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    The ONLY Thing More Important Than Sex

    enJuly 14, 2017

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    • Exploring Summer Pleasures with Promescent's ToolsEmbrace summer's energy with Promescent's delay spray, warming arousal gel, and the iconic Magic Wand vibrator for unforgettable experiences.

      Summer is the season of passion and exploration, and there are various tools and products that can help enhance the experience. Promescent's lineup of pleasure enhancing products, such as their legendary delay spray and warming arousal gel, can help individuals last longer and heighten pleasure respectively. Additionally, the iconic Magic Wand vibrator, with its powerful rumble and various iterations, continues to be a trusted confidant for unapologetic pleasure. Overall, embracing summer's hot and steamy energy and utilizing these resources can lead to unforgettable experiences. For exclusive discounts, visit promescent.com/emily and sexwithemily.com/magicwand.

    • Listeners Cherish Conversations with Anderson CowenAnderson Cowen values the authentic connections he makes with listeners through personalized phone chats, and they appreciate his positivity and genuine approach.

      Anderson Cowen, a guest on the podcast, shared his experiences during a recent event on the East Coast where he met many listeners who discovered his Chats with Andy sessions through Sex With Emily. He emphasized that they are not fans but listeners, and he cherishes their conversations. Anderson also revealed that he offers personalized phone chats for a fee, which can last up to an hour. He shared that listeners often ask about Emily and praised her authenticity. Anderson also mentioned his past experience on a reality TV show where he was asked to be negative, but he prefers to focus on positivity and genuine connections. Despite his busy schedule as a stay-at-home dad, Anderson continues to offer these personalized chats to maintain meaningful connections with his audience.

    • Unexpected childcare can be stressful for inexperienced individualsEffective communication and preparation are crucial for successful childcare experiences. Inexperienced individuals should consider their comfort level before accepting responsibility.

      Having responsibility for a child can be a daunting experience for those who have never done it before. In the discussion, it was shared that Jamie, who had never held a child before, found it stressful when she was unexpectedly left in charge of someone else's child. This led to her requiring therapy due to the trauma of the experience. It's important to remember that not everyone is equipped to care for a child, and it's crucial to consider the individual's comfort level and experience before placing them in such a position. It's also essential to communicate clearly and ensure that everyone is on the same page regarding childcare arrangements. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of preparation, communication, and understanding when it comes to caring for a child.

    • Unexpected Connections in RelationshipsFriendship and companionship with pets can provide unconditional love and physical touch. Relationships can start as friendships and evolve. Independence and freedom are important in relationships.

      Sometimes, the connections we seek in relationships can be found in unexpected places, like friendship or even companionship with pets. The speaker shares her experience of considering getting a pet for companionship and the benefits it brings, such as physical touch and unconditional love. She also discusses her current relationship, which started as a friendship and has evolved into something more. The speaker values the independence and freedom that comes with not living together or moving in right away. Additionally, she shares her experience of vacationing in Mexico and the unexpected massage she received upon arrival, emphasizing the importance of relaxation and self-care during travel.

    • Taking Time Away for New Parents' RelationshipsNew parents should prioritize date nights and vacations, despite feelings of guilt, to maintain a healthy relationship and intimacy.

      It's crucial for new parents, especially within the first year, to prioritize taking time away from their child and partnering for a vacation or date night. This is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship and intimacy. However, many wives feel guilty about leaving their child, even for a short time. It's essential to communicate the importance of this time together and find ways to make it work. Couples often struggle to prioritize their relationship amidst the demands of parenthood, but it's vital to do so to maintain a strong bond. Additionally, there are options for low-carb bread alternatives, like Hero Bread, that can help individuals maintain a healthy lifestyle while still enjoying their favorite bread products.

    • Versatile and Healthy Hero Bread OptionHero bread is a nutritious choice for various meals, offering extra fiber and controlling sugar levels. Prioritize communication in relationships for strong bonds.

      Hero bread is a versatile and health-conscious option for various meals, providing extra fiber while keeping sugar levels in check. It's perfect for sandwiches, burgers, buns, and even low net carb croissants. Additionally, parents should prioritize their relationships and communicate openly with each other, especially when it comes to addressing concerns about minors' online activities. A recent study revealed that 88% of women would rather date a man with poor communication skills than one who is bad in bed. Communication is crucial in all aspects of life, including relationships and sexual intimacy.

    • Effective communication and oral sex key to long-term relationship satisfactionCommunication is vital for lasting relationships, and oral sex increases pleasure and likelihood of orgasm for both genders. Practice and patience are essential for improving skills.

      Effective communication and good oral sex are key factors in a satisfying long-term relationship for both men and women, according to a study from the UK involving 1500 participants. The study found that communication is crucial for making partnerships last, and over 70% of participants would consider giving a partner a chance if they were exceptional at oral sex. The study suggests that oral sex, particularly for women, increases the likelihood of orgasm. While some argue that hands with lubrication can be as effective as a mouth, the warmth and intimacy of oral sex are unique. Improvement in sexual skills takes time and practice, and paying attention to individual preferences is essential. Ultimately, the study emphasizes the importance of communication, skill, and patience in creating a fulfilling sexual relationship.

    • Be present and attentive for better sexFocusing on your partner and prioritizing open communication can enhance sexual experiences, debunking the need for 10,000 hours to master sex skills.

