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    • Good stress vs bad stressGood stress, or eustress, can improve performance, promote growth, and have anti-aging effects. Distinguish between stressors and stress, face stressors with positive emotions, and focus on stress' benefits for better coping and thriving.

      Stress is not all bad. There are different types of stress, and while chronic stress can be harmful, brief and manageable stressors can actually benefit us. This good stress, also known as eustress, can improve performance, promote growth, and even have anti-aging effects. It's important to distinguish between stressors, which are external challenges, and stress, which is our internal response to those challenges. When we face stressors with positive emotions, such as enthusiasm or gratitude, we can reduce the risk of toxic stress and improve our ability to cope. Additionally, having a positive mindset towards stress and focusing on its benefits can create a self-fulfilling prophecy, helping us to better manage and even thrive in stressful situations.

    • Shifting mindset during stressFocusing on hope, positivity, and challenge orientation can lead to better stress management. Practice self-talk, perspective-taking, and self-compassion to shift mindset.

      Our response to stress plays a significant role in how our body reacts. While it's natural to feel anxiety and worry during stressful situations, holding onto hope, positivity, and a challenge orientation can lead to better outcomes. This mindset, also known as a challenge orientation, is distinct from a threat response, where we feel our life is in danger or a challenge exceeds our ability to cope. Practically, this means focusing on self-talk, perspective-taking, and self-compassion to help shift our mindset during stressful moments. Additionally, chronic stress, which can be low-grade and persistent, can have long-term negative effects on our health, even during rest and recovery periods. It's essential to assess our rest habits and ensure we're truly giving our bodies a break.

    • Practicing true rest goes beyond physical relaxationIdentify and release mental and emotional stressors through gentle techniques, anchor body with sensory experiences, and build inner traits of calm and resilience for better coping skills

      True rest goes beyond just physical relaxation and involves addressing mental and emotional stressors. Our bodies carry tension and uncertainty, which we can identify and release by acknowledging our feelings of uncertainty and expectations. Over time, practicing simple, gentle techniques like comfort, reassurance, and relief in the present can help build inner traits of calm and resilience, allowing us to better cope with challenges without getting overwhelmed. Our bodies respond to signals of safety and can be anchored through sensory experiences like nature, aromatherapy, dimming lights, and music. At a cellular level, these practices can positively impact our well-being by promoting a sense of safety and reducing stress.

    • Two primary motivational forces: fear and anxiety vs love and self-compassionShort-term stress, like exercise or breathing practices, can trigger autophagy for cellular rejuvenation, but recovery and tolerable discomfort are crucial for health benefits and growth.

      Our bodies have two primary motivational forces: fear and anxiety, which help us protect our safety, and love, connection, and self-compassion, which allow us to turn off our stress response and restore our cells. Short-term bursts of manageable stress, like exercise or intense breathing practices, can have positive effects on our bodies by triggering autophagy, a cellular cleanup process that rejuvenates cells and makes them function better. However, it's important to recover from these stressors and ensure that the discomfort level is tolerable to avoid re-traumatization or triggering. Personal experimentation is key to finding the right dose and frequency of these stressors for individual health benefits. Additionally, succeeding at experiences that cause moderate stress can lead to growth and resilience.

    • Exploring the Benefits of Positive Hormetic StressFinding the right balance of challenge and confidence can lead to positive hormetic stress, resulting in improved well-being through various intense experiences, such as challenging workouts, flow states, extreme breathing, and cold showers.

      There are various types of intense experiences, some of which may not feel stressful at the moment but still have beneficial lasting effects. These experiences can be physical, such as the last repetitions of a challenging workout, or psychological, like the flow state achieved during rock climbing. The key is finding the right balance of challenge and confidence, which can lead to ideal positive hormetic stress. This concept can be applied to practices like extreme breathing or cold showers, where trust and belief in the benefits are essential. The Wim Hof method, for instance, can be challenging but also leads to increased joy and positive emotions afterwards. Overall, embracing discomfort and trusting in the benefits can lead to significant improvements in well-being.

    • Streamlined Skincare Routine with OneSkin's OS PeptideOneSkin's OS peptide offers a simple, scientifically validated solution for maintaining healthy skin with just one product. Build a sense of safety in emotionally vulnerable situations for potential wellbeing benefits.

