from interviewing women. The speaker emphasized the importance of being confident, in control, and respectful, while also seeking the woman's permission. She also mentioned that women appreciate a man who takes initiative, as they are often hesitant to make the first move. The speaker's favorite product, "What's Inside a Woman's Mind?" is an interview series where she collected honest opinions from various women about attraction and turn-ons. She discovered that women are more forthcoming with information when they believe the recording is off, and she encourages women to recognize and embrace their true desires. The product is available for free on her website, SexWithEmily.com/wingirl.
Women are drawn to both nice and bad traits in men: Women find nice guys appealing but also crave excitement from bad boys. They want to change the bad boy into a quality man, but true change comes from within.
Women are attracted to a mix of nice and bad traits in men, but they don't want to be with abusive or crazy bad boys. Marni explained that women do like nice guys, but they don't want wimps or pushovers. On the other hand, bad boys are exciting and different, displaying confidence and leadership, but they can become unreliable and jerkish over time. Women are attracted to these traits, but they ultimately want to change the bad boy into a quality man. However, it's important to remember that people don't change unless they want to, so focusing on changing your partner is not productive. Instead, focus on changing yourself and how you react to their behavior. Marni also mentioned that her program, What's Inside A Woman's Mind, costs $67 and includes a free week of email coaching. You can find her at wingirlmethod.com if you have any questions or want to learn more.
Podcast hosts discuss sexual issues and benefits of sex toys: Podcast hosts Marnie and Emily emphasized the importance of addressing sexual issues and using sex toys for improved experiences, especially for women. They recommended Good Vibes for reliable sex toys and shared a discount code.
Marnie and Emily, two podcast hosts, have developed a connection that has led to the sharing of valuable information and even recommendations for sex toys. During their conversation, they discussed the importance of addressing sexual issues and taking action to improve one's sex life. They also highlighted the benefits of using sex toys, especially for women who require clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Emily mentioned her recent discovery of a new vibrator that she had an amazing experience with, and Marnie expressed her excitement about trying it out. They also mentioned Good Vibes as a reliable source for sex toys and encouraged listeners to check it out using a discount code. Overall, their conversation emphasized the importance of open communication, experimentation, and taking action to enhance sexual experiences.
Aromatherapy candles with a massage oil twist: Emily and Tony's aromatherapy candles double as massage oils, providing a luxurious and deeply hydrating experience for the skin during massages. They come in delicious flavors and add an aesthetic value to your home.
Emily and Tony's aromatherapy massage candles offer a unique and multifunctional experience. During a gathering with friends, the host lit three candles from her new line and surprised everyone by using the melted wax as a body oil for a quick massage. The candles double as luxurious massage oils when warmed, leaving the skin feeling and smelling amazing while being deeply hydrating. These candles come in delicious flavors and can be used during foreplay, making them perfect for romantic moments. Additionally, they add an aesthetic value to your home. If you're interested in trying these versatile candles, visit emilyandtony.com to learn more.