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    SWE: Porn Stars Samantha Saint & Chanel Preston Share Sex Secrets

    enDecember 07, 2013

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    • Explore and enhance your summer sex experience with Promescent and other pleasure toolsExperiment with Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel, try the Magic Wand vibrator, and explore pheromone infused items from Crazygirlproducts.com for a satisfying sexual relationship. Communication, experimentation, and self-care are essential.

      Summer is the season of passion and exploration when it comes to sex. To enhance the experience, consider trying out products from Promescent, such as their delay spray for men and warming arousal gel for women. Another iconic pleasure tool is the Magic Wand vibrator, praised for its powerful rumble and versatility. Lastly, Crazygirlproducts.com offers unique pheromone infused items to boost confidence and intimacy. Remember, communication, experimentation, and self-care are key to a satisfying sexual relationship. For more tips and insights, tune in to Sex with Emily and sign up for her newsletter.

    • Celebrating the biggest names and trends in adult entertainmentThe AVN Awards, known as the 'Oscars of adult entertainment,' honors industry leaders and showcases the latest trends in a weekend filled with glamour, excitement, and sexual freedom.

      The AVN Awards, often referred to as the "Oscars of adult entertainment," is an annual event celebrating the biggest names and hottest trends in the adult industry. Hosted by renowned porn stars Chanel Preston and Samantha Saint, this year's ceremony will take place on January 18th at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas. The weekend is known for its explicit displays of sexuality, with nudity, sex toys, and various performances being a part of the experience. Both Chanel and Samantha shared their stories of entering the industry, with Chanel starting as a stripper and Samantha being impulsive and seizing an opportunity to perform in porn. The event offers a unique blend of glamour, excitement, and sexual freedom, making it a must-attend for those interested in the adult entertainment world. If you're planning to attend, follow Sex with Emily on Twitter or visit Emily.com for a chance to win tickets.

    • Exploring Sexual Experiences: Openness and CuriosityBeing open-minded and curious about sexual experiences can lead individuals to explore various aspects of the adult industry, such as stripping and pornography. It's important to follow one's desires and be true to oneself, rather than societal norms or expectations.

      Both interviewees share a common theme of openness and curiosity when it comes to their sexual experiences. They were both adventurous and open-minded from a young age, leading them to explore various sexual experiences, including stripping and pornography. For one interviewee, it was a natural progression from being open-minded to being an exhibitionist and eventually stripping. For the other, it was a result of curiosity and a desire to explore different aspects of the adult industry. Both women found joy and fulfillment in their experiences, with no regrets. They emphasized the importance of being true to oneself and following one's desires, rather than societal norms or expectations.

    • Exploring Sexual Experiences and OrgasmsBe open-minded, communicate with your partner, and experiment to find what works best for you in your unique sexual journey. Remember, everyone's experiences and preferences are different.

      Sexual experiences and orgasms can vary greatly from person to person, and it's important to be open-minded, communicate with your partner, and experiment to find what works best for you. Many factors, including mental attitude and physical preparation, can impact the ability to achieve orgasm. Some people may find that anal sex, for example, helps them reach climax more easily. Others may prefer clitoral stimulation. It's also important to remember that everyone's sexual journey is unique, and it's okay if things don't happen as expected or as early in life as societal pressures might suggest. Communication with trusted friends or family members, as well as professional resources, can be helpful in navigating these experiences. Overall, the key is to approach sex with a positive attitude, curiosity, and a willingness to learn and grow.

    • Exploring Different Methods for Sexual PleasureExplore various methods for sexual pleasure beyond relying on one toy or technique. Consider practicing oral sex and imagining having a penis to enhance partner pleasure. Try electric Magic Wands for intensity and consider visiting the speaker's website for discounts.

      While the Hitachi Magic Wand is a favorite sex toy for some, it's not the only method for achieving pleasure. The speaker shares her love-hate relationship with the toy, praising its ease of use but acknowledging its loudness and potential for overuse. She also discusses her skills in giving oral sex and suggests imagining having a penis to understand how to pleasure a partner effectively. The speaker encourages trying different methods and techniques to keep things exciting and avoid becoming too reliant on one toy or technique. Additionally, she mentions the availability of electric Magic Wands and encourages listeners to check out her website for special discounts on the Hitachi Magic Wand.