      Simple, scientifically validated solutions can make a significant difference in maintaining healthy skin. OneSkin's proprietary OS peptide, proven to work with aging cells, offers a streamlined routine with just one product: their os01 face topical peptide. Just cleanse, dry, and apply twice daily. For overall health information, check out the ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast, a trusted resource for separating fact from fiction. Moreover, intense positive emotions, such as those experienced during vulnerable open self-expression with another person, can potentially have a protective and even turbocharging effect on our wellbeing. It's essential to build a sense of safety in such situations. The concept of predator and prey, as illustrated in the metaphor of a lion chasing a gazelle, can be applied to various stressors, including physical activity and emotional experiences. While we may experience some level of stress or existential threat, the key difference lies in our mindset and intention. Lastly, it's important to note that the release of cortisol, which is often associated with stress, can also occur during positive experiences, such as dancing at a wedding. So remember, the stress response is not always a negative thing, and it's crucial to consider the context in which it occurs.

    • Understanding Stress: Physiological vs. PsychologicalPhysiological stress isn't always negative, but psychological stress can lead to negative consequences. Embrace positive emotions and learn to cope with uncertainty for effective stress management.

      Stress and non-stress are not solely determined by arousal levels, but rather by the presence or absence of negative affect. For instance, skiers may experience physiological stress due to the release of various stressors in their bodies, but they might not feel psychologically stressed if they are excited and anticipating rewards. It's essential to understand the difference between physiological and psychological stress, as the former can lead to positive experiences like thrill and flow states, while the latter can result in negative consequences such as allostatic load. Furthermore, some negative emotions can be helpful, and it's crucial to consider the specific emotions involved in different stress states. In today's world, dealing with uncertainty and learning to accept it is crucial for managing stress effectively. The natural process of coping with adversity involves waves of hope, resilience, purpose, and sadness. Embracing positive emotions and focusing on hope can help us navigate through challenging times.

    • Finding meaning and connection in a chaotic worldAccepting the things we cannot control, focusing on local actions, tolerating helplessness, and connecting with others can promote positivity, purpose, and resilience in the face of existential stressors and uncertainty.

      Finding meaning and connection, whether through inner work or community, can help us cope with existential stressors and the uncertainty of the world around us. Accepting the things we cannot control and focusing on what we can do in our local spheres can promote a sense of purpose and positivity. Tolerating helplessness and recognizing the importance of connecting with others, especially in the context of climate change and social justice issues, can also provide relief from stress and foster resilience. Ultimately, finding common ground with others and working towards a greater good can give us a sense of belonging and hope in the face of adversity.

    • Cultivating connection, ease, and acceptance for stress managementPracticing daily rituals, finding connection, and accepting uncertainty can help manage stress and maintain mental well-being. These skills can have a profound impact on individuals and communities.

      Having a sense of common purpose and connection with others, as well as the ability to find ease and equanimity, are crucial for managing stress and maintaining mental well-being. These practices, which can include daily rituals and letting go of unnecessary burdens, are essential for individuals and can have a profound impact on a larger scale. However, it's important to acknowledge that not everyone shares this perspective, and catastrophic narratives can create additional suffering and stress. It's essential to recognize that our narratives shape our perception and coping mechanisms, and the ability to accept uncertainty and be at peace with it can be a valuable skill. Ultimately, cultivating a sense of connection, finding ease, and acknowledging uncertainty can help individuals navigate the challenges of life and contribute to a more compassionate and resilient community.

    • Change your response to stressorsFocus on changing how you react to stressors instead of eliminating them. Embrace a challenge approach and build resilience through manageable stress exposure. Accept uncertainty and stay present to reduce negative stress impact.

      While chronic stress is linked to numerous health issues, it's essential to recognize that stressors are an inherent part of life. Instead of trying to eliminate stressors entirely, focus on changing your response to them. A positive approach to stress, known as a challenge approach, can even have beneficial effects on the body through a process called apoptosis. This involves exposing yourself to manageable doses of stress to build resilience. Additionally, accepting uncertainty as a natural part of life and staying present can help reduce the negative impact of stress. It's also important to remember that much of our stress comes from dwelling on past or future stressors, which we cannot change. Practices like meditation can help bring us into the present moment and reduce overall stress levels.

    • Finding meaning and true rest for managing stress and existential dreadConnecting actions to something larger for meaning and actively disengaging from work and screens for true rest are crucial for managing stress and existential dread. Technology can't replace restorative practices.

      Finding meaning and purpose, as well as practicing true rest, are essential for managing stress and coping with existential dread. Meaning can be found in connecting our individual actions to something larger, like a movement or a cause we care about. True rest, on the other hand, means actively disengaging from work and screens, allowing the brain to metabolize experiences and rejuvenate. While technology can provide pleasure and distraction, it's not a substitute for restorative practices. Alyssa's new book, "The Stress Prescription," offers more insights on these topics and provides practical steps for achieving joy and ease in daily life. Remember to subscribe to the podcast, leave a positive review, and consider supporting it on Patreon for bonus content.