      Improving sexual experiences and skills involves being fully present and attentive to your partner, rather than just going through the motions. The idea of needing 10,000 hours to master a skill is debatable, but paying attention, focusing, and processing new information are crucial. Sex, as a pleasurable experience, should not be taboo or scary, but rather prioritized and nurtured, with open communication and education. American culture, influenced by Puritanical values, often creates confusion and shame around sex, but other societies approach it more openly and healthily. By discussing these topics openly and encouraging prioritization, we can help people improve their sexual experiences and overall well-being.

    • Effective communication and prioritizing partner's needs are key to a satisfying sex lifeCommunication and prioritizing partner's needs can enhance intimacy and keep the spark alive in a relationship, despite common beliefs that great cook or appearance are most important.

      Effective communication and prioritizing your partner's needs are crucial for a satisfying sex life. While sex itself is important, the discussion around it and paying attention to your partner's desires, including oral sex, can significantly enhance your relationship and intimacy. Contrary to popular belief, a great cook or physical appearance may not be the most important factors in a romantic relationship. Instead, small gestures and romantic moments can keep the spark alive even after long-term commitment. To connect with Emily for relationship advice, simply text "ask Emily" to 797-979 and fill out the form that follows. Remember, effective communication and prioritizing your partner's needs can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.

    • Healing from past traumas and fears in relationshipsTake small steps to face fears, consider professional help, be patient and compassionate with oneself, and value human connection and communication.

      Overcoming past traumas and fears can be a challenging process, especially when it comes to intimacy and relationships. A listener named Nick shared her experience of being in a manipulative and controlling relationship with an older man who sexually assaulted her and a friend. After leaving the relationship, Nick is now struggling with fear around men and considering whether a relationship is possible for her again. Dr. Emily Morse, the sex expert, acknowledged the difficulty of the situation and emphasized the importance of taking time to heal and learn from the experience. She suggested that Nick could start by facing her fears in small steps, such as engaging in casual dating or seeking professional help. Morse also reminded listeners that everyone's healing process is unique, and it's essential to be patient and compassionate with oneself. Additionally, Morse shared some nostalgic memories of receiving letters from listeners during her radio days, emphasizing the importance of human connection and communication.

    • Healing from past relationships through therapyTaking the time to heal from past relationships through therapy is crucial for avoiding destructive patterns and forming healthy, fulfilling relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to understand past experiences and learn healthier relationship dynamics.

      Recognizing the unhealthy patterns in past relationships and taking the time to heal through therapy is crucial for avoiding similar destructive relationships in the future. Trauma from past relationships, including sexual trauma, does not disappear on its own and can worsen when repressed. Therapy provides a safe space to heal, understand past experiences, and learn healthier relationship dynamics. While it may seem daunting, committing to regular therapy sessions for an extended period can lead to significant personal growth and the ability to form healthy, fulfilling relationships. It's essential not to give up on the idea of having a healthy relationship and instead focus on healing and self-improvement.

    • The Power of Listening and Connecting with ExpertsListening to advice from experts and applying it to daily life can lead to improvements in various aspects, including health, relationships, and sexual performance.

      Being a fan or listener can lead to a deep connection between the creator and the audience. This connection can result in significant improvements in various aspects of life, such as health and relationships. The listener in this conversation shared how he has incorporated the advice given on the show into his marriage and training for a marathon, leading to weight loss and increased stamina. The host also mentioned the importance of staying healthy and relaxed to improve sexual performance. Additionally, the listener's question about the impact of caffeine on ejaculation led to a discussion about how different factors, including diet and exercise, can affect sexual performance. Overall, the conversation highlights the potential impact of listening to advice and connecting with experts in various areas of life.

    • Attracting partners who want to change himBrian needs to identify reasons for unhealthy relationship patterns and seek relationships that foster personal growth and mutual respect

      Brian keeps attracting women who want to change him and disconnect him from his friends, leading him to feel unhappy and unauthentic in the relationship. This pattern may stem from past experiences or unconscious attractions. It's essential for Brian to identify and address the underlying reasons for this cycle and learn to value relationships that support his growth rather than trying to change him. The dynamic of wanting to "fix" a partner can be unhealthy if it stifles individuality and personal growth. Instead, relationships should ideally bring out the best versions of ourselves, fostering trust, support, and mutual respect.

    • Breaking the cycle of unhealthy relationshipsRecognize patterns, choose 'duty dating', and be open about intentions for healthier connections

      Breaking the cycle of unhealthy relationships involves recognizing the pattern and deliberately choosing to date people who make you feel comfortable, rather than those who ignite intense, familiar obsessions. This approach, referred to as "duty dating," can lead to healthier connections and a greater variety of potential partners. Additionally, being open about your dating intentions with friends and family can increase your chances of meeting compatible people through social circles. Remember, the goal is to move away from relationships marked by control and toward those that foster growth and mutual respect.

    • Appreciation for authenticity and free entertainmentPeople value authentic hosts who provide free entertainment, building a loyal fan base through connection and accessibility.

      People appreciate authenticity and value free entertainment. The discussion reflects the host's charisma and ability to connect with her audience, leading to a loyal fan base. While some may not be willing to pay for her content, they still enjoy it and feel a personal connection. The host's engagement with her listeners and her team, as well as her accessibility through social media, further strengthens this bond. Ultimately, the success of the show lies in the host's ability to provide a meaningful and entertaining experience for her audience.

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