    • Exploring sensitive areas during oral sexCommunicate openly, ask for consent, and pay attention to reactions to ensure pleasurable experiences during oral sex. Try different techniques for women and be open-minded for both parties.

      Effective communication and understanding sensitivity are key elements in providing pleasurable experiences during oral sex. The speaker shares her experiences with men's reactions to ball touching and anally penetrating straight men. She emphasizes the importance of testing the waters and asking for consent before exploring sensitive areas. The speaker also encourages enthusiasm and learning to love the act for both parties involved. Regarding oral sex on women, she suggests trying different techniques and paying attention to the woman's reactions to determine what feels best for her. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the importance of open-mindedness, communication, and sensitivity in sexual experiences.

    • Communication is essential in sexual relationshipsOpen and honest conversations about boundaries and preferences can lead to stronger, more fulfilling relationships

      Communication is key in sexual relationships. Both women and men should feel comfortable expressing their desires and needs. However, it can be challenging for some individuals, especially when dealing with preconceived notions or expectations. Men, in particular, may feel pressure to perform based on pornography or media portrayals. It's essential to have open and honest conversations about boundaries and preferences to ensure a satisfying and enjoyable experience for both partners. Empowering communication can lead to stronger and more fulfilling relationships.

    • Noticing an unusual odor from your partner's southern region?Communicate openly about potential hygiene or health issues, encourage a doctor's visit if necessary, and promote education and understanding.

      If you notice an unusual odor coming from your female partner in the southern region, it could be due to various reasons, including poor hygiene or an underlying health issue. Communication is key in addressing this issue. You can suggest taking a shower together before intimacy or casually bring up the topic of a doctor's visit if you suspect an infection. Remember, it's important to approach the situation with sensitivity and understanding. It's also important to note that younger women might not be as aware of their body's needs, so education and open dialogue can help prevent potential issues. If the problem persists, it may be a sign of an underlying health condition, so it's crucial to encourage your partner to seek medical advice.

    • Improve your sexual experiencesBe open-minded, know your body, communicate desires, explore fantasies, focus on self-confidence, and embrace vulnerability for enhanced sexual satisfaction

      Women can improve their sexual experiences by being open-minded, getting to know their bodies through masturbation, and communicating their desires to their partners. Many women struggle with sexual issues such as low libido or inability to orgasm, and these challenges can be addressed by exploring personal fantasies, trying new things, and focusing on self-confidence rather than appearance. Men and women have different perspectives on sex, with men often being more visual and focused on the act itself, while women may worry about their appearance and whether they are meeting their partner's expectations. By embracing vulnerability, exploring personal desires, and focusing on the pleasure of the experience, women can enhance their sexual satisfaction and enjoy more fulfilling relationships.

    • Communication and Understanding in Sexual RelationshipsEffective communication and understanding are crucial for a satisfying sexual relationship. Addressing concerns and finding solutions together can improve both partners' pleasure.

      Communication and understanding are key to a successful sexual relationship. Emily and Samantha discussed various sexual experiences and challenges, including performance issues and the orgasm gap. Emily shared her experience with the FDA-approved treatment for premature ejaculation, Promescent, and how it helped a listener last longer in bed, improving both his and his partner's satisfaction. They also touched on the importance of addressing sexual concerns and finding solutions together. Emily emphasized that every sexual experience, whether it's in a relationship or in porn, is unique and enjoyable in its own way. In the end, the key is to communicate openly, understand each other's needs, and work together to find solutions to any challenges that may arise.

    • On-screen vs Off-screen Intimacy for Adult Film PerformersPerformers distinguish between on-screen and off-screen relationships and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of connection off-camera. They also share methods of engaging with fans, including social media and live performances, while acknowledging individual preferences.