    Recent Episodes from Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

    How to Become a Disciplined Person

    How to Become a Disciplined Person
    If we want to accomplish something in life it usually takes a combination of motivation and consistency - in other words, discipline. Discipline is both essential…and shockingly hard to develop. In today’s episode, Forrest and Dr. Rick explore how we can become more disciplined. They talk about whether discipline came naturally to Rick, and the lessons we can learn from his journey with discipline. Key topics include how to make even frustrating tasks rewarding, the relationship between discipline and self-concept, how to identify key wants, needs, and aspirations, and learning to feel good when we do good.  You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 2:30: Rick’s personal history with cultivating discipline 5:45: Finding reward in necessary tasks 17:50: Engaging in your life, and knowing what you really care about 22:35: The power of your self-concept 31:45: Breaking things down into small parts 36:45: Motivation, distress tolerance, and meta-motivation 46:35: Getting out of a negative mindset, and finding what works for you 54:10: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Zocdoc helps you find expert doctors and medical professionals that specialize in the care you need, and deliver the type of experience you want. Head to zocdoc.com/being and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Psychological Defenses: How to Understand (and change) Your Mind and Behavior

    Psychological Defenses: How to Understand (and change) Your Mind and Behavior
    Psychological defenses are subconscious strategies we use to protect ourselves from uncomfortable emotions, and they exert a hidden power over our behavior. From denial and repression to projection and rationalization, Dr. Rick and Forrest explore how these defenses shape our actions, influence our relationships, and affect our overall well-being. They start with the function and structure of most defenses, before giving a few simple examples. Rick then dives into the role of defenses in psychoanalytic theory, their role in managing self-worth and shame, and what we can do to become less defensive over time. They close with practical strategies for working with our defenses, including a brief discussion of what we can do to help other people with their defenses. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 2:30: Psychological and historical factors influencing psychological defensiveness 8:00: Some examples of unconscious anxiety bubbling up 12:00: Repression, regression, projection, reaction formation, and sublimation 16:55: An overview of Freud’s developmental model of the personality 24:10: A few examples of how our defenses manifest 33:40: Consciousness, competence, and joining the defense 44:00: Navigating shame and guilt 50:15: Distress tolerance 57:15: Social connection, and finding healthy outlets 1:00:20: When and how to approach others about their defensiveness 1:10:45: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Zocdoc helps you find expert doctors and medical professionals that specialize in the care you need, and deliver the type of experience you want. Head to zocdoc.com/being and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    The Fawn Response: People Pleasing, Self-Abandonment, and Standing Up for Yourself

    The Fawn Response: People Pleasing, Self-Abandonment, and Standing Up for Yourself
    Dr. Rick and Forrest finish their series on the stress responses with the fawn response: an appeasement strategy where we manage stressful situations by giving others what they want. Rick and Forrest start by discussing common symptoms, including people pleasing, self-abandonment, difficulty saying no, weak boundaries, and chronic self-sacrifice. They talk about the roots of the fawn response and its connection to complex PTSD before exploring people pleasing in detail. In the second half of the episode they focus on practical tools for developing healthy boundaries, self-acceptance, and a stronger sense of self. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics:  0:00: Introduction 2:15: What the fawn response looks like 9:05: Power imbalances, shame, and contempt 11:35: What personal history tends to lead to fawning? 20:00: How to work on the tendency to fawn 36:30: Shame, self-acceptance, and opening up to self-expression 41:25: The fawn response in relationship 46:40: Becoming your own source of safety 52:20: Making equitable arrangements, and acknowledging your best efforts 1:01:50: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Zocdoc helps you find expert doctors and medical professionals that specialize in the care you need, and deliver the type of experience you want. Head to zocdoc.com/being and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    How to Create a Secure Relationship with Elizabeth Ferreira

    How to Create a Secure Relationship with Elizabeth Ferreira
    Somatic trauma therapist Elizabeth Ferreira joins Forrest to explore how we can create more secure relationships. They talk about the lessons they've learned from their relationship, the impact of trauma and prior relationship wounds, and how very different people can make things work. Topics include complex PTSD, how to work through disagreements, changing our model of relationships, and learning how to actually support your partner. I loved this conversation, and hope you enjoy it! You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics:  0:00: Introduction 1:10: The myth of relationships solving your problems, and self-awareness 4:25: Me, you, and us 13:45: Changing your partner by changing yourself 16:45: Embracing the challenges of vulnerability 23:25: Disagreeing well, making specific requests, and holding space 33:05: Learning how to support your partner 37:40: Five different styles of relationship 40:55: Moving from trying to please your partner to showing compassion 45:15: Love as a choice, and expressing wants and needs positively 49:30: Simply liking your partner I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Becoming Self-Confident, Learning Healthy Relationship Skills, and Trusting Yourself: June Mailbag

    Becoming Self-Confident, Learning Healthy Relationship Skills, and Trusting Yourself: June Mailbag
    Dr. Rick and Forrest open up the mailbag and answer questions from listeners. They explore how to deal with chronically negative people, managing avoidant tendencies that get in the way of us finding a great relationship, and separating normal desires for support from more problematic ones. They then talk about how we can build self-confidence and become more internally referenced, before closing the episode with a sticky situation involving supporting an aging parent.  If you’d like to send in a question to be answered on the podcast, join our Patreon or email us at contact@beingwellpodcast.com. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics:  0:00: Introduction 1:00: My friend is chronically negative, what can I do? 13:05: How can I move past a cycle of avoidance that’s inhibiting my ability to find a good relationship? 26:05: I want to be supported by my partner, but I’m worried about becoming enmeshed. How can I seek help in a healthy way? 39:30: How do I stop seeking validation from others? 45:20: How do I react to ongoing criticism from an aging parent? 58:15: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    The Psychology of Manifesting: How to Create the Life You Want

    The Psychology of Manifesting: How to Create the Life You Want
    Forrest and Dr. Rick explore “manifesting:” the idea that our thoughts impact the world around us, and by changing those thoughts we can change our lives. Talking about manifesting is complicated, because on the one hand our thoughts really do matter. On the other, manifesting is closely tied to a small mountain of problematic pseudoscience. They discuss and debate some of the issues with manifesting and the law of attraction before focusing on how to apply key psychological principles to create the life you want.  Rick and Forrest talk about creating clarity around our goals, setting intentions, improving self-worth and self-efficacy, and overcoming some of the negative unconscious beliefs that can get in our way, before exploring authenticity, consistent effort, and working with fear and inhibition. Then Rick closes the episode by walking us through a practical example of how to change a belief. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 3:00: Defining manifestation, and separating psychological and supernatural mechanisms of action 6:55: The mind-body connection, and the psychological aspects of manifesting 15:50: Charlatanism, preying on uncertainty, and the problems with the law of attraction 25:20: Changing behavior vs. changing thoughts, and the lure of the supernatural 32:10: If you want to skip the context, start here. 32:35: Getting what we subconsciously believe we are worthy of, and “don’t know” mind 38:50: Identifying wants, surrendering to the best within us, and using pain as a guide 48:55: Embracing the reality of consistent effort 54:55: How to change a negative belief 1:08:10: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Understanding the “Flight” Response: Anxiety, Avoidance, and Feeling Safe

    Understanding the “Flight” Response: Anxiety, Avoidance, and Feeling Safe
    Dr. Rick and Forrest discuss the “flight” response to stress, which includes feelings of anxiety and fear, avoidant behavior, and an underlying sense of insecurity. They explore the emotions and behaviors associated with the flight response, and how we can build up a stronger, more secure sense of who we are. Rick shares some practical tools that will help you change your self-concept, safely apply principles from graduated exposure, and feel safer from the inside-out. I’ve loved this series on the stress responses, and think you’ll get a lot out of this episode. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:00: The purpose of the flight response, and when it is and isn’t useful 5:35: Social withdrawal, conflict avoidance, and preserving safety vs. comfort 12:15: The trouble with low likelihood, high-cost risks 16:35: Exploring our capacity for stress, and identifying the risks worth taking 26:30: Feeling “sturdy,” and why we choose the flight response vs. other stress responses 33:30: Graduated exposure  39:05: Learning to trust our new capabilities as we change 44:50: Overdoing a change as a form of self-sabotage, and reserving the power to flee 54:25: Responding to anxiety 1:01:40: Being present with painful situations we can’t escape 1:08:40: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation

    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation
    Dr. Rick and Forrest continue their series on the stress responses with the “fight” response to stress. They explore anger, repression, and the balance of self-expression and self-regulation before talking about how we can claim the adaptive aspects of the fight response without falling prey to its more problematic aspects. A major focus of the episode is resentment and repression, alongside related topics like empowering yourself, managing expectations, and “experiencing out.” You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:15: The useful aspects of anger 5:40: Specific behaviors associated with the fight response 8:35: Giving yourself permission to express anger 13:40: Navigating resentment 21:40: Thwarted expectations as a source of unhealthy anger 32:05: Claiming your anger, and being wary of its seductive nature 35:45: Developing an authentic sense of empowerment 39:45: Going from complaint to request 43:30: Antidotes to unhealthy anger 52:40: Challenging authority without feeling intimidated or shamed 54:20: When we’re angry at ourselves 59:00: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co. Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy

    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy
    In this mega-episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson explore everything you need to know about therapy. They share how you can get more from therapy, finding the approach that’s right for you, and some perspectives on why therapy is so expensive. They then run through the five major schools of Western psychotherapy before discussing a few alternative modalities. You’ll learn how long to stick with a therapist before looking for alternatives, questions to ask a prospective therapist, and how to maximize your results. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:40: The biggest factors that contribute to therapy going well 7:25: Finding the therapeutic modality that works for you 14:00: The cost of therapy, and the problem created by insurance companies 20:35: The five major schools of western psychotherapy 21:20: Psychodynamic therapy, and investigating the unconscious 23:20: Behavioral therapy, and variable reinforcement 25:55: Humanistic psychology, and seeing the good in yourself 29:05: Cognitive therapy, why insurance companies like CBT, and exploring our beliefs 36:15: Mindfulness-based therapies, and being with our experiences 41:15: Family systems therapy, social justice, somatic therapy, and non-Western thinking 46:20: The differences (and similarities) between therapy and coaching 52:40: How long therapy should take, and how to evaluate if it’s working 1:02:15: The role of client motivation  1:04:55: Questions to ask a prospective therapist 1:10:15: The importance of the therapist’s engagement 1:12:50: Common qualities Rick found challenging with past clients 1:16:05: The importance of internalizing change, and recognizing what’s really shifting 1:21:20: Recap Forrest is now writing on Substack, check out his work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.  Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine

    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine
    Somatic psychology legend Dr. Peter Levine joins Dr. Rick and Forrest to explore how we can use body-based approaches to recover from traumatic experiences. Peter uses his personal history with trauma to illustrate the practices he’s taught to thousands of people through his work. They discuss the importance of resourcing experiences, creating safety, developing interoception, abandonment wounds, bringing a diverse perspective to somatic work, and working with shame.  Please be aware that this episode includes a description of sexual assault. About our Guest: Dr. Peter Levine is the creator of Somatic Experiencing and the Founder and President of the Ergos Institute for Somatic Education. He’s taught at a number of universities, has received Lifetime Achievement awards from numerous organizations, and is the best-selling author of several books, including Waking the Tiger, Healing Trauma, and his most recent book An Autobiography of Trauma: A Healing Journey. You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 2:15: Peter’s dream about publishing his recent book 6:40: Themes connecting the personal and professional for Peter 10:15: Physicalization, pendulation, and decontextualization of trauma 16:15: Presence with others, and moving gently into shame to move through it 20:55: The fundamental view that we our innately healthy, and completing the arc 23:05: When the prompt “feel it in your body” doesn’t work 28:15: Advice for when you don’t have access to therapy or a SEP practitioner 30:35: Tenderness 34:30: Anchoring in the here and now when accessing past memories 39:35: Conceiving of yourself as a source of safety 43:30: Generating your own internal wellbeing 46:20: Acknowledging the reality of your history, patience, and completion 49:45: Living by dying 52:15: Recap Offer from Dr. Rick: If you'd like to improve your self-worth, check out Rick's new 4-hour, live online workshop. You'll learn methods and practices that can actually change your brain and your habits, so you start nurturing your sense of worth and belonging. Our listeners can get 20% off with coupon code BeingWell20: https://selfworthworkshop.com/ Forrest is now writing on Substack, check out his work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors If you’re navigating something messy, call The Dr. John Delony Show. Dr. John shares practical advice on how to connect with people, face depression, overcome anxiety, and learn what it means to be well. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! OneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co. Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website

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    In today's episode of 7 Good Minutes: Extra, we delve into the transformative power of our responses to life's challenges.

    Learn how your reaction to adversity, rather than the adversity itself, shapes the narrative of your life.

    Join us for an insightful discussion on harnessing resilience and positivity to author a story of growth and strength.

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    Resilience through emotional resourcefulness

    Resilience through emotional resourcefulness

    What makes you fulfilled? What are your top 3 things that you love doing? All too often we tend to prioritise work over the stuff we love doing; we overcommit and work even harder. What's important to realise is that doing the things that we love is not a luxury, it should be pre-empted.

    Phil Dobson shares strategies for achieving resilience through psychological and emotional recovery.

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