      The distinction between on-screen and off-screen relationships and intimacy is significant for adult film performers. Samantha and Luna, in the discussion, emphasized that their experiences and preferences differed between the two realms. They shared their experiences of having worked together on multiple occasions, but highlighted the importance of intimacy and connection off-camera. Additionally, they discussed their methods of engaging with fans, including social media and live performances. Samantha expressed her independence and preference for performing on film, while acknowledging that not all performers share the same inclinations. Overall, the conversation underscored the complexities and nuances of adult film performers' experiences and relationships, both on and off-screen.

    • Navigating the Adult Entertainment Industry: Balancing Work and Personal LifeMaintain boundaries, prioritize comfort, show confidence and manners, and adapt to the industry's fast pace for a successful career in adult entertainment.

      Working in the adult entertainment industry involves long hours, constant attention, and unexpected experiences. Boundaries are essential, and individuals must prioritize their comfort and enjoyment. Confidence and dominance are attractive qualities for many performers, while manners and chivalry are appreciated in personal relationships. The industry is fast-paced and nonstop, with events, signings, and media appearances often extending late into the night. Despite the challenges, the rewards can include award-winning performances and unique experiences.

    • Enhancing romantic relationships through small gesturesSmall gestures of consideration and attentiveness can strengthen romantic relationships beyond the bedroom.

      Small gestures of consideration and attentiveness can significantly enhance romantic relationships, even beyond the bedroom. These actions can range from helping a partner put on their coat to engaging in BDSM practices if both parties are comfortable and consensually interested. However, maintaining boundaries and separating work and personal life can be crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. The challenges of being a porn star, particularly for women, can include physical demands, hardcore performances, and the impact on personal relationships. Despite these challenges, many performers find the work to be fun and fulfilling.

    • Navigating challenges in the adult industry with family and friends' supportMaintaining open communication and achieving professional success can help change perceptions and alleviate concerns in the adult industry. Family and friends' support is crucial in navigating the unique challenges of the industry. Keeping clean and comfortable with one's body is also essential.

      Working in the adult industry comes with its own unique challenges, including the potential strain on relationships and the need for validation from loved ones. However, having the support of family and friends can make all the difference in navigating these challenges. Additionally, maintaining open communication and achieving professional success within the industry can help change perceptions and alleviate concerns. Regarding physical appearance, staying clean and keeping pubic hair short enough to avoid discomfort are important considerations. Ultimately, it's essential to be comfortable with one's body and the decisions they make regarding it.

    • Experimenting with appearance in adult entertainmentBe open-minded and experiment with new looks and experiences for enhanced pleasure in adult entertainment, while respecting personal boundaries and comfort levels.

      In the adult entertainment industry, appearance plays a significant role. For women, this can mean keeping a consistent look, including body hair, while for men, it's often about maintaining a clean-shaven or trimmed appearance. Some people in the industry get tattoos or piercings as part of their persona. A key piece of advice from the discussion was to be open-minded and experiment with new experiences, even if they are fantasies. This can lead to enhanced pleasure and satisfaction in sexual encounters. Additionally, personal boundaries and comfort levels should always be considered and respected.

    • Win tickets to the Avian Awards and follow Emily on social mediaListen to win Avian Awards tickets, follow Emily on social media for discounts on massage candles, and join her in Vegas for her keynote speech

      Emily Preston, the host of Sex with Emily, is giving away tickets to the Avian Awards and invites listeners to follow her on social media to win. She also promotes her new brand, Emily and Tony, which sells massage candles that turn into oils. The candles are vegan, soy-based, and make for a great holiday gift. Listeners can use the coupon code "Emily" for a discount on Emily and Tony's website. Additionally, Emily encourages listeners to check out the websites and social media of the beautiful women featured in the Avian Awards, and to join her in Vegas for her keynote speech. She also mentions that she'll be giving away 2 tickets a week leading up to the event. Lastly, she reminds listeners to follow her on Facebook and Twitter under the name "Sex with Emily." Overall, Emily's message is to engage with her brand and community, and to take advantage of the discounts and opportunities she's offering.

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